Try This & Report Back

[MR.GGG]

safe trip ...

""...it should have a life of its own! maybe if enough couples master this technique, something will trigger for the whole planet! going to Africa soon and hoping to continue the experiment under the night sky, hoping for some extra magic! love to all.""

I think it does have a life of its own sometimes and yes I'm hoping to teach this to the radical Muslim hordes so they settle down and just G-Gasm their way into a peaceful future with the rest of us grinning lechers. If only Mohammed PBUH had known about this Technique. The world would have sucCUMbed long ago to that kind of PIECE !!

If we could TEACH this Technique to the teeming AIDS infected billions in Africa we could save a TON of lives too. We just need something more tuned to males getting off 40 times in one night and I figure most (ALL) of the world's problems would simply shrink into relative insignificance.

Anyway, thanks for dropping in again. Best of luck in Africa and plse stay safe. I'm told you have more to worry about there than bad spinach in the supermarkets - but I could be wrong.

Be cool.

 

[kaledonia]

going with..

..SO and my sons, so should be safe enough. don't know about the high mountain passes though-I'm assured there is tarmac but maybe a 4wd would have been a beeter hire. trouble with our muslim brothers and sisters is that they think heaven is only in the next life!

 

[krysbigcat]

g and a spot

oh boy i just have to try this out <huge grin> wait till my hubby gets home lol

 

[Gil_T2]

oh boy i just have to try this out <huge grin> wait till my hubby gets home lol

don't forget to drop back & post your results.

 

[brissygal]

wow, i can't wait to try this out...now just have to wait until i have my baby.....2-3 months wait...

 

[rh18]

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[kaledonia]

good grief.........

...........BACK to the front page for this important thread!

 

[landgirl]

Hmmmm.

Part of me would like to try this, and I know my other half would be only too keen to do his bit...

But I'm nervous about this whole idea of losing control. I've never been very good at letting go, and the idea of being completely unmanned in front of somebody scares me.

I can't see me ever having the nerve to try it, somehow - or if I did, I imagine I'd be worrying so much about what was going to happen that nothing would.

I'm really, really happy for all the people who've had such wonderful experiences, though! I'm glad it worked.

 

[PandoraSpox]

This sounds like a lot of fun! I'm going to try it this weekend!

 

[MR.GGG]

Loss Of Control

rh18 - for all those who have found that this works for them it IS fun. Actually "fun" doesn't come close to what this is.

LOSS OF CONTROL is NOT always a BAD thang.
Landgirl sez she is scared of losing control. Hmmm .... Methinks you need to be with a SO you can trust completely. This sounds like you are scared to try it and lose control with somebody you might be embarrassed with if you did becum one massive shuddering orgasms after another.

There have been several posts here where the woman states that for the first time EVER they've completely lost control while they were being made to cum over and over again and in fact their orgasms just kind of blended into one long G-Gasms ever increasing in intensity until there was literally NOTHING else happening in their brain. They have emailed me and said they actually felt HOT in certain sections of their brain (LOVE to do a brain scan during a session) when this happened BUT ... it was a fabulous feeling, made their SO feel terrific being able to do that for / to her and left her completely exhausted past anywhere she had ever been before. There is a peace and an inner confidence that women seem to get when their SO duz them like this a lot. They just feel 100 times sexier than before - mostly because they are. NUFFIN sexier than a woman having orgasms all over the place right in front of you. This technique gives a HOLE (sic) new meaning to the saying "Keeping her under your thumb."

Finding a SO who you can do this with without fearing this loss of control, I think will be very well worth the effort. There are so many things that we happily DO to each other and things that even happen by accident (Tooot - ooops, sorry) not to mention how ridiculous we look in certain positions or doing some things that being embarrassed by massive uncontrollable G-Gasms seems trivial !! GO FOR IT, gurl.

brissy - I wish you well, a SAFE return of your SO and unlimited and uncontrollable suckcess with the G-Gasm technique when he gets back. Don't forget to write and let us know the latest research in your bedroom.

MR.G will be time-traveling for several months / minutes - depending on which side of the speed of light you happen to live in. Meanwhile ....

