Try This & Report Back

[MR.GGG]

That is one of the most incredibly erotic things about "THE Technique." With your thumb producing the G-gasms and the muscle contractions happening in a push-out way there is NO DOUBT she is coming over and over. The contractions go from trembling to pulsing to gripping and at the height of a very strong contraction you have to hold your thumb in place or it will be ejected by her orgasmic contractions.

With "regular" sex women can pretty much BS most guys. They can thrash and scream and claw and by that time the guy is so ready to pop himself he wouldn't clue in if there was a FAKE FAKE FAKE sign flashing on her forehead. Most "fakes" don't even cum with vaginal clenching but if they do it is very weak and NOT the same frequency as an honest to gawd orgasm. A recent survey of women found that an incredibly high number of women admitted to faking a big O just to get their lovers to cum and stop bothering them. Sad.

With the GSpot technique I don't believe a woman COULD fake the frequency of the convulsions and contractions in her vagina or the push-out way they occur. If she could fake that I can guarantee her sexual proficiency and reputation with her b/fs / SO would be legendary. Otherwise if you are doing the GSpot technique and she's thrashing and screaming but there is nothing happening in her vagina - there's no STRONG fast push-out pulsing contractions then she 's faking. If the couple have experimented with the technique and have it working then, for the woman, there is NO NEED to fake anything. She will be cumming and that will be obvious to her partner with the thumb up her. Even after many many many G-gasms the muscle contractions don't seem to weaken. A change of angle or position can create a "new" orgasmic sensation for them but it doesn't seem to weaken until they are too exhausted and satiated to move.

At that point in time the true gentleman pulls his thumb out, perhaps gives her one more big clitoral O with his tongue and gets a cold towel to wipe her down and cool her off. Hugs, soft kisses and words are what will round out a "fun" time for her. If in her post orgasmic daze you can tell her how incredibly fucking sexy she looks when she's cumming like that and how much it turns YOU on to see her cum that hard and that long. Describe her body and how she tastes and how wet she gets. When she is cumming like that her mind is a billion miles away inside some orgasmic supernova. Having experienced that degree of sexuality she will feel even better knowing how GOOD she looked to you when she was in that state. Her self confidence will sky-rocket and people even strangers will look at her like there is "something" there - something about her that they can't quite put a label on. Friends and co-workers will see a big change and make comments out of the blue about "she's getting waaay more than we are!" This technique has repercussions well outside the walls of any soaked bedroom!

Have fun and plse don't forget to register your "research" in here. New ideas, positions, scenes ... whatever are so much more fun when shared especially when you can come back into a room like this and read about how some couple tried an idea you posted and she went ballistic. Share. Spread the word not just her legs.

 

[Bandit58]

I've received thousands of notes back from this thread and I HAVE TO point this out.

JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN DOESN'T SQUIRT DOES NOT MEAN SHE HAS NERVE DAMAGE

Some women can have G-gasms until the cows come home and never "squirt." Some women can squirt sometimes and not others. Even the ones who DO squirt don't seem to know when they will or how exactly it happens when it does. Some women can gush like a freakking fire truck. Some women who have completely functioning clits and can cum like crazy from a good tongue lashing just don't seem to be able to get anything at all from GSpot manipulation. Why? I don't know but there are about a dozen reasons that have come up. ONE of which is nerve damage.

Everybody is different and the wonderful thing with this technique is that it produces different states of arousal in the same woman at different times of the month, different times of the day - all kinds of factors are involved. If Bandit's buddy can't squirt but can cum using the technique she is NORMAL. She may squirt at a later date or she may not but with a full hysterectomy under her belt I'd consider the fact that she can still have a GSpot orgasms a HUGE bonus and be happy with it !!!

Mr G she also told me she's had a bladder repair too and that she used to squirt but doesn't now. But she also said she hasn't experienced the Gspot orgasm in quite a while and the look of joy on her face afterwards was just wonderful......we've only played together one time so far so we shall see what happens in future sessions.......

 

[Gil_T2]

Mr G she also told me she's had a bladder repair too and that she used to squirt but doesn't now. But she also said she hasn't experienced the Gspot orgasm in quite a while and the look of joy on her face afterwards was just wonderful......we've only played together one time so far so we shall see what happens in future sessions.......

