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Psyche, if this is the end of something sweet, my heart goes out to you lovely one. Hugs.
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""Baby, I'm never going to forget you........I'm never going to get over you..........
The end of the sweetest lover I have ever had........""
Oh Wowand DAMN! What happened, gurl? Things sounded like they were so good and now this... geez! Reminds me of losing Sue! Don't forget that no matter what happens things do get better and now that you know all about this technique you can always teach it to another lover - if he doesn't know about it already. Good luck.
"Typical man! " - Hopefully NOT quite so typical these days with web sites like this and all the advice etc that is available here.
I loved her accent too.
Maybe if she'd reclined her car seat a bit and got her knees up he could have stumbled onto something interesting. The way she was sitting (straight up) he was f%#ked from the start. She was sitting On all the important bits. Problem is he didn't know the diff so his best efforts were somewhat lacking. I could say "typical woman" but I won't. That's one reason I love the GSpot Technique. Too many women love to be in control when it comes to sex. The Gspot technique completely removes that control and from the responses I've received that results in some really interesting reactions from women. Of course some women just love to let loose and enjoy the repeated orgasms or the wave after wave after wave or orgasms. Others, I know, are scared and angry. They're scared / angry initially at the newness of the sensation but (from IM's and Emails) later, that they are no longer in control - that they can't just lie there, relax all their muscles and despite hours of his trying, simply NOT react to anything he is doing.
This technique takes that type of politics out of the bedroom and reduces it all to giving her virtually unlimited amounts of pleasure. Pretty soon, hopefully, her oxytocin levels are so elevated that that type of politics is long forgotten too. All she wants is her next "fix!!"
""Baby, I'm never going to forget you........I'm never going to get over you..........
The end of the sweetest lover I have ever had........""
Oh Wowand DAMN! What happened, gurl? Things sounded like they were so good and now this... geez! Reminds me of losing Sue! Don't forget that no matter what happens things do get better and now that you know all about this technique you can always teach it to another lover - if he doesn't know about it already. Good luck.
"Typical man! " - Hopefully NOT quite so typical these days with web sites like this and all the advice etc that is available here.
I loved her accent too.
Maybe if she'd reclined her car seat a bit and got her knees up he could have stumbled onto something interesting. The way she was sitting (straight up) he was f%#ked from the start. She was sitting On all the important bits. Problem is he didn't know the diff so his best efforts were somewhat lacking. I could say "typical woman" but I won't. That's one reason I love the GSpot Technique. Too many women love to be in control when it comes to sex. The Gspot technique completely removes that control and from the responses I've received that results in some really interesting reactions from women. Of course some women just love to let loose and enjoy the repeated orgasms or the wave after wave after wave or orgasms. Others, I know, are scared and angry. They're scared / angry initially at the newness of the sensation but (from IM's and Emails) later, that they are no longer in control - that they can't just lie there, relax all their muscles and despite hours of his trying, simply NOT react to anything he is doing.
This technique takes that type of politics out of the bedroom and reduces it all to giving her virtually unlimited amounts of pleasure. Pretty soon, hopefully, her oxytocin levels are so elevated that that type of politics is long forgotten too. All she wants is her next "fix!!"
First day in the Literotica forums and already picking up a lot of useful information! This is the first post I read and want to say a great big thank you to Mr G. I can't wait to try your advice with my lover 
We have done parts of this previously but I intened to follow the advice to the letter!
We have done parts of this previously but I intened to follow the advice to the letter!Third time's a charm
Read this technique for the first time 1-1/2 weeks ago. I wanted soooo bad to share it with my beautiful wife, but when we tried the first time, she got really uncomfortable. Tried it a second time, same thing. I should note that both times, she was very aroused.
Then last night, tried again, and after a good 15-20 minutes - BADA-BING!
I haven't seen her cum that hard in a loooong time. She said it felt like all her other O's, just way more intense (but added that she had cum that hard before) so I don't know that it worked. But I was doing the rub very hard, and she came really hard. She even said she felt like jell-o after she made me stop rubbing about 2 min. into her O.
Question: is it possible that she's always had Ggasms, but since the...I don't know...attention(?) wasn't being paid specifically to her G they weren't as intense? I was also paying alot of oral attention to her clit, which can usually bring her off, too. But as she got closer, I purposely backed off of the tongue action.
I must say, I think I got almost as much pleasure out of seeing her that enraptured as she got from the O. Thanks, Mr. G!
Next stop: multiples. That will probably take more than three tries, though.
