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[MR.GGG]

""Great Googly Moogly! x.@""

HEY. Watch the language. There's ladies in here.


""One thing, though... once the G-spot is aroused, do you think it'd be practical to use my first two fingers (palm down, of course) to give it the pressure it needs?

I know, of course, that it's possible, but from experience, would it produce comparable results compared to the powerful flexing of an opposable digit?""

It is wahtever works for you. I suggest the thumb when she is face down because that provides the lowest muscular stress on any digits and muscle group. Any other combination and you're using muscles all the time and bending joints the wrong way. That's fine for a few O's or a few minutes of doing that but if you get into anything longer - 45 minutes to an hour of straight O's or waves or longer - you'll wish you used the technique described because your fingers and wrist and elbow is going to be screamin louder than she is.

.... just a suggestion ...

 

[Jatek]

Forgive me. I know better than that; politeness before bewilderment.

Forgive me the harsh language, if you might, ladies.

Yeah, I can certainly understand the pain involved in using the fingers in that position. I suppose it was the answer I expected, as well.

After we're both used to that type of stimulation, other positions and digits could certainly be tried, perhaps to great effect... and if it doesn't work, it's cool because it still feels good, right? It's not the destination, it's the journey. ^^

I find it kinda odd to be discussing even a small portion of our sex life with complete strangers, but it's not like any of you will get any details beyond a thumbs up or "we're still trying". ^.~

Also reading this thread, and seeing all the males here makes me wonder what the rest of the guys are like. Y'know, the ones that don't take the time to learn about the female form and female anatomy and couldn't spell "g-spot", let alone find it.

I suppose those are the same types of guys who don't love their partners. That, too, is beyond my comprehension.

Thank you, Mr. G, for helping educate the world, even if it seems hopeless at times.

 

[Bandit58]

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Also reading this thread, and seeing all the males here makes me wonder what the rest of the guys are like. Y'know, the ones that don't take the time to learn about the female form and female anatomy and couldn't spell "g-spot", let alone find it.

I suppose those are the same types of guys who don't love their partners. That, too, is beyond my comprehension.
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LOL I was married to one of those.....thought all he had to do was poke it in and out and all would be fine and dandy, and ignore me the rest of the time Thank god I woke up before it was too late, and now have someone who knows where all my special spots are and how to make them sing (and squirt! )

 

[psyche]

I find it kinda odd to be discussing even a small portion of our sex life with complete strangers, but it's not like any of you will get any details beyond a thumbs up or "we're still trying". ^.~

LMAO! Are you saying that those of us who go into wonderful detail about our sex lives are somehow demented in some way?

 

[psyche]

LOL I was married to one of those.....thought all he had to do was poke it in and out and all would be fine and dandy, and ignore me the rest of the time Thank god I woke up before it was too late, and now have someone who knows where all my special spots are and how to make them sing (and squirt! )

Hey Bandit! I had one of those also. A few cusory strokes to my clit, without being too involved, and he thought that I should be hot to trot after that.

Of course who knows. My last lover could touch me and I would be dripping for him...........

 

[vargas111]

This is counsel of perfection.

How do you get your wife to ALLOW you to try oral sex?

 

[deathbypickle]

How do you get your wife to ALLOW you to try oral sex?

She doesn't like oral???

 

[psyche]

This is counsel of perfection.

How do you get your wife to ALLOW you to try oral sex?

Tie her to the bed............... ..........Just joking!!! LOL! Sorry.

Tell her that the pleasure that she'll experience is better than anything................Well, almost anything..........

 

[deathbypickle]

Tie her to the bed............... ..........Just joking!!! LOL! Sorry.

Tell her that the pleasure that she'll experience is better than anything................Well, almost anything..........

I almost wrote the same thing.
Tell her to read it.
Print the technique for her.
That is what I did for my BF, so he knew what I wanted.

It works, It feels great, it is FANTASTIC.

 

[MR.GGG]

I'm afraid

VARGAS dude has some major problems in his sex life if the wife won't "allow" oral. I suppose that's why he came in here. Is she religious or was she raised by some sexually repressed grannie and grew up thinking her cunt was ugly. An upbringing like that can take a looooong time to overcum. It doesn't matter to them that we find "them" fascinating, pretty, tasty - she KNOWS she's ugly/dirty "down there."

