Try This & Report Back

[Mr.G]

Huh? Oh, Welcome to the forum.

...ask the ladies on the board if they would object / complain if their S.O. could give them multiple orgasms every time they made love ....

and your answer ..... IS :

...in one word, yes.

Maybe YOU could provide a little insight then. Why wouldn't a woman want to feel completely satiated with her partner??

I don't understand people un general but chicks IZ bafflin beyond words. Many complain, "Hey, he doesn't even know where my clit is after 40 YEARS of marriage."

Teach a guy a Technique where he can easily, consistently and joyously make her eyes roll back in her head EVERY time they have sex and dammit ... there always seems to be some woman objecting.

Is it the loss of control? Some women are really scared of the fact that for the first time EVER he is in complete control of her bod and can drive her absolutely nuts. A very few other feminazi types have objected to the "hold 'em down" suggestion and their feedback indicates they'd be happy with an injunction against the TECHNIQUE and / or ME!!. Likely BOTH. Most - MOST - women know a good thing when they read it and pass it on to their SO for further Research.

*shaking head* muttering* wandering into the night ....

So, if a woman is in pain, we know a way to help it, don't we...?

Exactly. Especially if it's a little INDUCED pain. Did you read Pg 6 Post #129 ???

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=1507585&postcount=129

Obvioulsy NOT for everybody but the intensity can be fun and every couple gets to decide whether to try it or not and to what intensity.

 

[livefull]

You've got me on that one. Hey, I intend to try skimming this thread in its entirety when time permits but thus far I am a bit surprised by some of the feedback. I don't know...I do know I'm unique for one of the "fairer" gender-type. I do appreciate learning from others...thus why I decided to join and read a little.

If I had to guess (and btw, not all women talk amongst ourselves about techniques so this is only a guess) I think it might be the sense of losing control. I also think it is amazing that such a high percentage have never experienced an orgasm; and when you think about it, fewer have experienced the joy of multiples in one love-making session.

I think the brain/mind is powerful. I know it has impacted my satisfaction from time to time. Not to sound too overly analytical or logical (yep, unique for my type) but just maybe we can relax more when experiencing sex in a love-making scenario vs. just for sex (i.e., to please "him").

Interesting (at least IMO) discussion and now time to walk my dog around the lake.

 

[Mr.G]

You've got me on that one. .... I do know I'm unique for one of the "fairer" gender-type. I do appreciate learning from others...thus why I decided to join and read a little.

Still no answer though. And no you're not. You'll get very little of that in here. Maybe some teasing but in serious discussion very few are going to put you down for being the fairer sex. I've also found the few who resist learning new stuff like the Technique are pretty well split 50 / 50 between Neandrathals (men) and FemiNazis (women - maybe - sort of).

I think the brain/mind is powerful. I know it has impacted my satisfaction from time to time. Not to sound too overly analytical or logical (yep, unique for my type) but just maybe we can relax more when experiencing sex in a love-making scenario vs. just for sex (i.e., to please "him").

Much discussion throughout the thread on how important the right attitude is for this Technique to happen - the first time at least. Also how much more satisfying it is or can be with a trusted lover who is more interested in YOUR pleasure than their own. If BOTH [artners have that desire then you'll be winners in bed.

Interesting (at least IMO) discussion and now time to walk my dog around the lake.

Damn. Must be a small lake. It'd take me 7 or 8 DAYS to walk around my lake and one of the dogs wouldn't make it anyway.

 

[livefull]

Still no answer though. And no you're not. You'll get very little of that in here. Maybe some teasing but in serious discussion very few are going to put you down for being the fairer sex. I've also found the few who resist learning new stuff like the Technique are pretty well split 50 / 50 between Neandrathals (men) and FemiNazis (women - maybe - sort of).

hmmmm, not sure if you mean no answer to your very early on inquiry of women or from me. I assume you mean you are still as perplexed by the general hesitancy by many to be open-minded enough to try this technique. If I'm mistaken and the "no answer" was in response to my post, just remind me of the question.

