Uck, I'm an idiot >>venting<<

[Nackereia]

Seriously. I have this one friend, Dea, who can be really immature, but for the most part, I adore her because she's so bossy and bitchy and can be so nasty (not sexually, but like...mean).

here is an example of the immature stuff that she can do, and before, I didn't really mind enough to be bothered that she does that ,but she just did it to my friend.

Ugh. I hate how the majority (2 out of the 3) of dominant women I meet are dominant in a not so positive way :/

 

[Phoenix Stone]

The link doesn't let us in. You'll have to cut and paste if you want us voyeurs to gain more vicarious enjoyment from your vent.

Otherwise, you risk venting in vain!

 

[Nackereia]

Originally posted by NecroVex
Other Person: 17 m tx
My Friend: cool
My Friend: 19/F/CA
Other Person: whats up
My Friend: just bored ya know
My Friend: you?
Other Person: yeah same
My Friend: so what you into?
Other Person: nething
My Friend: really?
My Friend: Anything at all?
Other Person: pretty much
My Friend: Im into canmablism
My Friend: you?
Other Person: haha
Other Person: not into that
My Friend: also got a harsh case of dendrophelia
Other Person: oh yeha
My Friend: yeah
My Friend: Trees get me so horney
Other Person: whys that
My Friend: theyre so big and hard
Other Person: what do u look liek
My Friend: Im 5'6 dirty blonde hair, brown eyes 130 pounds, C cup
My Friend: you?
Other Person: u make me horney
My Friend: awesome
Other Person: im 5'10 with dirty blonde hair and green eys good bod
My Friend: Thats awesome
My Friend: How big is your cock?
Other Person: bout 6-7 in
My Friend: Thats so big its like a tree
My Friend: well a baby tree
My Friend: more like a sapling really
My Friend: but whatever
My Friend: So whatcha wanna do?
Other Person: what u wanna do
Other Person: u pick
My Friend: I wanna cyber
My Friend: You cool with that?
Other Person: yeah
Other Person: im cool with that
Other Person: u start
My Friend: ok so were in my room and im on my bed waiting for you
My Friend: All im wearing is a thong
Other Person: i walk in jus wearin my boxers
Other Person: and get in the bed with u
My Friend: I throw my tree I have sex with out of my bed and hop on top of you
Other Person: i start suckin on ur nipples and kissin ur neck
My Friend: mmmm yeah I start to bite on your bottom lip tell i tear it clean off your face, and then I start to eat it, before I throw you on the ground and tie you up like the little tree bitch you are. I then start whipping you with a sappling "Call me daddy! Call me daddy!!!"
Other Person: wtf
My Friend: oh sorry
My Friend: I forgot you arent into that
My Friend: pretend i didnt do that ;-)
Other Person: ok
My Friend: ok so youre kissing me
My Friend: I start to kiss you back and rub your ass
Other Person: i slide my hand down to ur thong and silde it off of u
My Friend: I slide my hand down your boxers sticking a finger in your ass, before sticking my entire fist in there and starting to fist rape your virgin (I hope) ass hole. You dirty litttle cunt! Take it! Take it! you fucking dirty little bitch. I then flip you over and start smacking your cock around like a little twig.
Other Person: suck it plx
My Friend: ok
My Friend: I bend down and lick your cock before taking a huge bite out of it, and then chewing it up. I then move up tearing your face off with my huge finger nails, ripping your face clean off as I start to lick the blood from yours skull. "You dirty little bitch!. you skanky little cunt!"
Other Person: wtf
My Friend: Oh youre not into bondage?
Other Person: not like that
My Friend: sorry
My Friend: ok ill stop
Other Person: ok
My Friend: I then start kissing your stomach
My Friend: and moving up I start sucking on your nipple
Other Person: mmm
My Friend: I pick up my giant tree from the floor that I have sex with, jamming it up your ass implaing you on it. I start to lick the blood from the tree before I start fucking youre dead body.
My Friend: oh yeah baby
My Friend: you want it
Other Person: oh yeah
My Friend: I take out my cock slapping you on the face with it
My Friend: I mean I take out your cock slapping me on the face with it
My Friend: you like that baby?
Other Person: i like that
My Friend: you better you dirty bitch
My Friend: I start to jerk myself off thinking about your impaled body
My Friend: I grab a chunk of your flesh and eat it
My Friend: before I rip your body off the tree and set it on fire
My Friend: I dance around the fire naked
My Friend: Using a level 5 corpse explosion my room is coated in your bloody mess
My Friend: You liked that you dirty bitch
My Friend: I then blow my load on a piece of your ripped off face
My Friend: That was good
My Friend: You mind if i add you?
Other Person: sure go head
My Friend: cool thanks
Other Person: g2g though so ill ttyl
My Friend: ok ttyl

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Lmao. Oh, sh-t, I hadn't seen that one before. Saw a related one the goes the other way but this was new to me. Thanks!

