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[TBKahuna123]

Has anybody used the GSpot technique AS an apology? There's NOTHING that sez, "I'm sorry." like 40 or 50 orgasms !

NO, but it's an idea!

 

[jethrobodeen]

Supplements for the big load

Off-topic question here: What sort of herbals?

I've experimented with nutritional supplements since my teens (1970s) after reading and article in High Times magazine. Heh, some of you remember, eh? The article was written by a nutritionist I think, who found that certain nutrients seemed to be depleted by some people who lived the extreme lifestyles, abusing legal and illegal substances, or hyper-sexual activity, physical training, somewhat regularly. But by supplementing these nutrients would help them sustain and still be able to function in most areas with little or no adverse affect by their chosen lifestyle behavior. Some, myself esp, who tried his suggestions, lacked a lot of the nutrients we needed regardless of our intense lifestyles. After trying his recommendations, I received huge benefits surprisingly quickly. I became physically and mentally supercharged despite late night partying, fulltime work, going to college, and weekend warrioring. Please I have nothing to back this up, only memory (which often I don't even trust). The author suggested matching lifestyle habits and symptoms with nutrient recommendations. For example, if you smoke pot everyday, increase whatever vitamins/minerals etc... But regardless of the extreme lifestyle he always warned strongly about the supplements that would be harmful if dosage was increased above recommendations.

I found gradual decline in performance after I'd get lazy/forgetful about taking the supplements and after resuming, my performance would go back up. I've gone this cycle now several times over the last 25 years. I have no doubt personally of its validity.

Around my late 20s early 30s I followed an other recommendation and added beef liver extract with Eluethero (Siberian Ginseng). Within 3-4 days I got a sexual charge from the vitamin Bs and the ginseng as levels in my system began to produce their effect. Erections like stell but bumpy like concrete they got so hard. And I always did produce a rather nice sized load, but I was also feeling good (at 35 better than at 25 no shitting) and competing in the local over-30 amature soccer league. It was around 30 my physical and mental abilities increased and so did my increased sexual performance. I also checked out other herbals for increased mental clarity and energy and have found some to be too expensive or a hoax but some actually do help, some not enough to be worth it, others well worth it a great deal.

For the last few years I get spammed every day by someone who wants to lengthen my penis. Rarely did they every look authentic for years I just delete to get past and on to real stuff. It wasn't that long ago, however, I broke down and googled for anything about this. Through that I located and checked on other boards like this but more focused on the subject of the spammers. What I found before spending a dime on this, was that certain nutrients absolutely can increase your libido, make you as hard as your body will expand to, and make your load gigantic and taste sweet for your honey. In contrast all the reports from those that tried any supplement reported that either they did not experience any increase, or in fact did notice some increase in size and/or girth, some measured and didn't find much, but still believable due to possible stretching of penile tissue even a little if the internal hydrolic pressure goes high enough, but summarily any noticable length increases were agreed to be NON-PERMANENT. But most of these guys were into hanging and stretching and jelkin to manually and forcefully increase their sizes. So most of them said yeah some pills work to help my routine, but only the routine can "cement" any size increase. Oh, and FYI nobody on their ever admitted reaching the 2-inch increase mark. Some said 1.75, etc... mostly chimed in with an inch or 3/4s. My wife says I'm more than big enough for her, and I believe her, so I'm not too intriuged by hanging golf weights from my manhood and attaching a vacuum hose (unless it would make me cum ). They talk about a lot of risk of injury and how to deal with them but mostly how to avoid. I haven't decided whether I'll try any of their techniques the safe ways they recommend, but I have to admit I'm drawn by the possibility to get still larger for her to accomodate.
But I digress.

