CJontherocks
Soul Whisperer
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Okay, I know this isn't a thread about something kinky or sexy, but it certainly pertains to the audience here, so this is where I'm posting it.
I also know that I could write directly to ChargerGirl, but I think it's a discussion we all need to have... or at least it's something I'd like to hear everyone's thoughts on.
Last night (Thursday into this morning), a woman posted that she had been molested by an animal. She had to vent and get it off her chest. Some opined that perhaps the story was insincere, and that her intent was to ... "titillate" ... I believe was the word. She assured us in a subsequent post that the event did, in fact, happen and that she merely posted it here because she didn't know where else to put it.
And then this morning, the whole thread simply vanished. It's not here, it's not in my subscribed threads, it's not in my "find all posts by ___." It's just gone.
A couple of people wrote that the thread was breaking the rules, but when I asked which rule, I got no answer. I do not believe it broke a rule. Well, okay, if it was a true story, then it broke the rule of categorization... what topics are discussed in Fet. Because if it was true, then it had nothing to do with fetishes or sexuality. And if it wasn't true, then it was probably after all intended to titillate. In that case, then yes, it likely broke at least the spirit of the rule against discussing bestiality, that being (only if it was a fabrication) the underlying intent.
I have issue with the thread simply vanishing. Yes, I know... very touchy subject. But shouldn't there have been some opportunity to edit the original post to conform in a more acceptable fashion so we could discuss the issue at hand? I took the issue at hand to be this woman's emotional reaction to the incident, prompting maybe a discussion about how she could deal with the scars something like this might cause.
What I love about Lit are the thousands and thousands of ideas and thoughts, freely discussed and turned over by really awesome and open-minded people. People just don't do that in real life. I don't think that discussion needed to be rubbed out as if by some black ops hit squad. Couldn't we have corrected whatever was wrong and discussed what was right?
Please know that I do not condone and would never entertain a discussion promoting bestiality. And I understand how a thread like this could have invited comments to that effect. But to just make it disappear with no regard to those who were in the beginning stages of an intellectual discussion on the topic of a woman's feelings about a horrific event she experienced... I think that's a shame.
So now I invite your ideas on how you feel about this thread disappearing, and rebuttal or support for my thoughts. We should not be discussing the alleged incident itself. Only the aftermath and the conversation it started.
I also know that I could write directly to ChargerGirl, but I think it's a discussion we all need to have... or at least it's something I'd like to hear everyone's thoughts on.
Last night (Thursday into this morning), a woman posted that she had been molested by an animal. She had to vent and get it off her chest. Some opined that perhaps the story was insincere, and that her intent was to ... "titillate" ... I believe was the word. She assured us in a subsequent post that the event did, in fact, happen and that she merely posted it here because she didn't know where else to put it.
And then this morning, the whole thread simply vanished. It's not here, it's not in my subscribed threads, it's not in my "find all posts by ___." It's just gone.
A couple of people wrote that the thread was breaking the rules, but when I asked which rule, I got no answer. I do not believe it broke a rule. Well, okay, if it was a true story, then it broke the rule of categorization... what topics are discussed in Fet. Because if it was true, then it had nothing to do with fetishes or sexuality. And if it wasn't true, then it was probably after all intended to titillate. In that case, then yes, it likely broke at least the spirit of the rule against discussing bestiality, that being (only if it was a fabrication) the underlying intent.
I have issue with the thread simply vanishing. Yes, I know... very touchy subject. But shouldn't there have been some opportunity to edit the original post to conform in a more acceptable fashion so we could discuss the issue at hand? I took the issue at hand to be this woman's emotional reaction to the incident, prompting maybe a discussion about how she could deal with the scars something like this might cause.
What I love about Lit are the thousands and thousands of ideas and thoughts, freely discussed and turned over by really awesome and open-minded people. People just don't do that in real life. I don't think that discussion needed to be rubbed out as if by some black ops hit squad. Couldn't we have corrected whatever was wrong and discussed what was right?
Please know that I do not condone and would never entertain a discussion promoting bestiality. And I understand how a thread like this could have invited comments to that effect. But to just make it disappear with no regard to those who were in the beginning stages of an intellectual discussion on the topic of a woman's feelings about a horrific event she experienced... I think that's a shame.
So now I invite your ideas on how you feel about this thread disappearing, and rebuttal or support for my thoughts. We should not be discussing the alleged incident itself. Only the aftermath and the conversation it started.