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[psyche]

Re: I'LL SECOND THAT

Thanks Psyche.

If you are banging (sorry - couldn't help that) her clit with your hand / wrist / elbow / knee / chin after an O then roll her over and try a different angle. You can even use the original (as described in the first pages of this thread) thumb technique without hitting her clit if you're careful. If she can withstand your dick in her after a big O then she can handle a thumb or a couple of fingers if the angles are right. She may have an aversion to that based on a mental attitude that most girls seem to have based on guys being too rough ANYTIME with their fingers on her clit.

Dangle her by the ankles from a rafter if you have to. Don't touch her clit. Try this technique. Write back. It sounds like she'll go off like an Iraqi car bomb once she starts. Enjoy. Be prepared to answer her when she asks why you've never done it before or "HOW (read: who taught you THAT???) DID YOU LEARN ABOUT THAT???"

Just tell her it was your ol buddy Dave and start doing your thumb exercises cuz she'll never want you to stop.

ROFLMFAO!

 

[Sappholovers]

G-spot, squirting orgasms

For another wonderful description of g-spot orgasms (and techniques for inducing them), check out A. Roissy's essaym "Please Release Me, and Let Me Flow," in the "How To" category of Literotica. It's the top ranked article.

I've also tried to describe such an experience in my story, "Travels to the Bliss of a G-spot orgasm," and below is
a poem my partner wrote about such an orgasm.

My understanding is that the g-spot, that spongy place, can be considered the root system of the clitoris. It is, of course, inside the vagina, but the bundle of nerves does have a connection to the clit . For confirmation of this, read Natalie Angier's wonderful book, "Woman--An Intimate Geography," which has an entire chapter devoted to the clitoris. It's joyous feminist science.

Enjoy,

Sappholovers


The Little Anemone

Like a sea anemone
Giving up a rarefied joyful juice

An orgasm - small in size
taking me by surprise

Squirting its warmed nectar
puddling its sweet eloquence
on my labian lips:

The sexual tension was localized
and sweet sweet sweet
as you stroked high up
on my wetted clit with your
patient finger tips

A tiny doorway opened
prompted by your finger pads
stroking glide pads provoking
1000 sweet sensations
on my clitoral head

A gently attentive touching that
DREW UP AND OUT
the sweetness electrified
from my tiny shaft
The lips of me followed
thy gentle probing fingers - lit fingers
lit with radiant magnets
that drew out my sweet erotic response.

Localized yearn turned spiral like
and gathered soma desire.
A tiny anemone appeared
quarter sized gathering its muscled base
gripping yearn on the turn
it squoze the liquid grace
out of itself
less a spilling - more a gentle spurt

I -amazed - knew not
such a precious one
was even there
Its gripping root tethered
deep to my womb
and sending messages there
beautiful sensation

Subtle and sweet - oh sweet
orgasm localized there but
opening a door to elsewhere
Its succulent ignition wet
then rolls to velvet
soft orgasmic waves - caresses
that move through my body whole
as a rolling evening fog
creeps over the land
enveloping me in its gentle bliss.

I love to come like this.

Thanks for the memory
A special moment with thee.
.







The Little Anemone

Like a sea anemone
Giving up a rarefied joyful juice

An orgasm - small in size
taking me by surprise

Squirting its warmed nectar
puddling its sweet eloquence
on my labian lips:

The sexual tension was localized
and sweet sweet sweet
as you stroked high up
on my wetted clit with your
patient finger tips

A tiny doorway opened
prompted by your finger pads
stroking glide pads provoking
1000 sweet sensations
on my clitoral head

A gently attentive touching that
DREW UP AND OUT
the sweetness electrified
from my tiny shaft
The lips of me followed
thy gentle probing fingers - lit fingers
lit with radiant magnets
that drew out my sweet erotic response.

Localized yearn turned spiral like
and gathered soma desire.
A tiny anemone appeared
quarter sized gathering its muscled base
gripping yearn on the turn
it squoze the liquid grace
out of itself
less a spilling - more a gentle spurt

I -amazed - knew not
such a precious one
was even there
Its gripping root tethered
deep to my womb
and sending messages there
beautiful sensation

Subtle and sweet - oh sweet
orgasm localized there but
opening a door to elsewhere
Its succulent ignition wet
then rolls to velvet
soft orgasmic waves - caresses
that move through my body whole
as a rolling evening fog
creeps over the land
enveloping me in its gentle bliss.

