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[Im_Tickled_Pink]

is this it??

We have yet to succeed but the quest continues -

is this it???? http://www.youporn.com/watch/31706

 

[Mr.G]

Yu

That's a variation. Whatever works for you. Face up. Face down. On her side. Hangin from her toes.

The clip does do an excellent job of showing the force / speed that you need to stim the G propperly. Don't forget that two of his fingers are pushing UP towards his palm on her pubic bone ... in essence squishing her GSpot against his hand or the inside of the pubic bone. This creates the hydro-static shock that seems to turbo-charge the whole clitoral trunk of which the G and A Spots are connected.

From the start of the "procedure" I expect she'd been primed a bit before it started but listen to her responses. Even before she starts to cum she is basically incoherent. Her body begins to spasm and by the time she is in full G-Gasm it looks more like she is having a grand mal seizure! Once this reaction is achieved - whichever way you choose to do it - the main thing is you can KEEP DOING that and she will KEEP G-GASMING!!!

Other than the fact that I love bums, the main reason I suggest the face down and using your thumbs for this is that your stamina is greatly increased this way over the standing beside her and pulling up against her like you were trying to lift her up. If your woman has good stamina and wants to keep cumming for a LOOONG time you can always flip her over from the clip position to the face down one and start again. Unlike the clitoral orgasms she will just keep cumming if you take a repositioning break like that.

Good luck and let us know how things are progressing.

 

[herecomestherain]

I think a very nice part of this whole lovely game of G Spotting is the chance to really enjoy and encourage a woman's sexual appetite and her capacity for the erotic. This whole notion of an abundance of available pleasure, of being "selfish" enough to let someone give you a great deal of pleasure is one that can take some getting used to. We're not exactly taught that "greed" or in this case "sexual greed" is a good thing.


The last few years (after studying this thread) my sweetheart has revelled in the pleasure he's been able to give me, in the delight we've shared. We have extraordinary fun together and if it all ends in a very wet puddle well so be it and if it doesn't that's fine too but along the way I will have had five or six wonderful orgasms - I call it orgasm surfing -- riding out across the tops of big waves of orgasm will little lulls to get my breath in between. I guess that'd make the big finale orgasm a wipe out then? I made him laugh the other night when I said "No, no more, I can't" - he alleged he'd never heard me say that before.

 

[thebarber69]

Mr G you never seem to amaze me...such great words....and that one about the car seat....just great...and yes it can work in almost any position, and yes if you lady friend does have one of those butts to die for...it is nice to see it tighten and giggle arround..ohhh...so nice. We need more good threads like this, just for good times and to learn more on these wonderfull thrills that us usless guys (that's what we are called before the G gasm, then after 3 hours, you are the hero) can do, if we just love to do it, and just love the sounds of that woman haveing a moment in time where she is just the only one, than I know I have succeded in something good that day. Thanks again Mr G.

Oh, how about starting a thread on receptor spots on a womans body, I do know a few, but still lack the Masters qualities to learn another thing to drive the ladies erotic natures wild.

 

[Im_Tickled_Pink]

I award you the Nobel Prize for Services to Lovers!!!

and damned if I'm checking back 100+ pages to see so ....

Here's something else to try.

Your lady is on her back and cleverly you are 90º off her giving her a good tongue lashing while you are giving her G-Gasms with your fingers. MOST women can only cum once or twice on a clitoral orgasm - it just gets too sensitive even for a soft tongue. So ... you know her best. Does she cum the HARDEST on the first or the second clitoral O? If it's the second then give her one nice one with your tongue and TIME IT so that she has a G-GASM at the same time. Then play a bit. get her REALLY CRANKED and wanting another O - ANY O.

The G-Gasm will cum almost immediately at this point so play there but don't let her actually have a G-Gasm. Make her WAIT. Concentrate on her clit. Work her up slowly and pull away a bit (tease) if she wants to hump your face. Don't let her force a cum.

OK if she hasn't felt this before it'll freak her out.

As you determine that she is just about to cum from BOTH clitoral AND GSpot go into high gear - on BOTH but instead of continuing your normal tongue movements take a deep breath, purse your lips like you're a TUBA player and force air through your lips. It will produce a very strong feel of vibration on her clit and - right at the moment of her clitoral orgasm it is like TURBO-CHARGING it.