But you haven't told about how much you squirted with both of us working on you last night/early morning.

 

[psyche]

I've received thousands of notes back from this thread and I HAVE TO point this out.

JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN DOESN'T SQUIRT DOES NOT MEAN SHE HAS NERVE DAMAGE

Some women can have G-gasms until the cows come home and never "squirt." Some women can squirt sometimes and not others. Even the ones who DO squirt don't seem to know when they will or how exactly it happens when it does. Some women can gush like a freakking fire truck. Some women who have completely functioning clits and can cum like crazy from a good tongue lashing just don't seem to be able to get anything at all from GSpot manipulation. Why? I don't know but there are about a dozen reasons that have come up. ONE of which is nerve damage.

Everybody is different and the wonderful thing with this technique is that it produces different states of arousal in the same woman at different times of the month, different times of the day - all kinds of factors are involved. If Bandit's buddy can't squirt but can cum using the technique she is NORMAL. She may squirt at a later date or she may not but with a full hysterectomy under her belt I'd consider the fact that she can still have a GSpot orgasms a HUGE bonus and be happy with it !!!

Even though I have an unusually high sex drive, am multiply orgasmic with clitoral stimulation and can be pretty much worked up with a look, there are times when I will gush through layers and layers of towels and other times when I do not squirt at all. The stimulation is identical, the partner and the level of desire is the same, and the orgasmic response is almost as intense. I have never had a child, or any surgery.

 

[psyche]

That is one of the most incredibly erotic things about "THE Technique." With your thumb producing the G-gasms and the muscle contractions happening in a push-out way there is NO DOUBT she is coming over and over. The contractions go from trembling to pulsing to gripping and at the height of a very strong contraction you have to hold your thumb in place or it will be ejected by her orgasmic contractions.

With "regular" sex women can pretty much BS most guys. They can thrash and scream and claw and by that time the guy is so ready to pop himself he wouldn't clue in if there was a FAKE FAKE FAKE sign flashing on her forehead. Most "fakes" don't even cum with vaginal clenching but if they do it is very weak and NOT the same frequency as an honest to gawd orgasm. A recent survey of women found that an incredibly high number of women admitted to faking a big O just to get their lovers to cum and stop bothering them. Sad.

With the GSpot technique I don't believe a woman COULD fake the frequency of the convulsions and contractions in her vagina or the push-out way they occur. If she could fake that I can guarantee her sexual proficiency and reputation with her b/fs / SO would be legendary. Otherwise if you are doing the GSpot technique and she's thrashing and screaming but there is nothing happening in her vagina - there's no STRONG fast push-out pulsing contractions then she 's faking. If the couple have experimented with the technique and have it working then, for the woman, there is NO NEED to fake anything. She will be cumming and that will be obvious to her partner with the thumb up her. Even after many many many G-gasms the muscle contractions don't seem to weaken. A change of angle or position can create a "new" orgasmic sensation for them but it doesn't seem to weaken until they are too exhausted and satiated to move.

At that point in time the true gentleman pulls his thumb out, perhaps gives her one more big clitoral O with his tongue and gets a cold towel to wipe her down and cool her off. Hugs, soft kisses and words are what will round out a "fun" time for her. If in her post orgasmic daze you can tell her how incredibly fucking sexy she looks when she's cumming like that and how much it turns YOU on to see her cum that hard and that long. Describe her body and how she tastes and how wet she gets. When she is cumming like that her mind is a billion miles away inside some orgasmic supernova. Having experienced that degree of sexuality she will feel even better knowing how GOOD she looked to you when she was in that state. Her self confidence will sky-rocket and people even strangers will look at her like there is "something" there - something about her that they can't quite put a label on. Friends and co-workers will see a big change and make comments out of the blue about "she's getting waaay more than we are!" This technique has repercussions well outside the walls of any soaked bedroom!

Have fun and plse don't forget to register your "research" in here. New ideas, positions, scenes ... whatever are so much more fun when shared especially when you can come back into a room like this and read about how some couple tried an idea you posted and she went ballistic. Share. Spread the word not just her legs.

Mr G you are a fucking national treasure..........................

