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[MR.GGG]

Absolutely

Best of luck but ... read more of the posts. Make sure you don't just "go for her GSPot" like many have tried. That's OK if you've already done it and she knows the feeling. It can happen VERY quickly then. The one thing that many couples do that seems to doom this technique if your're trying it the very 1st time and you JUST concentrate on that. For the first time make this a not very important addition to your foreplay at a time when you have turned her on in all the regular ways. Don't put a lot of emphasis on it and don't JUST do this. I would even suggest (for future ref - too late for your date) that you just do this technique when she is really turned on. Don't tell her what you're going to do and don't build her up saying that you've learnt a technique that's gonna blow her mind. The one thing, I think, where the woman CAN screw this up is if she is trying to react "the right way." She has to let this build naturally maybe even with some surprise. SHe shouldn't feel she has to react a certain way or in a particular time frame. I even think, as one contributor suggested way back in the thread, that AFTER regular sex and all that enTAILED his woman was relaxing and on her tummy and he just slid a thumb in there and re-stimulated her GSpot before she really came down all the way from her orgasm(s) from minutes before. He said that she triggered almost immediately, was completely blown away - as was he - and there was no let down or anticipation that ruined the experiment.

Keep trying if you don't get it right away and don't make it a big issue. When it works her reaction will be all the big issue you'll need or want.

Best of luck.

 

[nortonsavage]

Re: Absolutely

Keep trying if you don't get it right away and don't make it a big issue. When it works her reaction will be all the big issue you'll need or want.

Best of luck.

thanks, mr. ggg.....
your words about the way a woman is supposed to react are very wise. that's why I avoided saying things like "mind-blowing". I just told her if I do it right that she should cum pretty good. she was the one saying, "do you want to do that first, or....." I told her that since what we usually do feels pretty good we should do that and just get to where we are both feeling good and relaxd and then try it.

the only reason I even mentioned it beforehand is because of the positioning.... if I just told her to lie facedown and stick her butt up and then put some pillows underneath her she might think I'm preparing her for anal, and she specifically told me she's done that before and didn't like it.

one thought I had, tho (and again this is without reading more posts first)....she's mentioned that while she doesn't want to do anal likes to be spanked. it seems to me that if I had her across my lap spanking her that might also be a good position for this stimulation technique. comments?

 

[MR.GGG]

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For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.

A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.

Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based
body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub.

 

[nortonsavage]

the technique drew raves from the woman I used it on today! up until today we were never even sure she had had an orgasm. she gets very wet and she said she couldn't tell because of that. she was asking me if she had cum, and I honestly didn't think she really had. I told her that from what I've read, she should feel sort of an explosion for lack of a better word. she had never felt that.........

until today

we didn't count orgasms, but she got the whole shebang today... the explosions, the wetness..... she even squirted a few times. she's had quite a few lovers and she said none of them has made her do that. my only regret is because of the position (I had her face down across my lap) I couldn't really see the squirting. I felt it in my hand, tho, and we left two huge puddles in the bed.

I think she was fairly amazed.... and I know that as long as we have our "arrangement" the g-spot will become a regular part of our playing.

thanks, mr. ggg

 

[MR.GGG]

GREAT NEWS

Awesome post !!! Congrats !!!

Thanks for posting back so soon. You made my night - possibly my week!

Don't forget. That technique is just a guideline. It's up to you to decide when to keep it simple and when to experiment to make some occasions different, amazing and truly memorable for both of you. She can now go from a feelsgood but probably didn't come -a night woman to almost unlimited orgasms. I predict she'll gain a whole new self-confidence, become really proud of her femininity and will be "addicted" to you from now on.

Have a GREAT New Year and ... pass on the technique. I bet she will. Her girlfriends will see the difference very soon and they'll be asking her "" Hey! What's up with you? ""

 

[nortonsavage]

Re: GREAT NEWS

Originally posted by MR.GGG I predict she'll gain a whole new self-confidence, become really proud of her femininity and will be "addicted" to you from now on.

happy to have made your night, mr. g. you sure helped make my day, too!

as for your prediction, I'd love for all of that to happen. maybe a little selfish, but I'd especially be pleased if she became addicted to me. unfortunately I don't see that happening. I get to have fun with her for now, tho, and if I ever find someone else I care for, I have something up my sleeve to help win her over .

 

[herecomestherain]

Gee guys I can't keep the smile off my face! Lovely, lovely stuff nortonsavage, sounds like a great time was had by all. We sometimes have fun with my kneeling up in front of him after a few of lying down variety, almost always makes for a very wet time...we had a little session the other evening where I was literally rendered speechless by the pleasure.