So I cautiously followed some of the spammers into their lairs, and check the ingredients for any I could find that posted them on the web site. Then after actually reading the spams a little and the claims on the websites didn't make any claims of penile enlargement, but rather simply stated the benefits to be increased libido, harder erections, unbelievably larger loads, and oh so sweet taste for the lucky lady. So I used them as more of a baseline for what ingredients they had and also looked for reputable independent sources for confirmation of the benefits of taking those ingredients. It's easy to find anything when you have some key words.

To prove I have no interest or affiliation in any way with distribution of products. I don't think I want to recommend any particular brand of anything.

Here's the ingredients on the label I'm taking for libido/bigload/sweet/hardasrock and it works for me. Most similar brands include these ingredients in varying amounts, I'm not going to put them here, because I don't know which formula I'm going to try when this runs out.

Zinc, EPIMEDIUM EXTRACT, Maca, Catuaba (bark), Muira Puama (root), Tribulus, l-Arginine, Cola (seed), Oat Straw (grassy stalks), Stinging Nettle (leaf), Pumpkin (seed), Cayenne, Ginger, American ginseng, Eleuthero (Siberian ginseng root), Asian ginseng, Sarsaparilla, Orchic Substance (bovine), Boron Citrate.

Just do a search on some of these ingreds, and see what you find. Look for products that have the mix you want.

DISCLAIMER: I can only testify as to my experience and what I see, in no way should anything I say (concerning much of anything) be construed as expert testimony.

 

[MR.GGG]

Ginseng !!!

I agree with the notion that some supplements increase libido. Ginseng has always done it for me. The older, the more expensive, the better, I found. I could only take it for a few days at a time when I was younger because the effects were so pronounced.

I haven't tried any but there are a few brands being sold that apparently increase seminal fluid production so the amount of cum increases somewhat. Some of the porn stars swear by these supplements but one wonders about the integrity of a marketing campaign that focuses on sperm production when it really isn't even sperm that accounts for the extra amount of splatter.

I'm curious too. Are there any women out there who have taken Ginseng supps and noticed an increase in frquency of horniness and intensity of orgasms.

As far as dick enhancement drugs. GET REAL. The ONLY way to increase the size of
your dick (with OUT surgery) is to kill yourself and try and come back as a rhino. The "send me $65 for these pills and it'll increase the size of your dick" ads would be more truthful if you switched the words "your dick" to "my bank account." Pure unadulterated nonsense.

Hanging a 40lb barbell from your dick and sleeping face down in a hammock to increase the length of your dick will likely work over the years. That's the good news. The bad news is that strtching vaso-congestive tissue that badly would result in a long dick that was as permanently flacid as a road-kill rattler.

Just one other word of warning for the morons who think you can grow a body part by taking some secret (Secret? YA! It's called BS) herb. There are many supplements that use the pituitary and adrenal glands from slaughtered cattle to get "genuine" hormones. Umm DUHHH. Anybody heard of MAD COW disease. Take a bunch of NON-pharmaceutical grade bovine sourced "hormone" pills and you increase your chances of acquiring a dose of mentis jellopuddingis. Getting Lou Gehrigged is NOT my idea of a "relaxing" retirement!

But then again if you're dumb enough to buy pills beleiving them capable of making your dick grow huge you're already 3/4 of the way there.

 

[jethrobodeen]

I agree with the notion that some supplements increase libido. Ginseng has always done it for me. The older, the more expensive, the better, I found. I could only take it for a few days at a time when I was younger because the effects were so pronounced.

I haven't tried any but there are a few brands being sold that apparently increase seminal fluid production so the amount of cum increases somewhat. Some of the porn stars swear by these supplements but one wonders about the integrity of a marketing campaign that focuses on sperm production when it really isn't even sperm that accounts for the extra amount of splatter.

Speaking from experience, rather than inexperience as you admit....Try something or don't, but if you do always research first like I did. I don't know if you actually read what I said, but I am getting real results in libido, amount of fluid (more than double often much more), strength and duration of erection, and oh so sweet taste. Your mileage may vary.

