Warning: Chrsmcewan

[pink]

This man is a player in the worst sense. He lies through his teeth. The women of Lit need to know about him. He took pinksDaddyDom too but i'm sure he's done with it now.


This is our convo today on yahoo, please read it carefully ladies. i changed nothing, it is straight from his mouth.


i have had a DaddyDom for several a few weeks now, the past few days he has been acting strangely.


oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:35:59 PM): until you can start acting half way decently towards me, just go
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:36:32 PM): sorry, my wife is getting very upset at theses relationships I am having on here
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:36:42 PM): your fucking married?
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:36:58 PM): you told me you weren't
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:37:04 PM): yes we have been for many many years
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:37:13 PM): you lied to me then?
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:37:27 PM): why?
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:37:39 PM): why lie?
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:38:09 PM): so I could get to know you, when you are married for a long time, I find i need more...
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:38:10 PM): i would have given you everything, everything you have ever desired.
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:38:24 PM): it would have been all yours
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:38:29 PM): so does my wife, but perhaps men just need some variety as well
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:38:42 PM): goodbye Chris, don't contact me again ever
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:39:07 PM): goodbye, I need to say goodbye anyway, my wife is getting very upset
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:39:31 PM): i am better off without you, you are an idiot who only thinks of himself
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:40:04 PM): I am and have always been very self centre, it gets me to where I am going
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:40:23 PM): i would have been your submissive dream. Goodbye
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:40:43 PM): my wife always does everything I ever need
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:40:55 PM): then stay the hell away from me
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:41:14 PM): she has always been my submissive, but I find I need variety and new people
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:41:28 PM): stay away from me
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:42:40 PM): yes I will if it makes you happier. I do always have many other ladies on here I am enjoying a relationship with as well. I am just getting too many and my wife has noticed
oh_freespirit (6/25/2006 7:42:52 PM): fuck off
chrsmcewan (6/25/2006 7:43:12 PM): goodbye



He told me from the start that he was single, divorced 5 years. He was coming to NY in Aug to meet. What a joke.


How can anyone be so cruel? i guess the internet makes it easy.

 

[pink]

and yes, i know posting this makes me look like an idiot but i felt it was something i had to do.

 

[Recidiva]

and yes, i know posting this makes me look like an idiot but i felt it was something i had to do.

Honey...has someone had...you know...THE TALK...about the internet birds and pretend bees?

 

[pink]

Honey...has someone had...you know...THE TALK...about the internet birds and pretend bees?

i know Diva, i guess i just expect people to tell the truth.

 

[Recidiva]

i know Diva, i guess i just expect people to tell the truth.

That's a bad habit.

Ends up in stuff like this. Which I'm sorry happened, but if you're going to have boobs, you're going to have to deal with lying.

 

[pink]

That's a bad habit.

Ends up in stuff like this. Which I'm sorry happened, but if you're going to have boobs, you're going to have to deal with lying.

But you found your husband online.

 

[Recidiva]

But you found your husband online.

But I never expected to.

 

[pink]

But I never expected to.

i think it's great you did, i am happy for you both. When someone says "trust me, Lisa, please trust me." You want to believe them.


i will say, i am so glad i found out now.

 

[Recidiva]

i think it's great you did, i am happy for you both. When someone says "trust me, Lisa, please trust me." You want to believe them.

Resist that impulse.

Trust is earned. Over time. There is no magic wand, no way to know.

You have to trust yourself, and that's about it.

 

[pink]

Resist that impulse.

Trust is earned. Over time. There is no magic wand, no way to know.

You have to trust yourself, and that's about it.

Yeah, thanks for the advice Diva and unlike Doll Parts, i learn from my mistakes.

 

[Recidiva]

Yeah, thanks for the advice Diva and unlike Doll Parts, i learn from my mistakes.

Yay! Go forth and be happy. Not trusty! But happy

Remember, you're not being used if you're having fun too.

 

[ima6uldv8]

I'm sorry, girl. It seems jerks are a dime a dozen. I hope you find what and who you're looking for.

 

[INeedLove]

oh (((((((((((((pink))))))))))))))

Seems awful! It was better to find out now than later.

 

[Mitsouko]

Pink-

I am sorry you had to go through this. I looked up his profile on Yahoo and it does say Married, but then it also says it was last update on June 22, 2006.

I am curious do you know approxiately where in the world this guy lives or what time zone?

Thank you for having the courage to expose him, unfortunately he'll probably just choose another nick and continue his games.

M.

 

[IamAM]

Hi Pink;

Most men are real shits. I am so sorry, you are far to nice to have been jerked over by this asshole.

Take comfort in knowing you are 100 times more a human being than that jerk. Posting the Yahoo convo does not dimish your value as a real and sincere person one iota. Don't give that Jackass the satisfaction of getting you down.

Hugs and Kisses

Annemarie

 

[Mitsouko]

based on his posts and time, I am think New Zealand or Australia. He seems to have talked to a few ladies here, someone named May I guess.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Thanks for the heads up PINK
I am sorry you got hurt sweetie
I wish there were more threads like this
To let others know,,,HUGGSSSS

 

[mrtnmoon]

but if you're going to have boobs, you're going to have to deal with lying.

excuse me?

I'm sorry that pink got used like that, but let's not forget that there are lots of members of "the fairer sex" that have done their share of lying, both online and in real life.

and this:

Most men are real shits.

I'll agree... some men are real shits. maybe even most men are. I know from experience that some women are, too, but I'm not saying that most women are shits.

again, I'm sorry that pink got used like that, but let's not turn this thread into an indictment of anyone but the asshole that jerked her over.

 

[Shadow Thief]

Damn, I am so sorry that happened. I don't claim to be a saint. Far from it, in fact. But at least I am up front about the fact that I am married. I'd rather have the other person know about it from the beginning, and be OK with it, than to have them find out later and having feelings hurt on both sides.

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to send me a PM, OK?

 

[Cathleen]

Pink I am very sorry for your pain. I know that kind too. It shakes your trust in yourself too. I always thought I'd spot a liar but I got conned and I wasn't the only one. The link was Lit, we all 'met' him thru this site. He professed his love for me while he was living with a woman. We had phone sex on the morning he proposed to her! We met, we loved each other - well...that's a tough call now. I just never saw it coming. He took so much from my spirit, far more than he gave but it will return and be stronger.

I will not differentiate between men and women when it comes to truth and lies. We are all capable of lying. It takes time to restore your faith in yourself, your abilities to make good choices and trust those choices. You will regain your faith in yourself, it does take time I know. I'm sorry for your hurt.

 

[pink]

Well, i wasnt' going to bump this but thank you, everyone for your kindness.



He could have told me he was married, we could have been close friends but instead he chose to lie. Lying destroys. He talked of moving to the states, "wherever you are, thats where i want to be", he said.


and after that convo you just read, he text messaged me. i made it very clear AGAIN to leave me alone. Maybe he will now.


Thanks again for listening to me, pinky will be ok.

 

[Guest]

i know Diva, i guess i just expect people to tell the truth.

Yep. That's all I ask as well.

I'm lucky enough to have discovered a wonderful online relationship, which I cherish.

That we both speak to others isn't in doubt either. We are both honest with each other, and sometimes it can hurt, but that's the key. I'm married also, but my wife knows, and the reasons complex. I couldn't do it 'behind her back' though. But I can understand why some might, though this guy just seems to be a selfish idiot.

I'm still new to it all, and can see how easily people can try to be something they are not, but from speaking to various people there are a LOT of nice people out there as well, so please don't be put off by one jerk.