We also talked a bit about this technique much later that night and I was saying how much I loved it but that I sometimes worried if he actually got tired...once you get addicted -- insatiability comes next! He, sweetman was full assurances that no he didn't get too tired, he just loved to do it.
It's wonderful if a woman can just relax and receive the pleasure, sometimes we get caught up in the idea that to receive is "selfish". It's nice if we know that our partners truly enjoy what they are doing.

Happy New Year to you all, here's to more pleasure on Earth in 2005.

That's for you Mr.G

 

[Anopheles]

Mr. G s right on the money with his advice here. Here is my experience.

This is a long post, so slap me if you must

I've been with my wife for going on 10 years, and for the first 3 or 4, we were having sex perhaps 3-4 times a day (seriously, we were college kids with nothing better to do!!) It was enjoyable, but I had never given her the big 'O' from anything other than oral sex. I guess I was just clueless, but I would just jackhammer away like any kid would. She likes a pounding so it wasn't all bad, but I could tell that I wasn't quite getting the job done like I wanted to. One night, though, I decided to slow down a bit and do something like what Mr. G did, only with my penis.

Positioning myself over my knees whilst she was on her back, I spread her knees to hold her still, and as opposed to thrusting like a mad fiend, I just rocked back and forth gently. I have a quite pronounced upward curve to my penis, so it just rubs right up along the top, or front of the vaginal wall. After a few minutes of this, I she started to slip into another place. Being young and not sure exactly what to think when her moaning stopped and she went limp, I just kept going of course!! Within perhaps 30 seconds, she suddenly convulsed, and I kid you not, it was like some scene from the Exorcist, she was bucking uncontrollably, so much so that even though I am a VERY strong person, I could barely hold onto her legs. This went on for at least a minute, where should could say nothing besides "More", and "Please..." When her first G-spot orgasm subsided, I looked down and I was completely wet from mid stomach on down, and there was a puddle almost pooled on the bed. I had hit the mother lode at long last!! I was so elated that I finally delivered to this wonderful woman the pleasure that she deserved. So I definitely suggest giving this method a try!

The interesting thing to note, is that after you do this to a woman, your confidence level in your lovemaking ability soars to heights you couldn't imagine, and you seem to just get better and better at it. Now, about 6 years later, I can give her vaginal orgasms almost on command. Using this technique and a couple others that I've stumbled upon, I can usually make her cum within 2 minutes, and she cums every 30 seconds or so until either I or she can't last any longer. We get more pleasure from a 30 minute lovemaking session than either one of us would get from 3 hours or so before.
Her orgasms are so forceful that she has passed out before, and she normally can't walk afterwards because she's lightheaded. There have been times when I couldn't go to work the next day to take care of the kiddies, because she couldn't get out of bed before noon!! And I love every bit of it.

Make no mistake, i'm not bragging on being some sort of super lover, i'm just an average Joe that learned a few things that work really well. If anyone is interested in hearing more, i'd be happy to post.

 

[nortonsavage]

Gee guys I can't keep the smile off my face! Lovely, lovely stuff nortonsavage, sounds like a great time was had by all.

We also talked a bit about this technique much later that night and I was saying how much I loved it but that I sometimes worried if he actually got tired...once you get addicted -- insatiability comes next!

thanks, herecomestherain. we both DID have a lovely time.... she must have liked it even better than I thought, because I talked her into calling off work today and spending the day in bed with me. that might not seem like such a big deal to you but this girl is very straight up about work. I've worked with her for almost 3 years and I've only known her to call off twice and she was practically near death both times..lol. I told her this morning I'd corrupt her eventually, not expecting at all that 10 minutes later she would call off and ask me where and when I wanted to meet. woo-hoo!!

as for the issue of being tired.... I was thinking about that on the way home tonight. I love so much that I'm able to help her have so much pleasure.... she said today was even better than the last time. however, I admit that my arms do get tired, and I was wondering how I could increase my stamina. I know lifting weights builds arm strength, but how does one build arm stamina? anyone have any tips for that?

 

[Jatek]

Anopheles - That's the way it should be. ^^

If you know what pleases her, and use that to please her... doesn't that make you a Super Lover?

I know lifting weights builds arm strength, but how does one build arm stamina? anyone have any tips for that?

Practice.

You can do it on her as often as feasible, or replicate the movements when you're on your own. To increase the effectiveness (after you've built up some good stamina, for example), you could look into getting some wrist-weights or something.

But by far the most effective (and FUN! ) way is to do it as often as possible.