I love to come like this.

Thanks for the memory
A special moment with thee.
.

 

[psyche]

Mmmmmmmmm.............in the shower, the water flowing over my clit, my fingers in my pussy, cumming so hard I had to lean against the shower wall to keep from falling over..............

 

[psyche]

How to do this to yourself:

Have some hot sex in the shower in the morning with your toys.

Work yourself up all day thinking of nothing but sex.

Think about how wet you are all day long, ready for a good fucking.

Come home and have some hot sexual exchanges with someone.

Get your electric vibe and your jelly dildo out, with the vibe just above your pussy, and below your clit, use the dildo to fuck yourself, and then twirl it while pushing it in and out of your pussy.........my sheets are soaked and I feel so much better .........this can be done by yourself.........keep going, don't stop now! LOL!

 

[MR.GGG]

Hey Psyche. How goes it? I hope you're feeling better.

There's no doubt most women CAN do this to themselves and it's certainly a GREAT way to learn the technique and the "feel" so they can teach lovers how to do it in the future. Unless they have a mechanical doohickie tho they simply can't keep up the intensity or the duration. You need a partner for that ... or a 3.2 HP Briggs & Stratton but with the price of gas these days I'd go for a partner.

 

[FinePhilly]

Ooh.. Can't wait till my husband gets home for Thanksgiving leave (he's military...currently training stateside on his way to Iraq in January ) I'll have to have him try this on me for Thanksgiving just before he stuffs my turkey!

It sounds like it could be wonderful if it works. I've e-mailed it to him so he knows what I expect of him! I'll report back!

 

[psyche]

Hey Psyche. How goes it? I hope you're feeling better.

There's no doubt most women CAN do this to themselves and it's certainly a GREAT way to learn the technique and the "feel" so they can teach lovers how to do it in the future. Unless they have a mechanical doohickie tho they simply can't keep up the intensity or the duration. You need a partner for that ... or a 3.2 HP Briggs & Stratton but with the price of gas these days I'd go for a partner.

As usual, you are right. There is no way that you can go on and on like a lover does. Part of it is being able to 'let yourself go' and you can't play both roles. But in a pinch, so to speak, a good squirting orgasm is a very good thing. I would never trade a partner in for any type of toy, believe me! Nothing can replace his lips, his hands, his tongue, his body holding you down, the unexpected squeezing of your nipple......him taking you like you want to be taken.........

I haven't found a toy yet that can tie me down!

 

[psyche]

Ooh.. Can't wait till my husband gets home for Thanksgiving leave (he's military...currently training stateside on his way to Iraq in January ) I'll have to have him try this on me for Thanksgiving just before he stuffs my turkey!

It sounds like it could be wonderful if it works. I've e-mailed it to him so he knows what I expect of him! I'll report back!

Good luck FinePhilly! And have a wonderful thanksgiving!

 

[mrguitarmn]

psyche- I find squirting incredibly arrousing. The fact that you squirt may have earned you a stalker... LOL just kidding ... well sort of. Would love to watch that sometime

 

[psyche]

psyche- I find squirting incredibly arrousing. The fact that you squirt may have earned you a stalker... LOL just kidding ... well sort of. Would love to watch that sometime

Believe me it's the ultimate sexual exprience for a woman.......

 

[MR.GGG]

It's exciting

to make a woman squirt bbut it doesn't happen all the time or with every woman. Making them cum over and over and over until she can't take anymore is what I find such a turn on. If they squirt great but it's also fine if they don't. If you're working on a marathon - making her cum over and over again for HOURS at a time then maybe NOT squirting is a good thing otherwise they'd need an IV drip ( flood more like it ) to replenish her fluid loss before it got serious. The last thing we want to do is make them sick while giving them the most amount of pleasure they've ever experienced.

 

[psyche]

Re: It's exciting

to make a woman squirt bbut it doesn't happen all the time or with every woman. Making them cum over and over and over until she can't take anymore is what I find such a turn on. If they squirt great but it's also fine if they don't. If you're working on a marathon - making her cum over and over again for HOURS at a time then maybe NOT squirting is a good thing otherwise they'd need an IV drip ( flood more like it ) to replenish her fluid loss before it got serious. The last thing we want to do is make them sick while giving them the most amount of pleasure they've ever experienced.

