Try This & Report Back

[mrtnmoon]

I just wanted to share this from a PM I sent to mr. ggg:
"in any case, I take pleasure in knowing that she'll never forget me..... I was the one that helped her have her very first orgasm and I'm the one that's helped her have many mind blowing days since then. that probably wouldn't have happened if I hadn't stumbled across your thread on lit. every time I'm with her I thank god or allah or whoever that I did stumble across it. I don't even use that original technique anymore because it's so easy to make her cum in other ways now.

thanks again and keep trying to spread the word."

saturday night was the most amazing yet. I can't tell you how glad I am that I found this thread!!

 

[howsweetitis]

Looking back thru my own life I can see that when I was first married 49 years ago, that sex was great. I liked it-she liked it, but my wife did not have orgasms. She was very rigidly formatted by a religious upbringing as I was myself which was very destructive to a good sex life. I had the desire to give her orgasms, however she seemed to not care that much so I went on my merry way of pleasuring myself for years not giving it much more thought. This is kind of in line with what Don Dyck said of the 50’s era, and I agree.

At some time around 25 years later I began to experience times of sexual dysfunction. This seemed to intensify a desire in both of us to pursue some other means to stimulate our sexual lives. I done some reading, and pursued a program of hypnosis for subconscious sexual improvement which she participated in to a small degree. Whether this did or did not have an affect, she seemed to open up to the idea of my playing with her clit which she had never allowed, but was now more in favor of in order to advance our sexual closeness. In the closeness, love, and trust that we shared with each other it allowed us to move on to actual clitoral orgasms. This first orgasm was after 29 years of marriage at age 50 and then the fireworks really started!

Within a couple of years I had found the G spot (have never found A spot). This became absolutely mind blowing multiple G spot, squirting bliss! We continue to have great sex so abnormally normal that I wouldn’t trade the first 29 years for the last 20 for anything! We have our problems probably like most others, but always work thru them.

I believe that persistence, love, understanding, closeness, and trust is the ultimate answer to orgasmic sexual life, and if you both care passionately enough to pursue these principals, the orgasms, can come to almost everyone. 14% is inexcusable. It is a lifetime deal in which you learn and you shouldn’t give up after a limited number of tries. Be persistent, heed Mr. G’s technique (or improvise your own), and you will be rewarded way beyond what all of the researchers in the world advise.

 

[curious22]

I found this thread recently and was excited to try this with my wife. The first time I thought I found the spot, the wife said she felt like she was going to pee, but after a lot of rubbing, no orgasm. The second time we tried it I had her quite excited through nipple stimulation [she’s always loved to have her nipples sucked and I happily comply for as long as she can take it] and rubbing around the outside of her pussy (around the clit). She was ready to jump on my cock, but I suggested trying the technique again. Well, this time I couldn’t even find the right spot!! Nothing. (She finally climbed on my cock and had an orgasm) I take it we just need to keep trying. Any suggestions though? Anyone else have this problem? If so what has worked for you?

 

[Don K Dyck]

I found this thread recently and was excited to try this with my wife. The first time I thought I found the spot, the wife said she felt like she was going to pee, but after a lot of rubbing, no orgasm. The second time we tried it I had her quite excited through nipple stimulation [she’s always loved to have her nipples sucked and I happily comply for as long as she can take it] and rubbing around the outside of her pussy (around the clit). She was ready to jump on my cock, but I suggested trying the technique again. Well, this time I couldn’t even find the right spot!! Nothing. (She finally climbed on my cock and had an orgasm) I take it we just need to keep trying. Any suggestions though? Anyone else have this problem? If so what has worked for you?

Hi curious, welcome to Mr G's research project.

uhmmm . . . I think you might have been a little bit enthusiastic . . . in my experience G-spot stimulation cums well down the agenda, preferably after a lot of fun play, hard fucking and orgasms. THEN the lady is ready and stimulated sufficiently to appreciate Mr G's method.

Don't worry about not finding the spot. There appear to be many reasons for this . . . Mr G will elucidate.

You got to the pee stage so something was working correctly. Some ladies may take quite a while to get stimulated beofre they have their first supernovagasm!!!

