Want your opinion on this.

[Jada59]

I have had countless men on Lit and elsewhere say that they'd like to fly here for sex with me. Some of them say this pretty much right off the bat. Now this does not hold the slightest bit of appeal to me at all. What I always say to that is that if I just want sex, I'll go to Bert's Tavern. Poor Bert. I may be giving his place a bad rap. I've never actually been there but my general thought on the matter is that one, or at least a woman can go into any tavern/bar and waltz out with a guy who just wants sex.

So... What are your thoughts on this? Frankly, the thought of a stranger doing that scares me. I can see how it might appeal to a guy but there again, I could be wrong.

 

[phil_o]

Sounds to me you are asking a guy to visit you

 

[whenagain]

I have had countless men on Lit and elsewhere say that they'd like to fly here for sex with me. Some of them say this pretty much right off the bat. Now this does not hold the slightest bit of appeal to me at all. What I always say to that is that if I just want sex, I'll go to Bert's Tavern. Poor Bert. I may be giving his place a bad rap. I've never actually been there but my general thought on the matter is that one, or at least a woman can go into any tavern/bar and waltz out with a guy who just wants sex.

So... What are your thoughts on this? Frankly, the thought of a stranger doing that scares me. I can see how it might appeal to a guy but there again, I could be wrong.

I think the idea of flying somewhere to have sex with a person you’ve met on an erotic discussion board, and haven’t even struck up a rapport with means you are either creepy, dumb, or insane.

Which is is say, Jada, you aren’t wrong.

 

[Jada59]

Sounds to me you are asking a guy to visit you

No. I've never done that. These are guys I talk to online. Sometimes the first thing out of their mouth is that they will fly out here so I can suck their cock or they can do something to me. Creepy!

I did meet one Lit guy in person that I didn't know. There was no talk of sex at all. He was very nice.

I did meet a guy that I knew from online. I set up the meeting. I did fly into the airport next to where he worked but... We had been in contact with each other for a good two years or so prior. There might have been sex but... I was pregnant, and we had very little time as I had to catch my next plane.

I don't even like to fly so the chances of me flying to meet someone are slim. I did fly that time because I was coming home for the holidays. I hate flying. I am home and hope never to have to do it again.

 

[Jada59]

I think the idea of flying somewhere to have sex with a person you’ve met on an erotic discussion board, and haven’t even struck up a rapport with means you are either creepy, dumb, or insane.

Which is is say, Jada, you aren’t wrong.

Thanks! That's kind of my feelings on the matter.

That being said, I have attempted Astral Projection sex. Different kind of flying though and always with their permission!

 

[whenagain]

Thanks! That's kind of my feelings on the matter.

That being said, I have attempted Astral Projection sex. Different kind of flying though and always with their permission!

Uh, what is that?

 

[phil_o]

No. I've never done that. These are guys I talk to online. Sometimes the first thing out of their mouth is that they will fly out here so I can suck their cock or they can do something to me. Creepy!

I did meet one Lit guy in person that I didn't know. There was no talk of sex at all. He was very nice.

I did meet a guy that I knew from online. I set up the meeting. I did fly into the airport next to where he worked but... We had been in contact with each other for a good two years or so prior. There might have been sex but... I was pregnant, and we had very little time as I had to catch my next plane.

I don't even like to fly so the chances of me flying to meet someone are slim. I did fly that time because I was coming home for the holidays. I hate flying. I am home and hope never to have to do it again.

Oh, I'll start unpacking my bag then

To be honest I can't imagine ever meeting someone from here without having some kind of connection, let alone get on a plane for the meeting with someone you don't know, like you I don't fly, hate the whole thing from parking to getting the bags at the other end and everything in between, always someone on the plane talking so loud and telling the whole plane how they feel, what's wrong with the world.... Much better to let the train take the strain, you can get almost anywhere in the world via train and ferry, just takes longer.

 

[Jada59]

Uh, what is that?

You leave your body and your spirit has sex with the other person's spirit. Not everyone can do it but it's the best thing ever!

 

[whenagain]

You leave your body and your spirit has sex with the other person's spirit. Not everyone can do it but it's the best thing ever!

That sounds kinda amazing.

