Using a strapon in a man???

T.H. Oughts

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I have meet a man who wants me to use a strapon in him. That is very cool as far as I'm concerned. But I have never used one on a guy before. This has been a long time fantasy of mine and his. I have only watched porn movies about it.

Any suggestions how I can make this a great experience for him. I know the plenty of lube thing.... If he is bent over on his knees which direction is the prostate, up or downwards? Anything else you can think of to make it great time?
 
wildB said:

The last man I was with was my partner of 20 years (now my ex) and he would not let me near his ass even though he knew how much I wanted his. You can imagine how excited I am. :nana: :nana: :nana:
 
Hurray

I actually just had a friend of mine explain this to me. The prostate is upwards. Also use any knowledge of anal sex from your own experience. However, when you finally do let me know as I am considering letting a woman use a strap on on me and I am curious as to how it feels.
 
T.H. Oughts said:
Any suggestions how I can make this a great experience for him. I know the plenty of lube thing.... If he is bent over on his knees which direction is the prostate, up or downwards? Anything else you can think of to make it great time?
If you're doing him from behind while he's on his hands and knees, the prostate will be downwards... The prostate is located between the balls and asshole.

Although YOU'LL be in the traditionally "dominate" role here, I would suggest that (at least for the first few times) you let HIM be the one in control... Start out slow and just allow HIM to dictate the pace... i.e., let you know when to go faster, harder, slower, softer, etc.

I would also suggest that you don't use a plastic dildo because they won't bend to conform to his rectal wall structure ... Go either for a jelly or silicone one... Less of a risk of causing some serious damage that way.

Other than that, just have fun... ;)
 
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well if you go about

2 inch up his arse and push toward his cock there it be,

may i suggest you try loosening him up with a plug first,
maybe get him to put a small one in at dinner, and go up a size later and up again if needed.
once he is comfortable you will find when you start on him he will push back :)
 
Very interested

New to this but really interested to hear how you get on and what did you think of the experience .. once had a lady offer it to me but relationship ended before it could happen .. deep sigh of sadness.

Enjoy and inform. :)
 
Hi Sweetie,
Well i like to think of myself as a bit of an expert on this sort of thing.
Have been enjoying the pleasure of a women banging on my backdoor for a long while now.
Ha, you know how kinky us Kiwi's are lol

We have used a good many strap on tools, one of the best was the Vacu lock system, as it allows you to change dong size as you get more experienced.

But our new favourite is the Feeldoe toy, bloody fantastic since it is so flexible and requires no harness,
Check it out at feeldoe.com

There is a post by me somewhere on one of the lit Strap on threads
a Feeldoe report, just search for Feeldoe on here , it should come up.

Anyway if you have any questions regarding this sort of fun
Give me a yell, contact details on my profile.

hmmm maybe a trip home is in order for some personal tuition :rolleyes:
 
mr happy said:
Some personal tuition :rolleyes:


1. Now bend your partner over a couple of bales of hay.
2. Close your eyes and pretend he's a sheep.
3. Take tool A and place it in compartment C.
4. Rotate like mixing a Shandy.
5. Do the haka.
6. Demand a plate full of puha and a after fuck fag.

Isn't that the kiwi way. ;)
 
BerksMartin43 said:
once had a lady offer it to me but relationship ended before it could happen .. deep sigh of sadness.

I hear your sigh, it's been my sigh for many years. Hold on it might just happen for you some day. :)
 
What real man would let A women use A strapon on him lets be real this guy is A fagget :rolleyes:
 
Kingterp said:
What real man would let A women use A strapon on him lets be real this guy is A fagget :rolleyes:

Lets be real, you`re an insecure homophobic arsehole. :rolleyes:
 
Kingterp said:
What real man would let A women use A strapon on him lets be real this guy is A fagget :rolleyes:

A shame you will never be at peace with who you are and what you can acheive in this world. :)
 
quoll said:
Lets be real, you`re an insecure homophobic arsehole. :rolleyes:


Not wanting to get fuck in my ass by a women makes me insecure and homophobic ok then I guess you told me :rolleyes:
 
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Kingterp said:
Not wanting to get fuck in my ass by a women makes me insecure ok then I guess you told me :rolleyes:

What is the worst that can happen if she does? :)
 
T.H. Oughts said:
A shame you will never be at peace with who you are and what you can acheive in this world. :)

I may be reading this wrong but are you trying to say im gay
 
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I think it`s more the fear that if you tried it and liked it, you would think you are gay.


ho•mo•pho•bi•a

Pronunciation: (hō"mu-fō'bē-u), [key]
—n.
unreasoning fear of or antipathy toward homosexuals and homosexuality.
 
mr happy said:
Hi Sweetie,
Well i like to think of myself as a bit of an expert on this sort of thing.
Have been enjoying the pleasure of a women banging on my backdoor for a long while now.
Ha, you know how kinky us Kiwi's are lol

We have used a good many strap on tools, one of the best was the Vacu lock system, as it allows you to change dong size as you get more experienced.

But our new favourite is the Feeldoe toy, bloody fantastic since it is so flexible and requires no harness,
Check it out at feeldoe.com

There is a post by me somewhere on one of the lit Strap on threads
a Feeldoe report, just search for Feeldoe on here , it should come up.

Anyway if you have any questions regarding this sort of fun
Give me a yell, contact details on my profile.

hmmm maybe a trip home is in order for some personal tuition :rolleyes:


here's a second hurrah for the feeldoe! just recently got to realize my fantasy of taking a man....my new love. this is the perfect strap on dildo...i get to give him pleasure and also get some of my own too! we used it with a harness so it doesn't slip out when i get too wet. we also have used a vibrating cock ring with it as well....mmmmm. i like to start by orally worshipping his beautiful cock, then work my way to licking his little star. playing with it with my tongue, my fingers, fucking and teasing him with my tongue and fingers....just to warm him up first. my favourite position is to have him on his back, with his legs up.....this way i can play with his cock and nipples too and watch the pleasure on his face as i slide in and out of him. :eek:

have fun, T.H. Oughts! ;) you're going to love it!!
 
chittylove said:
my favourite position is to have him on his back, with his legs up.....this way i can play with his cock and nipples too and watch the pleasure on his face as i slide in and out of him. :eek:

have fun, T.H. Oughts! ;) you're going to love it!!

Mmmmmmmm that sounds glorious, His stocking clad legs splayed up in front of me while I give pleasure is yummy. I shall check out the toy you suggest. :)
 
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