Not being a doctor ...
I suggest a good dose of common sense.
Don't push it too far until the scars ( internal too ) have a chance to heal and she builds up her strength, muscle tone. In the meantime lots of tongue and LOTS of loving. Make her feel more loved and even sexier now than before she had her plumbing pulled. Never forget that clits, GPsots, nipples nothing - NOTHING on the outside of her bod determines how sexy a woman is. Both her reaction TO you and FOR you is ALL determined by the SEX organ between her ears. Keeping that happy, horny and confident that she is well loved is the same as what oil and gas does for your car.
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I suggest a good dose of common sense.
Don't push it too far until the scars ( internal too ) have a chance to heal and she builds up her strength, muscle tone. In the meantime lots of tongue and LOTS of loving. Make her feel more loved and even sexier now than before she had her plumbing pulled. Never forget that clits, GPsots, nipples nothing - NOTHING on the outside of her bod determines how sexy a woman is. Both her reaction TO you and FOR you is ALL determined by the SEX organ between her ears. Keeping that happy, horny and confident that she is well loved is the same as what oil and gas does for your car.
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Re: Re: That's been brought up a number of times...
more thanks to don for the above words of wisdom.... I'm sure you're right. I've just never felt about anyone the way I do about this girl, and I wanna keep her coming back for more for as long as I can. seems to be working for now.... yesterday was especially good. I love the look of bliss on her face and we both laughed when she got up to go tinkle and collapsed back onto the bed.
she said something later on about being addicted. we've joked that I created a monster, but as long as I get to be her mad scientist I'll be a happy man
just wanted to thank both mr. ggg and don for their words of wisdom re: not judging the quality of orgasms by wetness, squirting, etc.Originally posted by Don K Dyck
Norton . . . don't worry too much . . . if you're doing it right she'll keep wanting it . . . and if she doesn't then there are many other unuspecting volunteers out there who would give their eye teeth for the experience that you can provide . . .
more thanks to don for the above words of wisdom.... I'm sure you're right. I've just never felt about anyone the way I do about this girl, and I wanna keep her coming back for more for as long as I can. seems to be working for now.... yesterday was especially good. I love the look of bliss on her face and we both laughed when she got up to go tinkle and collapsed back onto the bed.
she said something later on about being addicted. we've joked that I created a monster, but as long as I get to be her mad scientist I'll be a happy man
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You're welcome. Glad we could help out. I think you'll agree that the technique has given you a more than gratifying sexual aspect to your realtionship with this lady. From my experience it goive BOTH of you a huge boost in self confidence and self respect. I hope your reationship with this special lady continues but if it does end I'm sure you'll carry that self confidence with you into a new repationship.
Best of luck and thanks for sharing.
You're welcome. Glad we could help out. I think you'll agree that the technique has given you a more than gratifying sexual aspect to your realtionship with this lady. From my experience it goive BOTH of you a huge boost in self confidence and self respect. I hope your reationship with this special lady continues but if it does end I'm sure you'll carry that self confidence with you into a new repationship.
Best of luck and thanks for sharing.
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This sounds like a great technique; in fact I have tried to implement it before. My wife wants to hop out of bed the moment she feels like she is going to pee, and there is nothing I can do to dissuade her. She will start yelling and push me away.
I think that she does get these sorts of orgasms during sex sometimes. She has orgasms and then sometimes she has ORGASMS where she is screaming and thrashing around. I'd love to be able to instantly trigger that...
I think that she does get these sorts of orgasms during sex sometimes. She has orgasms and then sometimes she has ORGASMS where she is screaming and thrashing around. I'd love to be able to instantly trigger that...
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It Worked For Me!
Thanks MR.GGG This past Sat. eve my wife and I finally got some time alone and I was able to perform the move on her. I knew where the g-spot was but hadn't been able to perform it on her. She was like butter, she practically melted. She asked where I learned it and I replied I read about it somewhere. Not quite sure how many orgasms she had, but I know she was certainly satisfied. She wanted my cock in positions we hadn't used in quite sometime. Thanks again for the reminder of the tecnique.