*edit...I just finsihed with the year-end crunch at work and obviously short a few brain cells. So sorry for the confusion. I totally misread your post thinking you were asking if women wanted those things (and not did they have a problem with having those things). Most definitely, NO! There is nothing wrong with your opinion and assessment. I'm right there with you in not understanding why any person who could try something new that "cost" them so little but could benefit them so much, wouldn't take the opportunity. I apologize for my apparent brain fart, earlier.*

Thanks, G, for the additional comments. I appreciate them, but no worries. I wasn't concerned about being treated differently because I'm a woman but rather I feel different than most I know (open minded, etc.). After reading more in this thread I'm beginning to realize there are many here that share my uniqueness.

...case in point:

Exactly. Especially if it's a little INDUCED pain. Did you read Pg 6 Post #129 ???

Obvioulsy NOT for everybody but the intensity can be fun and every couple gets to decide whether to try it or not and to what intensity.

Thanks again for starting this thread a few years back and sharing your insight and experiences. My SO will be in town next week and I hope he'll be willing to try this out. If so, I'll def share how it works for us.

Damn. Must be a small lake. It'd take me 7 or 8 DAYS to walk around my lake and one of the dogs wouldn't make it anyway.

Small lake, yes, but a nice day for an hour-long walk although upper-80's in late March is insane. I bet your older one enjoys shorter walks, though.

 

[Gil_T2]

Mr G asked
"Guys (or girls) how hard is it to feeel exactly how close she is to either type of orgasm so you can maximize whatever you're doing on BOTH spots?"

This has varied with different ladies over the years but with BANDIT it is an easy one to understand where she is at.

 

[Mr.G]

A wee bump

to pg 1 . I just intro'd in from another site and it's hard to find on page 2 if you are unfamiliar with LIT's past pages.

More fun and RESEARCH to follow.


Promise.

 

[usana]

nice i got it and replied.

nice i got it and replied.
excited bout adelaide?
its still a bit hot here atm... gr

 

[Mr.G]

^^^^^ Damn ^^^^^^

Threads getting so popular the CIA or somebody's using it for coded messages now.

skulk skulk ... "The moon will be full tomorrow"

shuffle shuffle *looking in code book *

... "Is that why the fireflies are blinking? "

"" Good. It's YOU. Turn around and bend over. I want to show you something. It's NOT in the operations manual. ""


Hardeeehar - get a life.

 

[EveAnna]

LOL Mr G - usana probably posted to the wrong thread.

But thanks for making me smile.

 

[emptynester]

Thank goodness, I thought I was the only one that didn't get it. I am certainly naive at times and sometimes need things I read on LIT explained (or demonstarted ) for me.

Now where is that operations manual you are talking about!

 

[Gil_T2]

http://www.stuff.co.nz/4017648a19716.html

The female orgasm and the brain
Friday, 6 April 2007


OH JOY: Professor Beverly Whipple is still probing the mysteries of the female orgasm, now shifting her focus to the brain and exploring the areas that light up when women climax.

Female sexual response is a thrilling field for research, writes Deborah Smith.

Twenty-five years after she made the G-spot famous, Professor Beverly Whipple is still probing the mysteries of the female orgasm.

She has shifted her focus higher up the body - to the brain - exploring the areas that light up when women climax. But the motivation for her research remains the same: "Orgasm is a remarkable phenomenon. It's one of life's most intriguing experiences."

Whipple, of the College of Nursing at Rutgers University in New Jersey, also remains inspired by the many women who have helped her over the decades to delve into this poorly studied aspect of life. Her latest brain research on orgasms has relied on the good will of a variety of women, including those with spinal injuries caused by gunshot wounds and those who can climax just by thinking about it.

Not only did the women have to stimulate themselves in the laboratory, they had to do it lying as still as possible inside a giant magnet, so their brain activity could be captured on an MRI scan. "It's just unbelievable the things they will do for science," says Whipple, in a phone interview from the US.

The pioneer sex researcher Alfred Kinsey claimed more than 50 years ago that orgasm involved the entire nervous system and all parts of the body.