 

[Nackereia]

Yeah you're welcome. Though it's really not that funny when she tries doing that to your friends (hence the vent part of me being an idiot). Yeah I'm in a 'woe is me, all the world is blackened' moment. Tomorrow though, I'll be happy again so yey!

It's funny, but after a while of her doing it repeatedly in a small amount of time, it's just annoying and you eventually realize how immature it is, and yeah.

 

[Netzach]

You are meeting this Dominant women in chats like these?

I'm just curious.

 

[Nackereia]

You are meeting this Dominant women in chats like these?

I'm just curious.

No, I met her through a mutual friend. I know of those chats because she posts them on her own message board. She tends to get bored if she's chatting like that to someone, and they play along with her and won't let her gross them out.

And it just...it makes me feel bad that she did that to my friend and I can't stand up to her without fear of it ruining our friendship (because for some odd reason, I do want friendship with her).

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Jeez, if someone did that to me I'd crack up, even thinking about it I'm laughing. Guess I'm just a sicko, though. How did your friend react? And couldn't he or she stick up for him or herself? And weren't you able to warn him/her?

And if this friend's sense of humor bothers you, what makes you want to stay friends. Sorry, I just don't get this whole thing. (Had my husband read the chat and it made him laugh, too. Guess we're just a couple of insensitive, immature middle-agers.)

Not sure what we can help you with -- suggest you find new friends who play nicely with others?

 

[Nackereia]

Jeez, if someone did that to me I'd crack up, even thinking about it I'm laughing. Guess I'm just a sicko, though. How did your friend react? And couldn't he or she stick up for him or herself? And weren't you able to warn him/her?

And if this friend's sense of humor bothers you, what makes you want to stay friends. Sorry, I just don't get this whole thing. (Had my husband read the chat and it made him laugh, too. Guess we're just a couple of insensitive, immature middle-agers.)

Not sure what we can help you with -- suggest you find new friends who play nicely with others?

Naw, I just wanted a listening ear and sympathy [[blushes]]

My friend, he can take it though he was annoyed that I had given her his AIM (though I didn't give it to her on purpose, I was just showing part of the conversation to her because it was funny). He can stick up for himself, yes, but he was mad and it made me feel bad that he was mad about it and yeah. And I did tell him that it was her, and that if he played along with her she'd get bored and leave him alone though. But it still made me feel pretty bad.

Edit : I don't know why I'm still friends with her though :/ And I don't know if I will be, but if I am, I surely won't trust her so much the next time around, and I don't think there will be a next time for me giving her anyone's screen name.

 

[the Royal wench]

Sorry this newbie's confusion but if he didn't like it why didn't he just leave? And why did he let her add him?

I didn't think she was even very good at what she did.

 

[Nackereia]

Sorry this newbie's confusion but if he didn't like it why didn't he just leave? And why did he let her add him?

I didn't think she was even very good at what she did.

He wasn't so mad that she did it, as he was mad that it was my fault that she got the screen name. And it's AIM..you don't really have a huge choice on who IMs you or who adds you. You have a choice to decline an IM, and you have a choice to block everyone that's not on your buddy list from IMing you, though he doesn't do that as he's a moderator at a message board and someone might be trying to reach him if they need help.

 

[DVS]

Yeah you're welcome. Though it's really not that funny when she tries doing that to your friends (hence the vent part of me being an idiot). Yeah I'm in a 'woe is me, all the world is blackened' moment. Tomorrow though, I'll be happy again so yey!

It's funny, but after a while of her doing it repeatedly in a small amount of time, it's just annoying and you eventually realize how immature it is, and yeah.

Well, you know, it is kind of funny. But, I can also see how it can get pretty old, fast. I agree that he should have just left the chat, but sometimes it is less boring to see how far someone like that will go. I do wonder why he let her add him, though. Once or so of that would be enough for me.

Now, if she were my "friend", I know how I would handle her. But, you probably aren't the same type of person I am. I don't classify her as a domming bitch so much as I would call her someone who gets off on extreme insults. She needs to get a life, and you need to rethink yours.

I think it's safe to say she will eventually piss you off enough that you won't want to be around her. That's how people like that usually affect me. I can take them for only so long.

Think of how you feel about her while she is being this way, and decide if you want to feel that way again. Trust me, life isn't as long as you think it is, and dealing with this kind of person takes too much time out of your already too short life.

Actually, she seems to be so desperate for a friend, that she goes too far. And, maybe she just wants someone to take charge and put her in her place. Sometimes, bitchy people just want to be controlled.

Maybe you should introduce her to a guy with a strong personality. Just my take on this. Take it for what it's worth.

 

[Netzach]

I'd strong personality myself all over her ass....

"Dude do you think that's funny? It's really kind of annoying. It's also not that mature. If you can't be adult around my friends I'm not going to pass along anyone's IM info."