Between the TRUMPET move on her clit and your finger ramming another G-Gasm through her just make sure your face and nose are at an angle so that when she jack-knifes she doesn't break your nose.

Enjoy.

Mr G - I just have to say that I have NEVER in all my life had SO much FUN as I have since joining lit (only joined because of this thread!)

My amazing, erotic, caring, generous, irresistable, sensational man and I have been slowly working toward the G-Gasm bliss you have so caringly and responsibly described - we're nearly there (we keep discovering new 'favourite positions' in our journey, which can divert us for weeks at a time! )

I thought we were on the right track (hence the video clip link which took hours to find! - just to check)

But I just read this little TUBA gem and phoned my hubby at work - we laughed and laughed - we were being silly and playful one day, and he played me like a TUBA once very early on - I've been demanding it ever since!!! ROFL! We thought it was just US!!!!! What a HOOT!

To anyone who isn't there yet (like us) Relax, Enjoy, Laugh - it's the Road BEST Travelled!!!! We'll get there sooner or later In fact, I think we just stop too soon- meanwhile - enjoy the ride! G-d knows WE ARE!!!!!!!

 

[Mr.G]

MR. & MRS PINK

Thanks so much for your note. As long as the good folk out there are enjoying their "research" (let's keep things serious here, huh?) then I'm a happy dude. What a pleasure to hear couples JUST HAVING FUN and not worrying about feeling like LOOZERZ if they don't flood the basement or any of the other misconceptions the naive seem to be getting from watching some really DUMB porn flicks these days.

Some couples DO seem to take a long time to hit that EUREEKA moment but from many emails and IMs that I've received, it seems to happen to almost all of them sooner or later and the EUREEKA posts or emails give me chills - all I can do is thank YOU guys for showing how much the trip is worth to both of you. It is also great to see how much the regulars try and help out as much as they can to get other couples to THAT moment. The destination is just the start of another trip from my perspective! The regulars who post here will confirm that even the attempts (prior to EUREEKA point-break) the whole trip brings the two of you closer together, increases BOTH your self confidence and feeling of hyper-sexuality. ANYTHING that does that is a GOOD THANG. The fact that this is sexual just makes it a whole lot more fun than taking some adult college course teaching some theory on how to get closer in a relationship and / or how to increase your self-confidence. There is a maturity and acceptance of others and other ideas here that sadly lacking on many sites that claim to be open, honest and friendly and are anything but.

 

[thebarber69]

And the award of golden taa taa is awaded to Mr G.

I just brings a laugh to me when you do some of your dicriptive dialog on instructions. I missed that one with the Tuba. Still lauging my ass off over that one, always a good thing to find out another thing to put in my vast erotic mind to try. And I like the way you describe the flinching thing, keep that head away or it will get crushed like a mellon, those leg contractions can be leathal. Just had to say, just great on this thread, there is more of this kind that is needed out here, and less of the bashing and bitching going on.

 

[twincam]

My wife wants to have a G-Spot orgasim in the worst way after reading some of these post. We have tried it about 5 times so far and she gets really close to having one and it goes away. She says it feels really good though. We will keep trying and I was wondering if an egg vibrator would help? Pushing in hard on the area feels great to her but after about 5 minutes my hands are cramiping. Any ideas or suggestions are welcomed.

 

[eudaemonia]

Any ideas or suggestions are welcomed.

Why the rolleyes?

 

[Mr.G]

My wife wants to have a G-Spot orgasim in the worst way after reading some of these post. We have tried it about 5 times so far and she gets really close to having one and it goes away. She says it feels really good though. We will keep trying and I was wondering if an egg vibrator would help? Pushing in hard on the area feels great to her but after about 5 minutes my hands are cramiping. Any ideas or suggestions are welcomed.

There has been a TON of responses on this issue so maybe read some of those but I'll say real quick here (typin xtra fast) that you have to sometimes t e a s e a G-Gasm out. If you know approximately when she "loses" it just before cuming then STOP and do other stuff to keep her turned on, wanting to cum and half crazy-horny. Go back to doing the G thang in whatever position she feels is getting her closest to EUREEKAville. Do that several times. Watch her reactions and help her build up by backing off, teasing in other ways and returning to the Technique, perhaps briefly again and again.