Thanks MR.GGG This past Sat. eve my wife and I finally got some time alone and I was able to perform the move on her. I knew where the g-spot was but hadn't been able to perform it on her. She was like butter, she practically melted. She asked where I learned it and I replied I read about it somewhere. Not quite sure how many orgasms she had, but I know she was certainly satisfied. She wanted my cock in positions we hadn't used in quite sometime. Thanks again for the reminder of the tecnique.
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Oh dear!! I thought I'd lost this thread with the changeover . . . so it needs to be bumped back onto the Board . . .
Mr G . . . could you please refresh us on this extraordinarily successful technique, just for the benefit of the newbies who are too lazy to scroll back through 1200 posts of "research data" . . .
Mr G . . . could you please refresh us on this extraordinarily successful technique, just for the benefit of the newbies who are too lazy to scroll back through 1200 posts of "research data" . . .
Tried it twice this weekend, worked both times, but Wife did'nt want to try for multiples, too intense I guess. 
Still, nice I could do something for her no other boyfiend ever had, sort of a g-spot virgin, and I was her first.
I was suprised BTW just how hard I needed to rub. If I'd have pushed my thumb that hard on any other part of her body, it probally would have hurt, not provided an orgasm. She actually said it felt like she had a second clit.
Still, nice I could do something for her no other boyfiend ever had, sort of a g-spot virgin, and I was her first.
I was suprised BTW just how hard I needed to rub. If I'd have pushed my thumb that hard on any other part of her body, it probally would have hurt, not provided an orgasm. She actually said it felt like she had a second clit.
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Amazing how that spot feels doesn't it? the texture really changes the harder you rub it, and they seem to not be able to get enough!
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ben dover11 said:
Hi, I'm new to the site, but I wanted to respond here. I don't think the solution to your problem is that your SO needs to relax and/or endure. I think that an important point that seems to have been mentioned on page one has since been forgotten.
From my limited experience, G-spot play leads to an orgasm that is preceeded by a feeling like the need to urinate. This is not an illusion or a figment of the woman's imagination.
Do a web search on tutorials for this topic and you'll be sure to find an explanation of how the play is causing her body to produce a fluid not unlike precum, though the comparison is not perfect. In any case, it is not urine.
Further research on the web should reveal that if the woman attempts to "hold this back" as she would urine, she will likely be holding back her g-spot orgasm.
Again, the presence of the need to pee is not a limiting factor, it is likely a precursor to the orgasm.
The problem is, in order to get past this, she needs to let it go: not meaning relax as in "don't stress about it", but literally let the hot fluid go where it so wants to by relaxing the tension that is holding the fluid in.
In other words, communicate that if she is at a state of heightened arousal
through g-spot stimulation, she'll feel the pressure of fluid, and that fluid is likely a major part of her orgasm.
I explained this to my wife by telling her how mind blowing it actually is to ejaculate, that the rush of cum is so hot feeling that you lose track of everything else. This helps her to be less worried about being messy.
Basically, she needs to be comfortable letting that pressure free.
In regards to time frames mentioned here, I think that two minutes is probably possible, but we've had better experiences letting it build more slowly. I'm not one to worry about the number of orgasms, but fixate more of my wife's state of being, but then, both aopproaches can lead to the same place.
Sunday, I teased her with firm g-spot stimulation while licking her clitoris, both slow, maybe forty-five minutes, possibly four or five "come to me's" with my fingers stimulating her g-spot to each one taste of her clittoris. Our goal was not a g-spot orgasm, merely playing around, and so we ended all that play with a clittoral climax and with her hungry for next time. I recommend this highly.