 

[kaledonia]

just joined

..after reading your thread for a couple of days. can't wait to try this out, BF not going to be back here for a fortnight! don't know if I'm brave enough to send him the TECHNIQUE..why don't you publish it as a birthday card? thanks in anticipation

Try this. I know some of you have already but for those who haven't it just blow your minds.

THE TECHNIQUE

Quick Backgrounder

The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.

Basic Technique ideas:

#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.

At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.

One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her.


Let me know if and / or how it worked for you.

 

[sammyjeg]

it's the REAL DEAL

THIS WORKS...
I tried it on my wife... she O's during sex, but nothing like this...
she comes so much... she just screams that it feels so good....
all i hear is "OMG, OMG, OMG" . her moans don't even sound like her. she can't describe the O's.... she just knows that i can give them to her in no time..

what i do is get into a 69 (her on top). then, i can go for her G and her clit...

her O's are unreal, (i use our sex sheets now, because she comes so much. her come overflows our bed. this is no lie.. it's like someone spilled 2 glasses of water on our bed.

since i love to eat her pussy, it's a challange to keep up!

and, the best part is.... fucking...
fucking her until she comes from my cock. her pusy is so sensative after 10-12 O's, she has one more...that makes her pass out.

you master this move, you'll have your GF / WF melting in your hand...

 

[mortis]

Mr G;

Thank You

For one of the first times in many times trying I left my wife weak in the knees and actually thanking me for some of the best sex in her life.

I used a new glass dildo and just hit that spot over and over again. The legs shook, the nipples were like stones and the toes were fully curled.

My turn now.

 

[taolanes]

Bringing a woman to that point sounds like your turn. Having a woman scream and get that turned on sounds like the most erotic thing on earth.

 

[Pyro Paul]

huh intresting way i never heard of to find it. i was taught, (human sexuality, biology and physiology) that its easiest found if you have her setting legs open with you stting behind her, inserting your index (and/or middle finger) into the vagina untill it is at the longest extention then close your hand, your finger will feel a rough pruney area, and thats the g spot. your way sounds a whole hellva lot easyer.

although i must say that it deosnt work for every one, i personaly know 3 diffrent people that dont have this. and another that can not do it. 1 was a mother of 5, one had sugury and its belived that all the nerves where severed. and the third just couldnt feel it, her body doesnt have an active g spot.

the current girl that im with can not do it, for one her g-spot is inactive, but also, she is one of those who have intense orgasims just from normal stimulation, and she can orgasim from vaginal stimulation. even if she could orgasim from a gspot stimulaton i think she would instantly black out. considering after we finish she damn near passes out, she cant stand up she cant even move. its very cute to me though.

but yes the G-spot is out there. and is acctualy accepted by physological science so it must be true. also take note that some people cant do it. again All people are built diffrently, ive meet some people who cant cum by clitoral stimulation. as rare as That is.

 

[AceDuece]

Im about 55 pages through this thread when I finally tried the technique. I started with a candle light massage for my gf followed by a sensual shower together and then oral sex on her for about 15 minutes. After this I told her I wanted to try something and I had her lay on her stomache over 2 pillows with her bum in the air. I then slowly and gently began to finger her g-spot with my thumb. I varied from circular motions to in and out (fucking) motions. I gradually ramped up the pressure on her g-spot with my thumb during about 10 minutes. At this point (as I later found out) "it started to feel good" and I could tell that she was enjoying it more because she was moaning softly. At this point is where I feel I might have done something not quite right. I tried to use more pressure because I felt she was ready for more pressure. Earlier she had told me to be a little more gentle but now it seemed as if she could handle the pressure. I switched from hard rubbing circles on her g-spot to an in and out motion over her g-spot. I wasnt sure which one was getting more of a reaction (and my hand was getting tired). Eventually she told me we needed to stop because it was starting to hurt alittle. We went on to have sex but I sure wish I coulda shocked her with a massive g-spot orgasm. Any advice on what I should try next time? Im not discouraged as I know its a learning experience and i'll have plenty more times to practice. However, I'd love some insight from you more experienced couples. My gf and I are both 20 btw. Thanks in advance!

*edit* Also, she went to the bathroom beforehand AND I asked her if she had the feeling to pee. She said she did have that feeling and was holding it back. I told her not to hold it back because she would not pee. She knows that I read alot about sex/sexual matters so she trusts me. She told me she trusted me and would not hold back the feeling. So I dont think she was simply holding back.