 

[MR.GGG]

Like Don said ...

The first time, esecially if you're both young seems to be hard to achieve. Once you get there it is a snap to start giving her O's inside of 2 minutes and sometimes (if she knows it's cuming and is horny) immediately.

There have been lots of posts of "didn't work" , "didn't work" , "still didn't work" , "HOLY CRAPOLLAA!! Tried it again the other night and BadaBINGO. Did it ever work. 30 huge orgasms in 45 minutes!!" - Stuff like that so my advice is, as usual, work her up until she is literally gagging she's so horny. Go from thr G - Technique to regular stuff on and off for an hour or more. Intercourse, Oral, poke her in the bum, smack her bum - ALL the stuff you usually do to get her coals glowing and just keep going back to the GSpot now and then. You should be able to feel her begin to respond much more positively at some point (or she could even TELL you) and that is when you go nuts on her. Work that thumb slowly at first until she is just about the orgasm and then start pumping like you're trying to get water out of a deep deep well.

Once she starts to cum that way you can continue it (probably way too intense for the first coupla times) or you can bring on her O's in waves with short breaks in between. The thing is YOU get to decide how long it goes on for. Don't scare her but, as they say on BIBLE TV, reach back there and SHOW HER THE POWER !!

 

[curious22]

Thanks for the replies. We are not that young actually. My wife is in her 40s. In fact her libido has dropped over the last few years (although she almost always orgasms with PIV sex—can also with oral or fingering although she prefers PIV-but not multi-orgasmic). I had hoped that this technique might “light the fire” that has been missing. We will just keep trying.

 

[Don K Dyck]

Thanks for the replies. We are not that young actually. My wife is in her 40s. In fact her libido has dropped over the last few years (although she almost always orgasms with PIV sex—can also with oral or fingering although she prefers PIV-but not multi-orgasmic). I had hoped that this technique might “light the fire” that has been missing. We will just keep trying.

Uhmmm . . . dropping libido can be caused by many factors, including the simple "that's just what happens for some people" . . . menopause can play havoc with a lady's hormonal system with the consequent "inexplicible to the male" rampant changes in mood and attitude . . .

and it is an equal opportunity condition that affects men as well as women . . .

However, all is not lost . . . there is some circumstantial evidence that sexual reproductive systems that are kept in good working order throughout life have a lower frequency of "dropping libido" . . . for both males and females . . .

I guess it is a case of "use it or lose it" . . .

 

[MR.GGG]

Most of us already knew this

The short version of this is if you want to determine if she REALLY came or not ask her quick "What's 2+7" IF she can't answer she's either telling the truth or DANGEROUSLY UNDERAGE!!

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Brain Areas Shut Off During Female Orgasm
By Emma Ross

COPENHAGEN, Denmark (AP) -- New research indicates that parts of the brain that govern fear and anxiety are switched off when a woman is having an orgasm.

In the first study to map brain function during orgasm, scientists from the Netherlands also found that as a woman climaxes, an area of the brain that governs emotional control is also heavily deactivated.

“The fact that there is no deactivation in faked orgasms means a basic part of a real orgasm is letting go. Women can imitate orgasm quite well, as we know, but there is nothing really happening in the brain,'' said neuroscientist Gert Holstege, presenting his findings Monday at the annual meeting of the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology.

In the study, Holstege and his colleagues at Groningen University recruited 11 men and 13 women, together with their respective partners.

The volunteers laid on a scanning machine bed and were injected with a dye that shows changes in brain function on a scan. For the men, the brain scanner tracked activity during rest, during erection, during manual stimulation by their partner and then during ejaculation, brought on by the partner's hand.

For the women, the scanner measured brain activity during rest, while they faked an orgasm, during manual stimulation by their partner, and while they experienced genuine orgasm.

Holstege said he had trouble getting reliable results from the study on men because the scanning machine needs activities lasting at least two minutes to record an activity. But the men's climaxes didn't last anywhere near that long, meaning he could not reliably compare the scans before climax and during.

However, for women, the results were clear, he said.