It may have seemed like an exaggeration, says Whipple, who will be in Sydney this month to address the World Congress for Sexual Health. But her recent research with colleagues indicates that orgasm is a very complex neurological event, with a large number of brain areas activated during the experience. "This may be the reason why most drugs impair, rather than improve sexual response," she says.

The team has also identified three nerve pathways not previously linked to female sexuality. They carry sensations from the vagina, cervix and uterus to the brain.

"There is good evidence that activation of these nerves, by physical stimulation of these uniquely female organs, can generate orgasms," says Whipple, who summarises the research in a new book, The Science of Orgasm, with colleagues Professor Barry Komisaruk and Carlos Beyer-Flores.

Whipple helped discover the controversial G-spot, and named it after the German gynaecologist Ernst Grafenberg, during the 1970s when she was training women how to improve their pelvic muscle control.

An examination of more than 400 women revealed an erogenous zone located about a third of the way up the vagina, on the front side. Pressure on the underlying tissue, which is near the female prostate gland, causes it to swell, triggering orgasm in some women.

Many doctors have expressed scepticism about its existence, but that's not surprising, says Whipple. The region is blocked by the metal speculum used to examine women internally. And the G-spot has to be manipulated to be felt. "Doctors can't sexually stimulate their patients. That's why they didn't find it," she says.

Not all women are sensitive in this region, adds Whipple. And it is only likely to be aroused by pressure during intercourse in some positions, when the woman is on top, or the man enters from behind. This may partly explain why only about 30 per cent of women experience orgasm during intercourse.

For their research, Whipple and her colleagues use a specially designed small stimulating rod which is attached with velcro to a diaphragm that covers the cervix. The women control its movement.

"Women using this device tell us that when they pull outward with the stimulator, it produces a very pleasurable suction on the cervix that they have never experienced before," says Whipple. One woman described these cervical-based orgasms as like a "shower of stars".

The clitoris has been a focus of attention, because it is easy to stimulate, but clitoris-based orgasms tend to be restricted to around this region. Research also shows the vagina balloons out in this case and the uterus pulls up.

Vaginal orgasms, triggered by the G-spot, are felt deeper inside. The uterus pushes down. "It's like a bearing down sensation," says Whipple.

The different nature of the orgasms is probably due to the four different nerves systems carrying sensations from these different regions to the brain. The pudendal nerve, the same nerve that provides penile sensation, is linked to the clitoris. The vagina is supplied by the pelvic nerves, and the cervix and uterus by the hypogastric, pelvic and vagus nerves. Combined stimulation of all regions can produce more encompassing "blended" orgasms, says Whipple.

Publicity about the G-spot may have led to a feeling of inadequacy for men and women who couldn't find it. But Whipple says her intention was never to suggest this was a must-have experience. When it comes to sexual pleasure, no way is best. "Different people have different tastes. It's what feels good to you," she says.

Men and women differ in their sexual responses. Men move in order from desire to arousal to orgasm. Women are more complicated, says Whipple. "They can experience sexual arousal, orgasm and satisfaction without desire, and they can experience desire, arousal and satisfaction without orgasm."

Sexual problems can occur if people have a goal-oriented approach to sexual activity, if they think of it as a staircase, that starts with touching and ends at orgasm on the top step. "If the sexual experience does not lead to orgasm, one or both partners feel unsatisfied," says Whipple.

A better way to think about it is like a pleasure circle, where any activity has its place along the perimeter. "Each is an end in itself and satisfying."

Whipple also says people can experience orgasm - an intense pleasurable response - from stimulation of many parts of their bodies, not just the genitals.

Stuart Meloy, an American doctor treating people for chronic back pain, revealed last year that when he applied electrical stimulation through the spine, 10 out of 11 of his female patients reported experiencing orgasms.

People with spinal cord injuries also say that when hypersensitive skin near their injury is stimulated in the right way, by the right person, they have pleasurable orgasmic feelings that can seem to emanate from the genitals. Some of Whipple's earlier research demonstrated that these people also had increased heart rates and blood pressure, just as in genital orgasm.

