un cirumsized

[hehe_for_you]

So i dont know if this belongs here but i was wondering what your thoughts were on uncirumsized dicks? cause my first girlfreind didnt mind, but my second one didnt want to give me a bj.

 

[Quaint]

So i dont know if this belongs here but i was wondering what your thoughts were on uncirumsized dicks? cause my first girlfreind didnt mind, but my second one didnt want to give me a bj.

I'll give you my honest opinion but I don't think you'll like it very much.

I've been with men that were circumcised as well uncircumcised. I don't like uncircumcised because of the odor. You could clean that baby 10 times a day and I'm still going to pick up on the odor. I don't find it appealing but I've still gone down on men that were uncircumcised because I wanted to please them.

As far as attraction goes, I prefer the looks of one that's circumcised, but I'm certainly not going to push a man away after I've fallen in love with him because he's not cut. It's just something I'd have to get used to, and I did that in my 10 year marriage.

 

[Greenspace]

I'll give you my honest opinion but I don't think you'll like it very much.

I've been with men that were circumcised as well uncircumcised. I don't like uncircumcised because of the odor. You could clean that baby 10 times a day and I'm still going to pick up on the odor. I don't find it appealing but I've still gone down on men that were uncircumcised because I wanted to please them.

As far as attraction goes, I prefer the looks of one that's circumcised, but I'm certainly not going to push a man away after I've fallen in love with him because he's not cut. It's just something I'd have to get used to, and I did that in my 10 year marriage.

Interesting. I've been thinking about getting cut for a few months now.

 

[blueyz22]

I've had both. My ex-boyfriend was not cut and I don't remember an odor. I think the most important thing isn't just washing it but drying it properly. Any moisture left behind after washing, will create a smell. You could use a blow dryer on a low setting. Maybe then add some baby powder with cornstarch.

 

[Quaint]

I've had both. My ex-boyfriend was not cut and I don't remember an odor. I think the most important thing isn't just washing it but drying it properly. Any moisture left behind after washing, will create a smell. You could use a blow dryer on a low setting. Maybe then add some baby powder with cornstarch.

So very true. Even being a woman, if we don't dry ourselves thoroughly, we can get stinky. I use a blow dryer under my breasts as well as my crotch after I bathe or shower. I know a few others that do as well.

 

[seattlelevel27]

uncut here.

after showering, I'll pull back the skin and drizzle some mineral oil over the head, then push the skin back down. This prevents that nasty ol' smegma from building up during the day. But I always wash up before any sexual fun......never had any complaints.

 

[aimouse]

IMO nature gave you a foreskin for a reason.
I'm un-cut & have never had any comments about smell.
Everyone has a degree of odour to their genitals (m or f) and it's just down to perception when deciding whether that's good or bad. Each gender will notice the other more.

There are down sides to being cut, like irreprable loss of sensitivity, so don't rush into it.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

In the UK most men are uncut. It's just never become common practice over here.

I have personally sampled both cut and uncut cocks. I have to say that I prefer them uncut myself. The slight odour and slight moisture are nothing to be ashamed about, any more than a woman's natural odour, taste and moisture are. If anything, it turns me on and gives a dick character. If I want to sample a man's taste in toiletries I'll have a snoop around his bathroom.

Aerodynamically, I prefer uncut men because the foreskin minimizes friction (as it was designed to) so that I'm much less sore after vigorous sex.

Plus, getting cut as an adult is a painful procedure. It carries the risk of infection (being a wound where you sweat most) and is totally unnecessary from a clinical perspective.

Why do that to yourself?

 

[Fistaurelius]

I'm uncircumcised and I know some woman don't like it, but I've always wondered if any prefer it? Maybe this is just not the case...

 

[dave's thing]

Interesting. I've been thinking about getting cut for a few months now.

OOOOOOO MAN I'd think long and hard about that!! I know a guy had it done he said it was like having a razor shoved down his hole!! Can't be all that bad can it??

 

[SweetErika]

I'm uncircumcised and I know some woman don't like it, but I've always wondered if any prefer it? Maybe this is just not the case...

I've only been with one uncircumcised guy, but if I had a choice, I'd prefer the others to be uncircumcised as well. The foreskin is very important in terms of the man's pleasure AND reducing friction for both partners, like Velvet said.

My partners (male, female; circumcised or not) need to have good hygiene, so that shouldn't be a factor.

Don't go mutilating yourselves, boys. As long as you care for your cocks properly, you will find plenty of women who are wild about them, just the way they are. If you need a reality check, read up on all of the guys who have been circumcised and are now going through the long, difficult process of "restoring" their foreskin.

 

[SoleDesire]

Don't go mutilating yourselves, boys. As long as you care for your cocks properly, you will find plenty of women who are wild about them, just the way they are. If you need a reality check, read up on all of the guys who have been circumcised and are now going through the long, difficult process of "restoring" their foreskin.

Erika, I have agreed with every single one of your posts, except this one. The fact of the matter is circumcision is a religious ritual with significance to billions of people. Labeling those people as "mutilated" is extremely normative. Moreover, as evidenced by the fact that there are billions of them, it's apparent that male circumcision does not generally impede sexual response or function.

There are circumstances in which adult men require circumcision and/or choose circumcision for medical reasons. It does reduce the risk of penile cancer, transmission of HPV and possibly HIV.