Again, those who are only reaching the urge to urinate and nothing more, the solution "relax" is correct but oversimplified. Be somewhere where you can live with a (possible) mess long enough to really keep coming, and when you get that presure and think you seem hot and bothered enough to cum, see what letting it go does for you.
As for the pressure, start gentle, when you feel the g-spot engorge, increase it, to a deep penetrating massage like you'd perform on a muscle to work out a knot, provided she is comfortable with this.
And I really believe that all woman are capable of doing this, especially since most who describe not getting anything out of is refer to the urge to pee and a response in keeping with insufficient pressure or outright missing the spot(said urge being produced by something that has been clinically shown to not be urine) as major factors.
Given that a woman's body is fully capable of producing this fluid under this pressure, it seems pretty doubtful that personal taste plays any part in capability to achieve this type of orgasm.
In otherwords, ladies who wonder, read up and keep trying, the worse that can happen is you masturbate a lot and add a little to your repertoire.
Oh yeah, finding it:
1) If it's the g-spot, it will swell into a mound
2) Slide your finger in, a good guide is if you gently shaped your hand into the darth vader "I'm choking you" gesture(index and thumb hooked as if you're choking someone, but not touching, obviously), and the thumb was on the clit, the finger would be near the g-spot.
3) Assume in all my descriptions that she is on her back and you are using your fingers. When your finger, knuckle down, is inside her, if you bring your fingertip up towards her belly, you're headed in the right direction.
4) Start gently, but firm, like a mild massage, not a carress.
5) All those g-spot stimulators are curved because the g-spot is towards the back slope of a mound. That should provide a clue.
Finally, toys are fun and it's nice to meet you all.
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Ha, read to page 10 and thought that was the end of the thread. Horny bastards!
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I am not a post whore.
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psyche said:When I cum like this, my pussy clenches so fucking hard that I can push a full grown man and his determined cock right out of my pussy! LMAO........they have to fucking hold on for dear life and when they do, I love them for being able to stay in! Keep in mind that I am only 5' 3"!
The other night my vagina was clenching so hard Gil said I almost broke his fingers....
And there was a veritable flood - we had a towel down and when I'd recovered enough to remove it from under me it was heavy He pulled his fingers out of me once during our play and the gush of fluid was incredible, all down my thighs and down his arm (I was on all fours and he was doing me from behind). Even before we really got started he spanked my butt half a dozen times and I felt the wetness start running - it's like circuits have been connected, like Pavlov's dogs Palamino19
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Bandit58 said:The other night my vagina was clenching so hard Gil said I almost broke his fingers....
I can't even begin to say how hot it is when my wife's pussy clamps down on my fingers during play. Man, talk about immediate gratification.
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This is still news?
It saddens me to think woman can be so out of touch with their own bodies that they don't figure out what they're capable of, nor are the females the ones looking up this information and being willing to teach themselves and then share this ability with their partner (if applicable)
I do recomend trying this, though not so much for the multiple orgasms (which are wonderful don't get me wrong) but because I'm absolutely discusted at how afraid a large percentage of women are, of their own bodies! Knowing your body will increase your sex life (alone or with any partner) a million times more than a list of instructions on how to please her G-spot. Learn about your G-spot, and then keep going. Keep reading, talk to someone, touch yourself!
It saddens me to think woman can be so out of touch with their own bodies that they don't figure out what they're capable of, nor are the females the ones looking up this information and being willing to teach themselves and then share this ability with their partner (if applicable)
I do recomend trying this, though not so much for the multiple orgasms (which are wonderful don't get me wrong) but because I'm absolutely discusted at how afraid a large percentage of women are, of their own bodies! Knowing your body will increase your sex life (alone or with any partner) a million times more than a list of instructions on how to please her G-spot. Learn about your G-spot, and then keep going. Keep reading, talk to someone, touch yourself!
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[QUOTE="angel" eve]This is still news?