One woman she studied had been told by her doctors she could not experience orgasm because she had no feeling below her breast. Yet she experienced six orgasms during her three 12-minute sessions of genital and non-genital stimulation in the laboratory.

"She was so thrilled and I was so happy for her. It was a moving experience," recalls Whipple.

For its recent studies of brain activity the team chose women with spinal injuries who'd had a gunshot wound, rather than compressive damage, to ensure they had no activity left in the spinal cord.

When these women used the laboratory device to stimulate the vagina and cervix, the part of their brains where sensations from the vagus nerve are recorded lit up. This shows sensations can go directly from these regions to the brain, bypassing the spinal cord, the team concluded.

Some of these women, as well as able-bodied ones and women who can climax through imagery alone, also experienced orgasm, and the researchers were able to compare their brain scans before, during and after the event.

Many of the same areas lit up in the three groups, including regions linked to the experience of pain and those triggered by pleasure-producing drugs like cocaine. A third area involved in the production of the hormone oxytocin, which is secreted in large amounts during orgasm in women and stimulates uterine contractions, was also active.

The research is still in its infancy, says Whipple. "Where in the brain orgasm is produced is an unanswered but, we hope, not unanswerable question."

 

[Mr.G]

How encouraging to hear MORE evidence that the nerve pathways that connect to the ORGASM centers of the brain are generally NOT damaged even when the majority of the spine is destroyed.

We've known for many years that men who are paralyzed can very often have their own kids and without artificial insemination. ALL the functions of reproduction survive even the most severe spinal damage. This goes most of the way to proving that the reproductive system has armoured and hidden nerve pathways to the brain. I wonder if it actually has a back up nerve that will take over in the event of catastrophic damage to the primary. It is clearly the PRIME DIRECTIVE in the human body. REPRODUCE. Even without a spine we can still both have an erection and ejaculate and women can stil orgasm and ovulate too, it seems. Amazing.

It may in a way explain also our illogic and overwhelming need to cover the planet in humanity like most areas of the world have done. It makes no sense at all but still we breed like bugs.

 

[kaledonia]

justa....

......nuther bump. regards to all. this thread is too important to be on the third page! kx

 

[thebarber69]

Mr G, outstanding bringing what you did to this. For a while now, I have poked arround, well maybe I should not say it that way, trying to find that one special place on a willing special lady. The way you described it and how to do it, just sent one of my special ladies threw the headboard, and into the wall, GREAT! Not only did it work well, but she was one that only would be able to handle one, if not two orgasms, and want to just rest. This did more than one or two, but she lost count on the earth shattering, finger crunching, leg locking orgasms she ever had (not to say the final one where she lost complete control of her body and violently went threw the wall ). But now she is kinda gun shy about having another marathon, knowing what it's like. I think the in control thing hit it right on the head.

Now when she was ready to orgasm, her clit seemed to get even harder than usual, and I noticed that when her clit did give a warning a few seconds before she had her orgasm. This way when she was just at that point I knew to lightly stroke her clit, and just like a rocket she not only had mini orgasms, but by just pressing a bit harder on her G spot, I could control the length, and the strength of it.


Keep up the good work, I will be trying this on one of my other special friends this coming weekend, and if it works as good on her as it did on the other one, she will be quite the happy camper.

 

[Mr.G]

Marathon or wait ?

Thanks for posting. Good luck blowing your other friends through the head boards too.

For what it's worth and just as a general guide ... and of course it depends on your woman ... some who discover this for rthe first time and are in GOOD shape are curious as to what their limits are. They seem to be up for a marathon right away. Others are extremely nervous about losing that much control or that much control so soon or with somebody they've just met. Some are highly embarrassed afterwards because, for many it is the FIRST time in their lives they have completely lost control while having sex. For some women especially in their 40's and 50's and having sex most of their lives THAT complete loss of control is something they have a tough time with. For some it is an epiphany - a Technique which allows them to let loose like they haven't had or even done in 30 YEARS of marriage(s). It frees them to whatever degree of lust and pleasure they can handle.