KEEP UP THE RESEARCH.

 

[landgirl]

LOSS OF CONTROL is NOT always a BAD thang.
Landgirl sez she is scared of losing control. Hmmm .... Methinks you need to be with a SO you can trust completely. This sounds like you are scared to try it and lose control with somebody you might be embarrassed with if you did becum one massive shuddering orgasms after another.

There have been several posts here where the woman states that for the first time EVER they've completely lost control while they were being made to cum over and over again and in fact their orgasms just kind of blended into one long G-Gasms ever increasing in intensity until there was literally NOTHING else happening in their brain. They have emailed me and said they actually felt HOT in certain sections of their brain (LOVE to do a brain scan during a session) when this happened BUT ... it was a fabulous feeling, made their SO feel terrific being able to do that for / to her and left her completely exhausted past anywhere she had ever been before. There is a peace and an inner confidence that women seem to get when their SO duz them like this a lot. They just feel 100 times sexier than before - mostly because they are. NUFFIN sexier than a woman having orgasms all over the place right in front of you. This technique gives a HOLE (sic) new meaning to the saying "Keeping her under your thumb."

Finding a SO who you can do this with without fearing this loss of control, I think will be very well worth the effort. There are so many things that we happily DO to each other and things that even happen by accident (Tooot - ooops, sorry) not to mention how ridiculous we look in certain positions or doing some things that being embarrassed by massive uncontrollable G-Gasms seems trivial !! GO FOR IT, gurl.

Er...thanks for replying, but the last thing I need is a different SO. I've been married to my partner for 20 years, and I would trust him with my life - I hope we're up for another 20 at least! It's not that I'm scared of losing control in front of him (and for the record, we have a very happy and active sex life, and yes, I do climax with him - regularly!). He's seen me have our two children, after all... I'm just worried about losing control, full stop. It's a purely personal thing - just the way I am, I guess.

I suppose some things just aren't right for everybody? I guess I'm just a bit too tightly wound for this particular thing...!

 

[MR.GGG]

Ooops

From your earlier description I'm afraid I jumped to that conclusion. Sorry.

The fact is you don't have to go "that far" with this. Have a safe word or just tell your So that if you appear to be enjoying this too much he is to cease and desist immediately. Cumming via GSpot stimulation CAN be just like a clitoral orgasm. Different but many couples have experienced a GSpot orgasm just very few ever found out that if the technique described, is used they can orgasm over and over again.

Your "fear" of losing control may be valid for YOU but it is illogical when it comes to not wanting to experience a good G-Gasm without ever trying it. So if you trust your SO THAT much just tell him to make you cum once that way and then you can analyze your feelings. If you trust him completely then you know he will stop as soon as he realizes you're enjoying yourself. I would.









NOT!!

ANyway - whichever direction you take I wish you much and continued suckcess in your more traditional and not-so-scary sex.

 

[landgirl]

From your earlier description I'm afraid I jumped to that conclusion. Sorry.

S'alright - thanks for the apology, I appreciate it!

Have a safe word or just tell your So that if you appear to be enjoying this too much he is to cease and desist immediately.

If you trust him completely then you know he will stop as soon as he realizes you're enjoying yourself.

I'm not COMPLETELY dessicated, you know...! But I do take your point about deciding I don't like something before I've even tried it...

And less of the "traditional and not so scary sex" comments! I may be a bit intimidated by the idea of G-spot stimulation, but you'd be surprised by some of the things we HAVE tried...

Cheers!

You do realise he's going to pester me to death about this now, don't you??!

 

[psyche]

S'alright - thanks for the apology, I appreciate it!


I'm not COMPLETELY dessicated, you know...! But I do take your point about deciding I don't like something before I've even tried it...

And less of the "traditional and not so scary sex" comments! I may be a bit intimidated by the idea of G-spot stimulation, but you'd be surprised by some of the things we HAVE tried...

Cheers!

You do realise he's going to pester me to death about this now, don't you??!

From a woman's perspective, I would say give it a try at least once. It's the most incredible sexual experience that I have ever had, and I have had multiple clitoral orgasms my whole sexual life.