 

[nortonsavage]

But by far the most effective (and FUN! ) way is to do it as often as possible.

thanks for the tip. I'd do it every day if I could, but we're on more of a once a week or so schedule

 

[herecomestherain]

My sweetheart swims on a daily basis and I think his fitness and stamina pay off in other wet places... actually, make that I'm sure it pays off.

 

[howsweetitis]

Brand new experience for me.....

We had the most terrific experience on New Years day! We started off normally with foreplay which lead to multiple G spot orgasms as it usually does. It was an exceptionally great session with her moaning and groaning and going crazy! Now throw this in! In the 49 years of marriage life we have had, she would never let me do oral sex on her nor her on me. She has always had religious hang ups which just would never allow it although I never gave up. This time when I least expected it, during the passion of orgasms and extreme pleasure she said, “you can go down if you want to." As you might expect I was completely floored and taken by surprise since I had completely given up on the possibility of this ever happening within the last year. I immediately moved down and continued to manually work her G spot and her clit at the same time with my tongue. It was great, but probably kind of cumbersome for the first time surprise experience. I feel that now I will be prepared to plan our next time and that it will become a more natural experience. I hope that she will be more relaxed in this method from now on and that it will be as pleasurable as we normally enjoy. I wonder if anyone else has had similar experiences that they would like to share. It would be helpful to have some feedback.

 

[MR.GGG]

CONGRATS!!!

Great story. I've received literally hundreds of emails and PM's regarding this and I'd say a good 30% to 40% related similar stories. Their partners, after experiencing "GSpot" orgasms for the first time began "opening up" after years of various degrees of sexual repression or inhibition.

I think it is a combination of a number of things. Probably first off is the added trust that she places in you now that YOU have control over HER and her orgasms to the extent a woman's partner does when applying this technique. Secondly there seems to be a massive increase in hormone levels (oxytocin production spikes as a result of G-gasms) and this translates to HORNY. 3rd and not least is a surge in self confidence. Women often lack that when it comes to sexuality - upbringing, physical appearance, religious beliefs, kids in the next room, etc etc etc... can all stifle their ability to just ENJOY. The sudden combination of extra self confidence, trust in their lover as well as for the first time in their lives literally being MADE to have multiple orgasms - huge, body wracking, mind waffling ORGASMS appears to be able to overcome a number of different sexual repressions that these women have had.

It is so gratifying to read some of the responses I've received where after 30 or 40 YEARS of marriage all of a sudden (after a couple of DAYS of experiencing their first G-gasms) these women want to try things they've always considered perverted or scary. Even if the only degree of perversion or scariness resides in their minds it does prevent any of that activity. The changes to their bodies and spirit brought on by a nightly and liberal dose of G-gasms seems to be able to overcum that in many many women and ...
... that's a GOOD THING.


Enjoy and don't forget to pass this on. You just never know who will be affected by this. Even if they never tell you the details (never ask - rude) you'll be able to see a change in her whole attitude. Awesome!

 

[bad kitty]

HOLY COW! I can't believe this thread is still alive!

 

[herecomestherain]

bk it's about stamina!

 

[Don K Dyck]

BUMPITTY BUMP BUMP BUMP

 

[herecomestherain]

We're find that bump bump bump bump bump bump bump....is working very well. My sweetheart had just been promoted to Grand Master G Spotter - I'm having him promoted to King next week! Hi Don nice to see you.

 

[uptoplay2]

just wondering...

If I'm feeling lots of clenching on my fingers.... is that a good sign? Not lots of moisture as I'd hoped, but she certainly liked the combination of what I thought I was doing right combined with licking her clit.
I'll have to reread to see if I was on the right spot, but regardless...... she certainly enjoys the attention.
Now perhaps the clenching is just something that leads to a larger reaction.... She wanted to move on after say... 5 minutes of that reaction.

 

[MR.GGG]

Ahahahaa

""I'm having him promoted to King next week!""

I've joked about that myself. I always felt that if I'd known this technique when I was just a young buck today I would be Emperor of AT LEAST this quadrant of the Galaxy!!

UPTOPLAY - The "clenching" is probably her cuming. Have you asked her if she's cuming or it is just a nice, intense sensation. Not all women produce a flood or firehose the room with fluids and women who do do that may not do it all the time. As long as she's enjoying the sensation that's what it's all about.

As stated in earlier posts some women are literally scared of the sensation that builds like it does with this technique. They've never really felt completely out of control before and this does that. All of a sudden YOU are the one giving her orgasms and she has no say in whwter she cums or not or when to stop. That's a real power trip for guys. I know it was for me at first. Some women are fine with the sensation but take a while to learne the "feel" of cuming like this and it takes many tries. There are all kinds of posts in here from couples who tried it, didn't work, tried it, didn't work and then all of a sudden KABBBOOOOM! Works. Once the body knows the sensation cuming is fast and furious after but it does take some work for many to cum like this.

