using dildo with boyfriend

[lorelai715]

My boyfriend just learned that I have a vibrator/dildo - I'd not bothered to tell him about it because I always thought of it as a "personal use" item. Now that he knows, he's interested in using it when we have sex, and so am I, but I'm not really sure how to incorporate it into our sex play.

Any suggestions?

 

[His Whimsicality]

You lie down on your back, spread your legs, and your bf fucks you with your vibe while one of you stimulates your clit at the same time?

You use it on yourself and he watches?

 

[Earl]

Dildo

Get a rubber and use it on him while you suck him off. Or have him use it on you while he's fucking you. He could play it on your clit or in the hole he's not using.

 

[PunkGrrl18]

damn thats fun...

 

[lorelai715]

Thanks for the good ideas - not so sure he'd be into me using it on him, but I'd think we'd both really enjoy me using it while he watches.

 

[psyche]

Thanks for the good ideas - not so sure he'd be into me using it on him, but I'd think we'd both really enjoy me using it while he watches.

To add some fun, tie him down while he watches! And don't touch him until he begs........

 

[capricious_chic]

There are many variations on the theme of what you can do...

All that is really required is that you use your imagination, have fun, and experiment. Some suggestions might be...

Show your b/f how you use it when he is not around.. let him watch what turns you on.. then have him imitate the actions...

Have him go down on you until you cum.. then use the dildo on you until you cum again.. the go down and.. well you get the picture..

You can use it in addition to your lovemaking.. as a pleasurable alternative.. or during..

Again, just use your imagination and most importantly ENJOY!!

 

[Lust Engine]

I totally agree with a few of the female posters above. There's absolutely nothing hotter than to watch a female using her little vibrating toy in front of her man. Show him exactly how you swirl it around, in and around all those little delicate parts of yours. Thrust it in and out, moisten it only the way you can and show him exactly what gets you going and when he can't take anymore of your exquisite little demonstration, invite him to join in the fun.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

while he is licking you he can slip the vib into your pussy and also stimulate your clit with it. use it on his balls. there are many possiblities.

 

[Lust Engine]

while he is licking you he can slip the vib into your pussy and also stimulate your clit with it. use it on his balls. there are many possiblities.

Any possibilities of the both of you enjoying sound absolutely fabulous to me! Just go for it and let us know how things turn out. We're all ears & eyes here (voyeuristic sort, aren't we!?).

Good luck!

 

[lorelai715]

Thanks for all your help guys, I really want this to be an enjoyable experience for both of us. I'm not going to see him until Friday, but I'll definitely let you know what happens.

 

[Lust Engine]

Thanks for all your help guys, I really want this to be an enjoyable experience for both of us. I'm not going to see him until Friday, but I'll definitely let you know what happens.

Ooooo...wringing hands with lustful glee awaiting all the juicy details now!

 

[Bandit58]

I bought a vibrator a month ago. Would you believe that I'd never even seen one for real before that?? God what an innocent I was

Anyway.....the first time i used it my man used it on me......all I can say is WOW....I didn't know they felt so GOOD!! Next time I see him (5 days and counting) I'm going to use it on him.....everywhere You've given me some very nice ideas.....

 

[Amfig]

Using it on him

Using it on him does not mean that you have to shove it up his ass. If it's the typical torpedo or bullet shaped vibe here are ways to use it on him that are way fun: Rund the tip of the vibe along the edge of the corona of the glans. While sucking him, put the shaft of the vibe alongside his shaft. Put the head of the vibe under his balls while playing with his shaft with hand or mouth. Finally, the point of the vibe on the perineum is a wnderfully stimulating indirect prosate massage.

 

[PunkGrrl18]

Anyway.....the first time i used it my man used it on me

me too!

 

[Belilica]

Give him a show with it, ask him to use it during oral, be creative! Whatever feels good. I got my ex into anal play with one of mine... Well, there are lots of other lovely suggestions here, so I'll be quiet now

 

[lorelai715]

Re: Using it on him

Using it on him does not mean that you have to shove it up his ass.

Thanks Amfig - I knew that wasn't the only way to use it on him, but I wasn't sure where he might like the vibrations. Gives me a lot of great ideas!! He always likes it when I play with his balls when I'm sucking his cock, so that sounds like a good place to start.

Only two days until....

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: Re: Using it on him

Thanks Amfig - I knew that wasn't the only way to use it on him, but I wasn't sure where he might like the vibrations. Gives me a lot of great ideas!! He always likes it when I play with his balls when I'm sucking his cock, so that sounds like a good place to start.

Only two days until....

TWO more days??? Can we hold out that long?? Inquiring minds (and dirty ones at that!) want to know! Have fun lorelai!

 

[Belilica]

Hope you have fun lorelai, tell us all about it

Good Luck!

 

[Horny In SC]

My Kind Of Girl!

You should just lie back and let him pleasure you with it. I love driving a girl crazy with a long, thick dildo. I also love when she uses it on me as she jerks me off. Let him know how much pleasure toys can add to the experience.

 

[digdat]

My girlfriend and I just invested in a vibrator, mostly for her. However, I am looking forward to the experience of her playing with me and incorporating the vibrator in it. I'd just love to feel it buzzing away while deep inside me, while I'm in her mouth.

lol ... this is turning me on as I type ... I know what I'm doing tonight.

 

[Hotred911]

My girlfriend and I just invested in a vibrator, mostly for her. However, I am looking forward to the experience of her playing with me and incorporating the vibrator in it. I'd just love to feel it buzzing away while deep inside me, while I'm in her mouth.

lol ... this is turning me on as I type ... I know what I'm doing tonight.

Hehe, glad it's Friday!

 

[lorelai715]

So excited!!!
I think I'm going to have to take my toy with me when I take a bath before I go over and see him tonight. Get warmed up without him....

 

[Bandit58]

Hi Lorelai

I leave tomorrow to see my man......and I'm definitely taking the vibe with me.....and spare batteries We both got a whole 5 days to fill in somehow......

 

[lorddragonwolf]

how did it go. hope you both had fun using your new toy.