 

[MR.GGG]

I have posted the TECHNIQUE on several other boards and have posted back here some of the comments and reactions. MOST of them are extremely NEGATIVE, dismissive, insulting and weird considering they have no idea what a G thang IS, definitive. They state that the whole G thing is a MYTH and that it is a PROVEN FACT that it does not exist and that multiple orgasms are NOT possible in most women and the women who claim to have multiples are either lying or some kind of perverted deviant.

Here's another GREAT commentary posted as a reaction to my post of the technique.

""I think if my love for someone diminished so much and our sex lives became so boring that I would have to reach inside my lover's womb searching for something a perverted scientist discovered for her to have orgasms, I just don't see it. I was with a woman once that I liked a lot but had no sexual feelings for at all and she invited me to try that but it seemed like the last desperate act of a pretty desperate sex life, sorry.""

What a sad, boring fuk he must be.

Anyway, THAT attitude seems to be the prevalent one out there. This site (LIT) seems way more open than most and with posts from the likes of Don K. and psyche as well as a few hundred others, there is some obvious validity to these outlandish claims that I've made about where to find a G thang and how to stimulate it properly.

Several other threads dismiss the technique and accuse me of claiming to be some SUPER STUD which to anybody with half a brain, knows that is NOT why I posted the technique. Think about it. ""I'm the world's best STUD and I have a secret and I'm not telling."" VS ""Hey I stumbled on this great way to drive your woman nuts. Here's how you do it. Try it. Have fun. If you have ANY spare time, ya'll come back and let US know how it worked.""


BIG difference!!! Is it THAT hard to see the difference?

Sad commentary about, apparently most, of the folk out there though.

 

[Gil_T2]

I have posted the TECHNIQUE on several other boards and have posted back here some of the comments and reactions. MOST of them are extremely NEGATIVE, dismissive, insulting and weird considering they have no idea what a G thang IS, definitive. They state that the whole G thing is a MYTH and that it is a PROVEN FACT that it does not exist and that multiple orgasms are NOT possible in most women and the women who claim to have multiples are either lying or some kind of perverted deviant.

Here's another GREAT commentary posted as a reaction to my post of the technique.

""I think if my love for someone diminished so much and our sex lives became so boring that I would have to reach inside my lover's womb searching for something a perverted scientist discovered for her to have orgasms, I just don't see it. I was with a woman once that I liked a lot but had no sexual feelings for at all and she invited me to try that but it seemed like the last desperate act of a pretty desperate sex life, sorry.""

What a sad, boring fuk he must be.

Anyway, THAT attitude seems to be the prevalent one out there. This site (LIT) seems way more open than most and with posts from the likes of Don K. and psyche as well as a few hundred others, there is some obvious validity to these outlandish claims that I've made about where to find a G thang and how to stimulate it properly.

Several other threads dismiss the technique and accuse me of claiming to be some SUPER STUD which to anybody with half a brain, knows that is NOT why I posted the technique. Think about it. ""I'm the world's best STUD and I have a secret and I'm not telling."" VS ""Hey I stumbled on this great way to drive your woman nuts. Here's how you do it. Try it. Have fun. If you have ANY spare time, ya'll come back and let US know how it worked.""


BIG difference!!! Is it THAT hard to see the difference?

Sad commentary about, apparently most, of the folk out there though.

so many ladies missing out because of sad fucks like the first one.

the older lady who showed me the way to G spot & other little tips has seen this very ordinary person a happy man with many ladies tlling their friend "You got to try this".

 

[kaledonia]

don't know why......

...such folk bother to post negative comments. ok, so its a free speach forum, and to be applauded for that, but its sad that some folk can be misguided enough to fly in the face (or otherwise!) of so much documentary evidence. in a way it reflects the sadness affecting world thinking. I recently attended a seminar in Positive Psychology, which didn't have anything revolutionary to say, but attempted to underline how kindness and cooperation, selflessness and compassion can help everyone to live a productive life. google it if you're interested. Our experiment restarts on saturday!

 

[MR.GGG]

Bon Voyage

"" don't know why......
...such folk bother to post negative comments.""