The object is to get the clitoral root or the trunk to become hyper sensitive. This will ensure the whole GSpot area is stimulated and all fired up. The body sometimes doesn't quite know what to do next so there is a teasing and a little bit of push involved too. As she WANTS it to happen (biig surprise there) at least you don't have to "hold'er down" which of course results in wails of protest from the feminazi crowd who sadly don't understand the whole concept of GIVING her pleasure sometimes when she doesn't know quite what it feels like or how she achieves that last hurdle herself.

*edit* Hand cramping? Have you tried the thumb version as described in the first post here. If you do that you are using your ARM and shoulder mostly for speed and pressure so it is much more robust than using fingers in a "PICK UP A BOWLING BALL" version shown in the clip. Save that for when she is G-Gsaming easily. Those other versions and use of smaller weaker fingers is fine then but for long distances and MArathons, the thumb is the best. No cramps.... unless she is one of the women who look over their shoulder after G-GAsming over and over again for a solid 90 minutes or so and ask, SERIOUSLY, "Why'd ya STOP???" If she is in THAT kind of shape I suggest POWER TOOLS!!!

Good luck. It sounds like you guys are having a blast in the attempts and "research" anyway. If she feels it's close I'm betting it is. Real close. Tease a little more and you'll likely get it and from that moment on your lives will change for the better and it will never be a hard thing to achieve again - ever. Cool, ya?

Luck ya don't need but we're all rootin for yuz and hoping you take the time one day soon to post your very own EUREEKA moment.

 

[Another Shy One]

We have yet to succeed but the quest continues -

is this it???? http://www.youporn.com/watch/31706

Whoa... Are there any other videos like this? I mean, not porn, but instructional videos.

 

[Mr.G]

Not that I've seen

But use your imagination.

Flip the girl / woman / victim / volunteer / subject over on her front. Prop her bum in the air using pillows. Place a hand on the small of her back (so she can't escape / wiggle away) and then INSERT a thumb and do what you see happening in the clip only using a piston-ing in out and motion with increasing DOWN pressure.

Make their TOES curl up good.

 

[thebarber69]

and another shy one...listen to the man....it works....bleave me....got to watch the thumb though, it might get broken if you don't have it in the right position those G gasms can get quite intense on the woman

 

[midwicket]

If yur pass the elbow yuv gone to farr.

Ha haaaaaaa

 

[midwicket]

Watch this - especially the last section (about 11 minutes in)
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/589171/find_locate_excite_estimulate_g_spot/

 

[jgod]

The "A" spot technique

Hi Mr. G...

Great info, I can't wait to try it on my new wife. She lives in a foreign country so it will be a while, but I am getting some really good ideas.

I noticed a while back you posted a technique involving the A spot and asked for feedback from those who tried it. Unfortunately, I don't think anyone posted any feedback on this technique.

If I understand it correctly...one finger or thumb is in the "bum" and another finger or thumb is kind of squeezing or "biting" the membrane between the vagina and the anus...is this correct?

What are we looking for here...a spot like the G spot...or what? How far in should one go?

Could you elaborate a little on this technique?

Thanks for the information and help you have given to all of us.

 

[Mr.G]

Years (many moons) ago I used to play with a g/f using one hand in the wee beastie mode - ya know - where you "walk" around with your fingers being the legs on a beast and snuffle about ... anyway I'd tease the hell out of her walking the beast up her thigh snuffling around her clit for just a sec and then down the other thigh ... then back again ... eventually burrowing into a warm wet cozy place to play ... if ya follow. BTW I wouldn't say the spot swelled like what you feel when the GSpot triggers. It felt more like the space between you thumb and finger just got thicker. Not a big help I guess but consider ALL women are a bit different so you may feel something else - a ribbing perhaps or a specific bump or ridge. RESEARCH is what this ia all about, laddie!

