Unfortunately Small...

[TrueFox]

Of the partners I've had, the best sex was with the one with the smallest dick (about 4ish inches?). He was kind of sensitive about his size, but man was he good...really attentive. I honestly didn't notice much of a difference in sensations during sex, except that he actually knew what he was doing (he probably did some research, like other guys that were mentioned in this thread). Plus he could have anal without hurting me, he was great at oral, he could find my G-spot with his finger in seconds, and he was an excellent dirty-talker. There are so many qualities and abilities that are more important than a couple of inches, and I'd take a lover like him over someone whose only advantage is that they're huge any day.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

My dick is only 5.5 and for some reason it turns me on thinking about not being able to satisfy my partner, I guess I'm a bit of a cuckold too I dunno, I hate the reality of it but it's all fantasy to me.

Anyway. I haven't had anyone complain but who knows. I love to eat pussy though so that probably helps, she'll always cum if she lets me eat her cunt.

 

[SweetErika]

My dick is only 5.5 and for some reason it turns me on thinking about not being able to satisfy my partner, I guess I'm a bit of a cuckold too I dunno, I hate the reality of it but it's all fantasy to me.

Anyway. I haven't had anyone complain but who knows. I love to eat pussy though so that probably helps, she'll always cum if she lets me eat her cunt.

You do know that size is in the "average" category, right?

 

[satindesire]

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[night&day]

Thats Been ..

Most women can't achieve orgasm through penetrative sex alone, Mick, that's normal.

my experience. I usually lick and suck a woman's pussy to get her relaxed and wet before fucking her, however I know she needs more to cum. I will slow fuck her while rubbibg her clit, or have her rub it while I'm in her. If she doesn't cum that way, I will lay her down and suck her nipples while she fingers herself, or talk dirty to her while she plays with herself while I watch. One of these usually does it, but I still would like to see her cum while I'm actually fucking her.

I used to think it was my fault that she didn't cum while we fucked, before I found out many women can't. Also found that after getting off really hard, the woman is not as likely to be able to cum again a short time later. Had this been your or any of the other women's experience?

 

[SweetErika]

my experience. I usually lick and suck a woman's pussy to get her relaxed and wet before fucking her, however I know she needs more to cum. I will slow fuck her while rubbibg her clit, or have her rub it while I'm in her. If she doesn't cum that way, I will lay her down and suck her nipples while she fingers herself, or talk dirty to her while she plays with herself while I watch. One of these usually does it, but I still would like to see her cum while I'm actually fucking her.

I used to think it was my fault that she didn't cum while we fucked, before I found out many women can't. Also found that after getting off really hard, the woman is not as likely to be able to cum again a short time later. Had this been your or any of the other women's experience?

You might have more luck if she comes before you attempt intercourse.

She could also try using a vibe for clit stimulation while you're having sex. Vibes aren't created equal, so she should choose one(s) that provide the type of clit stimulation she likes and she may have to try several before she finds what works well for her.

And yes, the clitoris and vulva in general becomes too sensitive for continuing stimulation after orgasm for most women. Gentler stimulation of the clitoral area, vaginal, breast or other types of stimulation (we have A LOT of erogenous zones!) can still be fine for many, so she'll have to experiment and see what, if anything, works for her. If all else fails, there's nothing wrong with taking a break then resuming stimulation when she's not so sensitive, if she's up for that.

 

[akatrex]

Have your TOUNGUE LENGTHENED.

Worked for Gene Simmons!

 

[ChemStudent]

then dated a guy that was barely pushing 4 inches on a good day and was honestly the best sex i've ever had <because he knew what he was doing and damn did he know how to move. I asked him how he learned so much with so few past partners and u know what his responce was? "I read a lot more on the subject than i should" and it wasnt porno type reading lol it was actual reading - like the suggestions here on lit or other sites and books.

Thank you, everybody, for all your help. It just doesn't add up. The majority of the people who posted here have had nothing bad to say about small penises yet time and time again, small penises are criticized in websites, movies, and in general.

