um...is this normal?

[canadiancutie]

ok, so this guy adds me to msn and is telling me he's a dom and stuff so i was thinking "thats super, good for him." but then he started talking about how he wants me to move in with him, and he wants to find 6 other girls, to breed them and give up all the boys for adoption and raise the little girls as slaves, which kinda sorta scares the living fuck out of me. so i was just wodering, is that at all considered normal in dom/sub relationships? because i didnt think it was but he keeps saying it is and thats its the basis of it and blah blah blah. i'm still disturbed so i'm hoping someone will answer quickly.

 

[canadiancutie]

and aparently my opinion doesn't matter because this is a direct quote "i will behave as i wish with my family of fuck sluts... period... if you accept, you are one of them... if you don't... you can and will leave" so i'm someone will agree with me that it's creepy and maybe he'll listen if i'm not the only one saying it?

 

[Peregrinator]

Sounds like the fantasy of a 12 yo boy who gets snubbed by all the girls.

Or something absolutely terrifying.

 

[SweetDommes]

Definately creepy, definately a creep (even if it is only a 12 year old who's been repeatedly snubbed). It seems to be more normal with people new to the lifestyle who think it means that they can do whatever they wish, even if it pushes beyond the normal "bondage and s&m is illegal" boundaries of being illegal in BDSM ... ug.

I'd say block this guy and have nothing to do with him. He is bad news, in one way or another.

 

[Bandit58]

No it's not normal......dump his sorry ass on ignore!

Sounds like someone's sick little fantasy.........

 

[canadiancutie]

i'm scared to block him, because he's kinda of scarily serious, and according to him he's done it before and the girl did something that pissed him off so he made her leave, and luckily she took her kid. ack i'm so disturbed :s

 

[SweetDommes]

i'm scared to block him, because he's kinda of scarily serious, and according to him he's done it before and the girl did something that pissed him off so he made her leave, and luckily she took her kid. ack i'm so disturbed :s

You can't protect others - it's up to them to have the common sense to stay the hell away from him. All you can do is protect yourself, and I would suggest that you do so ... NOW!!

 

[canadiancutie]

i guess...i just feel bad that some (more) kids might end up getting involved and thats not good

 

[SweetDommes]

Honestly, I've never talked to the guy and I feel bad ... but I can't do anything about them, I can give you advice and hope that you will take it. Drop him, get away, run ...

 

[canadiancutie]

thanks for the advice...i blocked him, but i'm still freaked out, i don't think i'll be sleeping tonight

 

[RJMasters]

Smiles while loading gun

Stand back...let me handle this.

Just point out where you saw the evil creature miss. and it all will be over soon enogh.

canadiancutie, I think if you spend some time on these boards, and get to know a few of the people here, you are gonna find them to be some of the most caring, considerate, and loving people your likely to meet. While it is true that we all have our kinks, that in no way excuses irresponsible acts or insane ideas. Our relationships are built on deep trust and honesty. As a community we are like protective family is a sense. If you spend any time here readings some posts, it doesn't take long to see how intelegent and gifted many are. You will quickly learn that many are self sacrificing people who give of them selves with strong loving commitments and a desire to serve others.

To answer your question, what in the above paragraph is remotely in common with this delusional guy?

Nothing....absolutely nothing.

Do yourself a favor, delete his sorry ass from your msn, and as you do....impersonate Jim Carey and say...

LOOooooooooooOOOOOOoooooserrrrrrrrrr!

 

[SweetDommes]

Another suggestion, where ever you picked him up/he picked you up ... let others know that there is a predator there - make sure that someone knows who it is (i.e. on b.com, I know that I've reported people like that to the moderators and they have been banned ... there is a limit to what is allowable).

 

[Dstorage]

I'll second the put-him-on-ignore-right-now approach.

As you know, this guy is either a weenie or majorly disturbed, neither of which are worth bringing you down to his level. He only has power over you if you give it to him willingly, so just put him on ignore and make a pact with yourself not to have any contact with him ever again.

And move forward with your life.

 

[canadiancutie]

Re: Smiles while loading gun

canadiancutie, I think if you spend some time on these boards, and get to know a few of the people here, you are gonna find them to be some of the most caring, considerate, and loving people your likely to meet.

oh i know, i have a lot of friends into bdsm and stuff, and i love them all dearly i'm in the proccess of figuring out if i'm into it or not lol. but i have nothing against people that are into it, as long as they don't want to involve kids. i didn't think it was supposed to involve kids which was why i asked, i thought i had missed something lol

 

[Red Menace]

Once kids are involved, it moves from consensual or even negotiated consensual non-conscent to pedophillia. And that is illegal, imoral and just plain sick.

