U.S. Abused as a Child, Lashing Out Now

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I just knew we could blame Britain somehow.....:D

Report: U.S. May Have Been Abused During Formative Years

A new study suggests that abandonment issues going back more than two centuries may be fueling the country's aggressive tendencies

June 21, 2006 | Issue 42•25

WASHINGTON, DC—A team of leading historians and psychiatrists issued a report Wednesday claiming that the United States was likely the victim of abuse by its founding fathers and motherland when it was a young colony.

"In its adulthood, the U.S. displays all the classic tendencies of a nation that was repeatedly mistreated in its infancy—difficulty forming lasting foreign relationships, viewing everyone as a potential enemy, and employing a pattern of assault and intimidation to assert its power," said Dr. Howard Drexel, the report's lead author. "Because of trust issues stemming from the abuse, America has become withdrawn, has not made an ally in years, and often resents the few nations that are willing to lend support—most countries outgrow this kind of behavior after 230 years."

According to Drexel, nations that act out in selfish, self-destructive ways in statehood were usually granted too much independence at an early age, especially if the motherland had other newly annexed lands to care for.

According to Yale University psychology professor John Bauffman, while some rebellious behavior in a nation's adolescence is common, and sometimes healthy, America's historically stormy relationship with mother country Great Britain points to a deep need for acceptance.

"The U.S. is characteristic of an abused nation in that, even decades after noisily pushing away from Britain, it still maintained close contact with the motherland, took care of it, even giving it financial aid—all the while fearing disapproval even though the parent country is now old, decrepit, and powerless," said Bauffman, a prominent contributor to the fourth edition of the Democratic Symptoms Of Maltreatment handbook, or DSM-IV. "On the other hand, Canada, which was raised in the very same continent by the same mother country, only exercised small-scale resistance, remaining loyal well into its maturity. Though some see Canada as cold and remote, it has, unlike the U.S., managed to lead a peaceful, reasonably healthy existence."

Bauffman pointed to another telltale sign of abuse in the U.S.'s tendency to bully, torture, and persecute less powerful, vulnerable creatures, such as buffalo, passenger pigeons, forests, and Native Americans.

Although the American nation appeared to be on the road to recovery by the early 1990s, watershed events such as the open discussion of sexual issues, a protracted custody battle in the closing months of 2000, and a series of threats and physical attacks from enemy nations triggered centuries of repressed memories and set off a recurring pattern of violent outbursts and emotional volatility.

"America compensated for early mistreatment by taking out this pent-up aggression on other nations—getting involved in aggressive conflicts seemingly just for the thrill of it, starting arguments and wars that can't be won, suspecting that everyone is out to get them," Drexel said. "This nation needs help, but by its very nature, refuses to accept it."

Drexel defended the study's findings amid claims that America's current condition can be attributed to a much wider variety of factors.

"Granted, part of America's problems may stem from the fact that it was burdened with a false sense of responsibility at a young age because of the unrealistic expectations of the country's forefathers, and there is certainly something to be said about America having been part of a broken homeland for a four-year period in the mid-19th century," Drexel said. "Even though the U.S. is over 200 years old, emotionally it's younger than Lithuania."

Added Drexel: "But we must remember that the country also idealized the forefathers in a classic victim–abuser relationship."

The report recommended that the United Nations Security Council once again renew its efforts to organize an international intervention to help the U.S. get the counseling it needs. Prior attempts have failed to move beyond the planning stage, however, with many countries saying they are afraid that the U.S. may lash out.
 
minsue said:
I just knew we could blame Britain somehow.....:D

Report: U.S. May Have Been Abused During Formative Years

A new study suggests that abandonment issues going back more than two centuries may be fueling the country's aggressive tendencies

June 21, 2006 | Issue 42•25

I wonder if they've applied these theories to the Palastinian/Israeli conflict...and I always KNEW Britain loved Canada more than us! :p
 
malachiteink said:
I wonder if they've applied these theories to the Palastinian/Israeli conflict...
I think in that case it may be the opposite of abandonment that's an issue. ;)
 
minsue said:
I think in that case it may be the opposite of abandonment that's an issue. ;)

I think it is severe sibling rivalry, with one child forced to leave the home and suffering abuse, and then trying to "go home again" only to find the younger child -- also abused and very territorial -- doesn't want to share anymore.
 
malachiteink said:
...and I always KNEW Britain loved Canada more than us! :p
Homer Simpson summed that one up best, I think -

We Americans are England's children. I know we don't call as often as we should and we aren't as well-behaved as our goody two-shoes brother, Canada -- who, by the way, has never had a girlfriend -- I'm just sayin'!

:D
 
Oh, God, they're shrinking nations now? What next? I've always thought of my country as simply the older, more rebellious sister. You know, the one who moves out early and has a love/hate relationship with the mother, until a reconciliation in the 30s. Mind you, I am an admirer of the Framers, so that might be why. I frankly think that Mother Britain was far more the abuser and the Framers were the helpful mentors who helped create some safe distance. Nothing against you Brits. It's not your fault what your ancestors did. :D ;)
 
rgraham666 said:
But nobody's scared of us. ;)

America is also the tough kid who had to grow up mean to survive. You know, like the boy named "Sue". My apologies to Johnny Cash for stealing his idea. :D
 
SEVERUSMAX said:
America is also the tough kid who had to grow up mean to survive. You know, like the boy named "Sue". My apologies to Johnny Cash for stealing his idea. :D
Shel Silverstein's idea, actually. ;)
 
When compared to many of it's elders, this adolescent's behavior is actually pretty good. Sentences like the following do not give a metric for its implicit comparisons:

"America compensated for early mistreatment by taking out this pent-up aggression on other nations—getting involved in aggressive conflicts seemingly just for the thrill of it, starting arguments and wars that can't be won, suspecting that everyone is out to get them."

