Unapproachable...
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lovetoread
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Depends on whether you take me for a ride after we talk.
I love to ride.
Unlike Ruby though,I would try to hide my perving at your body.
I love to ride.
Unlike Ruby though,I would try to hide my perving at your body.
I'd say hello and smile...
But a superficial reaction would be that you have a lot of persona showing... and that would tend to make me less interested in engaging you more deeply.
I wonder if you'd be more approachable with about 50% of your non-verbal self-expression...?
An honest response, shared with the best of intentions.
And perhaps related... when I notice your nick, I always wonder what Idries Shah would say. A noble aspiration, but captured by the commanding self it loses its power.
Peace my friend,
S.
But a superficial reaction would be that you have a lot of persona showing... and that would tend to make me less interested in engaging you more deeply.
I wonder if you'd be more approachable with about 50% of your non-verbal self-expression...?
An honest response, shared with the best of intentions.
And perhaps related... when I notice your nick, I always wonder what Idries Shah would say. A noble aspiration, but captured by the commanding self it loses its power.
Peace my friend,
S.
ScarlettRose
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nope i'm shy, i might mouth the word hi as i walk by, more likely i'd check you out when you weren't looking.
bad kitty
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Absolutely!!!!! You are very good looking, as I have told you before. You look ..... huggable. I love big strong looking men. *licks lips* I think I am invisible too hon, but believe me you are certainly noticed, by me at least.sufisaint said:
sufisaint
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Re: I'd say hello and smile...
Thats what I think...although this outside persona is a part of me...I actually have a juris doctorate degree aand psychologgy and philosophy degree, write poetry, love animals, nature, love art, read alot....ect....
Pan718 said:
Thats what I think...although this outside persona is a part of me...I actually have a juris doctorate degree aand psychologgy and philosophy degree, write poetry, love animals, nature, love art, read alot....ect....
Aphrodisiac
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sufisaint said:
Yes !
I would ask if I could straddle your motorcycle and odds are ask you a hundred and one questions about your Harley .. till my friends drag me away.
I have been known to do such things, I am a curious woman.
Oh' and I would also comment on your tattoos and odds are tell you about my little tattoo.. I am geeky like that ...
I assume...
that our outside persona's are attempts to express ourselves to others. If it's actually getting in the way, perhaps it would be interesting to change it and see if people respond differently. Language can also separate people instead of connect them. Using metaphors or vocabulary that another person is unfamiliar with tends to put them off and make them give up.
If your goal is connection and communication, then your words and your exterior expression might be changed to be more in the service of that higher goal. I assume the special interests and talents will be valued more highly by a person who has begun to get to know you and appreciate you.
The external expressions are not really you, they're just advertisements that seek to tell others who you truly are.
Peace my friend,
S.
that our outside persona's are attempts to express ourselves to others. If it's actually getting in the way, perhaps it would be interesting to change it and see if people respond differently. Language can also separate people instead of connect them. Using metaphors or vocabulary that another person is unfamiliar with tends to put them off and make them give up.
If your goal is connection and communication, then your words and your exterior expression might be changed to be more in the service of that higher goal. I assume the special interests and talents will be valued more highly by a person who has begun to get to know you and appreciate you.
The external expressions are not really you, they're just advertisements that seek to tell others who you truly are.
Peace my friend,
S.
Avery_Chisholm
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HELLOOoooooooooooooooooooo HUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNY 
OK... the aliens have released control of my brain...
Back to my superficial self...
If I were running a marketing focus group ("The client's goal is to increase fornication and customer retention..."), I'd notice that few of the posters felt safe approaching. Yeah they all run home and play with themselves fantasizing about you... but it's you and Rosie* that night, brother!
Hmmm... wonder what the best mix is between strong, etc. etc., and "I could talk to this man about his motorcycle. He doesn't look TOO dangerous."
Rotsa ruck, bud!
*Translation: Rosie Palms, aka Rosie and her five sisters, aka mastErbation.
Back to my superficial self...
If I were running a marketing focus group ("The client's goal is to increase fornication and customer retention..."), I'd notice that few of the posters felt safe approaching. Yeah they all run home and play with themselves fantasizing about you... but it's you and Rosie* that night, brother!
Hmmm... wonder what the best mix is between strong, etc. etc., and "I could talk to this man about his motorcycle. He doesn't look TOO dangerous."
Rotsa ruck, bud!
*Translation: Rosie Palms, aka Rosie and her five sisters, aka mastErbation.
sufisaint
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Re: Re: Unapproachable...
But thats what I like...I am a different type of person...I could really suprise someone and of course I like to know about them as well...although I tend to get way to deep... am not really much of a flirter or small talk person..
Aphrodisiac said:
Yes !
I would ask if I could straddle your motorcycle and odds are ask you a hundred and one questions about your Harley .. till my friends drag me away.
I have been known to do such things, I am a curious woman.
Oh' and I would also comment on your tattoos and odds are tell you about my little tattoo.. I am geeky like that ...
But thats what I like...I am a different type of person...I could really suprise someone and of course I like to know about them as well...although I tend to get way to deep... am not really much of a flirter or small talk person..
Silverlily
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sufisaint said:
Not all mothers. My oldest daughter is fascinated with motorcycles and always wants to talk to the owner given the chance. As long as there are no "mommy-bells" going off, I let her.
