vibrator numbness

[ArabianNights]

Whilst using a new vibrator last night my partner playing with it and at first was really getting into it and enjoying herself. Then after a while she stopped and said she felt numb. Now it wasnt on a high setting, and she was very wet. I was wondering if anyone else had come across this and how they got round then numbness so to speak?

Thanks in advance.

 

[GrrlFriday]

When the stimulation is constant and relentless, it can lead to temporary desensitisation. All that's needed is to switch it up a bit more, use your hands or tongue instead for a bit.

 

[basic_desires]

Whilst using a new vibrator last night my partner playing with it and at first was really getting into it and enjoying herself. Then after a while she stopped and said she felt numb. Now it wasnt on a high setting, and she was very wet. I was wondering if anyone else had come across this and how they got round then numbness so to speak?

Thanks in advance.

It's called 'Repetitive Strain Injury' or 'Overuse Syndrome'. Backing off a bit will do the trick

 

[sunandshadow]

In addition to stopping and starting, some more options are to start with the vibrator on its lowest setting and turn it up 2 or 3 times as she gets used to it, or to get a vibrator which has a pulse or throb mode, or to alternate between using the vibrator directly on skin and using it through fabric which has a texture, or to use textured sleeves or attachments with the vibrator.

The amount of lubrication can affect this; too much and it's tough to feel anything, too little and chafing occurs, and if this happen repeatedly callousing is possible (this is a more common problem for circumcised men than other groups though).

 

[Riles]

This can happen to me when I am using my Wand, it's almost like a torture device when I have used or had it used for too long with a hard pressure. Typically this is because I am grinding it really hard just above my clit, where a guys pubic bone would normally press into me during sex. All that is needed is to back off a little and give that place a rest.

or

If you want to make it a little ouchie, KEEP GOING. From my experience, she should still be able to get there, but it's just a little painful along the way.

 

[ArabianNights]

Thanks to all who have commented, I will bare your advice in mind.

 

[sunandshadow]

Typically this is because I am grinding it really hard just above my clit, where a guys pubic bone would normally press into me during sex.

That's interesting. Normally I focus mine just below my clit; I guess it would be equivalent of the sensitive spot on the underside of a guy's penis where the head connects to the shaft.

 

[Riles]

That's interesting. Normally I focus mine just below my clit; I guess it would be equivalent of the sensitive spot on the underside of a guy's penis where the head connects to the shaft.

I would like two think that no two women are exactly the same. Otherwise guys might get the idea that they could slack off with their efforts and use all the same tricks on us.

 

[sunandshadow]

I would like two think that no two women are exactly the same. Otherwise guys might get the idea that they could slack off with their efforts and use all the same tricks on us.

Lol. Yeah, it's normal for people to like different things. I thought your comment was interesting mainly because I have never heard people talk much about exactly how they use their vibrator, so I don't have a good mental picture of the variety of ways people might prefer to use a vibe.

 

[Riles]

Lol. Yeah, it's normal for people to like different things. I thought your comment was interesting mainly because I have never heard people talk much about exactly how they use their vibrator, so I don't have a good mental picture of the variety of ways people might prefer to use a vibe.

It's a curious little topic isn't it? And porn doesn't help! The number of men I have had to reeducate on the correct way to use a vibe (on me) is scary.

And then there are so many different kinds and each one can be used in differing ways depending on preference and desired outcome.

Me for instance, I dislike vibes to be inserted unless it's my egg. I find having vibration internally with any depth is lost on me, whereas to keep the egg shallow, it stimulates the entrance to my vagina where it's most sensitive and also makes me use my muscles to keep it in place.

Funny little topic indeed.

 

[Pictavia]

It's a curious little topic isn't it? And porn doesn't help! The number of men I have had to reeducate on the correct way to use a vibe (on me) is scary.

And then there are so many different kinds and each one can be used in differing ways depending on preference and desired outcome.

Me for instance, I dislike vibes to be inserted unless it's my egg. I find having vibration internally with any depth is lost on me, whereas to keep the egg shallow, it stimulates the entrance to my vagina where it's most sensitive and also makes me use my muscles to keep it in place.

Funny little topic indeed.

Interesting. Much the same here - don't really enjoy an inserted vibe. Clitoral vibe, preferably small and precise, is the way that works best for me.

 

[GrrlFriday]

Something I've quite liked is turning a 'veined' vibrator upside-down and using the textured underside as a kind of 'back-scratcher' - or even just wrapping my legs around it and riding it like a broomstick.

 

[jodylee]

I've had to use my vibe way too much this past month, and yes, numbness does occur sometimes. I don't particularly enjoy/get off on a vibe in me although lately it has made me gush a couple times. I like vibes like my coffee.. Strong, powerful and big ;-) I do need to switch up with fingers every other time, or else it just gets harder and harder to orgasm.

 

[HoneyFortune]

The most important thing to remember in sex is that you never should rub off her hoo ha. She is going to need that.

 

[TeaforMe]

This can happen to me when I am using my Wand, it's almost like a torture device when I have used or had it used for too long with a hard pressure. Typically this is because I am grinding it really hard just above my clit, where a guys pubic bone would normally press into me during sex. All that is needed is to back off a little and give that place a rest.

or

If you want to make it a little ouchie, KEEP GOING. From my experience, she should still be able to get there, but it's just a little painful along the way.

I have this same issue with my wand. it can go from exciting to over stimulation in a hurry. I don't use it as much just for that very reason.

 

[ArabianNights]

Just an up date, after following your advice she played with her pussy with her fingers making herself very turned on, she did this for a while covering her pussy with her juices. She then used her rabbit to fuck herself with, coming very hard twice. She now has a very big smile on her face.

 

[Littlebeau]

Rabbit use?

Thinking of getting mine a Rabbit, but she is inexperience using one. Please help us on best ways to use it with infancis on her very sensitive kitty! Is any particular one for the sensitive part? Thanks for being my friend.

 

[RedSilk69]

Thinking of getting mine a Rabbit, but she is inexperience using one. Please help us on best ways to use it with infancis on her very sensitive kitty! Is any particular one for the sensitive part? Thanks for being my friend.

I just got the Nova by We-Vibe, and I *love* it. It has the clitoral stimulation of a rabbit, but designed to work with your anatomy and not just look cute. Plus it has an app; its pulsation can be controlled from anywhere in the world.