Enchantment_of_Nyx
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One of the recurring themes here is that Laurel/Lit has a right to do what she wants. I think that's sort of talking past the real issue most of the time. There are certainly people who come along with their entitlement splashing over everywhere they post who seem to think they have a god-given right to make demands. Those aren't the comments I mean. I mean the comments in which people are talking about fairness.
"Because I can" is not an answer to "It's not fair," just like "could" and "should" aren't the same things. They are two lines of argument that don't actually intersect. I'm not suggesting that this thread is all about "because she can." To the contrary, this thread is focused more on the balance of interests and different perspectives. That's why I chose to post this comment here. The reaction would be pure defensiveness if I posted it in a thread where "because I can" is already dominating the conversation.
I think it would be a really positive thing if other discussions were more like this one. The "because I can" veneer stymies conversation of the true topic, whether it's this topic or another. Rarely is whether or not someone "can" or has a right to do something the actual topic.
"Because I can" is not an answer to "It's not fair," just like "could" and "should" aren't the same things. They are two lines of argument that don't actually intersect. I'm not suggesting that this thread is all about "because she can." To the contrary, this thread is focused more on the balance of interests and different perspectives. That's why I chose to post this comment here. The reaction would be pure defensiveness if I posted it in a thread where "because I can" is already dominating the conversation.
I think it would be a really positive thing if other discussions were more like this one. The "because I can" veneer stymies conversation of the true topic, whether it's this topic or another. Rarely is whether or not someone "can" or has a right to do something the actual topic.