Good luck.

Personally I don't think tying her up and doing it anyway would accomplish much. She would be so pissed/scared/mad/ terrified/enraged/grossed-out/livid - whatever that you could wear your tongue down to the bone and she wouldn't change her mind.

Tying her up and doing the Gspot thingie on the other hand .... (snicker - wicked grin)

 

[MR.GGG]

Yeah. Kiddies ...

I have some awsome news. Desmond Morriss was a hero of mine when I was a kid. I read The Naked Ape when I was about 14. At first (at 14 !!) I thought this dude can't know very much. He's OLD. Ahahaha. Ok so I was 14.

Anyway, kiddies. Des has writ anuther book. In it he claims that there are GSpots and ASpots and all kinds of good things all over a woman's bod. ATTAGO DES!!

Of course he'll be chewed up by the Neurophysiologists and their Univ and Gov't. grants to plumb the depths of female sexuality and have found NO EVIDENCE of an G thingie in ANY of the CADAVERS they asked! AHAHAHAHA. TWITS!!

Here's a piece I found in the gnus.

""Biologist Says Women Have Four G-Spots!

LONDON, England -- Human biologist and author Desmond Morris has written in a new book that women don't have one G-Spot, they have four of them.

Morris, a respected biologist who first came into the public eye with his book "The Naked Ape", believes there are three more super-sensitive zones in the upper part of the vagina.

He has dubbed them the U-spot, C-spot and A-spot in his new book "The Naked Woman", The Sun reports. In the book, Morris writes that once a man knows where they are, he can give his lover fantastic orgasms.

"If only I'd written this book as a teenager," Morris said. "I can't begin to imagine how much pleasure I could have given girlfriends."

The G-spot was discovered in the 1950s by German doctor Ernst Grafenberg.""

GAWD. I was just thinking. Des was reeally OLD when I was 14. He must be like ancient now. What took him so long to figure out the G&ASPOT stuff? He's probably been in here reading and experimenting with a lab assistant who wasn't on a slab.

 

[psyche]

Re: I'm afraid

VARGAS dude has some major problems in his sex life if the wife won't "allow" oral. I suppose that's why he came in here. Is she religious or was she raised by some sexually repressed grannie and grew up thinking her cunt was ugly. An upbringing like that can take a looooong time to overcum. It doesn't matter to them that we find "them" fascinating, pretty, tasty - she KNOWS she's ugly/dirty "down there."

Good luck.

Personally I don't think tying her up and doing it anyway would accomplish much. She would be so pissed/scared/mad/ terrified/enraged/grossed-out/livid - whatever that you could wear your tongue down to the bone and she wouldn't change her mind.

Tying her up and doing the Gspot thingie on the other hand .... (snicker - wicked grin)

She would never be the same..........

 

[Jatek]

LMAO! Are you saying that those of us who go into wonderful detail about our sex lives are somehow demented in some way?

Quite the opposite, actually. It would seem that I'm the minority here at Lit.

Didn't mean anything like that, just that besides the fact that I'm a very private person to begin with (especially when it comes to my own love life), She wouldn't like me to share many details with the entire internet, I don't think.

I'm looking forward to trying this, though, because She already loves what I do for Her, and without any G-spot orgasms, to boot. ^^

I'm not going to tell Her what I'm going to try; as far as I know, She doesn't know about this technique. I'd rather not have Her feel like I've set a goal or something, but rather, we'll just go for it and let it happen. ^^

Actually, tho, G, that sounds like a very interesting read. I'd be delighted to read all about it. It makes me terribly curious as to where those other places are.

 

[psyche]

Quite the opposite, actually. It would seem that I'm the minority here at Lit.

Didn't mean anything like that, just that besides the fact that I'm a very private person to begin with (especially when it comes to my own love life), She wouldn't like me to share many details with the entire internet, I don't think.

I'm looking forward to trying this, though, because She already loves what I do for Her, and without any G-spot orgasms, to boot. ^^

I'm not going to tell Her what I'm going to try; as far as I know, She doesn't know about this technique. I'd rather not have Her feel like I've set a goal or something, but rather, we'll just go for it and let it happen. ^^

Actually, tho, G, that sounds like a very interesting read. I'd be delighted to read all about it. It makes me terribly curious as to where those other places are.

