TV is trying to kill me....

[lne_iii]

Or so it seems.

I was flipping through channels...and saw no less than 4 things that specifically reminded me of my latest ex.

I'm shaking almost uncontrollably and kind of feel like puking...

Geez...why is it so hard for me to get over people?

/whinyrant

 

[Yang4yin]

That's what you get for caring in the first place.
Not that there's anything wrong with being caring.

 

[Chicklet]

there are at least six movies i'll never be able to watch again, and three websites i can never again visit for reminders of my ex...

today i almost started to cry in a piercing shop 'cause they had the same pair of earrings that i bought mike = (

 

[lne_iii]

there are at least six movies i'll never be able to watch again, and three websites i can never again visit for reminders of my ex...

today i almost started to cry in a piercing shop 'cause they had the same pair of earrings that i bought mike = (

I hate loving certain exes sometimes.

But there are some that we never can get out of our systems I believe.

 

[M's girl]

Are these al recent split ups? Because I know the feeling, but it will go away. There are only a few ex boyfriends I think of every now and then and it's because they just happen to be connected with a memory. No sad feelings of loss or whatsoever anymore. Guess that means I once made the right desicion to leave them?

 

[~Blacklace~]

Are these al recent split ups? Because I know the feeling, but it will go away. There are only a few ex boyfriends I think of every now and then and it's because they just happen to be connected with a memory. No sad feelings of loss or whatsoever anymore. Guess that means I once made the right desicion to leave them?

I was just going to ask the same thing. Ive been there before also, 10 years ago. And you feel as if your just going to die, die, die! But it does subside. Occasionally I still am reminded of something, but it doesn't ache anymore. Just hmmmm ok we did this or that once upon a time. The saying goes, time heals all wounds (or something like that) And Ive found it to be true for the most part.

 

[amadaun]

there are at least six movies i'll never be able to watch again, and three websites i can never again visit for reminders of my ex...

today i almost started to cry in a piercing shop 'cause they had the same pair of earrings that i bought mike = (

i know how you feel... i can never listen to jeff buckley again. apparently exes named mike particularly suck.

 

[wistfulone]

I agree that time helps, or finding someone new that makes your ex seem a distant memory.

 

[Exogenous]

The longing and the sadness do go away or become less intense after a while. Then something will pop up to trigger a happier moment of time and all the wonderful emotions that went with it…and now, realizing those times with that special someone really will no longer happen again, that can throw me for a loop and the depression will rise up. I still run into those brick walls and it hurts, not in the fun way, either. Ha, just when I think I have overcome the emotional pain, something will trigger it once more, damn it. Makes me feel weak and stupid that I cannot control my responses, at times.

While I have found the frequency of these “episodes” diminishing, they are still quite hurtful when they occur. I try to find comfort in the fact that they happen less often, as time marches on.

I think of that scene in the movie, Moonstruck, where Cher slaps Nicholas Cage's face after they had made love and he was so enamored of her, and Cher shouts, "Snap out of it!" I wish it was that easy.

 

[lne_iii]

I'd like to think that happy memories are happy...

But those hurt too, knowing that they are in the past...

And even if you DO get back with someone (which in my case is unlikely in this situation...) it wouldn't be the same.



Thanks for the support though...I'm sure it will get better...but it's a really bad time right now...

Getting dumped right after my dad died...
Finding out that someone close to me is playing around with bad-bad drugs...

 

[the captians wench]

I'd like to think that happy memories are happy...

But those hurt too, knowing that they are in the past...

And even if you DO get back with someone (which in my case is unlikely in this situation...) it wouldn't be the same.



Thanks for the support though...I'm sure it will get better...but it's a really bad time right now...

Getting dumped right after my dad died...
Finding out that someone close to me is playing around with bad-bad drugs...

*snuggles*

 

[lne_iii]

*snuggles*

LNE

 

[chris9]

I had a moment like this this morning while cleaning away my breakfast things. To be precise while putting the left-over rolls which would not have been left-over a few months ago back into their bag. I need some hugs...

 

[the captians wench]

I had a moment like this this morning while cleaning away my breakfast things. To be precise while putting the left-over rolls which would not have been left-over a few months ago back into their bag. I need some hugs...

*snuggles*

I get that way some times and I've lived alone now for a year.

 

[chris9]

*snuggles*

I get that way some times and I've lived alone now for a year.

I'm having a winding-down time at my parents'. Does not seem to work so well.
*snuggles back*

 

[the captians wench]

I'm having a winding-down time at my parents'. Does not seem to work so well.
*snuggles back*

Been there.

 

[lne_iii]

-group hug-

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Outside of NFL Network, I dont watch much TV