It IS a bit of a power trip for the guy to be bale to be IN CONTROL for the first time and it is a HUGE temptation to keep her going until she passes out or looks like even one more little one might be too much for her BUT and this depends on the relationship of course ... If it's a first date kind of thing (sport fucking and trying to impress) then go for it. Blow her socks off. If you're in a relationship and discover this for the first time I suggest no more than half a dozen or so to start. I know, I KNOW. It shouldn't be a numbers thing and a lot of people reading this will think better to have one good one than a bunch of crappy little ones. Anybody who thinks that doesn't know G-GASMS!! Plain and simple.

Leave the marathon or the almost forced G-Gasms for later experimentation. Don't scare her. Taking a woman from a one or two a night thing with oral (usually) to 20 or thirty screaming bone crunchers is probably where you should NOT go right away. I know, it's tempting but have HER wonder just how many she can take and if you can keep her going and for how long or how many. It becomes a challenge in HER mind and then you can settle down for some real fun every night. Nights when you know she's off work for the next week or so are perfect for 2 and 3 DAY marathons where she'll barely be able to walk, will have spontaneous G-Gasms the next day without ever being touched etc etc.

Bottom line is if you "play" her like a computer game you could turn her off emotionally later. She could feel that all you're doing is making her cum and most women don't understand the sense of accomplishment and joy WE get when we can give THEM so much pleasure for so long. If she feels she is just a numbers / ego thing she may be reluctant to go there again or often. It's a strange mix of emotion and logic - go figure. If, generally, you start slow, give her a few really really good long ones - half a dozen or so and then let her realize what has happened and how her body has reacted then she'll be up for ANYTHING from then on. Lots of cuddles afterwards so she feels like she's been made LOVE to (not just a joy stick for making her cum and boosting your ego) and she will be up for this kind of pleasure any time and any place (pretty much) and it will be her looking for the marathons and discovering her limits. Push those limits too far too fast and it could scare her or turn her off.

Again, just a guideline based on a bit f common sense and a wee bit of research on my part.

 

[thebarber69]

(Bows to Mr G) Almighty master, LOL, I'm not worthy of this great info. Got to hand it to you, you said a mouth in that last post.

After a few days off, now this special lady is having questions as if she is capable of doing it again, and she now Wants to try it again. She is early 40ish, and I do think this was the first time for her of ever having a orgasm that racked her as much as the almighty G-gasm. She yesterday went out and got a stimulator, now this is from one that Never wanted a "artificial stimulator" even near her.

This weekend I will take more notes on how the almighty G-gasm starts, and maybe try different ways to heighten the stimulation, I'd love to do some oral on her, but fear of getting my head poped like a pimple. Going to have to try some different positions for this.

Thanks for the info on this G-gasm, only heightens the sences on some fun times with a special lady.

 

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[Aquagal]

Hi...I've been following this thread for about a week or so. I finally had to wade in and lend support for what Mr. GGG said in his first post on this subject, about the g-spot possibly being a pain-killing "switch" (my word, not his) for childbirth.

I'd be interested in hearing from some of you ladies who have gone through the whole birthing process without the use of drugs, to see what your experience was.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=158687

Hi, my first post and am fascinated and excited to try. I have heard of the g-spot after reading a book on giving self orgasms by finding this spot. Can't remember what the book is called and its lost in a box in the garage somewhere. It did not mention anything about continuous rubbing or multi orgasms though.

 

[Aquagal]

Thanks for all that info, Orson! Man....if only they had given me Oxytocin when they induced labor in my twin pregnancy instead of Pitocin (what does Pitocin do, by the way, other than start labor?). I might have actually enjoyed all that back-labor agony!

Blue

As far as I remember Pitocin is the man made chemical form oxytocin. Very few people have I heard of that say childbirth is pleasurable. Whether it have pleasure inducing effects, I don't know. I think the pain of the football coming through your birth canal may far out weigh pain hitting the g spot. Nipple stimulation does work also.