LOL! Always drink plenty of water before hand!

 

[phishinphorphun]

I've personally been able to perform this on my own, but only once, as my hand/arm gave out...

however, i've experienced it first hand through both manual stimulation as well and pentration by a penis....

woah nelly....
I think with the right trajectory, i could shoot clear over the Mississippi River


first post here, btw

 

[MR.GGG]

Ya, you really need a partner. A partner can keep going (and going and going and going ...) when you'd be u/c if you were doing it on your on. I LOVE being able to do that for my woman. The other thing I LOVE is the spasms, thrashing and just out of control body movements in the seconds right after a major Ggasm(s). It is something that can't be faked and seeing someone thrash and twitch for several minutes afterwards is AWESOME!!

 

[psyche]

Ya, you really need a partner. A partner can keep going (and going and going and going ...) when you'd be u/c if you were doing it on your on. I LOVE being able to do that for my woman. The other thing I LOVE is the spasms, thrashing and just out of control body movements in the seconds right after a major Ggasm(s). It is something that can't be faked and seeing someone thrash and twitch for several minutes afterwards is AWESOME!!

Washing my sheets, mattress pad, blanket.........with a very happy smile on my face............

 

[ReadyOne]

Heck, we were washing the carpet the other night!

 

[psyche]

Heck, we were washing the carpet the other night!

LMAO! Life is very fucking good!

 

[Sappholovers]

The sounds

For me, the arching of the back, the thrashing, and the quivering of a woman's orgasm (g-spot and otherwise) is so beautiful, but what delights me the most are the sounds: a woman scaling up the octaves of orgasm....and then singing out her arias of bliss There is no more beautiful music in nature.

(Now I'd love to hear Psyche in a duo with my lover, Carol.)

 

[psyche]

Re: The sounds

For me, the arching of the back, the thrashing, and the quivering of a woman's orgasm (g-spot and otherwise) is so beautiful, but what delights me the most are the sounds: a woman scaling up the octaves of orgasm....and then singing out her arias of bliss There is no more beautiful music in nature.

(Now I'd love to hear Psyche in a duo with my lover, Carol.)

LOL! One on each hand...........

 

[MR.GGG]

LOL! One on each hand...........

OR

One under each thumb!! In the past I've teased women when they complain about the guys they been with. I'd just grin and tell them I could put them in the hospital (sexually) and never even take my pants off.

I too love the sounds some women make when they cum or are in a series of O's. BUT .... don't forget that we're all different. My SO for so many years was almost completely silent. Just before orgasm hit she would go still, stop breathing...not make a sound and then tense and cum like crazy but still almost never made a sound. It bothered me for a long time that she was so quiet but then she was cuming the way she wanted to, felt comfortable with and just didn't get off or feel right screaming like a banshee when she came so .... like I say about everything ... especially if you're young and not all that experienced - don't read things in these posts and expect that there si ONE way to react to a certain type of stimulus. The reactions different people have is incredibly varied. Even one person's reaction can change form day to day. There is no "normal" reaction. There is no standard that is set by one and others feel obliged to meet it to react "correctly."

Whatever turns your crank and remember it's all in the variety, the enthusiasm and the lust and theo ONLY way to get there is by experimenting with a lover until you know them inside and out. Not saying that sport fucking strangers can't be a hoot too sometimes but if you really want to share moments of complete and utter bliss with a partner you'd be wise to hold out for that SECRET ingredient we all long for.

LOVE.

my 2¢ anyway.

 

[psyche]

Re: LOL! One on each hand...........

OR

One under each thumb!! In the past I've teased women when they complain about the guys they been with. I'd just grin and tell them I could put them in the hospital (sexually) and never even take my pants off.