I'm not obscessed about the size of my willy, but my wife was compelled one time to measure, because she suspected an increase in size. But, again I checked this out first with a group of compulsive penis-pullers, who say yes, but only temporary. So getting a bigger dick from a bottle was not something I expected from the money I have cautiously spent. Which, by the way, is simply another step as I open my mind to exploring the expansion of my abilities, not to be confused with an obscession to add a few percentage points to the size of one's package, there are lots out there.

The reason for the sweet taste is explained as an increase in the sugars that fuel the sperm to keep them swimming, swimming, swimming....contained in the combination of seminal, prostatic, and (shit forgot the name of the the gland that makes it, left as an exercise for the interested reader) famous pre-cum. Some women will tell you her man's milk doesn't always taste the same either, what we take into our bodies has it's influence. And always, drink lots of water.

For the record, I had a vasectomy 13 years ago. I am shooting blanks man, but they pack much greater wallop on certain supplements. So the increase in my load, testifyable by my wife, is certainly not sperm.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. All together now...........WHATEVER WORKS!

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Has anybody used the GSpot technique AS an apology? There's NOTHING that sez, "I'm sorry." like 40 or 50 orgasms !

All the time , I only play a nice guy on tv, and that's coz I finish last in the bedroom. In real life, I'm a bastard. My woman loves me and hates me at the same time it seems. Sorry, tough week.....

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Anybody heard of MAD COW disease.

Some of us are already certifiably insane....and for years at that! What's a little mad cow to add to the mix. HYSTERIA ALERT!

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

JB, I wrote this last night but didn't have a chance to finish. I agree with TBK... it'll still work, though there's a modified approach below if you feel you still need to clear the air first.

Hey...we're just coming up on our 3 year anniversary (well, really 7 and a half); with 20 years on me, I'm sure you don't need any teaching.

Thanks for the ego boost, Sweet Erika. But I've come to realize that I didn't get smart until I realized there are sooo many things I don't know....every year the list GETS LONGER!

But as a reminder...
I'd go with another heartfelt apology, explanation that you were frustrated and out of sorts at the time, feel horrible, and want to make it right. Tell her YOUR (JB's) failure to communicate in the first place (and the subsequent bottling up of feelings) was what caused the outburst, so you'd like to rectify that now. The crux is you miss talking to her, feel there are some things you'd like to communicate about better, and apologize for any pain your inability to express that maturely caused.Or whatever's true for you...obviously I'm guessing and assuming A LOT.

From there I think you can easily transition to asking about your overall sex life and having the rest of the conversation.

And it was Job who first said, "the thing I have greatly feared has come upon me." Wife and me have always been stifled in the me-approaching-her-about-anything-less-than-magnanoumous-praise department. We certainly have relationship issues, most do, but I don't recall a time I've been able to approach her no matter how tactfully, to give any feedback hinting of a constructive nature without her emotionally collapsing, putting up the wall, closing off all avenues of approach. It's a classic defense mechanism and I have plenty of my own that she could tell you about. I have come to accept this and don't chase after her because in the past it only re-inforced the behavior. She was unkindly criticized in her family as she was raised and I really do understand how that stirs up lots of old crap so I either repress smaller stuff or let her know other ways, my own non-verbal clues unlike her parents, so she doesn't relive her past, but go ahead with knock-down-drag-out-fights for the important stuff.

EDIT: I mean knock-down-drag-out strictly in an emotional
sense as its toll on both of us, collateral damage on both sides. But in no way would I (nor have I) physically harm her.

So I wasn't very surprised a few days ago when she was pretty devastated just by my bringing up the conversation. She approached me seemingly fairly receptable, but I misread her hurt-puppy look, and comment about how down she has been since "last weekend". I reciprocated her feelings and said I have been thinking a lot about this lately, not just this week. I told her what I said was focused on a very small part in relation to our lives together that I would like to see develop. I told her straight but compassionately that I would never to be able to experience the kind of exstacy she can as a woman because I'm a guy. But I wanted her to want to take me as far as I can go as a guy. We said some other stuff back and forth. No help. She's sobbing, saying what a terrible wife and lover she is, escaping the situation, and I tried to tell her to wait......but as all too often before, I don't get to express my true feelings to her, as she runs off.