 

[Jada59]

Oh, I'll start unpacking my bag then

To be honest I can't imagine ever meeting someone from here without having some kind of connection, let alone get on a plane for the meeting with someone you don't know, like you I don't fly, hate the whole thing from parking to getting the bags at the other end and everything in between, always someone on the plane talking so loud and telling the whole plane how they feel, what's wrong with the world.... Much better to let the train take the strain, you can get almost anywhere in the world via train and ferry, just takes longer.

Ack, ack, ack! You've triggered me with all that talk of flying! Eek!

I do love trains. Very expensive though and these days so is the ferry.

 

[twister947]

No way. The times I've hooked up with strangers were awful. I need some kind of connection, and a spark...I'm not a horny teenager any more.

 

[phil_o]

Ack, ack, ack! You've triggered me with all that talk of flying! Eek!

I do love trains. Very expensive though and these days so is the ferry.

Spent a few months travelling round Europe with my partner by train, if you pre book can get cheap tickets, and the local train fairs in Europe are fairly cheap. Had a great night train from Barcelona to Granada and the wife allowed me the top bunk!

Astral projection sex, expect a knock on your astral door . But then we are back to creepy men again!

 

[Jada59]

No way. The times I've hooked up with strangers were awful. I need some kind of connection, and a spark...I'm not a horny teenager any more.

Thanks! Good answer!

 

[Andee643]

I also feel the same way. I find it's creepy and flat out dangerous. I would never do that and I would be super worried if a friend of mine was telling me she would do something like that.

I do understand a bit more wgen people have maintained an ongoing discussion for years and feel a real connection, that is something else. At that point you have probably shared enough private info about each other that you feel more trust...?

But I must admit that when I am extremely horny, I find my judgement sometime is a bit wonky and I start to say things that implies that I would meet the person in real... But I know I would never follow-up with such promise.

 

[Jada59]

I also feel the same way. I find it's creepy and flat out dangerous. I would never do that and I would be super worried if a friend of mine was telling me she would do something like that.

I do understand a bit more wgen people have maintained an ongoing discussion for years and feel a real connection, that is something else. At that point you have probably shared enough private info about each other that you feel more trust...?

But I must admit that when I am extremely horny, I find my judgement sometime is a bit wonky and I start to say things that implies that I would meet the person in real... But I know I would never follow-up with such promise.

Ah... You could have a point. I also have fantasies that while arousing, are things I would not likely do IRL. I suppose the thought of some studly stranger just appearing in my bed and having sex with me might appeal only on the fantasy level but that's a fantasy best kept in my mind!

 

[SissySalina]

This is easy answer, that is why sissy has HER, She informs sissy whom sissy will have sex with, problem solved.

 

[screwher]

While chatting here with other men about my wife and our hotwifing, I had more than one guy say "I travel a lot. Where do you live?" Or ask if we'd ever be in his area. The whole idea makes for a hot scenario to be sure. But I just don't think it's very feasible. Even if Mrs. Screwher was open to meeting men on the internet, there s no guarantee that the "hit it off" would happen. Making the whole point of the trip moot.

But I do like the idea of the horny, travelling businessman. He's in town already. And everything aligned just right for him to be screwing my wife in his hotelroom.

 

[liqueur]

Even if—

1. I could afford to fly
2. I didn't despise airlines and airports and TSA and all they represent
3. I still wouldn't travel to meet a random stranger

So. . . see you at Bert's Tavern

 

[Disturbingimage]

I have had countless men on Lit and elsewhere say that they'd like to fly here for sex with me. Some of them say this pretty much right off the bat. Now this does not hold the slightest bit of appeal to me at all. What I always say to that is that if I just want sex, I'll go to Bert's Tavern. Poor Bert. I may be giving his place a bad rap. I've never actually been there but my general thought on the matter is that one, or at least a woman can go into any tavern/bar and waltz out with a guy who just wants sex.

So... What are your thoughts on this? Frankly, the thought of a stranger doing that scares me. I can see how it might appeal to a guy but there again, I could be wrong.

Totally creepy, but how serious were they really? It's easy to say "oh i'd fly anywhere for sex with you" but in reality a hooker cost a lot less then a plane and taxi to BFE or wherever you are.
I can somewhat understand IF you have a strong connection or even gonna act out some long time fantasy but just for that awkward 1st time new partner sex or a bj. No that's just... well creepy.
So unless the guy has to travel to your area for personal reasons not related to your communication. (which is easy to lie about) I'd strongly suggest avoiding that kind of person.

