Turned on by tears?

SoulcatcherX

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Okay... First off this a relatively newly found fetish of mine (dacrophilia).

I'm sure there are several degrees and sources of influence on this but for the most part, as far as I am concerned anyways, the big "turn-on" for me is the weeping tears (sorrow) not pain (though I haven't exactly had much experience in the pain department of this so it's still a possible).

Mascara tears. Black and white photos. Window-side lighting. Upcast eyes. Pouting lips.

That, to me, is sexy as hell.

I can sympatize with the emotions of the true scene (when actually genuine, I can even appreciate staged), but damned if I can't help but find the image fascinating to an erotic degree.

I was wondering if perhaps anyone else felt the same.

If I am lucky maybe a few volunteers to share pics with.

Like I said, this is a pretty recent admission/discovery for me so I am fact-finding, researching, and just getting a feel for others of the same ilk.
 
First of all a BUMP to get this noticed by ppl.


I love the pix you are talking about. They are very attractive and beautiful. Maybe I'm weird but I think, that when captured just right on film, both pain and sorrow can be very beautiful. Not sure I would say I have a fetish for this, but I love artwork in this style. It's both haunting and sad while keeping a raw beauty to it.
 
Definately turns me on, seems like it goes hand in hand with rape roleplay fetish... I say roleplay because rape isn't exactly something to joke about.
 
Another pic

This one is more mod, but still kick ass.
 

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Thanks LC. Those are cool pics.

It was cool chatting w/ you last night. Hope to catch you again soon. In fact... I'm loggin on now...

Soul
 
Hey Soul. You're welcome for the pix hun. Now, for some news to brighten your day.
I did a series of pix last night based entirely on tears. They are mainly face shots from different angles and lighting. Pale face, lots of eyeliner and mascara, bright red lips, all to accentuate the photos. Hopefully I'll get them up soon. I'll post them on my thread then post a link to them over here.
 
Legendary Child said:
Hey Soul. You're welcome for the pix hun. Now, for some news to brighten your day.
I did a series of pix last night based entirely on tears. They are mainly face shots from different angles and lighting. Pale face, lots of eyeliner and mascara, bright red lips, all to accentuate the photos. Hopefully I'll get them up soon. I'll post them on my thread then post a link to them over here.

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

Wow! You really do know how to brighten a persons day!

Thanks hun. I can not wait see them. You have my deepest appreciation.
 
Out of curiousity, is this something which is only erotic to you through image, or do you find it erotic to see real tears on a real living, breathing being? Certainly is something we are into, though more from the reality POV than pics. You may find many on the BDSM forum who share your fondness.:)

Catalina :rose:
 
catalina_francisco said:
Out of curiousity, is this something which is only erotic to you through image, or do you find it erotic to see real tears on a real living, breathing being? Certainly is something we are into, though more from the reality POV than pics. You may find many on the BDSM forum who share your fondness.:)

Catalina :rose:

Good question. Honestly I haven't had much experience with it in RL. At least not in an erotic manner. There's a definate difference, I would think, between tears shed for pleasurable reasons (erotic ones) than the kind where my wife would be shedding do to true emotional/physical pain.

Admittedly, I've always found these kind of images fascinating, but it's really been a recent development where I have found any sort of arousal from them.

It's a recent discovery that I look forward to exploring and appreciate your invitation to visit the BDSM forum in order to do so.

Soulcatcher
 
SoulcatcherX said:
Good question. Honestly I haven't had much experience with it in RL. At least not in an erotic manner. There's a definate difference, I would think, between tears shed for pleasurable reasons (erotic ones) than the kind where my wife would be shedding do to true emotional/physical pain.

Admittedly, I've always found these kind of images fascinating, but it's really been a recent development where I have found any sort of arousal from them.

It's a recent discovery that I look forward to exploring and appreciate your invitation to visit the BDSM forum in order to do so.

Soulcatcher

It is often something which grows as you become more aware of it. I know for us I could not ask for someone who is more caring when I am ill or going through a trauma, but even so he finds the sight of my tears now brings instant arousal he finds difficult to control..it then becomes a difficulty of being empathic with a hard on and apprearing sincere...lucky I understand totally and don't think he is just becoming some heartless beast.:D

Catalina :rose:
 
That's pretty much exactly what I meant Catalina. I'm glad you found someone like you have. A shared bond/respect like that is hard to come by and I wish you both only happiness... Well a bit of raunchy pleasure every now and then too. :p

Last night I got this very erotic image in my head pertaining to this subject (big surprise huh).