But also true to form, she started coming around, because I can play it cool and give her room. Last 2-3 days we've been reconnecting slowly, getting back to those little flirts we do, and even a nipple pinch here and there. Then she opens up a little, tells me she wants more close and cuddly time. More of the emotional side, shit, that's where I'm stifled. Ok, I'm ready and willing and I believe it will bring us closer. Now I'm supposed to find my feminine side

Very encouraging though, this morning she planned to DO ME! ....she keeps repeating a mantra "no pressure" so I certainly have my dear wife in a bundle of nerves...

But I didn't know she was going to have a whirlpool bath and ask me to join on Sunday morning. Usually she just brings me coffee and I give her dozens of orgasms and since it's morning I can usually get off pretty well through my pounding. Well, as time got short, not realizing what she was planning, I did myself, though I waited and waited for her to come to me on her own. So, I told her, sorry, didn't know you had that on your mind, but I'm already taken care of. She was disappointed, but in a strange sense, it made me happy (God I'm sick and I attract psychotic women LOL) that she was dissapointed. Sure, it could have been disappointment for me not doing her, but this time I sensed a changing attitude, like I am getting through to her.

-JB

 

[SweetErika]

Sounds like progress...congrats!

 

[jethrobodeen]

Sounds like progress...congrats!

Thanks! Heh, in a kinky sorta way, I kinda like writing intimate stuff about myself in an anoymous place like this. Did I write that out loud? Does that make me a typoexhibitionist? I have some real life experiences with my wife I'd like to write about. I may explore that side of me to see where I am on the emotional development scale. In mid-40s I still feel like a friggin' teenager, ok maybe 20s, inside my head. I know I have a long way to go to get "in touch" with myself, and I ain't talking about friggin' off!

-JB

 

[muttley44]

Just do a search on some of these ingreds, and see what you find. Look for products that have the mix you want.

Thanks! I've tried different herbals with some of the same ingredients. They are hit or miss depending on the manufacturer.

 

[jethrobodeen]

a break through...

But I didn't know she was going to have a whirlpool bath and ask me to join on Sunday morning. Usually she just brings me coffee and I give her dozens of orgasms and since it's morning I can usually get off pretty well through my pounding. Well, as time got short, not realizing what she was planning, I did myself, though I waited and waited for her to come to me on her own. So, I told her, sorry, didn't know you had that on your mind, but I'm already taken care of. She was disappointed, but in a strange sense, it made me happy (God I'm sick and I attract psychotic women LOL) that she was dissapointed. Sure, it could have been disappointment for me not doing her, but this time I sensed a changing attitude, like I am getting through to her.

-JB

I usually refrain from replying to myself, it just seems to fuel my psychosis , but I make an exception in this case. I experienced something last night that was incredible. After reaching deeply inside myself as I posted and pondered here on several different topics, well into the night, I noticed a growing awareness of what root of the problem is. The truth that you all have helped me find is that monkey sex and countless orgasms--no matter how intense--will not provide the total sum for happiness in a relationship. Rather, sex is a way to emotionally connect with your partner at least equally to the physical and that both together make for the happiest unions.

I went to bed feeling a warm "buzz" is the only way I can describe it. I was racing, my heart, breathing, all accelerated. As I focused on slowing my breathing (shit, I need some sleep) and I started getting waves of energy flowing through my spine. They seemed to be emanating from my heart, and flowing out of the top of my head. It went on for a couple of hours and I was enjoying emmensly the feelings and the spine tingling with heart-energy. I had tears in my eyes and I felt the sudden urge to let my wife know how much it meant to me that she thought of me this way this morning. I didn't want to wake her, I thought about taping a note to the mirror for her to see in the morning. But I was so charged, I was tossing and turning, my stirring woke her, so I snuggled up to her and spooned for a little while (it was about 2:30am) and wispered in her ear about how much her attention this morning meant to me. She just cooed and moaned and I could feel my energy flowing with hers, but I told her I was sorry to wake her and I should take something to help me sleep and for her to go back to sleep. But she didn't want me to even get out of bed to take something, she was into the connection like I was. It was an unbelievable experience.