If you don't find it attractive, fine. If you don't belong to a religion that engages in circumcision, fine. If you wouldn't have your son or lover circumcised, fine. I'm really surprised, given your usual voice of reason, that you'd make a blanket statement about those who have different tastes, beliefs, or parenting choices.

That having been said, HFY, there are women who will give you all kinds of reasons for not giving you blowjobs. In general, if something like odor is a problem (and I've heard this happens for all kinds of reasons to both men and women, it's not just a circumcision issue), your partner should be willing to work with you on it to find a solution. If she's not, there may be something else going on...

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

One of the first questions i asked my current boyfriend before we even started dating - was if he was circumsized or not lol I just dont find it attractive at all. So i guess you could say i'm one of the few woman that wont date a guy who is uncut. Just my personal preference tho. So dont get discouraged.

 

[DracheDD]

I'm cut and perfectly happy about it, but it was done when I was a baby so it's not as though I had much choice in the matter.
I will say, there is no way in hell I'd get cut now though. Sharp objects near Mr. Happy?! You must be joking. No way!
It was hard enough to accept the hernia operation. That's a little too close to the goods for comfort.

I've heard/read all the stuff about decreased sensation, etc. To be honest, I don't know how much of that is true. Mine is plenty sensitive as it is. The friction thing? No clue. I'm not a woman, but I've never heard any complaints either.

If you're thinking about it just to get a BJ though, re-think it again. Seems a pretty flimsy reason to go through something like that. Tell her she has to get a clitorectomy before you go down her again. Watch how fast her attitude changes.

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

. Tell her she has to get a clitorectomy before you go down her again. .

ok what the hell is a clitorectomy? lol something like that actually exists?

 

[DracheDD]

ok what the hell is a clitorectomy? lol something like that actually exists?

Female genital mutilation.
Generally practiced in the more "barbaric" societies as a way of making sure women remain loyal to their husbands. Kind of prevents them from enjoying sex.

Why we'd want to do that is beyond me. Just means she's not going to want sex with me either isn't it?

I don't think they thought that one all the way through.

 

[Untamed_Tygress]

My bf is the only uncut guy i've ever been with. The only difference i've picked up on is i need to be rougher with him when giving a handjob or having oral sex.

 

[yourheroINfla]

hygiene is key.

 

[Sophz_Kandi]

hygiene is key.

I prefer Un-Cut.

More meat for the packin.
Never a bad thing

 

[SweetErika]

I've heard/read all the stuff about decreased sensation, etc. To be honest, I don't know how much of that is true. Mine is plenty sensitive as it is. The friction thing? No clue. I'm not a woman, but I've never heard any complaints either.

If you're thinking about it just to get a BJ though, re-think it again. Seems a pretty flimsy reason to go through something like that. Tell her she has to get a clitorectomy before you go down her again. Watch how fast her attitude changes.

It's very true circumcision greatly reduces pleasure. When the foreskin is cut off, the head of the cock becomes keratinized and desensitized due to constant rubbing against clothing and such, instead of remaining protected and moist. If a sensitive part of your body receives constant stimulation, it becomes less sensitive over time. In addition, the foreskin contains a lot of nerve endings, so it's only natural that taking it away results in less sensation.

Men who have been circumcised as adults report decreased sensitivity and needing more stimulation to get them off. Most women who have been with both circumcised and uncircumcised men report less friction and soreness with less lube or vigorous sex with the former. Why? because the cock glides in the foreskin, rather than rubbing directly against the vaginal walls and it generally takes less vigorous stimulation to get off, so there's usually not a NEED for so much friction.

The clitoral hood is VERY important to most women. It's sensitive, it provides stimulation and it protects the clitoris, very much like the foreskin. Most men don't seem to question its importance or necessity, even though they don't have a clit themselves, so I find it amazing that many are quick to dismiss the importance of foreskin.

Why is it generally acceptable in our society to cut off the foreskin, but not the clitoral hood or labia? Being against female genital mutilation, but blase about, or advocating, the same thing for men just doesn't make sense to me.

Anyway, this isn't necessarily directed at you, DD, and I don't mean to start yet another debate on this topic, but it's something I wonder about and definitely think warrants consideration. My husband is circumcised and I LOVE his cock, but after doing a good amount of research on circumcision, hearing stories of adult circumcision and foreskin restoration, and experiencing sex with an intact guy, I can't imagine wanting to mutilate a future son any more than I can imagine advocating for a future daughter's clit or labia to be cut. If our kid wants to have his or her genitals altered after researching for themselves, fine, but we have no right to make that choice for them.

 

[yourheroINfla]

I prefer Un-Cut.

More meat for the packin.
Never a bad thing

but its all fat and skin..

 

[Sophz_Kandi]

but its all fat and skin..

So? It's attached to the person I'm having sex with and presumably care about.

I couldn't care less what it was made from
Specially not when it's in my mouth covered in honey

 

[satindesire]

I prefer cut, for all the reasons stated above.

After saying this, my current beau is uncut. Doesn't affect our sex life much other than the fact that I've noticed that more sensitive doesn't necessarily mean it's a good thing.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

I prefer Un-Cut.

More meat for the packin.
Never a bad thing

I like you

 

[aimouse]

The fact of the matter is circumcision is a religious ritual with significance to billions of people. Labeling those people as "mutilated" is extremely normative.

For the record, my Jewish father-in-law regards circumcision as "barbaric mutilation". And he's not alone.
It is an opinion, and as such, valid ... in my opinion.

(There may be a paradox in there somewhere!)