 

[glBock]

the worst thing about this whole discussion, I feel

(besides Jada having started it):

That women, when they are not extremely ugly, are in fact able to go to Bert's tavern and come out with a guy for sex, while men cannot count on so much luck.

If women were not in such an enviable position, I am convinced they would behave like human beings without special privileges. But knowing that men are available for women for the asking, results in all sorts of dislikeable traits you can observe right and left. Including on Lit.

Of course women who feel like bragging all the time, about how many men they know, who would do anything for them, you could not get rid of that way. I am sure everyone knows some obnoxious braggards here.

 

[twister947]

I like Jada.

There's another consideration here: anyone that would get on a plane to fuck a complete stranger stands an above average chance of being God's own psycho. It could end up like static cling.

 

[Shi_One81]

I have had countless men on Lit and elsewhere say that they'd like to fly here for sex with me. Some of them say this pretty much right off the bat. Now this does not hold the slightest bit of appeal to me at all. What I always say to that is that if I just want sex, I'll go to Bert's Tavern. Poor Bert. I may be giving his place a bad rap. I've never actually been there but my general thought on the matter is that one, or at least a woman can go into any tavern/bar and waltz out with a guy who just wants sex.

So... What are your thoughts on this? Frankly, the thought of a stranger doing that scares me. I can see how it might appeal to a guy but there again, I could be wrong.

Here goes nothing...

Once upon a time 3 yrs and 3 months ago (not that I’m keeping track) I “met” a very funny, kind, handsome sexy man on Lit. PMs turned into emails, emails turned to Skype and Skype into phone calls. We live in separate states not too far from each other. I had to go to another area of my state for an appointment and would be closer to him. I gave him the name of my hotel and the address and told him I wouldn’t be sad if he showed up. He showed up and this began an amazing journey and experience that lasted almost 2 yrs. My advice is to keep getting to know him and if you’re comfortable, go for it.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

We have never traveled specifically to hook up with a stranger that met on here ar any other site nor have we had anyone travel here just to hook up with us. That said, if someone says they will be in our area and want to drop by, that is fine with us, and we have met others while traveling and hooked up with them, that is nothing more than hooking up with a one-night stand that you meet in a bar.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I have had countless men on Lit and elsewhere say that they'd like to fly here for sex with me. Some of them say this pretty much right off the bat. Now this does not hold the slightest bit of appeal to me at all. What I always say to that is that if I just want sex, I'll go to Bert's Tavern. Poor Bert. I may be giving his place a bad rap. I've never actually been there but my general thought on the matter is that one, or at least a woman can go into any tavern/bar and waltz out with a guy who just wants sex.

So... What are your thoughts on this? Frankly, the thought of a stranger doing that scares me. I can see how it might appeal to a guy but there again, I could be wrong.

Anytime anyone I barely know says anything like that in a remotely serious way, I mostly cease talking with them. I am not talking the like "someday we will end up in the same city" type thing. "someday" is fantasy, or at the very minimum, a very distant future unlikely to occur. I am talking the ones who I have answered like two messages from, are completely serious, looking at plane tickets, and trying to hammer down dates. It isn't exactly that it scares me, I don't scare easily. However, they are clearly delusional and seeing some relationship or mutual agreement that isn't there. There is no other conclusion to draw from that but I prefer to be the craziest person in a sexual relationship, and delusional exceeds my crazy, hands down, by a big ole landslide. Thus, I will usually cease most all private conversation except for maybe a polite superficial, "hi, how have you been?" as I generally do not encourage those who are delusional.

I don't really even see how that would appeal to a guy either, I mean you'd have to know she is some sort of bunny boiler or something, and really going to fuck up your life, right?

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

There aren't enough choices.

I voted fly, but that's not quite right.

If I happened to be in the same neck of the woods as a lit friend (say on a business trip), i would love to meet in person, say for a drink or a coffee or dinner. To go from chatting on Lit to actual in person sex is a huge leap.

Shi's approach is sound.

It's hard to believe a guy could be as delusional as say Justa says, but after some of things I've read here, I guess it should be easy to believe

Having said all that, I will not be anywhere near the stated location of anyone I communicate with here on Lit in the foreseeable future.