She didn't stop her pleasureable tones about receiving this tender love and affection from me and hard as I tried not to, I got an erection and I said "oops". She said it was soo late, and I can poke her, but she really can't do much. I tenderly accepted and began a sensual carress of her stomach under her shirt and fondled her nipples. I rolled her on her back and started kissing her face and neck and breasts and stomach and was about to taste her honey, but she said "no, you". I said, are you sure you wouldn't mind a few quick ones, and with that she melted as I slid my fingers to explore her sopping womanhood. I didn't slip her the thumb, just my single index finger, curled just so as to softly at first, but then building in vigor message her g-spot to a big orgasm, hell that was only 30 seconds, and went for two, but after that, she said again "no, you". So I asked her what she wanted, so she told me to fuck her.

She was getting into it as much as I was, as I kneeled between her spread legs in the missionary position we love, where I'm upright on my knees and she's laying on her back. I started teasing her slit with my throbbing head and slowly inserted a little more and more with each slow press. There was no resistance due to her exotic wetness. We both moaned. I told her to show me, and she ground her hips up and down as I held still for her but adjusting enough to keep the angles right. We started talking dirty like "fuck yer horny little bitch", "yeah, you like that don't you, huh, not so sleepy now, eh?" and she had several waves of orgasms wash over her, then I broke the action and told her to roll over on her stomach, she looked inquisitive and I said "change things up a bit", and I reinserted from behind as she lay flat on her stomach with legs spread just a little. The tightness of her is fantastic, and this position is incredible when her PCs are tired from kegeling.

She arches her back to expose her slit and I plunge into her. Again with the new position, I told her "show me" and he starts humping up and down from underneath me as I again work with her to get the right angle and hold position for her to find just the right pressure points. Again, blammo to the moon she goes and goes...I take over the pumping...no, more like...coordinating with her thrusts....

But the breakthrough was too strong to deny. I realized we were falling right back into the monkey sex trap which would not provide the emotional tenderness she was lacking from me. So, I just slowed down and remembered some things others had shared, here. I started breathing deeply and grinding slowly, she was bucking back on my thrusts, but I kept them tender and she synced with me. Rather than continue the dirty talk, I just started moaning, allowing myself to feel (like get in touch with my feelings) and said erotic but not "dirty" things, like "oh your wetness turns me on sooo much", and "I love the way it feels when I slide in and out of you", etc...and just experience our energy exchange as we both moaned and moaned more and more. I found not need to fantasize, like if she was in a 69 with another woman while I was giving it to both of them (a seemingly shared fantasy) I was just connected with her as one being. As my climax built, I just got more and more ecstatic over the emotions and energy still overflowing from my heart, but then expanded down to my pelvis. I exploded all over her ass and back and shoulders as she echoed and climaxed along with me.

I could get used to this....

-JB

 

[xfwas]

That is good.

 

[vanelane]

Glad to hear y'all are connecting Jethro. When she says 'no, you' listen! Dozens of orgasms are really not necessary every single time.

 

[jethrobodeen]

Thanks! I've tried different herbals with some of the same ingredients. They are hit or miss depending on the manufacturer.

Agreed, we do not enjoy the same predictability with herbals as we do with medicine in general. Lack of FDA (USA) oversight of herbals leads to the same word on one label not exactly equal to the same word on another label. I look at it as an investment. Screw me once, shame on you, screw me twice.....call me honey....er I mean....shame on me. You don't get a good return on every investment so we write off the bad ones. But, I believe in investing only in things I have a comfortable enough understanding. Follow that approach you get some good performers and even a home run now and then. So do enough research to feel comfortable before taking certain risks.