 

[psyche]

Re: AHAHAHAA

""I'm having him promoted to King next week!""

I've joked about that myself. I always felt that if I'd known this technique when I was just a young buck today I would be Emperor of AT LEAST this quadrant of the Galaxy!!

UPTOPLAY - The "clencjing" is probably her cuming. Have you asked her if she's cuming or it is just a nice, intense sensation. Not all women produce a flood or firehose the room with fluids and women who do do that may not do it all the time. As long as she's enjoying the sensation that's what it's all about.

As stated in earlier posts some women are literally scared of the sensation that builds like it does with this technique. They've never really felt completely out of control before and this does that. All of a sudden YOU are the one giving her orgasms and she has no say in whwter she cums or not or when to stop. That's a real power trip for guys. I know it was for me at first. Some women are fine with the sensation but take a while to learne the "feel" of cuming like this and it takes many tries. There are all kinds of posts in here from couples who tried it, didn't work, tried it, didn't work and then all of a sudden KABBBOOOOM! Works. Once the body knows the sensation cuming is fast and furious after but it does take some work for many to cum like this.

When I cum like this, my pussy clenches so fucking hard that I can push a full grown man and his determined cock right out of my pussy! LMAO........they have to fucking hold on for dear life and when they do, I love them for being able to stay in! Keep in mind that I am only 5' 3"!

 

[howsweetitis]

Re: Brand new experience for me.....

We had the most terrific experience on New Years day! We started off normally with foreplay which lead to multiple G spot orgasms as it usually does. It was an exceptionally great session with her moaning and groaning and going crazy! Now throw this in! In the 49 years of marriage life we have had, she would never let me do oral sex on her nor her on me. She has always had religious hang ups which just would never allow it although I never gave up. This time when I least expected it, during the passion of orgasms and extreme pleasure she said, “you can go down if you want to." As you might expect I was completely floored and taken by surprise since I had completely given up on the possibility of this ever happening within the last year. I immediately moved down and continued to manually work her G spot and her clit at the same time with my tongue. It was great, but probably kind of cumbersome for the first time surprise experience. I feel that now I will be prepared to plan our next time and that it will become a more natural experience. I hope that she will be more relaxed in this method from now on and that it will be as pleasurable as we normally enjoy. I wonder if anyone else has had similar experiences that they would like to share. It would be helpful to have some feedback.

................

What floored me was that it took 29 years before she had her very first true orgasm (clitoral manually), then another 3-4 years for G spot multiple orgasms (manually), and then finally another 15 years before oral sex. This is a long time, but we enjoy sex more than we ever have twice a week. I have no desire for oral on me unless she really wanted to, but I can only see it getting better and better from now on.

 

[MR.GGG]

YUP

""When I cum like this, my pussy clenches so fucking hard that I can push a full grown man and his determined cock right out of my pussy! ""

THAT is why I always assumed these type of orgasms, triggered by this type of stimulation was associated with child birth. Recently I read a well known researcher has made some breakthrough discovery that suggests that the vaginal nerve endings that trigger internal orgasms and push out muscle spasms MAY (he thinks) be associated with childbirth rather than any actual pleasure response. AHmaZing. To me it's just a BONUS that whatever the wiring in there it is also connected to the orgasm center of the brain. WaHoooie!!

I have several disclaimers and warning postings throughout this threasd that because of the PUSH OUT muscle spasms anybody who is pregnant should NOT (in my opinion) EVER use this technique. It is great to develop muscle tone down there but I would classify it as waaay to dangerous to play around with and risk losing a baby by using this technique while a couple is actually preggers.

 

[Gil_T2]

HOLY COW! I can't believe this thread is still alive!

When your on a good thing stick to it.

 

[nortonsavage]

I've done this 5 or 6 times now. days, I mean, that I spend together with my friend. we manage to meet up about once or twice a week or so. when we get together I use mr. g's technique as well as some others, and it just keeps getting better and better for her. she pretty much spends the whole day cumming, and now her whole body clenches!

I can definitely see how a man might get his nose broken if he tried to do it while his partner was sitting on his face, as mr. g cautioned..... heck, my friend was on her back and I was licking her and fingering her g-spot and she bucked so hard I thought she might do some damage. it was kinda like having a ringside seat to "the exorcist"..lol.

she thoroughly enjoys it, tho, and I love being able to pleasure her so much. I don't even mind laying in the wet spot because I feel so good that I've made her feel so good, and the proof is in the puddle.... is that dorky, or what? thanks, mr. g.