Trying not to give up...

[mobleedzblue]

I'm a 26 year old married Dom that is searching for an online sub. I'm sick of dealing with subs who just want to play games. I recently met an amazing sub who I had hoped would be the one but she ended up not being able to deal with the fact that I'm married. I've been encouraged by a few friends to not give up my search. If there are any submissive women out there that are interested in learning more, please feel free to PM me.

Mr. M

 

[game_master24]

I understand your pain bud....

 

[mobleedzblue]

Thanks, it's nice to know that I'm not the only one in this boat.

 

[game_master24]

Is it me more is there a severe lack of subs? I just have not gotten the replies I have gotten in the past.

 

[StrictMasterD]

No, the issue I have found is most subs who reply are "Wanna Be's" when they realize it is not a game, why they realize it is a LIfestyle they get cold feet, I have posted before, I make it very clear in my post what I am looking for and when I get replies and talk to them the 1st thing I ask is "Didyou read the whole post or just the header?" most do not read the whole post, a good number seem to be college aged, looking for aquickie when they want sometng at all, I have even had subs tell me "No my being married wil not efect how we do things" then after a day or so the disappear, get scraed or say "Sorry this wil not work out" or better yet, "I must be decsreet, I am married, I livei n a small otwn wher everyone knowseveryone"
When sub post looking for a Dom and you reply alot of times they wil not reply back to you, they are not 100% open on what they want or need etc.
I have learned over time that most not all but most when the post an ad lookingfor a Dom or reply to a post, EVEN when they know what the Dom is looking for they get scared, like they are making a post or replying hoping whatthe ost said is not real
I told most if you wantto playgames go buy an Xbox or PLaystation
Finding good, longterm female subs is very difficult, I had on 4 years ago we were together for 3 years after she lelyft I never found one that real knew either that this is a LIfestyle or when they realzed it was forreal note a joke they disapear
I feel your pain my firen good longterm subs are very hard t o find but keep looking, somewhereo uttherei s the right sub for EVERY Dom, it is just amtter of find them or them finding you
I would neevr quit
As the ld saying ogoes "Winners Never Quit, and Quitter Never Win"

 

[StrictMasterD]

No, the issue I have found is most subs who reply are "Wanna Be's" when they realize it is not a game, why they realize it is a LIfestyle they get cold feet, I have posted before, I make it very clear in my post what I am looking for and when I get replies and talk to them the 1st thing I ask is "Didyou read the whole post or just the header?" most do not read the whole post, a good number seem to be college aged, looking for aquickie when they want sometng at all, I have even had subs tell me "No my being married wil not efect how we do things" then after a day or so the disappear, get scraed or say "Sorry this wil not work out" or better yet, "I must be decsreet, I am married, I livei n a small otwn wher everyone knowseveryone"
When sub post looking for a Dom and you reply alot of times they wil not reply back to you, they are not 100% open on what they want or need etc.
I have learned over time that most not all but most when the post an ad lookingfor a Dom or reply to a post, EVEN when they know what the Dom is looking for they get scared, like they are making a post or replying hoping whatthe ost said is not real
I told most if you wantto playgames go buy an Xbox or PLaystation
Finding good, longterm female subs is very difficult, I had on 4 years ago we were together for 3 years after she lelyft I never found one that real knew either that this is a LIfestyle or when they realzed it was forreal note a joke they disapear
I feel your pain my firen good longterm subs are very hard t o find but keep looking, somewhereo uttherei s the right sub for EVERY Dom, it is just amtter of find them or them finding you
I would neevr quit
As the ld saying ogoes "Winners Never Quit, and Quitter Never Win"
Or despite them saying "I know what I want" in reality they have NO CLUE what they want and when they find someone who knows what he wants they getsared and run

 

[game_master24]

Hmm I meant more that I have had very few if any replies. The last few times I'd posted my ad, which says what I want that this is not a game, I've gotten maybe one two at the most replies. Two years ago i got 3 or 4 per posting of my ad. I've seen a noticeable drop. Maybe I'm the only one.

This is probably the wrong forum to post about this in.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

I'm looking for a Dom/Top. BUT the majority of the threads looking for a sub seem to be guys just wanting to get off on the evening they post their thread. OR it's a guy who's ok with cheating on his wife which I am NOT comfortable with. I'm married and have my husband's persmission (he's a member of this site) to find another Dom as the lifestyle just doesn't interest him as much as he thought it would. Whereas it interests me more than I initially thought it would. Go figure. But it's also difficult finding someone who's serious and is willing to do this in real life. Let alone who lives close enough to me to make this possible. Online is a fine way to start, but it's not where I want it to end.