Unsure about my fetish!

[CuriousJack]

Hi!

I have this fantasy/fetish of mine and i was just wondering if someone could tell me what exactly it is, and if so point me towards any stories/sites/information about it.

I have this fantasy/fetish that has to do with very small, weak and shy looking and acting girl physically dominating me, and sort of "forcing" me into sex.

The girl would be very short, weak looking, and very shy and conceded in public, yet in the bedroom she would be very sexually aggresive, self assured, confident and strong.

Now here's the weird thing, i am 195cm (6'5), and rather bulky and strong, so in reality me getting overpowered at all is not an easy feat for anyone to do, let alone a 5 foot nothing, shy girl.

This fantasy/fetish DOESN'T involve any chains or whips or handcuffs or anything like that, its just simply the girl overpowering me herself, and throwing/pushing/holding me down etc on her own unaided.

Cany anybody give me any information about this fetish of mine?

Thanks!

 

[BlueFireDragon]

Sounds like play rape to me. And for some reason, I sound a lot like the girl you describe....

 

[CuriousJack]

Sounds like play rape to me. And for some reason, I sound a lot like the girl you describe....

You wouldn't happen to live in Melbourne, Australia would you?

Is there any forum/sites which are dedicated to "play rape"?

 

[BlueFireDragon]

Sadly, I live in Jersey, USA. There probably are, but I haven't really found them yet. You can always start your own here! Are you into the D/s scene at all?
Dragoness

 

[CuriousJack]

Sadly, I live in Jersey, USA. There probably are, but I haven't really found them yet. You can always start your own here! Are you into the D/s scene at all?
Dragoness

Dam!

I'm only 18, so yeah, not really into the d scene!

What i worry about is when the word dom/sub comes up, everyone thinks whips and chains and humiliation.

I am so NOT into any of that!

I just soooooooooooo want to live out this fetish, however it is so unrealistic, due to the fact that the last time i was overpowered was................. hmm............ hard to think of a time when thats actually happened, and that i couldn't possibly believe their would be a "play rape" scene down here in the city, but i guess i don't really know for sure!

 

[AAkasha]

Dam!

I'm only 18, so yeah, not really into the d scene!

What i worry about is when the word dom/sub comes up, everyone thinks whips and chains and humiliation.

I am so NOT into any of that!

I just soooooooooooo want to live out this fetish, however it is so unrealistic, due to the fact that the last time i was overpowered was................. hmm............ hard to think of a time when thats actually happened, and that i couldn't possibly believe their would be a "play rape" scene down here in the city, but i guess i don't really know for sure!

If you are generally attracted to smaller women who are petite and unassuming, you may find yourself in a relationship with one and feel safe enough to explore this fantasy with her. In the course of flirting, rough-housing and messing around, there will be plenty of opportunities for her to pin you down and overpower you.

Now, are you absolutely sure that no girl overpowered you when you were very young and you remember it as very exciting and arousing? I certainly remember playfully tying up boys when I was a kid, and nothing sexual happened, but it sure set the tone for the way my sexuality would evolve...

Akasha

 

[Haku_Z]

fetish... hmmm... I know someone who has the same interest as yourself. A pretty big guy who just likes to be dominated by a tiny girl. Not sure if there are fetish sites dedicated to this, but like BlueFireDragon said, perhaps play rape.

Naturally you may have to allow this petite girl to overpower you, unless you can find a petite girl with some crazy strength - then let me know, cuz I have a few guy friends that need to be humiliated with a beating.

 

[misspatiant]

Hi dont underestimate tiny, shy little women because i bet this one could eat you for breakfast!

 

[landcruisergal]

I am new to domming myself, but my boy is 6'3" and solidly built. I am 5'3" and 52kg.
I was "courted" by a few male submissives prior but primarily its the size difference that fascinates me.
I also know a 6'5" and likewise big guy (co-incidentally in melbourne) who is searching for a small woman to dominate him...so rest assured you aren't alone.
A friend of mine uses the catch phrase "you can't take power from the powerless".
I simply wouldn't want to play with a guy under 6'.
Maybe an interest in martial arts would be a good place to start your search....
Lots of smaller women would like the opportunity to throw a big fellow like you around.

 

[CuriousJack]

Now, are you absolutely sure that no girl overpowered you when you were very young and you remember it as very exciting and arousing?

I thought about it, and i can't say i ever remembered a time when this ever happened.

I grew tall very early, and always had "something" on me so i was never a beanpole, so yeah not many times i've ever been overpowered by anyone.

Maybe an interest in martial arts would be a good place to start your search....
Lots of smaller women would like the opportunity to throw a big fellow like you around.

That sort of brings me to another sort of fetish which is tied in with the one i mentioned earlier.

I've always wanted a girl, like the one i mentioned before, who i could "fight" with.

Now when i say fight, i don't mean in a battering way, but in a 1v1 physical fight, where not only could i hit her with legitimate force, but she could hit me aswell, hard, and eventually overpower/beat me down/ beat me up.

This fantasy i feel bad about having because it makes me feel so much like a batterer, and i know that i am not that kind of person, its just the idea of a fighting with a small, weak, shy girl, and her eventually kicking my ass, is just fucking hot!

Going to martials arts/self-defence classes might be a good idea, i'd be the perfect target for those small, weak women!

Lol, i better stop or i'll have to do some washing later on!

 

[Magnum44]

Oh young lad, let me tell you. There are thousands maybe millions of guys, including my self that like being taken down by a women. Check out the link below. It doesn't list Australia but you can check out the mnay gals that advertise wrestling men. Many of these gals are black belts in martial arts or wrestlers that will kick your ass. If you go to Google or another search engine and type in "mixed wrestling" I think you will find much info about gals beating guys in wrestling or fighting etc. Have fun.

http://www.wb270.com/

 

[sweetnpetite]

Sounds like play rape to me. And for some reason, I sound a lot like the girl you describe....

me too...

 

[CuriousJack]

http://www.wb270.com/

That site wasn't really much help, thanks for posting it anyway!

I'm going to investigate in the next month or two (or when i get the courage to) and see what BDSM clubs there are in melbourne, and if any cater for my "needs".

There is one in Sydney, "Salon Kitty's" who has a mistress who in her profile has:
KICKBOX SLAVE
For those who like to be physically dominated.

Let's hope that there is someone like that in a Melbourne club!

Thanks to everyone who posted!

 

[Magnum44]

Yeah, I know it wouldn't help you where you are, I just wanted to show you that there are plenty of women out there that like to wrestle/fight guys. So now you know and can start looking in your area. You are lucky, I was almost twice your age when I found info about my fetish. You have the internet at a very young age and having the courage to talk to others about it is much better than I could have done. I was almost 35 before I finally stopped being so ashamed and embarassed abut it.