Read this technique for the first time 1-1/2 weeks ago. I wanted soooo bad to share it with my beautiful wife, but when we tried the first time, she got really uncomfortable. Tried it a second time, same thing. I should note that both times, she was very aroused.
Then last night, tried again, and after a good 15-20 minutes - BADA-BING!
I haven't seen her cum that hard in a loooong time. She said it felt like all her other O's, just way more intense (but added that she had cum that hard before) so I don't know that it worked. But I was doing the rub very hard, and she came really hard. She even said she felt like jell-o after she made me stop rubbing about 2 min. into her O.
Question: is it possible that she's always had Ggasms, but since the...I don't know...attention(?) wasn't being paid specifically to her G they weren't as intense? I was also paying alot of oral attention to her clit, which can usually bring her off, too. But as she got closer, I purposely backed off of the tongue action.
I must say, I think I got almost as much pleasure out of seeing her that enraptured as she got from the O. Thanks, Mr. G!
Next stop: multiples. That will probably take more than three tries, though.
CONGRATS
ON THE "BADDAA BIIING" thing!!
What a hoot , huh?
""I must say, I think I got almost as much pleasure out of seeing her that enraptured as she got from the O. Thanks, Mr. G!
Next stop: multiples. That will probably take more than three tries, though.""
I couldn't agree more. I got/get a TREMENDOUS sense of satisfaction knowing I have given my woman THAT much pleasure. It was an incredible! It also gave me a feeling of confidence whenever I looked at a woman ( I LOOOVE looking) and knowing what I could do to or for her.
I think you will find the next time a LOT easier because now her body knows "how to get there" - difficult to describe any other way really. The times I have done it to a woman for the very first time it happened the very first time but all subsequent GSpot manipulations came very fast. It was like the body was saying," OK GOODY!!! We're going back to that place ... about time too...!!!"
One piece of advice is that when you go for multiples don't be too rough. Let her build slowly and a little more gently. Now that she knows the feeling let her climb there with only some prodding from your thumb or finger(s). That way when she has cum the first time you can back off for a minute (no longer) and then start again ... and again ... and again. If this goes on for any length of time and you are really rough she is going to feel like she's been beaten up. Her lower abdomen could be quite sore and she could feel it for days. Let the orgasms build and when they are firing off every time you rub/poke try and bring them on more from rubbing than by pounding your thumb into that area. You don't want her doubled up the next day or her to say, "That was great last night but ZI'm so sore today I don't want you to do it again."
There doesn't to be any question that women can cum very hard and very deeply from many types of stimulation. Don't worry that she said that she'd cum that hard before. Wait until you get the multiples going because unless somebody has done this too her before I can promise you she has never experienced the long term intensity that YOU can give her by doing this. The wonderful thing about this is the extended orgasms and the length of time you can maintain that level - either through constant rubbing or by bringing her up to a peak and letting her drop back and then back up to a peak and repeat as many times as you want or she can take. When you get her going with that intensity it can last for much much much longer than she could ever do it herself so, like I said, unless somebody has done this too her before she is in for a helluva nice surprise.
Oh one other observation from your post ... she asked you to stop after about 2 minutes. That would indicate to me that the up down up down technique is how to "do her." Some women can, and like, cuming continuously while others need the time to catch their breath and make sure their heart is still in their chest. Do the O rest for 30 secs and then go again, rest for 30 secs after maybe a minute of O and then start again. It seems that that is the right way to go with her but you may find once she gets going that one long huge O is what she likes after all.
Have a BLAST experimenting.
And you are most welcome. Please pass on the info or the web site to friends.
ON THE "BADDAA BIIING" thing!!
What a hoot , huh?
""I must say, I think I got almost as much pleasure out of seeing her that enraptured as she got from the O. Thanks, Mr. G!
Next stop: multiples. That will probably take more than three tries, though.""
I couldn't agree more. I got/get a TREMENDOUS sense of satisfaction knowing I have given my woman THAT much pleasure. It was an incredible! It also gave me a feeling of confidence whenever I looked at a woman ( I LOOOVE looking) and knowing what I could do to or for her.
I think you will find the next time a LOT easier because now her body knows "how to get there" - difficult to describe any other way really. The times I have done it to a woman for the very first time it happened the very first time but all subsequent GSpot manipulations came very fast. It was like the body was saying," OK GOODY!!! We're going back to that place ... about time too...!!!"