My comment was meant to be friendly! LOL! For me the retelling of a wonderful sexual experience is reliving it again and again as part of a rich fantasy life!

And I think that may be a good strategy. Without expectations she won't feel pressured to respond.

Mmmmmmm............I'll never forget the first time this was done to me..............or the person who did it.............

 

[MR.GGG]

The other areas ...

""It makes me terribly curious as to where those other places are. ""

The ASpot in on the BACK wall of the vagina just under the cervix. There has been quite a bit of discussion on ASpots in here. It is farther in and harder to exert any force on from the vagina due to the fact that there's nothing to push/rub poke against. Many women react very positively to anal sex in certain positions and this is because the ASpot is being rubbed/poked from the "other side." Again it depends on positions, degrees of relaxation, state of excitement - all factors in whether it is a GREAT night or Oooops - not quite. A high heel embedded in one's forehead indicates you didn't come close!

The CSpot IS the cervix. Many women report massive O's when that is pummeled as well. For most of us we have to rely on toys as we ain't ALL hung like Rhinos. The best technique for hitting the CSpot is guy on his back and she's riding. If men of moderate length can prod the bottom of the uterus/cervix area if the angle is right and the downstroke is umm exuberant enough that everything (her internals) are pushed down briefly as his erection reaches the farthest UP her. Some interesting times can be had doing that because (I've been told) when they get the right momentum going you "feel " bigger than you are. Be careful, ladies how you describe that feeling to your guy or it'll be much SMALLER than it could be!

The USpot is associated with the urethra. It isn't so much that in particular but the area itself. It appears that the clit is but a tiny bud of a root system of nerves that branches out from the front of their vagina, the back of the vagina, all around the cervix area and then out to the li'll clitty thing that we all know and love so well. It is sort of like a miniature series of Hoku points or nerve pathways like what you see in acupuncture (don't get any dumb ideas about NEEDLES!!) charts. It, I believe, makes more and more sense that these are endorphin triggers for child birth and are, by a wonderful screw-up in the wiring, also attached to the ORGASM center of the brain. Yahoooie. Lucky them Lucky us!!

It turns out that the proper stimulation of any one of these areas can result in a series of massive orgasms. Some women can CUM from other stimulation and I think it is like when you are just about to sneeze and you stare at a light. The nerve that triggers a sneeze runs very close to the optic never. Increase the activity in the optic nerve and it pushes the sneeze threshold. If a woman is VERY horny and the nerves from her vaginal area are sending lots of "I wanna CUM- NOW" signals to the brain in some cases all you have to do is lick a nipple or suck an earlobe and she's THERE. What I love is the NON-G-Spot stimulation orgasm! Where you've given her a bunch of screamin O's already and you break the cycle and just leave your thumb in there but not moving, not pushing or rubbing AT ALL. Her bod is SO friggin desperate for that next O it is amazing. Watch the bum move around and the muscles clench like "Gimmie ONE". If you still don't move that thumb her bod just gives up and has another orgasm ANYWAY. Awesome. I LOVE THAT!!!

Des somehow just discovered this. Good on him. More people read him than my thread so that's good!

 

[Jatek]

*nods* So I see.

Well, all I can say is that since all women are different, there's no way of being certain whether a lot of the techniques out there on the only One I care about.

There's only one way to know for sure... and that's to use these things as a basis for experimentation rather than as though they were written in stone.

I think that everyone else needs to keep this in mind, too; while the technique specified here may have a high rate of success, it's up to you, the lover, to know and act upon what it is that pleases her.

And if you think you don't need to know what pleases her if you know this trick, you're pretty far off-base, and are missing the point entirely.

If wholly pleasing the woman you love were as easy as reading this thread (though it took me several days to finally finish), it would take all the adventure and exploration out of it. It'd be like playing the most expansive and complex, (not to mention mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually fulfilling) game ever created and turning on the cheat codes before you even begin to play!

Learning what pleases your lover best is half the fun! Using it is the other.

This whole thing is about giving. And that's what I love about it so much. Hope She loves it too. We'll see.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

*nods* So I see.

