Want to hear from all you beautiful mature women

[JayDee1353]

I had an amazing experience over a few months time with an older woman (mid 40s) and her daughter (early 20s). She was the first, and only woman I've been with who's been older than me(27 now but 25 at the time). Even though her daughter was physically more attractive in my eyes, I can't seem to get this older woman out of my head. I look at mature women so differently now and find myself looking through all these posts for women talking about younger men. Obviously I'd love to hear from all the cougars about their experiences and fantasies but don't let that stop the women that don't find the thought of a younger boy appealing. I would like to hear everyone's thoughts. What I found sexy about her is that she took more of the dominant role which I've never experienced. Not that she slapped me and called me names but it was more of a nurturing teacher kind of vibe which I never knew was a turn on for me. I can't wait to hear what you ladies have to say.

 

[JerseyPrincess]

I had an amazing experience over a few months time with an older woman (mid 40s) and her daughter (early 20s). She was the first, and only woman I've been with who's been older than me(27 now but 25 at the time). Even though her daughter was physically more attractive in my eyes, I can't seem to get this older woman out of my head. I look at mature women so differently now and find myself looking through all these posts for women talking about younger men. Obviously I'd love to hear from all the cougars about their experiences and fantasies but don't let that stop the women that don't find the thought of a younger boy appealing. I would like to hear everyone's thoughts. What I found sexy about her is that she took more of the dominant role which I've never experienced. Not that she slapped me and called me names but it was more of a nurturing teacher kind of vibe which I never knew was a turn on for me. I can't wait to hear what you ladies have to say.

For me it is knowing you are still attractive enough to catch a younger guys attention. Once you have kids it can be a different ballgame on how you view your body and to know you are attractive to a younger man can be a turn on. Of course this also depends on the maturity level of the younger guy. If you are mature enough to have an intelligent conversation with a woman it stands to reason you have a better shot at bedding her.
Older women are not into games and we (meaning me) know what we want from a man. I am willing to teach a younger guy things to please a woman but I am not going to babysit. Dont come at me and say...hey ya wanna see my cock...right off the bat because the answer will always be no.

Glad you found someone you had a positive experience with

 

[Jacqui_S]

Personally I don't really care about age. If I like someone then I like them, how old they are won't change that.
My boyfriend is younger than me but I would still love him if he was older because of who he is.
That said, I do still like to know that I'm attractive to younger men as it gives me a bit of a confidence boost. Being told I'm a hot mam or having people be surprised when I tell them my age is always nice, but like JerseyPrincess said, it depends on the maturity of the person saying it.
Having a guy come up to me in a club and flirt politely and talk to me like a normal human being will always get a better response then some who asks me if I "fancy a shag".
The same goes on here. In a club I'll just tell them to sod off, on here I block them.
As for the dominance thing, I think that just goes more with the age and experience. I enjoy taking the lead with my bf but sometimes I love it when he does as I find it quite a turn on for him to act so confident.

 

[JayDee1353]

For me it is knowing you are still attractive enough to catch a younger guys attention. Once you have kids it can be a different ballgame on how you view your body and to know you are attractive to a younger man can be a turn on. Of course this also depends on the maturity level of the younger guy. If you are mature enough to have an intelligent conversation with a woman it stands to reason you have a better shot at bedding her.
Older women are not into games and we (meaning me) know what we want from a man. I am willing to teach a younger guy things to please a woman but I am not going to babysit. Dont come at me and say...hey ya wanna see my cock...right off the bat because the answer will always be no.

Glad you found someone you had a positive experience with

Thank you for your response. I totally understand how knowing you attract a younger man is a confidence booster. But there are women out there who just flat out do not enjoy the company of older men and are only attracted to younger men. The woman I was with told me she wasn't sexually attracted to men her age. Women on the other hand she loved no matter what age. She also mentioned that younger men appreciates and pays attention to a mature woman body more than older men as older men do the same to a younger woman's body.

 

[Freya69]

A woman in her 40's is not mature. She is in the prime of her life sexually and probably mentally. She has made enough mistakes to know what she is doing now. Generally she knows what she wants and does not need to play coy or shy. Now if you really want a mature woman, you need to move up to the late 50's and 60's. LOL

 

[JayDee1353]

A woman in her 40's is not mature. She is in the prime of her life sexually and probably mentally. She has made enough mistakes to know what she is doing now. Generally she knows what she wants and does not need to play coy or shy. Now if you really want a mature woman, you need to move up to the late 50's and 60's. LOL

Lol....I guess when I say "mature" I ment it exactly what you stated. A women who is experienced and knows exactly what she wants. Being 27 years old, a woman in her 40 is mature to me. But don't get me wrong....I would defiantly be up for a "more matured" woman LOL.