Want to give him anal but he's HUGE

[Mmmmmm06]

I recently took a lover who told me he'd never had anal sex because he's too big. I thought, "OK, whatever. Love that male ego. LOL" Well when I saw him I couldn't believe my eyes! I've never seen a cock like that before. He had told me it had been described as a Coke bottle in the past and while it might not be quite that intimidating....that sucker is close. I'm not a novice to anal sex. I really quite enjoy it with the right partner. But they've been much less blessed. I know there is a way to accomplish this with little pain. Any tips or tricks out there I can draw from? Would love to help him crawl up into a nice tight ass for once. In addition...tips on sucking a cock this size and getting as much of it in as possible are also welcome. I have a terrible gag reflex.

 

[hd8001]

Maybe it would be worth it to invest in a set of butt plugs that would gradually work you up to roughly his width. It may take you awhile to get use to it but that is really the only thing that I can think of that would be helpful to you. Good Luck.

 

[DarkBee]

Maybe it would be worth it to invest in a set of butt plugs that would gradually work you up to roughly his width. It may take you awhile to get use to it but that is really the only thing that I can think of that would be helpful to you. Good Luck.

What he said, plus lots of lube and foreplay.

 

[Mmmmmm06]

OK, so far I'm with ya. Think I'm adding a bottle of Jack to the supply list. (for me of course) Thanks, guys. Anybody else with words of wisdom?

 

[BrazenFellow]

Experiment with position. The girls I've had anal with have all had their own favourite positions that minimized discomfort and in some cases maximized pleasure.

 

[scott_harris70]

I recently took a lover who told me he'd never had anal sex because he's too big. I thought, "OK, whatever. Love that male ego. LOL" Well when I saw him I couldn't believe my eyes! I've never seen a cock like that before. He had told me it had been described as a Coke bottle in the past and while it might not be quite that intimidating....that sucker is close. I'm not a novice to anal sex. I really quite enjoy it with the right partner. But they've been much less blessed. I know there is a way to accomplish this with little pain. Any tips or tricks out there I can draw from? Would love to help him crawl up into a nice tight ass for once. In addition...tips on sucking a cock this size and getting as much of it in as possible are also welcome. I have a terrible gag reflex.

You've got two choices, lube-up and assume the position, or find another lover.

 

[Mmmmmm06]

Experiment with position. The girls I've had anal with have all had their own favourite positions that minimized discomfort and in some cases maximized pleasure.

Thanks! I googled this after reading your post to find missionary is the easiest position to allow anal entry. I've always done it doggy style so this bit of knowledge will help!

 

[Mmmmmm06]

You've got two choices, lube-up and assume the position, or find another lover.

Think I'll do both

 

[NomadLady]

I recently took a lover who told me he'd never had anal sex because he's too big. I thought, "OK, whatever. Love that male ego. LOL" Well when I saw him I couldn't believe my eyes! I've never seen a cock like that before. He had told me it had been described as a Coke bottle in the past and while it might not be quite that intimidating....that sucker is close. I'm not a novice to anal sex. I really quite enjoy it with the right partner. But they've been much less blessed. I know there is a way to accomplish this with little pain. Any tips or tricks out there I can draw from? Would love to help him crawl up into a nice tight ass for once. In addition...tips on sucking a cock this size and getting as much of it in as possible are also welcome. I have a terrible gag reflex.

As quite the anal fan myself, I've been shocked at some before as well but always managed to make it work to both our satisfaction. Since he's the virgin you just need to SLOWLY talk him through it and try missionary first, not only for your comfort but so you can see his face and maintain eye contact so he doesn't get carried away. Good luck!!!

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, I really think doggie style is much easier to open up in. The only issue is that you probably shouldn't do it if you don't like deep penetration.

 

[YourPlaydoll]

1. Be very very relaxed. It's the key to non-painful anal sex.

2. Lube up well! Just buy some good lube and use a lot of it, it will go much easier. There are some lubricants that work better for anal sex than others, you could try asking your friends or at a sex shop for some help choosing the right one. This also depends wether you do it with or without condom.

3. I've heard from some women having an enema prior to anal sex lessens the pain, however I've never had an enema before anal sex myself so I wouldn't really know, but maybe you could try.

4. 'Warm up'. Even if you're not new to anal sex, it's still good if you 'warm up' a little before an anal sex session: insert some fingers first, then maybe some dildo (that is smaller than your lover's cock) and then comes the big cock.