Well, all I can say is that since all women are different, there's no way of being certain whether a lot of the techniques out there on the only One I care about.

There's only one way to know for sure... and that's to use these things as a basis for experimentation rather than as though they were written in stone.

I think that everyone else needs to keep this in mind, too; while the technique specified here may have a high rate of success, it's up to you, the lover, to know and act upon what it is that pleases her.

And if you think you don't need to know what pleases her if you know this trick, you're pretty far off-base, and are missing the point entirely.

If wholly pleasing the woman you love were as easy as reading this thread (though it took me several days to finally finish), it would take all the adventure and exploration out of it. It'd be like playing the most expansive and complex, (not to mention mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually fulfilling) game ever created and turning on the cheat codes before you even begin to play!

Learning what pleases your lover best is half the fun! Using it is the other.

This whole thing is about giving. And that's what I love about it so much. Hope She loves it too. We'll see.

Only 5 posts and he talks like this? Quick shake him upsidedown and see if wisdom falls out O.O

Seriously though, that is exactly what I have always felt about this thread. It's great as a roadmap to pleasure, but sometimes the most enjoyable parts are the detours...

-Zergplex

 

[handyscott]

I was here for the beginning of the thread, I read it and then tried it out on my ex. No I didn't tell her about about it, at first.
After 40 min she was going fu**ing wild. Yes I told her she would feel like she had to pee, but to trust me and go with it. After the first 10 big O's she never had before, she wanted to know how I help her to do it. (after her 3rd she really squirted all over my hand, but I should add that during this my whole fist end up in her somehow, I'm not really sure how it got there )) Her being my ex, I told her that I always known how to do it but was saving it for a special day, but she left too soon. (know what I'm tring to say here).

Yes, this is but one of many things you may do with/to your lover.
and her in return.

Mr G. and many like me, learn, then file away each and every way to please her and when needed use one or two and even three.

Thank *** I never told her about this website........hehehe

Remember one thing if nothing else,, someone out there knows another way to do it that you don't, LEARN from it then move on to the next, should you know it, SKIP it just like you did in school.

Any SF in or near CT up for a rear entry fish hook???? Wait I mean double fish hook????

See what I mean now?????

 

[Don K Dyck]

*nods* So I see.

Well, all I can say is that since all women are different, there's no way of being certain whether a lot of the techniques out there on the only One I care about.

There's only one way to know for sure... and that's to use these things as a basis for experimentation rather than as though they were written in stone.

I think that everyone else needs to keep this in mind, too; while the technique specified here may have a high rate of success, it's up to you, the lover, to know and act upon what it is that pleases her.

And if you think you don't need to know what pleases her if you know this trick, you're pretty far off-base, and are missing the point entirely.

If wholly pleasing the woman you love were as easy as reading this thread (though it took me several days to finally finish), it would take all the adventure and exploration out of it. It'd be like playing the most expansive and complex, (not to mention mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually fulfilling) game ever created and turning on the cheat codes before you even begin to play!

Learning what pleases your lover best is half the fun! Using it is the other.

This whole thing is about giving. And that's what I love about it so much. Hope She loves it too. We'll see.

Geez Jatek . . . loosen up!! It's OK to be explicit and uninhibited here . . . we're all adults here, and this is a research project . . . the only voluntary requirement is that you share your results with us, as you have read above . . .

Mr G, I too enjoyed Desmond Morris, especially his work on geographic variations and interpretation differences for body language.

 

[Jatek]

Only 5 posts and he talks like this? Quick shake him upsidedown and see if wisdom falls out O.O

lol, yeah, I was just lookin' for some information (can't try it if you don't know how!), and I ran into the Blank Manual, as well as other subsequent threads that raved about this one... so my journey for enlightenment ended up here. After reading 46 pages of this, I'm inclined to believe that enlightenment is what I found.

Geez Jatek . . . loosen up!! It's OK to be explicit and uninhibited here . . . we're all adults here, and this is a research project . . . the only voluntary requirement is that you share your results with us, as you have read above . . .

While being explicit and uninhibited is most certainly permitted and embraced, as I mentioned before, I'm rather shy. So it's just my way.

