Tying gf down for the first time

[bigbrand9977]

I am tying my gf down for the first time and i want to have fun and tease her so im looking for suggestions of things to do to her i know the normal licking and fucking but looking for something more that will put her on edge!!! thanks!

PS we established our limits at no extreme pain blood or nothing too nasty! thanks

 

[skygazer]

Put two frozen grapes in your mouth and give her oral

 

[skygazer]

Give her a breast massage with some warm scented oils

 

[bigbrand9977]

i was thinking of at least an ice cube i dont have any grapes sadly lol

 

[bailadora]

Google the term "sensation play"

 

[shortstuff02]

We have had fun with he will use a few toys and I have to guess what toys they were. Also food such as whip scream and chocolate syrup as well as ice. We really enjoy that.

 

[bigbrand9977]

thankd

ok thanks she was going to bring her vibe so i was going to use that and ice and idk play around and i have some massage oil she will definitely be blind folded so that should help too

 

[OrelP]

Tickle her with some feathers....

Either that or bring home another girl to fuck in front of her. I'm sure you'll be fine, at least until you untie her.

 

[amofiga]

Blindfold her, try different things from feathers to ice to spanking on various parts of her body without warning her what's coming or when. Tease her with a vib and your tongue till she's almost ready to cum and then stand back and make her beg to finish her.

 

[subwannabe]

two pieces of advice:

1. have a unique aroma in the air. I read this here on literotica once. It will make her always remember this particular experience for the rest of her life every time she smells the same smell.

2. while teasing her mercilessly and she is at her horniest make her tell you some of her fantasies that she otherwise wouldn't tell you. I did this to my wife once a long time ago and was shocked out of my mind that she fantasized about anal sex. I wouldn't have guessed that in a million years.

 

[Rikki_13]

Def blindfold her. You may even want to put headphones on her at times, so she cant hear if you are getting different items to use on her. You can use a two sided paddle on her to lightly spank her or the furry side to rub across her body. You can take a hairbrush and lightly rub it across her body, especially her nipples and pussy. Nipple clamps if she likes having her nipples squeezed. A vibrator to run across her nipples, chest, pussy before you put it on her clit. Make sure the room is warm so she doesnt get cold, and dont edge her too long before you have sex otherwise she may not enjoy it or let you do it again.

Have a code word so she can let you know if something is wrong and not part of the fun. Dinosaur is a good word.

When my girlfriend tied me up it was the different sensations from different objects that got me.

Have fun!!!

 

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[NeonKnickers]

It sounds so simple, and I don't know your gf, but if she's anything like me you should whisper in her ear. Tell her what you're going to do, give her hints, whatever.... All of the suggestions here are good, but the simple whisper gets me in a frenzy.

I agree. Hell, you could whisper the alphabet in my ear and I'd go crazy with want.

You have lots of good ideas, I hope you have fun!

 

[rockhardwaiting]

blindfold her and put some headphones on so she can't hear anything... spread her legs.. spread some peanut butter on her pussy.. all over her pussy.. lick her just enough to tease her a bit.. and then.. bring in the dog to finish up the peanut butter sorry, couldn't help it.. was on a dumb movie I saw recently... The girl in the movie liked it though

 

[BongoGal]

Way back when, my then-bf tied me down (first time for me), spreadeagle and blindfolded. I heard him get up and start doing something in some other rooms. I heard the water running and unidentifiable noises, and soon he came back. Without a word, he got himself in position between my wide open legs and....began to shave me down there. Lordy, lordy...I got so turned on I thought I might burst.

 

[RAddams]

This thread just gave me a semi.

 

[Nataliefun41]

One thing an old bf did to me was rub his cock softly all over my body. Especially my stomach, tits, neck and face. I loved feeling it on my cheeks and even on my forehead. Just so erotic. He would rub it on my lips and as I tried to take him in my mouth he'd pull away and tell me not yet.

 

[Friendly_Guy]

One thing an old bf did to me was rub his cock softly all over my body. Especially my stomach, tits, neck and face. I loved feeling it on my cheeks and even on my forehead. Just so erotic. He would rub it on my lips and as I tried to take him in my mouth he'd pull away and tell me not yet.

Try it blindfolded. It works even better.

 

[roomfor1more]

Ice play can be fun especially if you take a condom, fill it with water and then put it in the freezer for a few days before using it. Sometimes if you place the condom in the freezer it will freeze in odd shapes that can make it harder to use and the best way to avoid it is by placing the filled condom into cardboard roll from a roll of toilet paper. By using a cardboard roll it will ensure that the condom is not too wide and it freezes more evenly.

Another suggestion is trying sensory play. A good starting point is using a blindold that covers her eyes. You can from there tease her by leaving the room, if you choose or try different things that will feel different to her in order to keep her guessing.

A third option is using toys.

 

[Down_UnderKid]

i do this with my gf all the time. i use toys and vibes on her. always blindfolded tho. sometimes i put some porn on in the background to heighten her senses up a bit more and imagine what is going on, on the screen.

we both found tho, she wasnt a fan of having her legs tied together as when she wanted to cum, she would squeeze her legs together or want to move them around, and didnt like been tied up at the legs.

 

[wahoo33]

Second the headphones idea. Just make sure you have some non-distracting music. I've always been partial to jazz, but anything without lyrics should be an excellent choice. You don't want her singing along with Zac Brown right?

Other fun sensations are feathers like the tip of a stiff goose quill or even a feather duster for lighter more subtle sensation. Maybe pick up some fresh strawberries or kiwi fruit to feed her. Slice them thin so they can be sucked off your finger tips and melt in her mouth rather than have to be chewed. Just keep a baby wipe handy, the natural sugars in fruit are bad news for her girl bits.

I would love to hear from someone who has been on the receiving end of sensation play. What was done, high points, low points and what was the effect? Give us some pointers from the receiving end please.