It saddens me to think woman can be so out of touch with their own bodies that they don't figure out what they're capable of, nor are the females the ones looking up this information and being willing to teach themselves and then share this ability with their partner (if applicable)
I do recomend trying this, though not so much for the multiple orgasms (which are wonderful don't get me wrong) but because I'm absolutely discusted at how afraid a large percentage of women are, of their own bodies! Knowing your body will increase your sex life (alone or with any partner) a million times more than a list of instructions on how to please her G-spot. Learn about your G-spot, and then keep going. Keep reading, talk to someone, touch yourself![/QUOTE]
I think this post is a bit harsh as many ladies were told that this is dirty & it's wrong if they were caught playing with themselves as kids & others like my loverly lady BANDIT
who were never in a relationship where her partner cared about her pleasure, even now she is reluctant to play with herself with me there butt is getting more comfy with it, untill we met she ahd never had an orgasm with a partner but now has discovered so much about being a lady who can enjoy her sexuality.
It saddens me to think woman can be so out of touch with their own bodies that they don't figure out what they're capable of, nor are the females the ones looking up this information and being willing to teach themselves and then share this ability with their partner (if applicable)
I do recomend trying this, though not so much for the multiple orgasms (which are wonderful don't get me wrong) but because I'm absolutely discusted at how afraid a large percentage of women are, of their own bodies! Knowing your body will increase your sex life (alone or with any partner) a million times more than a list of instructions on how to please her G-spot. Learn about your G-spot, and then keep going. Keep reading, talk to someone, touch yourself![/QUOTE]
I think this post is a bit harsh as many ladies were told that this is dirty & it's wrong if they were caught playing with themselves as kids & others like my loverly lady BANDIT
who were never in a relationship where her partner cared about her pleasure, even now she is reluctant to play with herself with me there butt is getting more comfy with it, untill we met she ahd never had an orgasm with a partner but now has discovered so much about being a lady who can enjoy her sexuality.Angel - I have encouraged everybody ...
... reading this thread to post and participate I can only describe your last one as ... baffling !
I'm not sure why you're so disCusted by people somehow not knowing everything about their own bodies. Were you lucky enough to come fully equipped with a USER's MANUAL - WOW?
Again, as a few posts have already covered, many people have chosen to not even try this technique because of the reaction their spouse may have by coming up with something so new and different from their routine love-making techniques. There are a LOT of sexual and emotional hang-ups in our society. The best way to overcome those hang-ups is to educate yourself and you do that by reading not by chastising people for not knowing in the first place.
I recommend the technique (in any style) too. That's why I posted the friggin thing. As disCussed throughout the thread the reason why I did post this is because so many women / couples / men do NOT know this technique. Some of the best researchers in the world have conclusively PROVEN that the so called GSpot does NOT even exist. Without reading about stuff how did YOU find out about how your bod worked? Did you just poke and prod and gouge at various orifices until something worked or did YOU read about it?
Learning about your GSpot will, indeed, improve your sex/love life. Not sure about a million times but adding it to your regular techniques was for me a graduation from about a grade 6 level sex life to a PhD! The point is to get there people DO have to read about the techniques and then to try them out. Having said that - again - I'm still a little lost as to what point exactly you WERE trying to make.
... reading this thread to post and participate I can only describe your last one as ... baffling !
I'm not sure why you're so disCusted by people somehow not knowing everything about their own bodies. Were you lucky enough to come fully equipped with a USER's MANUAL - WOW?
Again, as a few posts have already covered, many people have chosen to not even try this technique because of the reaction their spouse may have by coming up with something so new and different from their routine love-making techniques. There are a LOT of sexual and emotional hang-ups in our society. The best way to overcome those hang-ups is to educate yourself and you do that by reading not by chastising people for not knowing in the first place.