Oh, and print out those pages on their websites with any satisfaction gaurantees. If they leave you disappointed ask for your money back. If they refuse, call VISA/MC/AMEX/DISCOVER and tell them to chargeback. They will want info, just email or fax the gaurantee to them-no further questions. If no gaurantee, more risk...and reason to question their integrity.

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Glad to hear y'all are connecting Jethro. When she says 'no, you' listen! Dozens of orgasms are really not necessary every single time.

Yes, ma'am

-JB

 

[bigate]

Hi... if you can feel your G but can't orgasm, then I doubt that it's your G that you've got.
Really once you find your G.. you should know cos it feels so damn good.

Hmmm... I'm quite positive that we have located my wife's G, but stimulation only feels weird. We've tried no more than a few minutes, but reading Ladybirds post I'm starting to wonder if maybe it's not the G-spot afterall. If I stimulate this while stimulating her clit, she says it feels as if she "comes from the inside" but she still requires clit-stimulation to come.

We would both like to experiment with this, and we're prepared to spend some time on this. I'm concerned that we're either looking in the wrong place, or that she's unable to get a G-orgasm.

 

[jethrobodeen]

Hmmm... I'm quite positive that we have located my wife's G, but stimulation only feels weird. We've tried no more than a few minutes, but reading Ladybirds post I'm starting to wonder if maybe it's not the G-spot afterall. If I stimulate this while stimulating her clit, she says it feels as if she "comes from the inside" but she still requires clit-stimulation to come.

We would both like to experiment with this, and we're prepared to spend some time on this. I'm concerned that we're either looking in the wrong place, or that she's unable to get a G-orgasm.

Just keep feeling your way around in there... The great thing about using the thumb is it keeps you from targeting too deep and of course you can get a good hard rub going...

But feel free to mix things up. Sometimes on her tummy sometimes on her back. It can be awkward when you mix positions to use the thumb so get good using your fingers too, index and/or the middle finger. BUT WAIT, there are two important details on to how you use the fingers...

First is target. If using fingers, your palm is either facing her clit or if you raised your hand, it would be. Don't go too deep. Fingers are longer than thumb and you can hit something deeper that drives her wild (hmmm) but the g-spot is only a couple two/three inches deep. I prefer to not to confuse the two for now. I can "see" my wife's G as almost opposite her clitoris but below the surface of the inside anterior wall of her vagina, but just a little higher. When you've felt your way around enough in there, you'll know it, as still that same "bump" underneath the roughish fleshy anterior wall.

Second is technique. You message it by curling your finger(s) to message the anterior wall, again locating the bump underneath. Think of the curl as like the "come hither" gesture often made with the index finger. As MR.GGG says, do NOT be gentle with the G-spot (yes gentle with clit...zen), well maybe for first 10 seconds but then build up the pressure. The curl enables you to apply the pressure where it's needed, but you still gotta be accurate. And you can then use a sawing motion in and out if you want, but maybe just a little, not big strokes, keeping the "pressure of the curl" on target....

Third and optional, is more fingers. You can provide different stimulation to her by using 1, 2, or 3 (never tried 4) fingers. Just gotta think about how and where your finger-tip pads are pressing against her G. It's interesting the different responses I get with these variations. Sometimes the fullness from 3 fingers and intense pressure is what she needs. Other times a warm up orgasm with a single finger just to build anticipation for what's to come...

Sometimes she creams for me, working on that more....I like it...

Best advice is mix it up once you are getting success with the technique(s). Sometimes on her back, other times on her stomach, even have her have her lie across your lap like to get a spanking Sometimes slip her only 1 finger, other times she begs for 2, you read her response, keep her guessing how many shes going to get, her body will always let you know when you get it right THAT time.