 

[bill_kiddo]

Yep It works - more thumb fun too!

My wife is very gspot sensitive as I love using my hands and exploring. However, your technique was definatley new to me.

I tried it the other night after she had already cum three times and she was just not up to another one. However, I did put my thumb in for second and she almost jumped off the bed. She said it felt incredible and she almost instantly came. That night, she wasn;t too thrilled about having her butt in the air so we decided to wait for another night.

First off, let me explain that I alway start my wife off with at least one of two O's from manual stimulation. Clitoral, Gspot, it varies...We both enjoy it and really knows what works. Well, last night we had just finshed something new we learned last week (more on that below) and tried this on her.

I routinely rub her gspot with the "come here" motion and vibes, and she has squirted on a few occasions. One of our most fun positions is laying perpendicular to each other with me inside her. Our legs are intercrossed and its allows me to comfortable rub her clit while moving in and out of her hitting her gspot all at the same time. In case you want to try it, I have found laying on her right side, and rubbing her clit with the index side edge of my middle finger in a fast flickering motion works best. I can also grab or suck a breast and sometimes use a vibe. This really is a fun position becuase once she cums from the clitoral rubbing, since I am already in her, I can immediatley start banging away. And, MAN, can you get deep in this position.

Last week, we learned while in this position, if I just stay deep inside her (and I mean pubic bone to pubic bone deep) with no in/out movement, if she does kegals and moves slightly up/down (but not in/out) while I am rubbing her clit she can orgasm in literally less than 15 seconds. These are EXTREMELY intense orgasms becuase of the double stimulation and she can keep having one after the other until she is simply too tired to continue...

Well last night after two of those, I asked if I could try this method again. For some reason, she only likes me to rub her from the front or side - something about fingering her while her butt is in the air bothers her so to overcome this problem she just stayed on her back, rolled slightly onto her side (about a 45 degree angle from her stomach to bed) and lifted her leg so I could insert my thumb at the correct angle from behind.

She screamed as soon I put it in...came instantly. When I asked her waht the problem was, she said it felt waaaay too good, too soon. Well, I kept going and going and she must have had two or three more very intense orgasms. She said she actually lost count. She said she thought she had squirted again, but I could not tell since I think my hand was blocking any propulsion. The only reason we stopped was becuase my thumb cramped!!!

Since I rub her gspot with my other fingers, she said she could not believe I could hit it with my thumb since it always felt so much deeper with my index/middle finger. I don;t know if position puts it closer to the edge ot waht, but it was much more comfy for me and it really felt like I had more accuracy with my thumb.

She then WANTED to try it on all fours and she said she didn't like it as much because she liked how I could squeeze the front/outside of her belly (just above her pelvic bone) more from the side position. I believe that is what made it so intense because it really pressed the gspot from both sides.

After this, the sex seemed kind of boring; but we will be doing this much more often.

Since this is the thumb-fun forum...here's another use that we enjoy...she lays down and you sit up next to her and use your thumb on her clit insted of the normal index, middle or whatever. Your thumb should be pointing toward her bellybutton and you can easily stick one or two fingers (middle and ring seem the most comfortable) in her vagina or one inside her and your pinky rubbing the perenium.

Rub the thumb in circles or sideaways (whatever she prefers) across the clit and she will slowly go into orbit. This is a slow burn orgasm, but finishes very intensely. Of course, make sure she is wet when touching the clit hood or drop some astroglide for a quickie. My wife tells me the width of the thumb feels almost as good as my tongue!!!!

Once you get this technique down, as you are rubbng up the clit hood, if you bend your thumb backward, your middle knuckle will slightly pull up on the hood and give a slight touch to the actual clit. Time that right before she cums and she'll squeeze the other finger so tight you'll need a Dr.

Great technique - post more!!!!!!

 

[grungalunga]

when should you stop stimulation of the g spot? I mean, should you keep on doing the presssure through orgasm after orgasm?

Im trying to read the whole thread "will finish it someday" - ive seen videos of women "squirting", are these real? I mean some of these women look like they are pissing or expelling a lot of water and not really squirting?

