Unusually high % of bisexuals here?

Sorry, I'm not trying to get in the middle of the argument. I have a question about other things that were being discussed.

I don't understand if we are saying that bisexuals are usually only interested in having sex with the same gender (meaning that they're really gay)

or if we're saying that they are interested in SEX with the same gender, but RELATIONSHIPS with the opposite gender.
 
FairuzaGrey said:
Sorry, I'm not trying to get in the middle of the argument. I have a question about other things that were being discussed.

I don't understand if we are saying that bisexuals are usually only interested in having sex with the same gender (meaning that they're really gay)

or if we're saying that they are interested in SEX with the same gender, but RELATIONSHIPS with the opposite gender.

Bisexuals by definition are interested in sex with both genders. It's my experience and observation that most bisexuals are not interested in being in an "amorous committed relationship" (like a husband and wife) with the same gender though. In other words, they don't "fall in love" with a person of the same gender. Most seem to only be interest in the sexual/physical aspects when exploring their bisexual desires. In other words, they're just interest in something like "friends with benefits" when it comes to the same gender. It's not to say that friends of the same or opposite gender can't love each other. There is an element of love in most every friendship. But I'm not talking about a typical "friendship" when I talk about an "amorous relationship" either.
 
Pookie said:
You really do have a problem with reading comprehension, don't you? No one else has had a problem reading my post and understanding that I was speaking of amorous relationships. And even after I clarified it specifically for you, you still can't grasp it. As I said already, I was NOT discussing typical friendships. I never said anything about typical friendships not involving love. Your insistence on claiming I hold that view is typical of the trolling asshole that you are.

Also, you're being deceptive. "Vast majority" of my posts to you over the past few weeks? Pffft. Until the past few days, I have replied to you ONE time in any thread on any board for the last few weeks. And even that reply was to an irrelevant question to a topic being discussed in a GB thread ...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8321238&highlight=Stuponfucious#post8321238

Even my first post to you in the GLBT forum since April 19 was far from being considered "clearly insulting and condescending comments." ...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8429050&highlight=Stuponfucious#post8429050

As far as argreeing to disagree ... do what you want, bub. When you can stop inventing and attributing your own clearly ignorant views for my own, then I'll stop giving you "clearly insulting and condescending comments" in reply to it. But for the sake of my avoiding further disruption on the GLBT board by continuing to argue with a trolling asshole, you're now on ignore.

*sigh* Yeah, no one had trouble understanding your post...oh yeah, except FairuzaGrey.

If you're going to make accusations people will expect you to show some proof behind them. I'd like you to point out where I've "invented" anything you've said. I think it's quite obvious to anyone who is unbiased that you're taking a misunderstanding and blown it completely out of proportion.

"Ignorant" views? What views are those? I don't recall expressing any "ignorant" views here. wuote me where I did in your opinion. If anything I have shown tolerance and patience where you have merely attacked and insulted.

Now, this is the part that I find strange. On the one hand you say you haven't made ANY posts towards me except one for the last few weeks, THEN you claim that you HAVE condescended to me and insulted me. Which is it? I have done neither to you, yet you insist on portraying me as a a troll, the one who is really disrupting things.

In summary, prove your claims or do not make them. Anything else weakens your credibility.
 
It does appear that there are a high percentage of bisexuals who post here. However, the number of bisexual people in general is far from insignificant. You can argue the validity of statistics and their source, but when I look at numbers from various sources they all seem to fall within a similar range. The number of self-identified bisexuals is certainly in the high single digits, somewhere around 8%. Homosexual men are around 4% and homosexual women around 2%. Out of the approximately 90% straight population, I wonder what the bi-curious percentage is.

Looking at it from this perspective, it is no wonder that the majority of bisexuals are not really bi-amorous. I do know people who are truely right in the middle as far as sex and relationships go. One of my freinds who married another bisexual man saw his former girlfriend in the paper. She was getting a marriage license in San Francisco to marry her female lover. I've also met plenty of gay/bisexual or bi-curious people. I have another freind who has been in relationtionships with both men and women and has always known that she was attracted both physically and romantically to both sexes.
 
I am one of those rare ones who is interested in either gender for either just sex or for a committed relationship....at the moment though, I am leaning towards just sex with guys and committed relationship with girls....but that could just be an odd couple of guys I've been in relationships with lately.....later down the track, that may balance out again....
 
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