I would then poke a thumb in the back and the thumb in the front and "chew" or chomp on the membrane between and it seemed to have a kind of G effect. Spasms and convulsion like orgasms all through her bod. I'd usually give her aq good tongue lashing while doing this and she seemed to enjoy the adventures of the amazing BITE BEAST.

I never really associated the two until several centuries later when I read about the possibility of the ASPOT and its location. That being up near the cervix on the back wall of the vagina and THAT is why so many women actually enjoy a good anal pounding on occasion. Some even claim they can cum that way and never to rarely by regular PIV sex. Go figa.

 

[thebarber69]

*Hat off to you Mr G* and yet another fine way of describing a good new way to do things. Just great. LOL. I love it. I keep digging on things out there and if anyone is interested I have found this link.

http://www.talksexwithsue.com/Gspot.html

Now there she said that some can produce up to 2 Quarts of nectar. Hmmmmm.....lunch; boy I would not have to drink with that amount. Ohh boy, I just can taste it now.

 

[perfect_deb]

tried it last night - almost got there but his fingernails were getting me!

just a note on the childbirth thing......

when i had my second child, as his head hit my vagina and he rotated to be born i had the most incredible orgasm - i had been sucking on gas for 5 hours and i just threw it away - the pain just vanished! the orgasm hit my whole body like an electric shock, i screamed and he slid out of my body in a rush b4 the midwife could react (she nearly dropped him) - i continued to orgasm for about 2 min - the midwife thought i was having a seisure! i've never told anybody bout this b4 cos i thought it was weird but now i'm relieved!

Deb

 

[Mr.G]

""as his head hit my vagina, I had the most incredible orgasm""

Which would indicate that your bod already KNOWS what it feels like so it should be fairly EASY to reach that point again (andagaianandagainandagain) so KEEP TRYING - betcha ya have your EUREEKA moment the next time you try.

RULE # TWO, I think, for this whole process is make sure your FINGERNAILS ARE CUT AND TRIMMED (and CLEAN) !!! No guy should get near that area unless he's had the consideration and sense to do that. Clean out the cat box w/o a scoop, break a fingernail and then suggest you give him a good finger in the butt poking and see what he thinks.

Funny. I mentioned the possibility of G-type Gasms during childbirth based on my common-sense assumption that those spots were set up by the bod to trigger endorphins and elasticizers during childbirth. A FEW women jumped all over me for such a STUPID suggestion. Since then a few posters and a bunch of women have IM'd me saying that it DID happen to them during childbirth and they thought they were weird - felt guilty even. Reading about it here both made sense and made them feel like they weren't freaks. Cool.

Folks, see what degree of RESEARCH some members are willing to explore to find more useful information about G and A Spots ... and SHARE? Incredible dedication and resolve!!

 

[travelboy]

Mr G. I have tried with my current girlfriend and am struggling with her. I have managed with my previous tho'.

I tried your face down and on a pillow. After a long time my wrist was buggered, my thumb lame and i was exhausted.

I have spent a lot of time reading but found the video links quite instructive. I think you have been an amazing resource here but would like you to go one better.

Even though i understand that the journey of discovery is also important to the destination but how about putting together a few video clips of instruction. Its removes a lot of the confusion of going between posts and trying to piece it all together.

whatdayasay.

 

[007buble]

That's very right.....

 

[rubyc]

This makes for an interesting read........will be defo showing it to my lover........ can't wait to try it out........thanks Mr G

 

[Mr.G]

Thought of doing that very thing

""...how about putting together a few video clips of instruction."" & ""That's very right.....""

I should include a video - or maybe a few video clips showing the different angles, possibilities, avg. (observed) response times and some tricks to "coax" or tease the first G-Gasms to happen. The research could be fun.

All I need now are some volunteers for the "research."

 

[travelboy]

YOu have over 300 000 posts here. Got to be some people who would be willing participants

Happy to oblige but i gather you are not in australia.

I have to say one thing tho'. As a typical bloke and someone fascinated by learning, besides being a gentle lover i always focused a lot on technique and trying to udnerstand human physiological repsonses (i have a way to go). What i have learned is much more important is making yr partner feel special and loved. Good technique is just the cherry on the top.

... but it is one hell of a cherry )

I honestly think this would be a great resource ..thanks for sharing so much to this point.