On that note, what are things I should read up on? Like, what is "knowing what I'm doing?" I mean, is there certain ways to touch her or kiss her...? Knowing that the "motion of the ocean" helps, but I'm not sure what the right current is. I mean I understand the idea, but with no experience, I just thought trial and error would have to suffice.

 

[infinity706]

Trial and error could be the hottest idea. Of course, there's no really good way to give you an answer unless we've personally fucked the person you're wanting to please. It varies a bit for each person.

 

[rbone04]

Well I'm surprised to see a "dick size concerns" thread get this much positive feedback. I tried to start one a while back, but it was quickly abandoned like most others and I don't feel like finding it. I may have had 1 response. Anyways...

I mentioned this in my abandoned thread, but an interesting spin my girlfriend put on the situation was that more than anything a big dick is just fun to brag to her girlfriends about. What's more fun for her to brag about though, is how hard I made her come when I went down on her for an hour and then fucked her exactly how she wanted it... I am self conscious too, but she also told me she thinks I've got the perfect sized dick for her. According to the numbers, my cock is on the low side of average, and considering her ex is somewhat legendary in the size department, it is great to hear. What's more is I'm the only guy she's ever had an orgasm through intercourse alone with (I believe her considering the way she hopped off my cock and started running around the room, jumping up and down, and giggling like a little school girl before I got a chance to get mine--selfish bitch j/k).

One thing she said to me completely amped up my confidence in the bedroom:

"Bragging rites never gave anyone an orgasm, but an orgasm will give you all the bragging rites you need."

 

[satindesire]

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[ChasingShadowsX]

Sex toys are also very awesome, buy dildos, vibrators. whatever the girl is into and use those on her as part of ur session. A vibrator with u inside her will definately make any girl cum. By the time most girls are 18 I think they own vibrators or at least are open to the idea, so it wouldnt be too weird to buy ur partner a vibrator and use it on her while ur going... Once they cum they arent going to complain or think ur odd for doing it. At least thats what I think. I bought my partner a vibrator and she loves it.

You do know that size is in the "average" category, right?

So I've heard but it doesn't feel very average. Aparently 5.5-6.5 is average range, so im on the bottom end of average. My ex always talked about how big other guys dicks were... like 'mr 'x' has such a big dick ive seen it!' definately makes me feel small.

 

[SweetErika]

Sex toys are also very awesome, buy dildos, vibrators. whatever the girl is into and use those on her as part of ur session. A vibrator with u inside her will definately make any girl cum.

Nothing "will definitely make any girl cum."

So I've heard but it doesn't feel very average. Aparently 5.5-6.5 is average range, so im on the bottom end of average. My ex always talked about how big other guys dicks were... like 'mr 'x' has such a big dick ive seen it!' definately makes me feel small.

Chalk it up to her being an immature bitch. Semi-considerate women with a lick of maturity simply don't say things like that because they know egos are often quite fragile. Women who do say things like that are completely self-centered and/or out to hurt.

 

[pokey1977]

All it takes is ONE woman to say she needs a big dick for us guys to think we all need big ones.

I am average length (about 6" MAX) with above average girth and I haven't had any complaints. It did help that my first gf was absolutely terrified of vaginal sex, so I learned a great deal about oral sex. I consider myself, with all modesty, to be very good in that area so everyone comes (pun intended) away happy.

 

[mickwannabe]

Yes, by OTHER MEN.

Women don't care.

And in my opinion women who are out to hurt like SweetErika said. Like women who have nothing bad to say about a dude, but want to say something shitty just go right to the low-blow of cock size.

An example comes to mind...when New York (of Flavor of Love VH1 reality show fame) got dumped by the guy that SHE picked to win her heart all she could come back with was that he had a tiny dick. Really? That's all you've got? IMO she got caught talking shit and he stood up for himself. All she could do to cover the hurt was talk shit about his cock. So like was said above by SweetErika, it's the immature bitches that stoop that low.

Oh and I am a total VH1 reality-love show whore. I even caught myself watching Real Chance of Love...*shudder*