When women faked orgasm, the cortex, the part of the brain governing conscious action, lit up. It was not activated during genuine orgasm.

The most striking results, however, were seen in the parts of the brain that shut down, or deactivated.

“During orgasm, there was strong, enormous deactivation in the brain. During fake orgasm, there was no deactivation of the brain at all. None,'' Holstege said. “It looks like to have an orgasm, you need to not be fearful or full of anxiety.''

 

[Miss Trixie]

i absolutly believe that because i know that my brain is not working right after some really good orgasms lol.

 

[romeonline]

Wanted!

Could we get a multi-orgasmic lady talking about her experience at www.femalemultiple.org ?

 

[M's girl]

Could we get a multi-orgasmic lady talking about her experience at www.femalemultiple.org ?

How irritating is that?! Went to this 'femalemultiple.org' page and with each new click there was an advertisement moving along the screen. Tried to close it (close me) but it was like a game and instead of hitting the 'close me' button I kept opening some loan page or something giving the site another hit for their ratio... grrrrr). I hate these kind of things!

 

[Don K Dyck]

How irritating is that?! Went to this 'femalemultiple.org' page and with each new click there was an advertisement moving along the screen. Tried to close it (close me) but it was like a game and instead of hitting the 'close me' button I kept opening some loan page or something giving the site another hit for their ratio... grrrrr). I hate these kind of things!

This is the time to report the post and have it removed by the moderator.

 

[MR.GGG]

Arghh

The site is just getting started with few readers and fewer posts. There are annoying ads that "follow" you around and ads that when you click on'em they don't take you anywhere.

The questions are typical wide eyed wonderment and the "experts" talk of the need to establish a kharmic bonding between her yoni and your chakra. Gawd, I thought they stopped selling those pieces of junk when the wall came down! Anyway, somebody already took MY name over there so I am MR GGG and I dropped the TECHNIQUE on their unprepared li'll butts cuz one "expert" over there came out with a definitive answer to a question on the GSpot with , "" Rumor has it that orgasms produced by G-Spot stimulation can be very intense.""

REALLY?

If ya find the time go visit and maybe set 'em straight on some "rumors" !!!

Just remember too that there is NO EDIT feature over there so if you proof it quickly and then post it with a really dum speling mistook your skrewd and look like a maroon.

 

[M's girl]

This is the time to report the post and have it removed by the moderator.

Hmmmmm, guess you are right. Don't know if I wanna go back there though, especially after Mr GGG's comment. Maybe the site will distroy itself ( ) when they allow these annoying adds on it.. haha I mean, the moderators will have picked up on it by now I assume?

 

[M's girl]

If ya find the time go visit and maybe set 'em straight on some "rumors" !!!

Will do that ....maybe (like I said in my earlier post addressing Don's remark, I might not return at all), if and when I can confirm if it's a rumor or not . Reading your posts on the subject made me curious and wanting to find out more. I have made some attempts in the past but no luck so far. If anything the feeling was almost as annoying as the add I was talking about ( sorry)... Must mention that my sexlife is VERY satisfying at the moment but your determination on the existance (of the G-spot) makes me wonder...

 

[MR.GGG]

I registered over there and posted a few (stolen) comments from here and the TECHNIQUE so maybe somebody will take it seriously. Gota whole 27 HITS so far, WhHoooieee!

It appears that as soon as you regsiter the floating ads piss off and what's left is threads on Female Orgasms and FLASHLIGHT sales.

 

[indyswinger]

Follow UP ....

Since my last post about my GF's 1st G-Spot orgasm we have really been concentrating on getting her to squirt. Haven't got there yet but she said last night that she is getting more relaxed every time. She also said she has learned more about her body since we started doing this.

Last night I started by working on her G-Spot while licking and sucking on her nipples (very sensitive) and she was getting really close to having a G-gasm ... I stopped and started licking her clit and it was all I could do to keep her on the bed. She was moaning and squirming all over the place. She usually has a VERY hard time cumming and she had the BIG O after about 10 minutes of me licking her clit.