 

[grungalunga]

How irritating is that?! Went to this 'femalemultiple.org' page and with each new click there was an advertisement moving along the screen. Tried to close it (close me) but it was like a game and instead of hitting the 'close me' button I kept opening some loan page or something giving the site another hit for their ratio... grrrrr). I hate these kind of things!

if you are using internet exploer, go to settings, and modify your security so all active x are disabled. Thats how mine is by default. I had to close the "floater ads" but no new pages popped up

 

[Bandit58]

when should you stop stimulation of the g spot? I mean, should you keep on doing the presssure through orgasm after orgasm?

Im trying to read the whole thread "will finish it someday" - ive seen videos of women "squirting", are these real? I mean some of these women look like they are pissing or expelling a lot of water and not really squirting?

Those videos are probably the exception rather than the rule. I tend to "gush" more than squirt it out like a fire hose! There are times when, if I'm lying on my back, that it comes out in little "fountains" but it doesn't go for miles.

Gil keeps the pressure on, sometimes he'll stop or ease up a little but that's only to tease me and when he starts again it keeps on keeping on. I'm the one who's called the safety word several times because I just get overwhelmed by sensation, especially if a spanking or paddle has been brought in to the mix

 

[Gil_T2]

Those videos are probably the exception rather than the rule. I tend to "gush" more than squirt it out like a fire hose! There are times when, if I'm lying on my back, that it comes out in little "fountains" but it doesn't go for miles.

Gil keeps the pressure on, sometimes he'll stop or ease up a little but that's only to tease me and when he starts again it keeps on keeping on. I'm the one who's called the safety word several times because I just get overwhelmed by sensation, especially if a spanking or paddle has been brought in to the mix

You TART

 

[psyche]

You TART

ROFLMFAO.............and you fucking love it!

 

[Gil_T2]

ROFLMFAO.............and you fucking love it!

I love this lady so much & all the fantastic sex is all bonus, I'm just lucky that I have been educated by the ladies from my past who helped me discover how to please a lady & by lady that is all females.

 

[Gil_T2]

The "Braun Method" is all in the finger action. It begins with the woman lying back, legs spread open, her partner (let's call him the "G-Man") at her right side, if he is right-handed. After some sort of foreplay (kissing, oral sex, nipple play, rubbing the clitoris and labia, whatever gets her wet), the G-Man inserts two fingers into her vagina. Axel uses his middle and ring fingers for this, though you might prefer to use your middle and forefingers. Slowly, the G-Man moves his two fingers around inside of her, continuing the foreplay--rubbing her clit, playing with her nipples, lightly spanking her butt, etc. With probing fingers, he locates her G-Spot, a slightly raised, spongy bump on the "roof" of the vaginal cave (in most women, it is just behind the clitoris). He then finds the center of this spot, pressing it gently but firmly. This pressure releases a warm flow of vaginal liquid, whereupon the G-Man begins vigorously "fingering" her, in and out of her vaginal opening, causing the rapid, orgasmic expulsion of fluid. That is, squirting.

 

[MR.GGG]

When?

When should you stop stimulation of the g spot? I mean, should you keep on doing the pressure through orgasm after orgasm?

Depending on the kind of shape your woman is in the answer is whenever you or she wants to stop cuming. You can give her a quickie or two or you can keep her basically cuming for HOURS. If she is in GREAT physical shape and / or has great stamina ( or is just plain ADDICTED to cuming) then you can maintain two forms of orgasm with this technique.

The first is to keep the orgasms rolling over her every few minutes. Let her come down a bit after each peak and then when she has recovered start the pressure and the movement again and she will start to cum again almost immediately. She can last several hours with this method. Slow things down just a bit and she can cum every few minutes - with some breaks - for half a day or more. As long as you can move your thumb or fingers (or toy) with the right amount of pressure she WILL CUM!!