One piece of advice is that when you go for multiples don't be too rough. Let her build slowly and a little more gently. Now that she knows the feeling let her climb there with only some prodding from your thumb or finger(s). That way when she has cum the first time you can back off for a minute (no longer) and then start again ... and again ... and again. If this goes on for any length of time and you are really rough she is going to feel like she's been beaten up. Her lower abdomen could be quite sore and she could feel it for days. Let the orgasms build and when they are firing off every time you rub/poke try and bring them on more from rubbing than by pounding your thumb into that area. You don't want her doubled up the next day or her to say, "That was great last night but ZI'm so sore today I don't want you to do it again."
There doesn't to be any question that women can cum very hard and very deeply from many types of stimulation. Don't worry that she said that she'd cum that hard before. Wait until you get the multiples going because unless somebody has done this too her before I can promise you she has never experienced the long term intensity that YOU can give her by doing this. The wonderful thing about this is the extended orgasms and the length of time you can maintain that level - either through constant rubbing or by bringing her up to a peak and letting her drop back and then back up to a peak and repeat as many times as you want or she can take. When you get her going with that intensity it can last for much much much longer than she could ever do it herself so, like I said, unless somebody has done this too her before she is in for a helluva nice surprise.
Oh one other observation from your post ... she asked you to stop after about 2 minutes. That would indicate to me that the up down up down technique is how to "do her." Some women can, and like, cuming continuously while others need the time to catch their breath and make sure their heart is still in their chest. Do the O rest for 30 secs and then go again, rest for 30 secs after maybe a minute of O and then start again. It seems that that is the right way to go with her but you may find once she gets going that one long huge O is what she likes after all.
Have a BLAST experimenting.
And you are most welcome. Please pass on the info or the web site to friends.
One more thing...
I think the reason she made me stop and doesn't want to go more is because her clit is EXTREMELY sensitive after an O. To the point that even the slightest touch is almost painful. What we've never really discovered, even after 12 years together is how long it takes for her clit to return to "normal." It varies, but never less than several minutes. So that doesn't lend well to continued stimulation, or even really the up-down-up unless it's up-down for quite awhile-up. She doesn't mind me inside her after a good O, but then there's not a lot of direct clitoral stimulation going on while stroking in and out.
She says, and I believe , that she is truly satisfied after one O. But if I can send her over that edge into multiples, I know she'll love it.
I think the reason she made me stop and doesn't want to go more is because her clit is EXTREMELY sensitive after an O. To the point that even the slightest touch is almost painful. What we've never really discovered, even after 12 years together is how long it takes for her clit to return to "normal." It varies, but never less than several minutes. So that doesn't lend well to continued stimulation, or even really the up-down-up unless it's up-down for quite awhile-up. She doesn't mind me inside her after a good O, but then there's not a lot of direct clitoral stimulation going on while stroking in and out.
She says, and I believe , that she is truly satisfied after one O. But if I can send her over that edge into multiples, I know she'll love it.
Everybody's different but ...
... again, this technique has NOTHING to do with the clit. Everybody I've ever been with was the same. From 3 to 10 minutes after a big O it was - Geeeez, don't even LOOK at it ... even soft brushes with my toungue and they'd almost leap off the roof of the car (or wherever we happened to be at the time). So I KNOW what you're saying BUT ...
With this technique you don't need to touch the clit. I mean you CAN. You can combine this technique with a good tongue lashing or a vibrator but you don't neeed to and if the GSpot is really cookin keep with that.
It'll be simple to bring on the multiples in this case. Just AVOID her clit. Do not touch it. Concentrate on the GSpot and keep her cumin' that way. She may feel satisfied with one big one now but wait until you've given her 5 - 10 - 30 in a row and have her tell you ONE was OK before.
Enjoy.
... again, this technique has NOTHING to do with the clit. Everybody I've ever been with was the same. From 3 to 10 minutes after a big O it was - Geeeez, don't even LOOK at it ... even soft brushes with my toungue and they'd almost leap off the roof of the car (or wherever we happened to be at the time). So I KNOW what you're saying BUT ...
With this technique you don't need to touch the clit. I mean you CAN. You can combine this technique with a good tongue lashing or a vibrator but you don't neeed to and if the GSpot is really cookin keep with that.
It'll be simple to bring on the multiples in this case. Just AVOID her clit. Do not touch it. Concentrate on the GSpot and keep her cumin' that way. She may feel satisfied with one big one now but wait until you've given her 5 - 10 - 30 in a row and have her tell you ONE was OK before.
Enjoy.
psyche
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Re: Everybody's different but ...
You bet everyone is different.......Mmmmmmmm...........his fingers in my pussy sliding over my g-spot and his tongue on my clit.....that was pretty much the ultimate feeling for me........unless he was inside me gliding over that g-spot with his beautiful cock........
