As much as I like EF otherwise, I'm with dolf on this.
You were disrespectful and picked on her out of the blue, even tho she never attacked you.
In your attitude towards her, you weren't that much different from my troll and stalker; you just employed different modes of attack.
She's not trying to pick on you, she's simply asking you to get off her back with that stuff.
I like them both.
I do understand the situation. At least I think I do from what I read.
Not my battle though. I'll try to stay out of it if I know who is whom.