The other method is not to let her cum down from the peak for as long as YOU can maintain the movement and the pressure. With some women a state of orgasm can exist for hours. Your stamina is the determining factor here. This is the more along the lines of mixing the spanking in with the GSpot orgasms. She is being stimulated INTENSELY even when she isn't actually cuming and as many of you know the spanks PRODUCE a slightly different type of orgasm but because things are firing on all 16 cylinders down there the spanks are enough of a stimulation to keep the orgasms cuming. When you switch back to GSpot stimulation the G -gasms return in full force and you can keep her cuming like this until your arm gives out. Try this method and it is probably she who is going to yell uncle (safe word - whatever) before your arm gives out. This is way intense and most women can only cum like this for a few minutes before they feel their brain is about to fry!! This can also be done with a vibrator on the clit but many women have trouble maintaining the extended orgasms this way. Some do but with many the physiology suggests that one huge clitoral orgasm happens and then the body starts to shut off many of those nerves and their ability to cum repeatedly is lost. You're lucky if this is NOT the case but the clit is simply wired differently from the G&ASpots.

So to answser your question a little more directly - as long as you are or can stimulate her in any of the ways mentioned, she will be orgasming. NEVER forget that when she IS cuming don't ever stop as she cums. KEEP UP THE STIMULATION. Whether it is the G or ASpots or the clit if you stop the stimulation her orgasm will terminate and if you do that once too often when she's still really horny still expect her to do the same to you - with extreme prejudice!!


What is SOOOOOO much fun is the experimentations. You can use toys, positions, locations, different hands, different angles, fingers, thumbs, thumbs & tongues (careful) , you can get into "scenes", hell even different TIMEs of the day and night seem to produce different orgasms with different intensities and peak / plateau periods. Not only are we all different but the body goes through so many changes every day / week and month that literally each time you do this with all the variations mentioned in these threads, the sensation for your woman can and often is different. Intense. Incredibly pleasurable yet varied. It also shows your woman how dedicated YOU are to giving her the maximum amount of pleasure possible with out electrical stimulation directly into the brain which is, BTW, probably the only way the "Sex Researchers"are EVER going to find a way to make this work themselves !!! Hell most of them are still LOOKING for the GSpot outside Topeka somewhere!

 

[AceDuece]

Mr. G,

Any suggestions on my technique or anything that I may change next time I try this? My original post is just a couple posts up. Thanks in advance!

 

[MR.GGG]

A 2

HI I would keep what you are doing. Make it VERY secondary to turning her on and keeping her turned on. Work on the G the way you described for a bit and then do other stuff then go back to it. DON'T LET HER CUM. Just keep it up and with luck she will get to the point where you feel it is ready to fire and then go a little harder. It IS a little intimidating at first for the girl because when it is working the lead up can either hit them like a train - almost instant or the build up can be almost scary for them because it is SO intense.

From many many IM and Emails describing how some couples have struggled to make this work when the first few tries have failed, I'm left with the understanding that it gets EASIER to master this technique the OLDER the woman is. I'm not sure if it is muscle tone, mental attitude, emotional well being or WHAT but couples in their 20's seem to take a while to get there. I've had emails from couples in their 70's !!! who said it worked like a rocket the first time they tried it and she was cumming like gangbusters within only a minute or so. NO IDEA why that is happening. Just know that your efforts at your ages are completely normal and that there is a very good chance that if you keep attempting this it WILL happen. There are a number of posts that describe failure after failure and then one wonderful evening, in went the thumb and KABOOOOMMM - worked! Finally. After that it's easy. Her body knows what it feels like, isn't nervous of the new sensations and can tense the muscles just the right way to allow the 1st O's to hit sometimes within seconds but from a cold start usually no more than a minute and an half to two minutes to have her screaming and clawing at the ceiling!!!

Good luck.

 

[AceDuece]

Ok thanks Mr. G! I understand that age plays a huge role for many reasons. I can never expect my gf to be completely comfortable with the things that we do both because of her age and how she was brought up. Sex was NEVER discussed when she was younger. Hell, she's never even masterbated. I on the other hand am very sexually open and have tried to open her mind as well. Im not worried about it however. Its a fun learning process and can only get better with time. Learning new techniques like this that I can try make it even more enjoyable. Best of luck to all!

 

[OX2]

So far I am 0 for 2 with this method. My wife just can't get past the I gotta pee part. I have noticed that it makes her incrdibly horny and wet though so there are some benifits. I will keep trying.

 

[QueenObeymee]

Well, my husband and I tried, and unfortunately it didn't work, but it is the first time that we tried. I got the sensation that I had to pee, but I just couldn't get past that feeling. We definately had fun trying, and will keep trying. Practice makes perfect, right?