I recommend the technique (in any style) too. That's why I posted the friggin thing. As disCussed throughout the thread the reason why I did post this is because so many women / couples / men do NOT know this technique. Some of the best researchers in the world have conclusively PROVEN that the so called GSpot does NOT even exist. Without reading about stuff how did YOU find out about how your bod worked? Did you just poke and prod and gouge at various orifices until something worked or did YOU read about it?
Learning about your GSpot will, indeed, improve your sex/love life. Not sure about a million times but adding it to your regular techniques was for me a graduation from about a grade 6 level sex life to a PhD! The point is to get there people DO have to read about the techniques and then to try them out. Having said that - again - I'm still a little lost as to what point exactly you WERE trying to make.
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[QUOTE="angel" eve]This is still news?
It saddens me to think woman can be so out of touch with their own bodies that they don't figure out what they're capable of, nor are the females the ones looking up this information and being willing to teach themselves and then share this ability with their partner (if applicable)
I do recomend trying this, though not so much for the multiple orgasms (which are wonderful don't get me wrong) but because I'm absolutely discusted at how afraid a large percentage of women are, of their own bodies! Knowing your body will increase your sex life (alone or with any partner) a million times more than a list of instructions on how to please her G-spot. Learn about your G-spot, and then keep going. Keep reading, talk to someone, touch yourself![/QUOTE]
Uhmmm . . . this post is a little puzzling because it completely disregards the societal taboos placed on children in allegedly Christian societies that touching or stimulating genitalia is somehow "sinful" or "bad" or "anti-social".
The concern for the safety of the children by discouraging inappropriate insertions is obvious. However, to denigrate people, especially for women, for reading a thread that encourages active research into female sexuality is self-contradictory.
Perhaps the av showing a woman handcuffed behind her back tells us more about this post and its author.
It saddens me to think woman can be so out of touch with their own bodies that they don't figure out what they're capable of, nor are the females the ones looking up this information and being willing to teach themselves and then share this ability with their partner (if applicable)
I do recomend trying this, though not so much for the multiple orgasms (which are wonderful don't get me wrong) but because I'm absolutely discusted at how afraid a large percentage of women are, of their own bodies! Knowing your body will increase your sex life (alone or with any partner) a million times more than a list of instructions on how to please her G-spot. Learn about your G-spot, and then keep going. Keep reading, talk to someone, touch yourself![/QUOTE]
Uhmmm . . . this post is a little puzzling because it completely disregards the societal taboos placed on children in allegedly Christian societies that touching or stimulating genitalia is somehow "sinful" or "bad" or "anti-social".
The concern for the safety of the children by discouraging inappropriate insertions is obvious. However, to denigrate people, especially for women, for reading a thread that encourages active research into female sexuality is self-contradictory.
Perhaps the av showing a woman handcuffed behind her back tells us more about this post and its author.
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Don't forget that while men's genitalia is all on the outside, women's is inside, hidden away. And when you've had an upbringing where sex wasn't talked about, and "nice girls don't do that", well then you don't know that there's pleasure to be found there. I didn't have any kind of orgasm until I was 22 and I'd been married 3 years by then
The ex didn't like me masturbating either. He reckoned if I was horny then I should be having sex with him. Never mind that I didn't enjoy it - it was all about him baby. I should be having orgasms just from him sticking it in and thrusting away.....apparently there was something wrong with me because I didn't like sex So, not seeing any way out of this, I switched off. Sex was a big bore and it got so I would do anything to avoid it. He'd only touch me when he wanted it anyway.....there was no affection any other time. Keep in mind that he was my first and only partner until I was 43 years old. It took me that long to find out that I could get pleasure with another person.
But it wasn't until I was with Gil that I learned to relax and let myself fall over the edge.....I've described my first experience with him and the Gspot on this thread, the wonder of it is still very fresh in my mind and it keeps getting better.......
