Was Harry Right?

Dixon Carter Lee

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Can you be friends with a woman without trying to fuck her? Wanting, yes. Of course wanting. Commit adultery in your heart, jerk off to scenarios of you two forced to share a night in a motel when the roads get washed out -- but try? Or at the very least, entertain the possibility that it could happen. That she even wants it to happen?

How many of you have been down that road? How many times?

It's been a chronic thing with me since the third grade I swear to Christ. I have had many female friends and every one of them I entertained the idea of seducing. I wish to God I could excise that little nugget of delusion out of my system because the truth is the friendships are real.
 
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Can you be friends with a woman without trying to fuck her? Wanting, yes. Of course wanting. Commit adultery in your heart, jerk off to scenarios of you two forced to share a night in a motel when the roads get washed out -- but try? Or at the very least, entertain the possibility that it could happen. That she even wants it to happen?

How many of you have been down that road? How many times?

It's been a chronic thing with me since the third grade I swear to Christ. I have had many female friends and every one of them I entertained the idea of seducing. I wish to God I could excise that little nugget of delusion out of my system.

It's been a while since I've watched that movie, but wasn't the caveat that the guy couldn't be friends if he was attracted to her?
 
we were better off without YOU

get the fuckoutahere
 
Can you be friends with a woman without trying to fuck her? Wanting, yes. Of course wanting. Commit adultery in your heart, jerk off to scenarios of you two forced to share a night in a motel when the roads get washed out -- but try? Or at the very least, entertain the possibility that it could happen. That she even wants it to happen?

How many of you have been down that road? How many times?

It's been a chronic thing with me since the third grade I swear to Christ. I have had many female friends and every one of them I entertained the idea of seducing. I wish to God I could excise that little nugget of delusion out of my system because the truth is the friendships are real.

female friends are good. The right FWB's are better!
 
I've fantasized about each one of my hot female friends (my wife's, too).

The thought crosses your mind but once you develop the friendship, it subsides. Here's an example. I used to work with a blonde little hottie. Fantasized about her, never did anything about it as I've never (and don't want to) cheat on my wife. When I got to know her, I started seeing her as a sister as we were that close. At that point, I still saw her as an attractive woman but there were no more sexual thoughts about her.
 
I've fantasized about each one of my hot female friends (my wife's, too).

The thought crosses your mind but once you develop the friendship, it subsides. Here's an example. I used to work with a blonde little hottie. Fantasized about her, never did anything about it as I've never (and don't want to) cheat on my wife. When I got to know her, I started seeing her as a sister as we were that close. At that point, I still saw her as an attractive woman but there were no more sexual thoughts about her.

The "sister" thing takes way too long for me. Years. And years. I need a button to push.
 
I think that there are guys who feel that any woman is better than their own hand.There are types of women that are appealing to me and types that are unappealing and not worth the cost in comparison to my own hand.

I'm capable of having a friendship with any woman the I like whether I'm attracted to her or not. Being sexually attracted to her makes if difficult but not impossible.
 
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