I too love the sounds some women make when they cum or are in a series of O's. BUT .... don't forget that we're all different. My SO for so many years was almost completely silent. Just before orgasm hit she would go still, stop breathing...not make a sound and then tense and cum like crazy but still almost never made a sound. It bothered me for a long time that she was so quiet but then she was cuming the way she wanted to, felt comfortable with and just didn't get off or feel right screaming like a banshee when she came so .... like I say about everything ... especially if you're young and not all that experienced - don't read things in these posts and expect that there si ONE way to react to a certain type of stimulus. The reactions different people have is incredibly varied. Even one person's reaction can change form day to day. There is no "normal" reaction. There is no standard that is set by one and others feel obliged to meet it to react "correctly."

Whatever turns your crank and remember it's all in the variety, the enthusiasm and the lust and theo ONLY way to get there is by experimenting with a lover until you know them inside and out. Not saying that sport fucking strangers can't be a hoot too sometimes but if you really want to share moments of complete and utter bliss with a partner you'd be wise to hold out for that SECRET ingredient we all long for.

LOVE.

my 2¢ anyway.

You always have words of wisdom MR. GGG. On the first point, there are times when I am letting go and screaming like a maniac that I wonder if my partner gets tired of hearing it! LOL! I have tried to be quieter at times and it just isn't going to happen I am lost in all of it and can't check myself. And in fact if I am thinking about that then it isn't happening! I can't think about anything when I'm cuming from this technique.......it is totally physical. Mmmmmmmmm...........

On your second point, I understand that I should be holding out for love right now, but that's not where I am. I just got out of a marriage of over 20 years in which the sex was less than adequate. I never felt deprived because I loved my husband completely. He loved me and still loves me and would take me back in a minute, but that love was such that in the last two years that we were together I couldn't stand to be with him anymore. He took me to my breaking point and killed anything that I felt for him. I am one of those people who married for love and I never thought my marriage would end. All of our friends were shocked when I left him, and I still don't think he believes that I walked out the door.

Then I met my lover who completely turned me inside out. I never knew that sex could be like that. I had always had 'good' sex because I am easy to 'get going' (LOL!) and I was always multiple.........but this was rock my world sex. I fell in love with him and had to eventually leave that relationship because he didn't feel the same way about me.

So I am 50 years old and not necessarily looking for love to walk through the door at this point in my life. I know it may sound cold and clinical but my toys are not going to satisfy me, they do the job in the short term but I need a lover's touch, and I am not going to live without a man in my bed waiting for someone to declare his love for me.........

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re: Re: LOL! One on each hand...........

You always have words of wisdom MR. GGG. On the first point, there are times when I am letting go and screaming like a maniac that I wonder if my partner gets tired of hearing it! LOL! I have tried to be quieter at times and it just isn't going to happen I am lost in all of it and can't check myself. And in fact if I am thinking about that then it isn't happening! I can't think about anything when I'm cuming from this technique.......it is totally physical. Mmmmmmmmm...........

On your second point, I understand that I should be holding out for love right now, but that's not where I am. I just got out of a marriage of over 20 years in which the sex was less than adequate. I never felt deprived because I loved my husband completely. He loved me and still loves me and would take me back in a minute, but that love was such that in the last two years that we were together I couldn't stand to be with him anymore. He took me to my breaking point and killed anything that I felt for him. I am one of those people who married for love and I never thought my marriage would end. All of our friends were shocked when I left him, and I still don't think he believes that I walked out the door.

Then I met my lover who completely turned me inside out. I never knew that sex could be like that. I had always had 'good' sex because I am easy to 'get going' (LOL!) and I was always multiple.........but this was rock my world sex. I fell in love with him and had to eventually leave that relationship because he didn't feel the same way about me.

So I am 50 years old and not necessarily looking for love to walk through the door at this point in my life. I know it may sound cold and clinical but my toys are not going to satisfy me, they do the job in the short term but I need a lover's touch, and I am not going to live without a man in my bed waiting for someone to declare his love for me.........

heheheheh . . . just ask for it Psyche, it will happen . . .

 

[onebadkitty]

I have printed the directions so we'll be sure to get it right - me and hubby are gonna' try this later and I'll post my "scientific" findings... hope this works!!!

 

[psyche]

Re: Re: Re: LOL! One on each hand...........

heheheheh . . . just ask for it Psyche, it will happen . . .

Don, you are too sweet......... Thanks!

 

[psyche]

I have printed the directions so we'll be sure to get it right - me and hubby are gonna' try this later and I'll post my "scientific" findings... hope this works!!!

Good luck kitty!