-JB

 

[Dr. Dong]

We have tried a few times now. It feels good to her but that is about it. I THINK I have found the spot but I am not sure. We will keep trying of course.

One thing that it does, if I play with the spot for a while and then give her a clit orgasm, she cums real HARD and LONG.

 

[TBKahuna123]

We have tried a few times now. It feels good to her but that is about it. I THINK I have found the spot but I am not sure. We will keep trying of course.

One thing that it does, if I play with the spot for a while and then give her a clit orgasm, she cums real HARD and LONG.

Sounds liek you and Bigate are in the same boat. Now I think every woman is able to have a g-gasm to SOME degree, but all women do vary. It sounds like you are close, but here are some suggestions:

1.) Experiment with just slightly different positions of your fingers. The g-spot is easy to miss, and if you are off just a bit it will still feel good but won't produce and g-gasm. The fact that your SO's cum harder and longer or with a feeling of "from inside" means they are getting some stimulation, just not enough to create an orgasm on their own.

2.) Vary your pressure. It takes a pretty firm hand, and to me at least, a suprising amount of pressure to produce a g-gasm. You don't want to hurt your partner of course, but I would try increasing your pressure used a little at a time until they either start to react of start to feel uncomfortable. Be careful though not to cross into the pain threshold, and go slowly.

3.) Don't try so hard. I've found with my wife that she needs some other stimulation, but not necessarily clitoral. Additiona stimulation seems to help her relax and keep her from focusing on what I'm doing to her g-spot. The most massive response she's had from this stimulation was from g-spot stim combine with rimming.

4.) Ask her if she feels like she is going pee. A lot of women feel this and get scared and clench up. She's not going to urinate, she's just reacting to the stimulation. Tell het to relax and go with it.

Good luck and keep trying. Remember, this isn't just for fun, this is serious scientific research.

 

[jethrobodeen]

We have tried a few times now. It feels good to her but that is about it. I THINK I have found the spot but I am not sure. We will keep trying of course.

One thing that it does, if I play with the spot for a while and then give her a clit orgasm, she cums real HARD and LONG.

If you "think" you found the spot but aren't sure, IMHO, lack of certainty indicates to me you've still got some room for improvement on your technique. Sorry, please, this is intended only in a constructive manner, no offense. I would diagnose this as a case of either not quite being on target, or if you are on target, then you're being too gentle with her G-spot. You can (no MUST) work that baby hard, and I mean bear down on it. Build-up the pressure over a short time only maybe 20 seconds, of course, and just keep increasing pressure to move her to orgasm, you need to lighten up and slow down a little as the wave peaks, let her ride it down a little and catch her breath, but then dive right back again with hard pressure, maybe harder and she'll pop another wave and you can do this over and over until she collapses. I press really hard and I haven't yet found out what too hard is, because we always reach that point where it's "hard enough".

The fact that she's exploding when you give her clit attention, makes me think you have been giving her good foreplay and certainly putting some stimulation on her g-spot, but maybe not enough to completely "do it" for her. There's this huge bundle of nerves under her clitoris, they're also connected to the g-spot. My advice is to isolate the G and work it HARD.

I usually save my determined clitorial attention for the end (or give her a taste in the beginning as foreplay) where I really work at her little man in the boat, but ever so gently if direct (sometimes too sensitive, skip) and my tounge seems to be best for this. But you can most of the time give indirect clit stimulation using the surrounding tissues and let the clitorial hood jack-off the little man in the boat and achieve multiple clitorial orgasms, but she's never had the wave (continuous, rapid orgasms) from clit alone, it gets too sensitive for me to keep them coming that fast. Begin lightly and slowly first, increasing speed and pressure, reading her response, slip a finger into her vagina or anus (or both, figure it out) holding steady rythmn but mixing the motions up a bit, back and forth, side to side or diagonally, or circular motion. It's alot like using your hand to polish something. One motion (side-side for example) might do it for her one time, circular another. Mix it up and read her response. After she's been so primed from waves of multiples, if not already collapsed, the clit attention puts her over the top, and it's nighty-nighty for DW. I'm learning not to wait until then to get off, for myself. Too many nights left holding a raging hard-on....