I don't get it either. I've been blasted recently by posting to one Forum. Despite numerous posts by women who DO have G-gasms and know that they are repetitive and HUGE, most of the posts are of the "that's IMPOSSIBLE" type messages. What idiots. They don't even want to learn and to give MOST of the people on this Forum credit - that's what we're all here for. We have ALL shared and that is way kool.

I'm sure I'm speaking for all the regulars on this TRY THIS thread when I wish the "Kaledonian Clan" a safe and healthy voyage of discovery to the DARK continent.

Beware of Nubians with pointy sticks tho.

Be safe. Let us know when you're back.

 

[BreeCarter]

i guess i'm just blessed because i have gspot orgasms (multiple) just with sex, let alone with hands and anything else. it's fucking awesome.

 

[emptynester]

When I and SO started our new journey (you will have to read my other posts to get the history) we read up on all kinds of things to please each other. Mr GGG is right. Several sites will say there might be something to this GSpot thing but obviously don't know enough about it to really be writing about it.
We decided to explore this.
Again, like Mr. GGG said, if you go into it like that you are probably going to be very disappointed. I was beginning to think I didn't have one. The search only led to frustration on my part.
My husband was determined though and continued reading various things on the internet. He basically fooled me into thinking we weren't going to worry about it anymore and began trying various things on me that he had read. One night after a lot of foreplay he began moving his finger in one spot until I realized something was definitely happening. The more pressure he applied, the more intense it became. WOW, I couldn't believe the outcome. (no pun intended). It was incredible. He described to me later homw much pressure he was applying. He said he was afraid he was going to hurt my but I seemed to be enjoying it so he didn't stop.
I will say (for me) the more excited I am to begin with the easier it is to find that spot. He says it gets larger the more excited I become. Anyway, we have tried it both with me on my back, on my stomach after a really nice massage and are now experimenting with a sex toy like someone described earlier in this thread. It curves just a little (45 degree maybe) at the end. SO really likes this because it is allows him to also stimulate the clitoris at the same time with his hand. Me personally, I like it best with his fingers. Probably a little more because it seems more personal, but heh it all feels good.
Landgirl, I had a tendency to be timid in the beginning about letting go and whatever happens happens. I have really relaxed and since SO has the attitude of just let go and don't worry about it, it totally helps. This is really incredible and works so well for me. I have accused SO of trying to do me in to collect on the life insurance. You really do have to take a time out to breathe.
Total relaxation, giving into the feelings, etc. are such and important part of the success of this, but then again it is for anything new you try. We are now into the prostate massage on him which really makes for more intense orgasms for him. If we argue over anything now having to do with sex, it is who is going to pleasure whom tonight. What used to take 30 - 45 minutes is we weren't to tired or the kids weren't on their way home now takes around 2 hrs. We are both in our late 40's. I can't believe how much better it gets with age (and without kids at home).

 

[orgasmless]

last night hubby and i tried your suggestions out and once again it lasted for ages with nothing to account for.

i was really into it, he had me facing down and using his thumb, but after a while although i was soaking wet, i could not get past this pee feeling, i tried to ingnore it, impossible, as it just got stronger and stronger, then i felt this feeling of the pee when you are really desparate to go and run to the bathroom and cant get your knicker down quick enough, i actually felt that i was about to go, but didnt, it was sort of like the pee had moved to the very end of me before coming out, it didnt leak but the feeling was awful, i ended up where i coulndt take it anymore and ended up crying and shaking, what the hell went on?

 

[MR.GGG]

"what the hell went on?"

Dunno. How old are you? Did you just start the GSpot technique cold or did you engage in lots and LOTS of foreplay first. How are your PC muscles? Do you do kegels? Have you had any surgical procedures in the area ... C-section, cysts removed? Do you have endo? Before or after your period? How many days? Did he use extra lube?

There are many posts detailing similar experiences as what you describe saying that they just tried the technique and NADDA. Nuffin but frustration and that, " Gotta pee " feeling.