As soon as she started coming down from that I went back to work on her G and it was BANG, BANG, BANG ....... she nearly passed out and she said after that it was just a series of many orgasms .... not a major one. We were lying on the bed talking and she said she still could feel mini-orgasms about 15 minutes after.

On a humerous note ..... I got up to go to the bathroom and when I looked in the mirror it looked like I had fallen face first in a plate of Krispy Kreams !!! Her cum was covering my face !!!! YUMMY !!!!!!

 

[MR.GGG]

Krispy Creamed

So you BOTH looked "glazed" !! Very cool.


Please don't forget that some women squirt. Some women don't. Some do sometimes and not others. I haven't been able to figure out why. Build up, time of the month, amount of fluids in her bod already, muscle tone, emotional state - no clue, have I. Of course that's what makes 'em ALL wunnerful, yes? That they're ALL not only different individuals but that they are so different individually all the time. They are like reading a CODE. Figure out the code and by sundown they've changed it on ya. On the bright side they only have just so many codes so that after 20 or 30 YEARS together you're able to figure out which one is the "code of the day" or hour and then you can surprise her every few months by doing or saying to her EXACTLY what she needs at that specific second.

The hormone changes must be a bitch to live with all the time but as long as they let us know how they feel we can usually adapt. The only problem comes when they don't recognize that the changes are in them and we're left scratchin our heads (but ...but... but... That ain't what I SAID, Hon") and wondering WTF? It takes some women YEARS to realize that sometimes so we have to be "attentive" re: time of month - and just not say anything stupid then or do things that ANNOY them - like breathing!!

In my experience those hormonal changes also make for some of the horniest times of their lives too so ... either way. Hang on. It can be a helluva ride.

Has she been able to explain what the build up differences are between her smaller GSPot orgasms and what she calls the BIGONE(s)? Figure THAT out and you'll be able to pop her cork every time you want or need to.

Don't be worried about getting to the point of her soaking the walls and ceiling tho. It
may be a neat fantasy to get her to that point but in reality you may regret it if she does. Just think of you having a full bladder and every time you have an orgasm your bladder empties. No control. Just whiiizzzzz. THAT's what those girls on the porn sites do when their G is bopped the right way. GREAT on camera but think of the friggin CLEAN UP EVERY night and YOU'RE gonna be the one doing it 'cause she won't be able to stand up for an hour or more. I know it is NOT urine but that amount of fluid squirted INSIDE a house night after night .... and in this heat.... YEEUCK!

Thanks for sharing and next time don't feel you have to wash your face just for us ...

 

[indyswinger]

LOL !!!!!

For the record ..... I've been with about 4 or 5 squirters and "You're preachin' to the choir" when you talk about the clean up. It's great when it's happenin' but it gets old after awhile. One girl squirted so much that it took days for the mattress to dry out if we didn't prepare for it.

On a funny note.....I was with a hot little number and we were in her basement on the sofa, I had her squirting good and her 16 year old son came home a bit early so we quickly dressed and went upstairs. Later he went downstairs to watch TV when we heard ..."Damn dog!", "Mom, Amber (the dog) must have peed all over the couch!" We both fell on the floor laughing !!!!

I guess for now it's just the challenge of trying to get her "over the edge" She REALLY loves the new feeling and wants to be able to let go all the way. I know it will happen, every time we try she gets a bit closer.....

Stay tuned for further details!

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re-post from Huggles

Theres a good new book out now that's quite enlightening..

It's called "She Comes First : The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman"
ISBN: 0060538252

It's quite good, and contains a lot of things that I think many people (both male and female) don't fully understand about "down there" Like that there are 7 different connected parts of the clitoris.
Almost all them not visable..

Wadda yer reckon, Mr G . . . do you think the research doctors will read it?? . . . or keep investigating their cadavers??

 

[Tele2047]

Wow, 62 pages, I only made it to page 10 :/

Anyways my girlfriend has never been able to achieve an orgasm on her own, nor have I been able to provide her with one. She always gets to a certain point (through clitoral stimulation) and then it's too sensitive to continue. What do you guys think about this method for first orgasm? Likely? Not suggested?

Curious to hear if you guys think we should get her first another way.

