Vanilla straight 44M with newfound kink for submission and humiliation

SUBUrbandDad

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I'm a 44 year old white man from Denmark. I'm married with a wife and 3 kids.

Wife lost interest in sex some years back. I've never been able to determine why, but fear it's a combination of me not being very well endowed and that I always cum too fast. My attempts to resolve this have been unsuccessful. My wife simply has no interest in sex, which is extremely frustrating for me, when I am practically horny all the time.

When we had sex, we were both completely vanilla.

However, in desperation I've started watching a lot of porn on the Internet and stayed up late to masturbate.

I started exploring different kinds of porn, and that is when I found Femdom, and discovered how much that resonates with me. These days it is all I watch. And the more I watch, the more I crave it. Want it. Need it. Lately, I've started thinking that maybe I'm just not meant to fuck women the way a man does. With my 5 inch cock and premature cumming, I'm rather useless in bed. Maybe I'm meant to please women in other ways?

The thought of being put in humiliation situations have started to turn me on. A lot. Videos of men being dressed up in public, being nude in public, having to suck a strap-on - or worse, take it on the ass, get me instantly hard. I'm 100% straight, I absolutely love the female body and have no sexual attraction to the male body at all, but after having watched hundreds of videos, I've now reached a point, where I've caught myself opening my mouth in anticipation, when watching a guy being forced to suck another man's cock. It's so scary how much my brain has been impacted, and yet I can't stop craving it.

Obviously I've never done any of these things in real life, and to be honest, all of these fantasies and how my brain and body burn with excitement just thinking about them is almost more scary than arousing. Almost.

I'm here seeking anyone interested in exchanging thoughts and experiences on any of the above subjects. Preferably you are female.

I am especially interested in:
  • Chats of a sexual nature, including roleplay.
  • Anything that can help me explore these newfound kinks.
  • Anything that can corrupt me more and push me further down the rabbit hole.
  • Involving real life activities in our engagement.
I would absolutely love a long term relationship, but I am fine with one-off sessions as well.

I have various social media and I am open to both chatting and/or email exchanges. Send me a PM with who you are for contact details.

Due to my family situation, I need this to be 100% private, discreet and online only, but as long as my wife will not find out, the sky's the limit for what can be done. ;)
 
Humiliation situations have started to turn me on too. I prefer them. Most of the married guys I have serviced also have wives who no longer are interested in sex.
 
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I'm a 44 year old white man from Denmark. I'm married with a wife and 3 kids.

Wife lost interest in sex some years back. I've never been able to determine why, but fear it's a combination of me not being very well endowed and that I always cum too fast. My attempts to resolve this have been unsuccessful. My wife simply has no interest in sex, which is extremely frustrating for me, when I am practically horny all the time.

When we had sex, we were both completely vanilla.

However, in desperation I've started watching a lot of porn on the Internet and stayed up late to masturbate.

I started exploring different kinds of porn, and that is when I found Femdom, and discovered how much that resonates with me. These days it is all I watch. And the more I watch, the more I crave it. Want it. Need it. Lately, I've started thinking that maybe I'm just not meant to fuck women the way a man does. With my 5 inch cock and premature cumming, I'm rather useless in bed. Maybe I'm meant to please women in other ways?

The thought of being put in humiliation situations have started to turn me on. A lot. Videos of men being dressed up in public, being nude in public, having to suck a strap-on - or worse, take it on the ass, get me instantly hard. I'm 100% straight, I absolutely love the female body and have no sexual attraction to the male body at all, but after having watched hundreds of videos, I've now reached a point, where I've caught myself opening my mouth in anticipation, when watching a guy being forced to suck another man's cock. It's so scary how much my brain has been impacted, and yet I can't stop craving it.

Obviously I've never done any of these things in real life, and to be honest, all of these fantasies and how my brain and body burn with excitement just thinking about them is almost more scary than arousing. Almost.

I'm here seeking anyone interested in exchanging thoughts and experiences on any of the above subjects. Preferably you are female.

I am especially interested in:
  • Chats of a sexual nature, including roleplay.
  • Anything that can help me explore these newfound kinks.
  • Anything that can corrupt me more and push me further down the rabbit hole.
  • Involving real life activities in our engagement.
I would absolutely love a long term relationship, but I am fine with one-off sessions as well.

I have various social media and I am open to both chatting and/or email exchanges. Send me a PM with who you are for contact details.

Due to my family situation, I need this to be 100% private, discreet and online only, but as long as my wife will not find out, the sky's the limit for what can be done. ;)
I m 65 bi Like cock and pussy
Depending on the partner like wearing bra with cutouts for my nipples and crotchless panties

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