Thanks. my girl and I have talked about it and we thought we wanted kids but the more we think about it and the more we are around younger kids it just seems to be better not to have them for us.
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Thanks. my girl and I have talked about it and we thought we wanted kids but the more we think about it and the more we are around younger kids it just seems to be better not to have them for us.
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I have had two boyfriends get vasectomies while we were together. (I really don't want kids and bc pills cause cancer....i should know) Both surgeries were quick. The first one was a drummer and played a gig that night. He was a bit sore and swollen the next day. I'd advise not playing drums for 24 hours. Number 2 sat around with ice on his nuts while I served him wings and beer all weekend. I think he wanted another vasectomy. There was no change in volume or consistency of their jizz.
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What's the big deal!!
I had a vasectomy in 1978. 20mg of valium intravenously made it one of the best experiences of my life. I wouldn't have cared if they cut my dick off. Two little incisions and it was done. I even drove home from the hospital. A few days with an icepack and I was good to go. Five days later, everything worked but I was shooting blanks as planned. It's just no big deal!!
I had a vasectomy in 1978. 20mg of valium intravenously made it one of the best experiences of my life. I wouldn't have cared if they cut my dick off. Two little incisions and it was done. I even drove home from the hospital. A few days with an icepack and I was good to go. Five days later, everything worked but I was shooting blanks as planned. It's just no big deal!!
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Had mine in 94. Sat with a bag of frozen peas for a day; then took it easy for a few days. No major discomfort. I didn't notice any reduction in volume; however, I do now but I think it's age caused. Reversing one is microsurgery and could be expensive. Success rate is much better now though.
Had mine in 94. Sat with a bag of frozen peas for a day; then took it easy for a few days. No major discomfort. I didn't notice any reduction in volume; however, I do now but I think it's age caused. Reversing one is microsurgery and could be expensive. Success rate is much better now though.
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My man had one, and has experienced a noticeable reduction in ejaculate. He's not happy about that.
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The only difference you will notice is that a vasectomy takes the worry out of being close. In fact, you could say it is sexually liberating for a man.
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I have heard this complaint from men before, but I personally didn't notice any difference at all. The white ejaculate comes from the prostate, and vasectomy surgery doesn't affect the function of the prostate. The semen, (which vasectomy surgery blocks), is almost microscopic, and any reduction in overall ejaculate should be unnoticeable.
Got mine done last summer. My doc learned his craft in the U.S. Army so he had plenty of practice before entering the civilian world lol. His method actually removed a 2-3mm piece of the vans from each side in addition to cauterizing the ends. Right side went fine but the left hurt like a sumbitch for whatever reason. Wife was in there with me during the procedure so that was really helpful.
Afterwards the standard rules applied. Frozen peas on the boys and was back to work after the weekend. I only waited a week or so before I wanted to come and I had no trouble whatsoever reaching 10 ejaculations in 2 months or whatever it was lol. My balls did ache off and on for 3-4 months after and occasionally I can feel "tightness" in my pubic region but nothing too bad. Ejaculate amounts are on par with presurgery amounts, which is to say the wife enjoys lots of come! Hope this helps
Afterwards the standard rules applied. Frozen peas on the boys and was back to work after the weekend. I only waited a week or so before I wanted to come and I had no trouble whatsoever reaching 10 ejaculations in 2 months or whatever it was lol. My balls did ache off and on for 3-4 months after and occasionally I can feel "tightness" in my pubic region but nothing too bad. Ejaculate amounts are on par with presurgery amounts, which is to say the wife enjoys lots of come! Hope this helps
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First of all, follow the rules about boinking after the procedure. There are going to be little buggers there for a period of time. Some docs will just give you a period of time to stay with another method of birth control and some will send you into the room with a cup and dirty photos.
Second, buy yourself a couple of bags of cheap frozen peas. They will be your friend for a few days. Not going to tell you that you won't be sore but walking funny for a few days is worth it.
Hang in there. You can do this.