5. If it's legal in your country you could buy some poppers and inhale it before and during the anal sex. Poppers are legal in many countries (however, in some countries, they're illegal drugs, so this depends on where you're from). Poppers are great for relaxing muscles, but they also make sex (any kind, not just anal) more enjoyable. The bad thing is that the effect only lasts for a few minutes and that you may experience headaches after use. Poppers are widely used among gays to relax their muscles for anal sex, but also common with some heterosexual couples (such as my fiancee and I).

 

[Mmmmmm06]

Thanks for the continued replies. I'm feeling pretty confident about this. Hope rightfully so.

 

[pussy_liquor]

Maybe it would be worth it to invest in a set of butt plugs that would gradually work you up to roughly his width. It may take you awhile to get use to it but that is really the only thing that I can think of that would be helpful to you. Good Luck.

Sounds like a good solution to me!

 

[fotomattfun]

Jaws of life!

 

[dicky911]

I recently took a lover who told me he'd never had anal sex because he's too big. I thought, "OK, whatever. Love that male ego. LOL" Well when I saw him I couldn't believe my eyes! I've never seen a cock like that before. He had told me it had been described as a Coke bottle in the past and while it might not be quite that intimidating....that sucker is close. I'm not a novice to anal sex. I really quite enjoy it with the right partner. But they've been much less blessed. I know there is a way to accomplish this with little pain. Any tips or tricks out there I can draw from? Would love to help him crawl up into a nice tight ass for once. In addition...tips on sucking a cock this size and getting as much of it in as possible are also welcome. I have a terrible gag reflex.

the gag reflex can be overcome. My GF had never had throat penetration before me but she wanted it - and used various items - the nice rounded handle end of a long spoon was one - to 'train' herself. I was amazed how quickly she succeeded.... um... suck-ceded? (scuze the pun... no sucking at that depth LOL

 

[laozmo2]

Helpful hint

We found a little gadget on Amazon.com that makes anal sex much easier and more comfortable. Its called a LUBE LAUNCHER and sells for about $5.00. Its a small syringe about the size of a pencil. You fill it with lube and insert it in the anus then inject lube 4 or 5 inches inside the rectum. It makes sexual penetration quite enjoyable. Good luck.

 

[GrimsPet]

Maybe it would be worth it to invest in a set of butt plugs that would gradually work you up to roughly his width. It may take you awhile to get use to it but that is really the only thing that I can think of that would be helpful to you. Good Luck.

Ditto on this. Add in some really good lube and foreplay and don't forget to RELAX those muscles and it will be easier.

As for sucking his cock - well our mouths only open just so wide. I would say suck what you can of him. I have this problem with Master as my gag reflex is a lot more active than I want it to be and he's a lot bigger than anyone else I've had the pleasure of going down on. I make the most of it and go at him with relish because I enjoy sucking it and he enjoys receiving it. Sure I can't take him in balls deep, but I sure as heck have fun trying!

 

[Money1969]

My husband is not overly large but the first time we tried anal it hurt far too much to continue. We really wanted to try it so the next time we attempted was while I was taking muscle relaxers for my back. They actually did help relax the entire area and null some of the pain associated with it.

We've tried again without the relaxers but neither of us really care for it enough to make it a regular event.

 

[rthnck]

It's too bad the OP never came back to update the thread on the success or failure of her attempts.

 

[sarel101]

We found a little gadget on Amazon.com that makes anal sex much easier and more comfortable. Its called a LUBE LAUNCHER and sells for about $5.00. Its a small syringe about the size of a pencil. You fill it with lube and insert it in the anus then inject lube 4 or 5 inches inside the rectum. It makes sexual penetration quite enjoyable. Good luck.

The lube launcher works well, but it is a glorified and severely overpriced plastic syringe. Get yourself some plastic Luer slip syringes, without the needles. You should be able to find them online for about $10-15 for 100. They come in a wide range of sizes. I have a box of 3ml/3cc size which is about 3/8" in diameter. Very easy to slide in even if you are not relaxed. I've used the 5ml/5cc size in the past & I'm guessing that they are about 1/2" in diameter, still easy to slip in and they hold more lube per shot. I got the smaller 3ml/3cc size when I was prepping an anal virgin.

Be sure to get the Luer slip, NOT the Luer lock. The lock ones are made to use with a threaded needle and have a different tip. I think the tips on the slip ones are easier to slide in your ass. Also, lube up the outside of the syringe as well.

 

[evesdream]

For the gag reflex, you should try positions that lengthen your throat. Lying on the bed with your head tilted back over the edge of it and him standing will allow you to take the maximum length.

 

[evesdream]

Bleh, what a waste; zombie thread.