Turn her on at work?

[Reddom17]

My wife and I are new to Sub/Dom. She has made it clear that she is only interested in being submissive.

I have MANY questions but one that keeps crossing my mind is with her being at work. Obviously I can't have her do anything that will jeopardize her job. But I'm trying to think of things that would engage her every now and then, something to catch her off guard.

It's hard(literally) to do research while I'm at work and visualize her in situations. It's not fair so I think she should have to suffer a little as well.

Any thoughts?

Thanks!

 

[Nezhul]

you could send her a text ordering her to do something for you really quick. Like going to a bathroom and texting you back the picture of her panties/nipple/pussy whatever.

Or even something small and not sexual that would still make her do things for you. Like crossing her legs and sitting like that for a minute, or putting her left hand on her lap and keeping it there for 5 minutes, using only her right hand.

It depends on where she works though. It's up to you to invent small tasks that can fit into her work schedule, serve as a nice little distraction but not jeopardize her work.

It also up to you to know what she's into and what she finds dull and annoying. Things I suggested may fall into second category for her, and then you should stop doing them. Your aim is to excite her, not annoy her. To remind her you own her but not make it into a chore. Everyone's different and it's hard to suggest things like that.

 

[Primalex]

It's hard(literally) to do research while I'm at work and visualize her in situations. It's not fair so I think she should have to suffer a little as well.

Any thoughts?

Write your visualization down and send her?

 

[tryn2Bgood]

Even without knowing where your wife works or what she does for a living, I would suggest the interference with her job to be kept at a minimum. There is a time and place for everything. And just as you are being distracted at work just by visualizing her, I'm sure you aren't far from her mind throughout the day either. But I do understand you wanting to add some small reminder to her day.

Here are a few suggestions:

1) when kissing her goodbye on her way to work, whisper a command in her ear for something that you want her to do as soon as she gets home from work. ("The moment you walk through the door tonight, remove all your clothes except those heels." Or "As soon as you get home today, I want you to lie on the bed and give yourself two orgasms for me before you do anything else.") I don't know how kinky you are so command whatever you want, but it shouldn't be something so complicated that she would be worrying about it all day. Just something simple that will keep her excited.

2) Give her a list of "supplies" that you will require her to pick up from a store on her way home from work. It should be a small list, only a few items, but maybe odd things that will have her imagining what you are going to be doing with them that evening. Maybe a certain length of rope from the hardware store, or duct tape, wax candles, and a wooden ruler from walmart, or a dog collar from the pet store. Again, I don't know how kinky you are, but you get the idea.

3) for something during work hours jewelry always works nice. Especially some kind of cuff bracelet or bangle that could be engraved. If there is a special phrase or pet name that would seem 'innocent' to others, you could have it engraved on the outside where it is visible, or it could be engraved on the inside with "Property of..." or "Owned by..." A secret sign of ownership between the two of you but a lovely piece of jewelry to be admired and commented on by others.

4) something simple: after she is dressed for work, have her expose some part of her body and 'tattoo' something on her skin with a sharpie. A word, a phrase, a property of stamp, or even just your signature. No one else will see it but she'll be aware it is there all day. And if it is in a certain area, she'll see it when she goes to the bathroom at work.

There are a million other things you could do. Get creative, but I would advise you to keep it simple. You don't want to distract her too much at work. And I also wouldn't do any of the things every single day. Repetition can get boring. And you never want your tasks or reminders to seem like a burden. Plus real life can be busy and demanding sometimes. As much as we would all like to play all the time, we also have adult responsibilities to see to occasionally.☺

Hope this helped give you some ideas!

 

[quicky1]

Even without knowing where your wife works or what she does for a living, I would suggest the interference with her job to be kept at a minimum. There is a time and place for everything. And just as you are being distracted at work just by visualizing her, I'm sure you aren't far from her mind throughout the day either. But I do understand you wanting to add some small reminder to her day.

Here are a few suggestions:

1) when kissing her goodbye on her way to work, whisper a command in her ear for something that you want her to do as soon as she gets home from work. ("The moment you walk through the door tonight, remove all your clothes except those heels." Or "As soon as you get home today, I want you to lie on the bed and give yourself two orgasms for me before you do anything else.") I don't know how kinky you are so command whatever you want, but it shouldn't be something so complicated that she would be worrying about it all day. Just something simple that will keep her excited.

2) Give her a list of "supplies" that you will require her to pick up from a store on her way home from work. It should be a small list, only a few items, but maybe odd things that will have her imagining what you are going to be doing with them that evening. Maybe a certain length of rope from the hardware store, or duct tape, wax candles, and a wooden ruler from walmart, or a dog collar from the pet store. Again, I don't know how kinky you are, but you get the idea.

3) for something during work hours jewelry always works nice. Especially some kind of cuff bracelet or bangle that could be engraved. If there is a special phrase or pet name that would seem 'innocent' to others, you could have it engraved on the outside where it is visible, or it could be engraved on the inside with "Property of..." or "Owned by..." A secret sign of ownership between the two of you but a lovely piece of jewelry to be admired and commented on by others.

4) something simple: after she is dressed for work, have her expose some part of her body and 'tattoo' something on her skin with a sharpie. A word, a phrase, a property of stamp, or even just your signature. No one else will see it but she'll be aware it is there all day. And if it is in a certain area, she'll see it when she goes to the bathroom at work.

There are a million other things you could do. Get creative, but I would advise you to keep it simple. You don't want to distract her too much at work. And I also wouldn't do any of the things every single day. Repetition can get boring. And you never want your tasks or reminders to seem like a burden. Plus real life can be busy and demanding sometimes. As much as we would all like to play all the time, we also have adult responsibilities to see to occasionally.☺

Hope this helped give you some ideas!

Excellent suggestions.

 

[Lascivity]

Depends enormously on what she does for work. If she is, for example, a paramedic, I'd suggest any distractions be kept to a minimum. Assuming she works in an office though there are good few possibilities.

 

[Titman69x]

You'll need to figure out what works for you two but here are some things I've had my sub do at work.

1) have her go to rest room and have her stuff her panties in here pussy for 15 minutes. When she takes them out she has to put them back on.

2) Send her to work without Bra and/or panties

3) Write something on here body before she leaves for work. Or send her a text during the day and tell here what to write and send a picture

4) Have here tie her nipples with thread in the morning before work

5) She keeps marbles in her purse, I will text her and tell her to put them in

6) Have her edge in the office, up the anti by having her go the ladies room get naked and edge.

......

A little creativity and you can keep her as distracted as you are.

 

[croydon2000]

Not sure...

..if this counts.. But once at work I was having affair with someone, the office did not know,we had few games of dare whilst working... One I gave her my wedding ring and put it in her for the whole day,then give back to me,end of day.her dare to me was she gave me a lolly pop that had been in her pussy for an hour,and eat it in the office in front of everyone,them not knowing where it had been,ha.it did turn her on!!.x

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Lofn1216]

My Master had me do many things at work. It really depends on her job but here are some things I've had to do:

Write something like Master's slut on my thighs.
Wear a plug
I had a collar I wore daily that was simple and elegant. We knew what it resprented but to everyone else it was a pretty necklace.
Snap a picture he wanted.