Virgin

[DelicateRose28]

Hey! I am new to this board. Anyways, I have some questions. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have a wonderful man in my life! He is a online relationship. We met a while ago. He is coming to visit me in two weeks. First off, does anyone have advice about losing your virginity (note - i am not saying its going to happen, but I will say I wont stop it from happening)? Also, what is oral like for a first timer as well. The thought of these excite me in general. Thanks!

DelicateRose!

 

[peachykeen]

You know, I have no idea how to answer your questions, without knowing a few things first.

First, why have you chosen to remain a virgin until now? I am not making any judgement about that, but you must admit it is somewhat unusual, and so I assume that you have some sort of compelling reason for having not engaged in a sexual relationship prior to this point.

So, why now, then?

And, why this man?

 

[DelicateRose28]

Hi peachy...thanks for responding. I am still a virgin mostly due to no opportunities. I know that sounds impossible, but i am a fuller figured woman and there had not really been any opportunities until now. Hope that helps.

Rose

 

[peachykeen]

Hmm. Okay.

Well, I would say that the absolute most important thing, is that you are comfortable, that you trust him, and that it's really what you want. I really don't think you should be at all concerned with 'technical' information - where to put what when and all that sort of thing. Relax, don't put any undue pressure on either him or yourself. Let yourself explore, talk with your partner, discover together what feels good, what doesn't. Play. Have fun. Laugh together, if it seems like the appropriate response to a situation. (Sex, regardless of what you may have heard or seen in films etc, is not always graceful and smooth and stuff - in real life our bodies make funny noises, or we accidentally knock lamps of tables, or we fall off the bed, or whatever!) Don't worry about doing anything "right".

 

[dollface007]

There was a thread posted asking for people to give advice to virgins. Take a look:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=170175

Best of luck!

 

[Wolf_Song]

Another link of advice to virgins.

And another.

 

[lost5pints]

Hey! I am new to this board. Anyways, I have some questions. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have a wonderful man in my life! He is a online relationship. We met a while ago. He is coming to visit me in two weeks. First off, does anyone have advice about losing your virginity (note - i am not saying its going to happen, but I will say I wont stop it from happening)? Also, what is oral like for a first timer as well. The thought of these excite me in general. Thanks!

DelicateRose!

Well delicate this sounds alot like how me and my wife met. She wont admit it but i think she got me to go out with her with the intent of seducing me into taking her virginity. We were sitting there watching a movie and she asked for a back massage. It was all over after that. five years later were still doing allright. My only advice is do what comes naturally. if your not comfortable dont do it. It will be a little weird but in the end it should be all good times.

 

[Screaming Dee]

relax, and most of all have fun...it's something you will remember for the rest of your life

 

[Trainerman]

Hey! I am new to this board. Anyways, I have some questions. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have a wonderful man in my life! He is a online relationship. We met a while ago. He is coming to visit me in two weeks. First off, does anyone have advice about losing your virginity (note - i am not saying its going to happen, but I will say I wont stop it from happening)? Also, what is oral like for a first timer as well. The thought of these excite me in general. Thanks!

DelicateRose!

Yes....if he is a nice/good enough bloke for you to be considering this, then it would seem obvious that he is a nice/good enough bloke to talk to about this, at the appropriate moment.

Hopefully..that first time he will take slow and easy and let you gain your confidence along the way. Communication really is the cornerstone of everything, in my view.

Best wishes
Dave