I'm recently single again. And have been thinking quite a bit about a guy who I used to see on a regular basis. (He used to come into where I worked at. Maybe every weekend.)
I'm SO desperate for some advice on interpreting the way he acts.
I've known him for over a year and a half now.
It started with him coming in every weekend (I managed the clubhouse at a golf course.) He'd come in. Sign up, and when he came back in, we'd talk for 5 minutes or so. We have the same sense of humor, so were always playfully flirting back and forth. (I was in a relationship at this time.)
I broke up with my boyfriend a few months later, and noticed that he, we'll call him Jon, that our conversations became longer. When he'd come in, we'd talk for a few minutes before he'd head out. When he'd order a drink, he'd always ask if he could get me one. (Of course, I always said no. Working and all.)
He works for a company that sells standard gifts... spa, massage products and stuff. He, at one point, gave me the website, and told me to pick out anything on it, and he'd get it for me. I didn't want to be a nuisance, so I laughed it off, and never told him anything.
Our flirting continued. One day, I was telling him how I had almost forgotten how expensive it is to be single, and he says "Yeah, sometimes I think about getting married just to save some money." I laughed a little, and turned around to grab a drink for another customer. While my back is turned, Jon says "So, what are you doing later?" This totally caught me off guard and I turned around with a shocked look, like "HUH?" He just started laughing and walked away.
Flirting like this continued up until I left the golf course. (Found a job in my line of study, that paid for college.) I still work at the club once a month, helping out. About every other month, he comes in. We both smile at each other right away, and start laughing again.
This last time, he even noticed how busy I was with some paperwork, and asked me if I'd like a bite to eat. I said yes, and he went and bought me lunch.
I know I'm horribly overanalyzing this... but WHAT THE HELL IS WITH THIS GUY!?
It's been a year and a half, and he has never come out and ask me out!!!
Maybe I'm just nuts, and it's innocent flirting...
What do you guys think? I'm working at the club Saturday, and am wondering if I should say anything to him...
I'm SO desperate for some advice on interpreting the way he acts.
I've known him for over a year and a half now.
It started with him coming in every weekend (I managed the clubhouse at a golf course.) He'd come in. Sign up, and when he came back in, we'd talk for 5 minutes or so. We have the same sense of humor, so were always playfully flirting back and forth. (I was in a relationship at this time.)
I broke up with my boyfriend a few months later, and noticed that he, we'll call him Jon, that our conversations became longer. When he'd come in, we'd talk for a few minutes before he'd head out. When he'd order a drink, he'd always ask if he could get me one. (Of course, I always said no. Working and all.)
He works for a company that sells standard gifts... spa, massage products and stuff. He, at one point, gave me the website, and told me to pick out anything on it, and he'd get it for me. I didn't want to be a nuisance, so I laughed it off, and never told him anything.
Our flirting continued. One day, I was telling him how I had almost forgotten how expensive it is to be single, and he says "Yeah, sometimes I think about getting married just to save some money." I laughed a little, and turned around to grab a drink for another customer. While my back is turned, Jon says "So, what are you doing later?" This totally caught me off guard and I turned around with a shocked look, like "HUH?" He just started laughing and walked away.
Flirting like this continued up until I left the golf course. (Found a job in my line of study, that paid for college.) I still work at the club once a month, helping out. About every other month, he comes in. We both smile at each other right away, and start laughing again.
This last time, he even noticed how busy I was with some paperwork, and asked me if I'd like a bite to eat. I said yes, and he went and bought me lunch.
I know I'm horribly overanalyzing this... but WHAT THE HELL IS WITH THIS GUY!?
It's been a year and a half, and he has never come out and ask me out!!!
Maybe I'm just nuts, and it's innocent flirting...
What do you guys think? I'm working at the club Saturday, and am wondering if I should say anything to him...