Oh, and a third point......DO NOT LISTEN TO STORIES FROM COWORKERS OR FRIENDS ABOUT THE AWFUL THINGS TTHAT HAPPENED TO THE COUSIN OF A FRIEND'S BROTHER WHO HEARD ETC ETC ETC.
First rule of any surgery is don't believe the stories.
All this from an OR nurse who has snipped a few.
Second, buy yourself a couple of bags of cheap frozen peas. They will be your friend for a few days. Not going to tell you that you won't be sore but walking funny for a few days is worth it.
Hang in there. You can do this.
Oh, and a third point......DO NOT LISTEN TO STORIES FROM COWORKERS OR FRIENDS ABOUT THE AWFUL THINGS TTHAT HAPPENED TO THE COUSIN OF A FRIEND'S BROTHER WHO HEARD ETC ETC ETC.
First rule of any surgery is don't believe the stories.
All this from an OR nurse who has snipped a few.
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What's with the zombie thread?
I don't know about anyone else, but I posted before I noticed the original date.
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It happens. I'm just wondering why the person who bumped it did so. It's not like they had a question pertaining to the original post or any subsequent post after that. So it didn't make sense to me.
Um, yeah. This is from 5 years ago. Likely, the OP has long since had the snip, has healed, and has moved on to carefree fun with his lady.
Um, yeah. This is from 5 years ago. Likely, the OP has long since had the snip, has healed, and has moved on to carefree fun with his lady.
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He is online this very moment.
Maybe we'll get to know?
Maybe we'll get to know?
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"He" looks decidedly female to me.
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I think it is a couple's profile.
At least he refers to it as "I am going to have...." in the OP.
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PM sent..... maybe we'll know?
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Sorry. I was referring to the person who bumped the thread.
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No difference in juice..just no sperm. It will probably make your love life better with no fear of pregancy!
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Old thread notwithstanding, I have a (somewhat) relevant question. I got my V back when the Earth was still cooling. We had no children, were in our late 20s, and my wife had to sign off on the procedure, in effect, giving her permission for me to get a vascectomy. Is this still the case? Does it depend on who and where?
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You made me look it up regarding my area.
Since sterilization is considered irreversible, and has a rather nasty history, it is legally regulated.
- anybody over the age of 25 has the right to the procedure.
- if you are under 25, there has to be very good reasons, such as serious mental or physical disease, to justify the procedure. The request must be reviewed by a board*.
- if you are under 18, the same rules apply, but a judge will also be put on the board.
*this board also handles requests for abortion after the 12th week and "fetal reduction" in case of a dangerously high number simultaneous fetuses after infertility treatment.
Since sterilization is considered irreversible, and has a rather nasty history, it is legally regulated.
- anybody over the age of 25 has the right to the procedure.
- if you are under 25, there has to be very good reasons, such as serious mental or physical disease, to justify the procedure. The request must be reviewed by a board*.
- if you are under 18, the same rules apply, but a judge will also be put on the board.
*this board also handles requests for abortion after the 12th week and "fetal reduction" in case of a dangerously high number simultaneous fetuses after infertility treatment.
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Good question....
I got mine done in 2002 but here is what was interesting and I think its because the doctor was old school
I was 33 at the time and had two kids from my first wife. But my second wife is 9 years younger than me so 24 at the time with no kids.
The doctor asked her if she was okay with me not wanting anymore kids, point blank saying "You sure you want none of your own?"
Honestly I was a little ticked at that. He didn't think we had discussed it and she knew what she did/did not want?
Even at 24 my wife was very career oriented plus she had my daughters to enjoy and as she always says she got to skip the diaper and teething ages....
Of course she also teases that she took one look at my kids and said "I'm not making one of those!"
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It's not really old school to consider the wife's opinion prior to performing elective sterilization on men. It is considered good medical practice in multiple countries and many urologists still include a spouse in the informed consent meeting. What has always struck me as odd is that a man is not as often encouraged to provide consent if his wife is seeking a similar procedure. It's a little sexist and a not-so-subtle shift of power in the baby-making world of healthcare.
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Ditto the decision to terminate a pregnancy. Ultimately, of course, that is between woman and her doctor, but it seems like the sperm donor should have at least some input.
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