Okay, if you want a bit more information, I'll give it to you. Right now, I'm bonded with the Love of my life, as we have been for several years. First kiss, first touch, first everything. High School Sweethearts, I guess you could say.

We're living a few miles apart right now, and what's more, due to the lack of privacy in both our places, there's not much opportunity (and before you mention the added excitement fear of getting caught can add, it's more a deterrent than anything in this case). When we do find time between busy schedules and such, I love to show Her how beautiful and sexy She is.

And that leads me back to why I'm here: so that I can become a better lover for Her.

While I'm not counting my eggs (I have eggs?) before they hatch, I've always wanted to help Her squirt and have multiple orgasms... maybe She will, and maybe She won't, but at least She'll enjoy it, even if we take a few "detours". ^^

 

[psyche]

lol, yeah, I was just lookin' for some information (can't try it if you don't know how!), and I ran into the Blank Manual, as well as other subsequent threads that raved about this one... so my journey for enlightenment ended up here. After reading 46 pages of this, I'm inclined to believe that enlightenment is what I found.

While being explicit and uninhibited is most certainly permitted and embraced, as I mentioned before, I'm rather shy. So it's just my way.

Okay, if you want a bit more information, I'll give it to you. Right now, I'm bonded with the Love of my life, as we have been for several years. First kiss, first touch, first everything. High School Sweethearts, I guess you could say.

We're living a few miles apart right now, and what's more, due to the lack of privacy in both our places, there's not much opportunity (and before you mention the added excitement fear of getting caught can add, it's more a deterrent than anything in this case). When we do find time between busy schedules and such, I love to show Her how beautiful and sexy She is.

And that leads me back to why I'm here: so that I can become a better lover for Her.

While I'm not counting my eggs (I have eggs?) before they hatch, I've always wanted to help Her squirt and have multiple orgasms... maybe She will, and maybe She won't, but at least She'll enjoy it, even if we take a few "detours". ^^

She's very lucky!

 

[MR.GGG]

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[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

lol, yeah, I was just lookin' for some information (can't try it if you don't know how!), and I ran into the Blank Manual, as well as other subsequent threads that raved about this one... so my journey for enlightenment ended up here. After reading 46 pages of this, I'm inclined to believe that enlightenment is what I found.

While being explicit and uninhibited is most certainly permitted and embraced, as I mentioned before, I'm rather shy. So it's just my way.

Okay, if you want a bit more information, I'll give it to you. Right now, I'm bonded with the Love of my life, as we have been for several years. First kiss, first touch, first everything. High School Sweethearts, I guess you could say.

We're living a few miles apart right now, and what's more, due to the lack of privacy in both our places, there's not much opportunity (and before you mention the added excitement fear of getting caught can add, it's more a deterrent than anything in this case). When we do find time between busy schedules and such, I love to show Her how beautiful and sexy She is.

And that leads me back to why I'm here: so that I can become a better lover for Her.

While I'm not counting my eggs (I have eggs?) before they hatch, I've always wanted to help Her squirt and have multiple orgasms... maybe She will, and maybe She won't, but at least She'll enjoy it, even if we take a few "detours". ^^

Oh my god, are you my clone? My darling and I were also childhood sweethearts so to say, first girlfriend, first touch and kiss and all the rest (other then sex, since we both continue to practice abstinence). Good luck man, it's great to see I'm not the only one in the world to wait to find the right person.

-Zergplex

 

[psyche]

He's lying on the couch when I get there, wearing his jean shorts and nothing else, I know immediately that he doesn't have anything on other than his shorts. I go to him and kiss him, reaching for his cock. He pushes my hand away and puts his hand under my shirt, pinching my nipple, then sliding his hand under my bra, over my breast, his fingers on my nipple, I can hardly stand. I kiss him, and he unzips my shorts, and slides his hand along my belly, between my legs. His finger glides over my pussy, he feels how wet I am for him, my pussy is drenched. He slides a finger inside, then slides it up over my clit........I cum and he pushes his fingers inside of me, over my g-spot. His fingers move inside me, I cum so hard that I squirt all over his hand, all over my thong, it runs down my legs..........

Baby, I'm never going to forget you........I'm never going to get over you..........

 

[herecomestherain]

psyche honey, I can't bear that you're sad sweetheart.