The ex didn't like me masturbating either. He reckoned if I was horny then I should be having sex with him. Never mind that I didn't enjoy it - it was all about him baby. I should be having orgasms just from him sticking it in and thrusting away.....apparently there was something wrong with me because I didn't like sex
So, not seeing any way out of this, I switched off. Sex was a big bore and it got so I would do anything to avoid it. He'd only touch me when he wanted it anyway.....there was no affection any other time. Keep in mind that he was my first and only partner until I was 43 years old. It took me that long to find out that I could get pleasure with another person.But it wasn't until I was with Gil that I learned to relax and let myself fall over the edge.....I've described my first experience with him and the Gspot on this thread, the wonder of it is still very fresh in my mind and it keeps getting better.......
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Quick reaction to the topic at hand -- I've known about my body very well from about the age of eleven. No hang ups about masturbation, sex or anything much at all. Thing is though I've always pretty much masturbated by stroking my clit -- that's worked marvellously well, I've not been an "inserter" for the want of a better term. Up until a few years ago most of the handplay with my sweetheart was focussed primarily on my clit too -- that's what I liked.
With a bit more exploring, reading threads like this and other research we've come to perfect a technique for ourselves that has me enjoying many, many sensational orgasms at the loving hands of my partner. I literally couldn't have done it without him. So in reply to the question "is this still news?" -- while I haven't seen a news crew in my bedroom lately, I would say yes, it is still news. People sharing their ideas and experiences on this thread has no doubt encouraged many folk to go explore for themselves. It may have even encouraged some women to go explore themselves and to ask for more in the bedroom. Oh... if all "news" were so useful!
for the want of a better term. Up until a few years ago most of the handplay with my sweetheart was focussed primarily on my clit too -- that's what I liked.With a bit more exploring, reading threads like this and other research we've come to perfect a technique for ourselves that has me enjoying many, many sensational orgasms at the loving hands of my partner. I literally couldn't have done it without him. So in reply to the question "is this still news?" -- while I haven't seen a news crew in my bedroom lately, I would say yes, it is still news. People sharing their ideas and experiences on this thread has no doubt encouraged many folk to go explore for themselves. It may have even encouraged some women to go explore themselves and to ask for more in the bedroom. Oh... if all "news" were so useful!
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Here's a link to some vids of a couple showing one way of achieving the g-spot. They seem like a regular couple, not porn stars, and they seem to be having a lot of fun. Hope everyone enjoys.
http://galleries.aebn.net/beta3/ind...id/AEBN-007211/tid/536/layout/tgp_layout1.cfm
That vid might give a good idea on the kind of pressure used.
http://galleries.aebn.net/beta3/ind...id/AEBN-007211/tid/536/layout/tgp_layout1.cfm
That vid might give a good idea on the kind of pressure used.
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That's a good series.
Yes, it shows the speed / pressure needed fairly well. It also shows WHY the TECHNIQUE I suggest is better. You can see that he is at his limit as far as arm movement, speed and endurance. He has to keep his fingers stiff, aimed UP as well as moving his arm UP as well as the thrusting in/out.
With the TECHNIQUE I recommend, the thumb is used at an angle that utilizes the joint - ie. you don't need muscle power to maintain the stiffness needed. The pressure is all downwards and that is always easier than lifting upwards for the pressure. For the thrusting you are using both the elbow AND the shoulder so there is far less joint stress and muscle exhaustion.
On the psychological aspect of this TECHNIQUE the woman is face down - kind of submissive to start with. Her bum is exposed for a good spanking if you're both into that aspect. She can be completely relaxed in this position. She doesn't have to worry about keeping her legs up and apart. She can reach beneath her hips and play with her clit if she wants or even needs to do that while getting G'd. Her bum-up position also leaves her anus exposed and can be stimulated at the same time as GSpotting her. With a fairly deep penetration you can stimulate her ASpot at the same time.