How does the U.S. look in this regard compared to others, say France, Britain and Germany? In many respects, pretty darned good. Sure, it gets into a few schoolyard scuffles, but it has also been willing to take a pounding defending little guys from bullies. And unlike those older entities, it has no history of running overt protection rackets (colonization).

It was quite abusive to some of its own family members for the first four score and seven years of it's life, and even after a severe spanking then persisted in a lesser form of abuse for another 10 decades, but in the four decades since has made admirable progress in this regard by any objective measure.

In sum, I would give it a "Satisfactory, but learning in progress" assessment.
 
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PS - the above article is from The Onion. For any unfamiliar with this wonderful publication, 'tis pure satire.

:kiss:
 
minsue said:
Shel Silverstein's idea, actually. ;)

Ah, yes. And Roxanne has good points, too. A lot of so-called "agression" is just us sticking up for the little guy. Even as wrong as the War in Iraq is, it was partly done to liberate the Kurds, Marsh Arabs, and others who ran afoul of Saddam. The war was wrong, but the intentions of many were honest.
 
minsue said:
Homer Simpson summed that one up best, I think -

We Americans are England's children. I know we don't call as often as we should and we aren't as well-behaved as our goody two-shoes brother, Canada -- who, by the way, has never had a girlfriend -- I'm just sayin'!

:D
LOL :D
 
minsue said:
Homer Simpson summed that one up best, I think -

We Americans are England's children. I know we don't call as often as we should and we aren't as well-behaved as our goody two-shoes brother, Canada -- who, by the way, has never had a girlfriend -- I'm just sayin'!
:D

Aboot time someone said it about those frostbacks. ;)
 
And yet who were the people the Limeys asked to do the tough jobs in the wars they kept getting us involved in?

Us and the Aussies.
 
rgraham666 said:
And yet who were the people the Limeys asked to do the tough jobs in the wars they kept getting us involved in?

Us and the Aussies.
And you(Canada) did your duty to Home and Queen.

ETA: or it that Country and Queen. Yes, Country and Queen.
 
rgraham666 said:
And yet who were the people the Limeys asked to do the tough jobs in the wars they kept getting us involved in?

Us and the Aussies.
Indeed. I haven't forgotten Dieppe. Tip of the hat to the valiant Canadians.
 
SEVERUSMAX said:
Ah, yes. And Roxanne has good points, too. A lot of so-called "agression" is just us sticking up for the little guy. Even as wrong as the War in Iraq is, it was partly done to liberate the Kurds, Marsh Arabs, and others who ran afoul of Saddam. The war was wrong, but the intentions of many were honest.

Althugh the US has fought wars of aggression, it would have an impossibly long way to go to begin to catch up with England or France or Italy(Rome) or Iran(Persia) or China or Sweden or Turkey or Spain or many others. England, in fact, conquered almost an entire continent besides their own.
 
Speaking as a Brit (your parent), I'm very disappointed in the way you turned out!

You bit my nipple, then insisted you could make your own way in the world. Pah! No wonder you turned out to be a playground bully. I tried taking you in hand, early on, but you fought me all the way and virtually dis-owned me. And now? Now you come running back for help and back-up every time the real tough boys start picking on you. And what do I do? As a caring, loving parent? I give in to your every whim, that's what I do.

As for my Canadian and Aussie off-spring... what a well-rounded, upstanding, no-nonense, stand-on-their-own-two-feet, sexy lot they turned out to be??? I'm so proud. *sniff*
 
Tatelou said:
Speaking as a Brit (your parent), I'm very disappointed in the way you turned out!

You bit my nipple, then insisted you could make your own way in the world. Pah! No wonder you turned out to be a playground bully. I tried taking you in hand, early on, but you fought me all the way and virtually dis-owned me. And now? Now you come running back for help and back-up every time the real tough boys start picking on you. And what do I do? As a caring, loving parent? I give in to your every whim, that's what I do.

As for my Canadian and Aussie off-spring... what a well-rounded, upstanding, no-nonense, stand-on-their-own-two-feet, sexy lot they turned out to be??? I'm so proud. *sniff*

. :D .
 
Tatelou said:
Speaking as a Brit (your parent), I'm very disappointed in the way you turned out!

You bit my nipple, then insisted you could make your own way in the world. Pah! No wonder you turned out to be a playground bully. I tried taking you in hand, early on, but you fought me all the way and virtually dis-owned me. And now? Now you come running back for help and back-up every time the real tough boys start picking on you. And what do I do? As a caring, loving parent? I give in to your every whim, that's what I do.

As for my Canadian and Aussie off-spring... what a well-rounded, upstanding, no-nonense, stand-on-their-own-two-feet, sexy lot they turned out to be??? I'm so proud. *sniff*

:D :D :D
 
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