-JB

 

[Gypsy_Lis]

Confused about G-spot/full body orgasms

Hi I am a newbie to this message board. How do I know if I was having a G-spot orgasm? I just discovered that I have a Gspot and could ejaculate but not sure if I was having an orgasm. It is very very hard to describe...because it is my first time. At first I thought I was peeing during the sex intercourse after my lover hitted my G-spot with his penis real hard. It is such a big difference between having a full body orgasm with ejaculation and clit orgasm. My entire body and even my legs shook up but I get all tensed up and took my lover's penis out after I felt the urge to pee and I ejaculated (or pee). Then until the end of our love making session, I continued to have this strange body sensations as if I were having orgasms that went on forever and wouldn't stop. I am little embarrassed to ask any of my friends because I can't even describe it and there isn't any word to describe it. It is phenomenal but I need to know if I was really having an orgasm or not. Just as soon as I ejaculated, it just kept going and going. Or is it just the "feeling" of having an orgasm?

 

[jethrobodeen]

After she's been so primed from waves of multiples, if not already collapsed, the clit attention puts her over the top, and it's nighty-nighty for DW. I'm learning not to wait until then to get off, for myself. Too many nights left holding a raging hard-on....

-JB

Damn it...did it again.... When will I learn?

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Hi I am a newbie to this message board. How do I know if I was having a G-spot orgasm? I just discovered that I have a Gspot and could ejaculate but not sure if I was having an orgasm. It is very very hard to describe...because it is my first time. At first I thought I was peeing during the sex intercourse after my lover hitted my G-spot with his penis real hard. It is such a big difference between having a full body orgasm with ejaculation and clit orgasm. My entire body and even my legs shook up but I get all tensed up and took my lover's penis out after I felt the urge to pee and I ejaculated (or pee). Then until the end of our love making session, I continued to have this strange body sensations as if I were having orgasms that went on forever and wouldn't stop. I am little embarrassed to ask any of my friends because I can't even describe it and there isn't any word to describe it. It is phenomenal but I need to know if I was really having an orgasm or not. Just as soon as I ejaculated, it just kept going and going. Or is it just the "feeling" of having an orgasm?

Gypsy, there is NOTHING wrong with you, and you didn't pee. Your ability is a little rare and extrodinary, and lots of guys find that extremely erotic. I like to squirt all over DW and she likes it. Why not have it shoot both ways?

As far as knowing.... I would say these are the waves, and if you haven't experienced them before, maybe that's why you're unsure. But only another women AFAIK can relate to how it felt. First time DW experienced them, she asked me "what the hell was THAT?". I didn't really know but I said who cares, it was great. But then, that may have been what got me searching for how to incorporate this into our routine those years ago.

Oh, your first post! Go on over to the new member intro thread and introduce yourself

-JB

 

[Bandit58]

Gypsy_Lis, I have those kind of orgasms you describe with G spot play. It goes on and on especially when Gil eases up on the stimulation and then starts it again. For a little while afterwards I have shaky twitchy legs and even my lower belly clenches if I place my hand just above the pubic bone and press on it.

I love the feeling afterwards too, I am totally limp and floaty, I often find myself giggling and euphoric

 

[vanelane]

Gypsy_Lis, I have those kind of orgasms you describe with G spot play. It goes on and on especially when Gil eases up on the stimulation and then starts it again. For a little while afterwards I have shaky twitchy legs and even my lower belly clenches if I place my hand just above the pubic bone and press on it.

I love the feeling afterwards too, I am totally limp and floaty, I often find myself giggling and euphoric

Oh yes! I find the euphoria can last well into the next day!