If you have (forced - I really like the slightly S&M aspect that this position can take on) her face down over a bunch of pillows with her bum up in the air, a dildo bumping her ASpot, your thumb jammin against her GSpt, one hand alternating between "holding her down" and spanking that sweet reddening ass while she's rubbing her own clit just the way she needs it OR just holding onto the bedsheets for dear life - well she is going to be a PUDDLE. You can keep her going until she passes out or begs for mercy. She will be totally satiated, exhausted and willing to do ANYTHING to pay you back for the pleasure you've given her (made her endure) as soon as she can move. I love the spastic, convulsive movements she has after a sound GSpotting. The other thing is that making her cum that hard and for that long will stimulate MASSIVE amounts of oxytocin so as soon as your elbow has any feeling back - she'll be working hard hoping for a repeat.... night after night after night.
Yes, it shows the speed / pressure needed fairly well. It also shows WHY the TECHNIQUE I suggest is better. You can see that he is at his limit as far as arm movement, speed and endurance. He has to keep his fingers stiff, aimed UP as well as moving his arm UP as well as the thrusting in/out.
With the TECHNIQUE I recommend, the thumb is used at an angle that utilizes the joint - ie. you don't need muscle power to maintain the stiffness needed. The pressure is all downwards and that is always easier than lifting upwards for the pressure. For the thrusting you are using both the elbow AND the shoulder so there is far less joint stress and muscle exhaustion.
On the psychological aspect of this TECHNIQUE the woman is face down - kind of submissive to start with. Her bum is exposed for a good spanking if you're both into that aspect. She can be completely relaxed in this position. She doesn't have to worry about keeping her legs up and apart. She can reach beneath her hips and play with her clit if she wants or even needs to do that while getting G'd. Her bum-up position also leaves her anus exposed and can be stimulated at the same time as GSpotting her. With a fairly deep penetration you can stimulate her ASpot at the same time.
If you have (forced - I really like the slightly S&M aspect that this position can take on) her face down over a bunch of pillows with her bum up in the air, a dildo bumping her ASpot, your thumb jammin against her GSpt, one hand alternating between "holding her down" and spanking that sweet reddening ass while she's rubbing her own clit just the way she needs it OR just holding onto the bedsheets for dear life - well she is going to be a PUDDLE. You can keep her going until she passes out or begs for mercy. She will be totally satiated, exhausted and willing to do ANYTHING to pay you back for the pleasure you've given her (made her endure) as soon as she can move. I love the spastic, convulsive movements she has after a sound GSpotting. The other thing is that making her cum that hard and for that long will stimulate MASSIVE amounts of oxytocin so as soon as your elbow has any feeling back - she'll be working hard hoping for a repeat.... night after night after night.
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herecomestherain said:Quick reaction to the topic at hand -- I've known about my body very well from about the age of eleven. No hang ups about masturbation, sex or anything much at all. Thing is though I've always pretty much masturbated by stroking my clit -- that's worked marvellously well, I've not been an "inserter"
With a bit more exploring, reading threads like this and other research we've come to perfect a technique for ourselves that has me enjoying many, many sensational orgasms at the loving hands of my partner. I literally couldn't have done it without him. So in reply to the question "is this still news?" -- while I haven't seen a news crew in my bedroom lately, I would say yes, it is still news. People sharing their ideas and experiences on this thread has no doubt encouraged many folk to go explore for themselves. It may have even encouraged some women to go explore themselves and to ask for more in the bedroom. Oh... if all "news" were so useful!
Great to hear that you & your partner have found what works for you as I know there are ladies who much prefer the clit stimulation but have you tried the G spot at all?
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Gil - if you read back through some of the pages you'll see that Herecomestherain is an avid contributor to the thread and although, like me, is still in the research stage of this adventure, I would say, from most of her posts that she has indeed experienced a sound Gpoking a time or 3 before.
Gil - if you read back through some of the pages you'll see that Herecomestherain is an avid contributor to the thread and although, like me, is still in the research stage of this adventure, I would say, from most of her posts that she has indeed experienced a sound Gpoking a time or 3 before.
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