Vanilla

[englishgent73]

Amongst all the crazy stuff, isn't it great just to slide under some crisp cotton sheets next to your naked lover and have plain and simple sex

 

[Boundlife]

Amongst all the crazy stuff, isn't it great just to slide under some crisp cotton sheets next to your naked lover and have plain and simple sex

Yes, getting back to basics is nice, like eating comfort food

 

[NordicOz]

Amongst all the crazy stuff, isn't it great just to slide under some crisp cotton sheets next to your naked lover and have plain and simple sex

Woh slow down there sir kinksalot, that's a bit too crazy for me.....I mean crisp sheets? What's next? Pressed linen?? Folded bedding??? Hotel corners????

Phwoooar that's a bit kinky for me thanks pal....I'll take a woman on the floor for $400 thanks Alex

 

[firenzi]

When I'm in a relationship where we do a lot of "crazy stuff", vanilla sex is fantastic, as if it's been electrically charged with all the other stuff we could be doing but aren't

Vanilla sex in a purely vanilla relationship gets boring very quickly.

 

[butters]

Amongst all the crazy stuff, isn't it great just to slide under some crisp cotton sheets next to your naked lover and have plain and simple sex

absolutely

having said that, the old saying that variety is the spice of life isn't wrong.

when people get so obsessed with all the toys and gadgets, knots and accoutrements, sex appears (to me) to become something too contrived. imagination, spontaneity, a genuine desire to pleasure and being open to receiving pleasure where you make eachothers' bodies and minds your playground will always be preferable to me than noisy vibrators, clamps, and scout-knotting abilities.

nothing wrong with the sprinkles, but when a meal becomes all sprinkles, i'm left missing the meat.

 

[jennifer036]

When I'm in a relationship where we do a lot of "crazy stuff", vanilla sex is fantastic, as if it's been electrically charged with all the other stuff we could be doing but aren't

Vanilla sex in a purely vanilla relationship gets boring very quickly.

Well said

 

[KatNW1]

Woh slow down there sir kinksalot, that's a bit too crazy for me.....I mean crisp sheets? What's next? Pressed linen?? Folded bedding??? Hotel corners????

Phwoooar that's a bit kinky for me thanks pal....I'll take a woman on the floor for $400 thanks Alex

Don't come over then - I make a mean hotel corner. Seriously.

 

[KatNW1]

absolutely

having said that, the old saying that variety is the spice of life isn't wrong.

when people get so obsessed with all the toys and gadgets, knots and accoutrements, sex appears (to me) to become something too contrived. imagination, spontaneity, a genuine desire to pleasure and being open to receiving pleasure where you make eachothers' bodies and minds your playground will always be preferable to me than noisy vibrators, clamps, and scout-knotting abilities.

nothing wrong with the sprinkles, but when a meal becomes all sprinkles, i'm left missing the meat.

I agree. We keep it interesting and I get more open to ideas all the time (I have hangups and luggage from an emotionally/verbally and sometimes physically abusive marriage), but at the end of the day great sex truly comes down to the minds and bodies of its creators.