That is not what we are about, and that is not okay.

Talk to the admins, or whatever, at MSN and see what is legally possible to do to stop this guy, or at least what they can do to block his account and ban his ISP.

(BTW, we kinky folks love you 'nillas too. )

 

[incubus'_sub]

I'm not sure I'm buying this post, sounds suss to me.

Anyone with brain enough to use the computer knows that there are heaps of perverts & fools out there trolling. It's easy enough to ignore them, what are they going to do, jump through the computer at you?

Anyone with a brain knows that the described scerario is not normal, even for B&D kinksters, so why ask us on a public forum instead of asking the many B&D friends?

Why continue to reply to this idiot if you are so very disturbed by his fantasy?

Anyway, you have your answers from the others.

 

[canadiancutie]

i asked my friends and they said to their knowledge it wasn't normal, and if it was, it was something they didnt have any part of, and i did stop replying to him, and did block him. no need to be snippy about it

 

[FungiUg]

Once kids are involved, it moves from consensual or even negotiated consensual non-conscent to pedophillia. And that is illegal, imoral and just plain sick.

That is not what we are about, and that is not okay.

Add in incest, and I'm pretty much "wot she said!"

It's not normal to remove consensuality from children -- that's abuse. And sick. Either the guy is pulling your chain, and trying to shock you (quite possible), or he's a sicko.

Either way, neither is a good reason to get into any kind of relationship.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm not sure I'm buying this post, sounds suss to me.

Anyone with brain enough to use the computer knows that there are heaps of perverts & fools out there trolling. It's easy enough to ignore them, what are they going to do, jump through the computer at you?

Anyone with a brain knows that the described scerario is not normal, even for B&D kinksters, so why ask us on a public forum instead of asking the many B&D friends?

Why continue to reply to this idiot if you are so very disturbed by his fantasy?

Anyway, you have your answers from the others.

Yes, what she said.
What a goofy thing to ask... is breeding baby girls as slaves the norm in a D/s relationship?

Oh brother...
Sorry, I'm not being suckered into this bullshit. (Yea, I know, I don't sound real subbie, do I?)

 

[FreeGal]

Yes, what she said.
What a goofy thing to ask... is breeding baby girls as slaves the norm in a D/s relationship?

Oh brother...
Sorry, I'm not being suckered into this bullshit. (Yea, I know, I don't sound real subbie, do I?)

Exactly!

Sorry, CanadianCutie, but get hold of some savvy. That guy is quite obviously a sick fuck who is trying to pull your chain (and succeeding by the looks of it). Much more worrying is that he could be for real.

If I were you I'd not only delete him from your MSN (which you have now done), I'd report his sorry ass to anywhere and everywhere I could.

Normal? Jeez!

 

[RJMasters]

Yes, what she said.
What a goofy thing to ask... is breeding baby girls as slaves the norm in a D/s relationship?

Oh brother...
Sorry, I'm not being suckered into this bullshit. (Yea, I know, I don't sound real subbie, do I?)

FORE!

 

[A Desert Rose]

FORE!

LMAO... Yes fore, and duck. ;-) My aim ain't so good.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

ok, so this guy adds me to msn and is telling me he's a dom and stuff so i was thinking "thats super, good for him." but then he started talking about how he wants me to move in with him, and he wants to find 6 other girls, to breed them and give up all the boys for adoption and raise the little girls as slaves, which kinda sorta scares the living fuck out of me. so i was just wodering, is that at all considered normal in dom/sub relationships? because i didnt think it was but he keeps saying it is and thats its the basis of it and blah blah blah. i'm still disturbed so i'm hoping someone will answer quickly.

stay away from this weirdo. as far away as you can.

 

[NCShin]

wasn't there a post a long while back to some website of something similar? Some guy who wanted to have xx kids from xx women...

I dunno, sounds familiar is all.

oh, and what they all said ^^^^^

 

[kitty4ever]

I'm glad to hear that you blocked him on MSN. I had a guy somewhat approach like that, but he started immediately trying to order me around and saying he was my Master. Now, any of the people who know me here can probably figure out the words he got from me in answer, and he's still blocked.