Vocal Men ?

[Shr2Play]

Everyone likes a vocal woman....the moaning...the fuck me harder...etc..

But what about men...what do women like to hear from men? Moaning...Talk (what kind?) grunting.... Silence?



What do women really like to hear from a man during sex?

 

[BeingElly]

I love vocal men. I love the moans, the groans, the grunts -- all the sounds that let me know he's enjoying himself as much as I am! And I'm not opposed to some good ol' fashioned raunchy talk on occasion as well.

 

[Eilan]

I've had vocal and less vocal partners, and it's all good. *shrug*

 

[KokopelliRises]

What I like to hear from anyone during sex is what they want me to do to/with them. Moans of appreciation are also welcomed. I'm not a big fan of the silent type--it just doesn't do it for me. I want to hear how much someone enjoys my company in bed at that moment in time.

But this is just me. Every woman is different.

 

[bakedbeams]

I luurrvvee vocal men.

I like the groans, moans, gasps and all the encouragement. I particularly love my Catholic Scottsman, who mentions the saints, Jesus, and a number of other heavenly references in an incredibly loud voice while he's orgasming.

 

[Cattypuss]

I have one who is utterly silent and one who shouts the house down before/during orgasm.


Think I prefer the shouting. Though it's annoying in the summer having to keep the windows closed.

 

[Firebrain]

I like vocal. Well, so long as it's not squealing like a pig (it has happened).

 

[juicypear]

I like moans and dirty talk of course but I am not a fan of screaming...of course it isn't a deal breaker either.

 

[xander1083]

I like men who moans that's where I know he enjoy the moment

 

[subgirl2]

I like a man who is vocal, shouting obscentities, what he is going to do to me, asking me stuff, making me answer all the while, he is in control.

The only question I have, how do you stop him moaning outside of the bedroom?

 

[Kikori]

Wow, no women here seem to enjoy a man who's silent. I'm in trouble. ._.;

 

[kimbernee]

I love feedback.

 

[Petrah]

I love a man who moans and groans and whispers how much he's enjoying what he's doing to me. Also enjoy his raised moans of orgasm...it's just unbelievably sexy to hear.

 

[dave's thing]

The only question I have, how do you stop him moaning outside of the bedroom?

I got slapped for that once...... mmmm... well OK it wasn't exactly moaning

 

[Firebrain]

Another what not to do: an ex once shouted "who's the daddy? WHO'S THE DADDY?" when he was cumming, because his friends were downstairs.

Yeah, that was a huge turn-on.

Not.

 

[Cattypuss]

LOL just remembered a silent man who about a second before he came suddenly blurted out in a sort of strangulated, shocked tone, "Jesus Christ! How are you DOING that?".

LOL.

 

[dixiedarlin81]

mmmm vocal men

I adore vocal men all the sounds let me know he is enjoying what im doing and that im making him lose controll which makes me hot and ready.

 

[smoochmycooch]

Like all the ladies have said before me, I love love love a vocal man. Love to hear that what I'm doing to him is enjoyable. I dated a guy for a while who would never utter a word, let alone a grunt or moan while having sex. Talk about unfulfilling!

 

[shiny5437]

I'm a fairly quiet guy in the sack. The way i see it is that you can make two types of noise:

1. Words - in which case you have to choose something that you feel you can carry off without sounding too much like a ham porno actor.

2. Grunts - although you then risk them sounding like the verbal equivalent of the O-face. Has anyone ever tried lip reading a porno? Surely that can't be attractive.

My plan is generally keep quiet and make the necessary commendations and apologies after the dust has settled.

 

[PertPerth]

I like a guy to talk to me, grunt or whatever. I feel much more relaxed when there is someone else speaking, rather than hearing my own voice. One of my ex's (the best kisser I've ever had the fortune of smooching) was SOOO deathly silent. It was probably the only thing I could complain about with out sex life.

 

[silverwhisper]

i'm a big fan of showing my partner exactly how much i'm enjoying whatever is happening, and yes, my voice is absolutely one means of doing so. :>

ed

 

[kaycee217]

The women I've been with have liked vocal men. I know this because I'm pretty quiet and they asked me to "speak up."

 

[jm_kaye]

Vocal is very, very good. Doesn't matter what they're saying, just as long as they're making some kind of noise. Otherwise I have no idea if I'm doing the right thing or not

 

[subgirl2]

Another what not to do: an ex once shouted "who's the daddy? WHO'S THE DADDY?" when he was cumming, because his friends were downstairs.

Yeah, that was a huge turn-on.

Not.

I would love that!!

SG2

 

[rosco rathbone]

I am very vocal and nasty. I love to let out a huge roar when I pop.