I can't stress enough that the FIRST time you try this has to be after enough foreplay that you may never have been turned on that much before in your life. If it doesn't trigger right way go on to something else and go back to the technique later or even another night. Make sure you do urinate before trying it so at least mentally you KNOW there's nothing there despite what your nerve endings down there are saying.

Some couples report back, as you've maybe read, and claim almost instant suckcess. Others have a bitch of a time getting it to trigger properly. Did your SO "feeel" the lump or ridge under his thumb? If it doesn't rise / engorge then he should go back to some other turn on technique and go back to that later. I suggest NOT allowing yourself to CUM first but keep up the foreplay so you are so turned on your teeth are chattering.

I guess my best advice would be DON"T concentrate on JUST that. The first time can be hard for some so don't make a big deal out of it. Just try in now and then. Try different positions. Try using a vibrator or other toy. I prefer the thumb so he an feel your response and is, of course, much more tuned to your reaction. As he feels the area swell and can see you getting even more turned on he can apply more pressure. If he just starts out using lots of pressure, little lube and you aren't turned on already then, sadly, it may not and in your case did not work.

I have noticed also that very young women have a tougher time having their GSpot triggered than some women in their late 30's and 40's (the oldest I've received emails/PMs from was 83 and 78 !!! and it worked for them) so if you are early 20's or thereabouts just slow down, have LOTS of fun doing other stuff because it seems to take a lot to "train" the GSpot what to do if you are young.

Good luck. Keep trying but don't just focus on that and when it does happen for you plse get back to us and let us know how, where, under what circumstances etc that it did finally work. Your success may give other the drive to keep doing this until it works for them too. Keep reading the posts too. There is a treasure trove of info buried in amongst the fluff and chatter ... well worth reading through most of the thread if you can find the time.

 

[orgasmless]

ok im 42 been amrried for 25 years had 3 kids via c section not on any meds.

we had been teasing each other for a number of hours around 4 -5 since he came in from work!!! once we got into bed even then he didnt just dive striagth in, kissing cuddling etc, we have been working on this for a long time now, over 9 months, but i always get this pee thing troubling me, it really is like that bowling ball for a bladder feeling, it certainly cant be ignored!! i am halfway through my cycle, and i have no other medical problems at all.

as we had gone to bed i did pee for the last time that night, intending on going to sleep!!! we have tried in so many positions you wouldnt believe. your suggestion of not allowing myself to cum!!!! ha ha, do i have a choice?, seeing as ive never had an orgasm from any way, oral, penetration or manual, there is no choice to make!!!

he did say that my insides where ballooning up and down however i didnt feel it happening at all, he does tell me that he can feel this huge squishy lump etc. oh yes nearly forgot im not on any b/c been sterilised!!!

 

[MR.GGG]

"" seeing as I've never had an orgasm from any way, oral, penetration or manual, there is no choice to make!!!""

Wow. I'm sorry to hear that. Have you seen a doctor. There may be a simple, fixable explanation.

When you say NEVER - does that refer to hubby or have you NEVER had an orgasm - as in never had one by yourself either? Have you tried a vibrator? Do you do Kegel exercises? I'm a firm (getit?) believer in Kegels. If there is no muscle tone how can you have an orgasmic muscle contraction and just like push-ups or sit-ups if there are no muscles there the number of contractions that your bod is capable of producing will be small or nonexistent.

I wish I could offer more insight. I talk with women who can orgasm with a wink and then, because we ARE all different, there are people who either don't have them at all or it takes so long that they prefer just the cuddling and making sure their partner gets off. Perhaps some of the women who help out on this thread can suggest some other things you can try to finally capture the BIG O. All the regulars in here are fantastic at encouraging and suggesting different approaches to this quest so ... if there are more ideas plse let O-less in on the secret. Good luck.

 

[orgasmless]

thats right none at all from any source!!! yes i have been to the doctor and theres nothing actually wrong for them to fix. my pc muscles well i could snap my hubby in half if i wanted to!!!lol

we have several vibs rabbits and such, they get to a pint but nothing to good that i would say was an orgasm, at least its something though, but nothing wow!! and finally yes i do the kegels, have done since having the kids by c section, hasnt made any difference except that i can hold my pee!!