MR.GGG said:
You bet everyone is different.......Mmmmmmmm...........his fingers in my pussy sliding over my g-spot and his tongue on my clit.....that was pretty much the ultimate feeling for me........unless he was inside me gliding over that g-spot with his beautiful cock........
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Re: One more thing...
Im really surprised with all the attention and this thread and lots of other things mentioning the G-spot, that a lot of people still think that the G-spot is a woman's clit.......Please pay close attention to what Mr GGG is telling you.....the G spot is inside the vagina.......
herradura said:
Im really surprised with all the attention and this thread and lots of other things mentioning the G-spot, that a lot of people still think that the G-spot is a woman's clit.......Please pay close attention to what Mr GGG is telling you.....the G spot is inside the vagina.......
I am NOT
""Im really surprised with all the attention and this thread and lots of other things mentioning the G-spot, that a lot of people still think that the G-spot is a woman's clit.""
I see it all the time. About HALF the Emails I get are asking the same thing. "HOW do you keep stimulating her when her "G-spot" gets SO sensitive ... I can't even use my tongue..." Well that tells me that they don't know the diff and I have to explain again where/what/who's etc about the GSpot.
The level of sexual ignorance out there is pretty scary and of course I'm referring to our most prominent SEX RESEARCHERS - so if the general public are a little clued out it is to be expected.
All I can say is thank GOD for web site like this where people can read and learn and exchange ideas.
""Im really surprised with all the attention and this thread and lots of other things mentioning the G-spot, that a lot of people still think that the G-spot is a woman's clit.""
I see it all the time. About HALF the Emails I get are asking the same thing. "HOW do you keep stimulating her when her "G-spot" gets SO sensitive ... I can't even use my tongue..." Well that tells me that they don't know the diff and I have to explain again where/what/who's etc about the GSpot.
The level of sexual ignorance out there is pretty scary and of course I'm referring to our most prominent SEX RESEARCHERS - so if the general public are a little clued out it is to be expected.
All I can say is thank GOD for web site like this where people can read and learn and exchange ideas.
I know it's not the same thing, and that one is inside while the other not.
But for her, really the only stimulation she can take after an O is to have my cock inside her. We go from grinding to thrusting after she comes with me inside her so that the clitoral stimulation is nearly nonexistent.
Unfortunately, the only way to reach her G brings me into contact with her clit. So, after the BIG O, she's too sensitive to keep cumming on my fingers because they necessarily come into contact with her clit.
Make sense?
psyche
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herradura said:
Sorry, but no that does not make sense unless your fingers are fused in some unmovable position which makes it impossible to have fingers inside her pussy without touching her clit. It's certainly possible to push your fingers inside her pussy without touching her clit.
I'LL SECOND THAT
Thanks Psyche.
If you are banging (sorry - couldn't help that) her clit with your hand / wrist / elbow / knee / chin after an O then roll her over and try a different angle. You can even use the original (as described in the first pages of this thread) thumb technique without hitting her clit if you're careful. If she can withstand your dick in her after a big O then she can handle a thumb or a couple of fingers if the angles are right. She may have an aversion to that based on a mental attitude that most girls seem to have based on guys being too rough ANYTIME with their fingers on her clit.
Dangle her by the ankles from a rafter if you have to. Don't touch her clit. Try this technique. Write back. It sounds like she'll go off like an Iraqi car bomb once she starts. Enjoy. Be prepared to answer her when she asks why you've never done it before or "HOW (read: who taught you THAT???) DID YOU LEARN ABOUT THAT???"
Just tell her it was your ol buddy Dave and start doing your thumb exercises cuz she'll never want you to stop.
Thanks Psyche.
If you are banging (sorry - couldn't help that) her clit with your hand / wrist / elbow / knee / chin after an O then roll her over and try a different angle. You can even use the original (as described in the first pages of this thread) thumb technique without hitting her clit if you're careful. If she can withstand your dick in her after a big O then she can handle a thumb or a couple of fingers if the angles are right. She may have an aversion to that based on a mental attitude that most girls seem to have based on guys being too rough ANYTIME with their fingers on her clit.
Dangle her by the ankles from a rafter if you have to. Don't touch her clit. Try this technique. Write back. It sounds like she'll go off like an Iraqi car bomb once she starts. Enjoy. Be prepared to answer her when she asks why you've never done it before or "HOW (read: who taught you THAT???) DID YOU LEARN ABOUT THAT???"
Just tell her it was your ol buddy Dave and start doing your thumb exercises cuz she'll never want you to stop.
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