I pictured this woman with black tipped/streaked blonde hair and heavy mascara sitting in front of a rain-streaked window, her kness tucked up close to her as she sat in the windowseat with a phone between her toes and the phone cord wrapped around her legs and an arm as she held the receiver to her ear. I pictured her crying sadly, looking out into the rain as her heart is silently broken by whomever is on the other end of the line.

The whole scene was just a flash at first, but haunted me all night and today... *sigh* Sometimes I wish I was a photographer...
 
Yay!

LC said that she'd have some good piccy's for here soon.

*shameless bump*

Soul
 
I found some for you Soul, I still anxiously await LC's though.
This one might be a bit thick on the mascara, but I like it.
 
Last one for now, and this I need to thank Nightbird for. Came from a friend of his.
 
Oh my... those were simply excellent Angel. I thank you immensely.

Also, I thank Nightbird and his friend. That last one was very good indeed. I would not have thought to look for computer-generated pics before, but now that I think about it there are some very good scenes from the Final Fantasy games that I seem to recall really liking.

A splendid way to wake up today.

Soul
 
catalina_francisco said:
Out of curiousity, is this something which is only erotic to you through image, or do you find it erotic to see real tears on a real living, breathing being? Certainly is something we are into, though more from the reality POV than pics. You may find many on the BDSM forum who share your fondness.:)

Catalina :rose:


Real life is definately arousing. I'm a huge BDSM freak. Check out my thread for a link to the BDSM show in Charlotte,NC. It has some great pics.


My tear shots are now up! To view them click the link at the bottom of my sig.
 
SoulcatcherX said:
That's pretty much exactly what I meant Catalina. I'm glad you found someone like you have. A shared bond/respect like that is hard to come by and I wish you both only happiness... Well a bit of raunchy pleasure every now and then too. :p

Last night I got this very erotic image in my head pertaining to this subject (big surprise huh).

I pictured this woman with black tipped/streaked blonde hair and heavy mascara sitting in front of a rain-streaked window, her kness tucked up close to her as she sat in the windowseat with a phone between her toes and the phone cord wrapped around her legs and an arm as she held the receiver to her ear. I pictured her crying sadly, looking out into the rain as her heart is silently broken by whomever is on the other end of the line.

The whole scene was just a flash at first, but haunted me all night and today... *sigh* Sometimes I wish I was a photographer...


OMG Soul!! I would love to use that for a pic (if you don't mind of course) Now to find someone who will snap the shots.
 
Legendary Child said:
OMG Soul!! I would love to use that for a pic (if you don't mind of course) Now to find someone who will snap the shots.

And I, dear LC, would love for you to do so.

I would offer my photography services... but alas, no camera, not to mention it would be tres gouche to invite myself. ;)

Soul
~Knows the meaning of 'giddy' today.~
 
SoulcatcherX said:
And I, dear LC, would love for you to do so.

I would offer my photography services... but alas, no camera, not to mention it would be tres gouche to invite myself. ;)

Soul
~Knows the meaning of 'giddy' today.~

Hun if you can find your way to my little corner of the world, I'll give you the cam, lol. It's always fun trying to give ppl directions to my house.
 
Being in the same state I have a good chance of finding it. If Mapquest can't get me there, then there always my Rand McNally map. :p

It would be my profound pleasure.

Soul
 
SoulcatcherX said:
Being in the same state I have a good chance of finding it. If Mapquest can't get me there, then there always my Rand McNally map. :p

It would be my profound pleasure.

Soul

*wonders when the next rainy night is gonna be*
 
Around here I'm sure it won't be too long.

But I shall start doing my rain-dance post-haste.

Soul
~Ponders if he should dance nekkid for this~
 
I curse my luck... No substantial rain in days here.

The Goddess must be making me pay pitiance for the treasures I have already received from you ma chere.

But in her justice, there shall come mercy.

I have but only to wait...

Soul
 
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