herecomestherain
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ToTheXtremeCA, firstly a few comments on your Report Card:
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TTXCA is an excellent student who continues to work hard at PLEASURE STUDIES and has:
Successfully completed " How to Handle a Woman's Breasts 101"
Reads widely and actively particpates in all research modules
Asks lots of intelligent questions and has an enquiring mind
Practices often with chosen "study partner"
Internalises learnings and is able to demonstrate comprehension
I'm predicting great success in his chosen field!
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I'd probably recommend more general pussy play first. Some ideas...
This is my personal preference and as you know every person is different and it can depend on mood etc etc. Sometimes I just push my lovers hand straight to where I need it and other times we enjoy the longer slower build up and tease. When you are exploring and getting to know someone for the first time I think the slow,unhurried tease method is especially good.
Try lots of kissing, small kisses all over her face, neck,shoulders,arms, hands, breasts,everyplace! Caressing over clothes,nibbling available flesh...just a word about thighs, spend lots of time stroking and caressing her thighs, occasionally brushing closer to her pussy, "accidently" brushing up against it, but continue with the thighs like you are in no hurry. Drives me crazy!
Listen for feedback,gently ask "Do you like that", give feedback,"I love it when..."show pleasure in her pleasure. That is a peak turn on for me .
Generally speaking...by the time you are in the vicinity of your sweetie's pussy she will be feeling aroused from all your lovely attention, your words will turn her head on and she and her pussy will be looking for some attention.
After lots of slow caresses to my thighs I like my partner to palm or hold and rub his whole hand over my pussy, try pressing the heel of your hand gently, then more firmly on the fleshy mound, rubbing her pubes,give lots of feedback and encouragement..."You are so beautiful, you look so hot etc" always does it for me.
Explore with your fingers, perhaps put one of her hands on yours, let her guide you, try the other way too, put your hand on top of hers, let her show you what she has discovered about pleasuring herself.
If at any time during play, she's panting, moaning and writhing around or even just quietly getting more and more excited at your touch, don't stop. Do not stop.
As things progress you'll both discover what she likes, sometimes you teach, sometimes you learn, mostly you'll both be learning. I'm pleased to report this goes on your whole life and it's wonderful!
Boy oh boy I didn't mean for this to be a blow by blow essay on pussy play, I get carried away!
Below is a thread where some gorgeous gals describe what arousal feels like for them. Consider it homework. They'll be test questions at a later date.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=214145
Learning to love her pussy with your mouth as so eloquently described by Prof.G will earn you a many, many extra grade points.
Have fun.
And now a message from my sponser: Please read my story, there's a few tips about seduction in the 2nd half. Consider it extra curricula activity
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TTXCA is an excellent student who continues to work hard at PLEASURE STUDIES and has:
Successfully completed " How to Handle a Woman's Breasts 101"
Reads widely and actively particpates in all research modules
Asks lots of intelligent questions and has an enquiring mind
Practices often with chosen "study partner"
Internalises learnings and is able to demonstrate comprehension
I'm predicting great success in his chosen field!
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The question: When I finally get play with her lower regions, is it ok for me to play with her G-spot immediatly? Should I focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm first or should I simply go in and blow her mind (knowing that as she loses inhibitions, she becomes more and more sexual all the time)?
I'd probably recommend more general pussy play first. Some ideas...
This is my personal preference and as you know every person is different and it can depend on mood etc etc. Sometimes I just push my lovers hand straight to where I need it and other times we enjoy the longer slower build up and tease. When you are exploring and getting to know someone for the first time I think the slow,unhurried tease method is especially good.
Try lots of kissing, small kisses all over her face, neck,shoulders,arms, hands, breasts,everyplace! Caressing over clothes,nibbling available flesh...just a word about thighs, spend lots of time stroking and caressing her thighs, occasionally brushing closer to her pussy, "accidently" brushing up against it, but continue with the thighs like you are in no hurry. Drives me crazy!
Listen for feedback,gently ask "Do you like that", give feedback,"I love it when..."show pleasure in her pleasure. That is a peak turn on for me .
Generally speaking...by the time you are in the vicinity of your sweetie's pussy she will be feeling aroused from all your lovely attention, your words will turn her head on and she and her pussy will be looking for some attention.
After lots of slow caresses to my thighs I like my partner to palm or hold and rub his whole hand over my pussy, try pressing the heel of your hand gently, then more firmly on the fleshy mound, rubbing her pubes,give lots of feedback and encouragement..."You are so beautiful, you look so hot etc" always does it for me.
Explore with your fingers, perhaps put one of her hands on yours, let her guide you, try the other way too, put your hand on top of hers, let her show you what she has discovered about pleasuring herself.
If at any time during play, she's panting, moaning and writhing around or even just quietly getting more and more excited at your touch, don't stop. Do not stop.
As things progress you'll both discover what she likes, sometimes you teach, sometimes you learn, mostly you'll both be learning. I'm pleased to report this goes on your whole life and it's wonderful!
Boy oh boy I didn't mean for this to be a blow by blow essay on pussy play, I get carried away!
Below is a thread where some gorgeous gals describe what arousal feels like for them. Consider it homework. They'll be test questions at a later date.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=214145

Learning to love her pussy with your mouth as so eloquently described by Prof.G will earn you a many, many extra grade points.
Have fun.
And now a message from my sponser: Please read my story, there's a few tips about seduction in the 2nd half. Consider it extra curricula activity


