UGH!!! Needing guidance

[nvrtruluv84]

Hello I would like for a lil bit of guidance....I'm new to the lifestyle and just recently changed locations and want to find other submissives and Doms in my area.....where do I look?? I currently work at an adult bookstore, so I am always on the lookout for fellow lifestyle-ers there....I'm close to Vegas...like an hour or so but don't have the time to travel up there exactly.....message me if anyone can help me ;-)

 

[buffplt]

Hello I would like for a lil bit of guidance....I'm new to the lifestyle and just recently changed locations and want to find other submissives and Doms in my area.....where do I look?? I currently work at an adult bookstore, so I am always on the lookout for fellow lifestyle-ers there....I'm close to Vegas...like an hour or so but don't have the time to travel up there exactly.....message me if anyone can help me ;-)

Welcome!

Turn your PM on so people can contact....you'll get more help that way.

 

[nvrtruluv84]

how do I do that....

 

[WhenInDoubtFuck]

how-to

Upper left of the page, click on "User CP". From the page look on the left side for "Edit Options" then in the middle of that page, scroll down just a bit and you should see a box for "Enable Private Messaging". Just check that and you should be good to go.

You might check out the Fetlife website, or even Alt for local groups/meets/etc. The smaller the city, the harder it is to find info, but Vegas would provide you plenty of opportunities when you can spare the time to go there. Good luck.

 

[strong_daddy]

fetlife.com is always a good place to start