 

[College_geek]

Wow, 62 pages, I only made it to page 10 :/

Anyways my girlfriend has never been able to achieve an orgasm on her own, nor have I been able to provide her with one. She always gets to a certain point (through clitoral stimulation) and then it's too sensitive to continue. What do you guys think about this method for first orgasm? Likely? Not suggested?

Curious to hear if you guys think we should get her first another way.

Not sure if any of this would help, but it kinda sounds like me when I was trying to get my first orgasm a few years ago. Before I did stuff with my boyfriend, I tried to masturbate myself to orgasm, but I'd always become too sensitive or not have enough personal lube. I ended up trying the shower. It did it for me. May not work for others, but it's a shot. I'd say buy some lube, just in case she does dry up before orgasming, since I believe that a nice lubed clit feels better than a dry one! Also, she should try not to focus on the orgasm. She should just try to focus on enjoying the pleasure. She should orgasm eventually. ^_^ Good luck.

 

[Tele2047]

Oh no, we're just enjoying it right now but it's still my personal goal to show her an orgasm, no pressure on her though.

We've tried lube for when she's too dry, but it's the same problem with the sensitivity.

Another thing I haven't mentioned is she likes direct clitoral stimulation. Just reading this thread, she said that mostly it's just her thighs and clitoris which are ultra-sensitive and so internal stimulation might be possible after that point. I'll give it a try next time I see her (unfortunately, doing long distance right now so that won't be for a few weeks).

Thanks for the feedback, College_geek.

 

[MR.GGG]

Been doing some reeading ...

It is an interesting by product and quite common for women to experience a vast array of emotional releases as a result of INTENSE sexual stimulation. I posted a few days ago an article that PROVED through brain scans that orgasming women's brains virtually ceased functioning on a number of different levels. There-in lies my new line of RESEARCH.

An extended GSpot orgasm (peak - plateau - peak - plateau- peak - each building higher and more intense through each cycle) lasting an hour or more can peel emotional layers back like skins of an onion. Early childhood memories that were intense - spankings for instance. The purity and trust of lying curled up in Dad's lap while he read a story to you. Prepubescent lust - the feelings of semi-sexual thrills and excitement before we were old enough to even know what it was all about. First and early sexual experiences both good and bad. ALL of these (and more) can, if the stimulation is intense and the duration long enough can peel these layers bare! The feeling of what it was like before growing up and all the modern stresses associated with it made it almost impossible to fully release all those pent up feelings even during good sex.

I'm wondering if any ladies want to or can share the experience of being reduced through sexual stimulation, to a child like state ... open ... vulnerable ... CLEANSED ?

Was it TOO intense? What was your reaction? Many women will burst out crying. Too often that reaction is not understood by her partner and results are anything but beneficial. She can be downright embarrassed because there doesn't appear to be any reason for such an outburst. If BOTH partners understood the depth of that release then they could work at perfecting it instead of perhaps an all too common reaction
of ," WTF's the matter with you?"

My curiosity centers around using the GSpot technique to precipitate that reaction. If the intensity of sexual stimulation is strong enough that ALL and I mean ALL other concerns, stresses, worries are COMPLETELY eliminated then a state of mind can take on the characteristics of a senior Buddhist priest. The innocent purity of a utterly
emptied mind and the sense of joy, relief, release, - whatever that is left is or can be an incredible experience for a woman providing her partner understands what she is going through, is there to anchor her and allow her that release.

I'm looking for women who have (or wished they had) a partner who can take a her to that place, facilitate her the cathartic release through intense and prolonged orgasms and, as a consequense of that, the subsequent release of ALL her other stresses. If this is done while being loved, held, encouraged and caressed I believe she attain an almost birthlike experience.

Ladies?

 

[muttley44]

I saw this and thought I'd post it here:

http://www.unassistedchildbirth.com/sensual/orgasmic.html

On a sidenote:

My girlfriend and I were going at it last week and it seems like my favorite line from her now in the midst of passion is, "Oh my god! Is that your thumb again?!?! Ngghhhh. FUCK! DON'T STOP!!"