 

[short_circutz]

I got "reaquainted" with a friend tonight (this morning?) who I believe I'veposted about before. Her b/f recently broke up with her, and she moved back here.

It was the same awesome experience as before...soaked hand/arm and bedsheets...apparently I'm only one of two guys that have been able to make her cum like that...

 

[Aquagal]

I Know keigels are good and recommended for women.
I have read that they can also help certain male problems or functions. Since I am a MALE, can any of you women give instructions on how to do them? This might help the women too.
Thanks again.

Another way I was told to do Kegals is to clench the muscle that you hold back your pee with, think like you are going up an elevator. Trying clenching a little more each time til you reach the top and then either release or either go down a little bit at a time also.

 

[Mr.G]

This is probably a gimmie guys

and off track when it comes to GSPOTs but

If, right after sex, you find you have a full bladder you will find that if you do a POWER SQUEEZE with your PCG muscles (Kegels) then you can SHOOT your pee out like it was sperm etc Because it is in the ejaculatory passage there is a massive squeeze to push that out before the muscle cuts off flow. Repeat this as often as you can while you're urinating. THIS strengthening of those muscles will help keep your prostate flushed and keep the ability to shoot your semen with some degree of force even as you age.

The female piping MAY have similar results but overall the stronger the PCG muscles you maintain - the stronger the orgasm will be or feel.

Keep up d'em KEGELs.

Thanks for the recent posts. Don't forget to cum back and let us know how the other lady reacted to this Technique.

What a hoot having a woman return for a series of G-Gasms that no other man has been able to give her. Of course as more and more people READ THIS it will happen less frequently but the winners will be the women and their partners who can make them go insane without even having to take it out of their pants!!!!

 

[Aquagal]

Hi, tried it out last night, just didn't have the success you all are talking about. Oh, we had loads of fun getting there and I think we found the gspot. I didn't feel like I had to pee though.

 

[subkit]

I'm curious about whether anyone has had any success trying it out by themselves (without the assistance of a partner)? Either with their fingers or a G-spot specific toy? I've experienced it once with a partner but have yet been able to recreate it by myself. Would be curious to know whether it's futile to continue pushing myself on this.

 

[Mr.G]

Keep Trying

Aqua I think your attitude is great. Lotsa fun trying. Ready for anything and hopeful it works one day. There are lots of posts early on and throughout this thread where couples come back MONTHS after trying withOUT suckcess and reporting they'd kept trying every once in a while and all of a sudden EUREEKAA!! (love those).

The super horny - no pressure - no stress method seems to work the best for those who are having problems. I wouldn't keep going 15 minutes. If nothing is happening after about 3 or 4 minutes go on to something else then return every few minutes, give a rub and see if it feels different.

The "pee" sensation happens sometimes and may be a factor in triggering it. There may be added pressure on the G-roots with some liquid in the bladder or there may be a hydrostatic shock effect happening. Either way or reason you should always have towels under you in case - urine - squirting or just loads of added lube. It feels fine when you're DOING IT but not so great to try sleeping on/in later.

subkit, There's also a bunch of posts from ladies who have tried this by themselves. One I saved was:

""I just tried this on myself and it really, really worked. I couldn't believe it. I used a squash that had a tip that was bent slightly. The bend will enable you to hit your g-spot. The only problem I had was that I was so wet the squash kept slipping from my hands ""

Lucky squash!!


Like masturbation women SHOULD learn this sensation so they can teach and direct their SO. Anybody who knows this Technique (or any variation for GSpot stimulation has got to be NUTS NOT to teach a partner how to do it if they don't know. Anybody who has heard of this will want to give G-Gasms and should learn. There should be little problem hitting and stimulating your own G-Spot however I guarantee you can only go so long before you are completely fragged. THAT's where a partner comes in handy (or a power tool) because they can keep you going ... uhhh ... cumming looong after you've run out of energy. Under the right circumstances there is NO better feeling a guy can have than after he has reduced his woman to a quivering, twitching, sweat covered pile of sheer bliss.

re: the power tool comment

I'm kidding. Don't do that.