Try This & Report Back

Damn

I hate it when they do this. ANOTHER article that calls the GSPOT a MYTH. What a dumb way to get couples from even trying to discover this. It certainly questions the credibility of threads like this one. Many nooobies must ask themselves what the hell do we THINK we know when REAL sex researchers are calling this a myth. They also qualify it in this article by saying it is by far the largest study of its kind - evaaar - so that must mean ... something. What? Well to me it clearly shows that asking people who don't know they have a GSPOT will result in a bunch of : "I don't think I have a GSPOT." type answers. Which "proves" what? Asking me about Quantum Mechanics doesn't "prove" it doesn't exist, does it?

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-s...ths-about-sex-1857635.html?action=Popup&ino=1

BTW anybody following any of the GSPOT threads on that "other site" may remember I'm not allowed to call idiots idiots but they were calling me an idiot so I emailed the mod guy and asked why that was allowed. No answer so I asked in open forum. It was pointed out that due to an apparent Gestapo type mentality, questioning the rulers was verbotten so I got banned - again. This time for 13 years! Whatever. The only pity is that the threads are now inhabited by idiots who deny the existence of the GSpot because they have never experienced it so most uninitiated couples will read their crap, conclude the GSpot really is nothing but a myth and will never ever enjoy what, for some is THE best orgasms they've ever experienced. For others it is just another variation to make making love always new and exciting. It shows where some people's head are at though. Pity the couples who will never know ...
 
Don't be discouraged

First of all, you have left your 'Try this' link in several places on those threads, that's how I got here, so if anyone wants to know the truth they will come here.

Second, if you are not on there to keep their fires burning, they won't have much to say and the threads will die.

All the more reason to write your book; you will sell more than you can imagine. Just think how many copies of 'Women come first' sold. He made his point. People write books about anything nowadays. You don't have to have a lot of scientific data to back you up; in this case there isn't any.

But you do have hundreds and thousands who validate your technique. Half a million couples, plus lurkers, can't all be wrong.

Movie stars learn to not read the tabloids. Maybe that is a good thing that you are banished; who wants to read that anyhow. Instead, reread your greatest feedbacks and emails. Sticking to the positives is always better.

Don't be discouraged Mr. G :) :heart:

Think of making a video or two, that wouldn't be so hard to do. Lots of volunteers here.

I would love to see a good video of your technique.
 
....Think of making a video or two, that wouldn't be so hard to do. Lots of volunteers here.

I would love to see a good video of your technique.

I would volunteer.... Would love to experience other's techniques, see what else might work for me.
 
another thought

Well I had a thought about some very unfortunate women, and I don't think too many women in this category would be reading this but..

I do think this technique would work with those poor women who have had fgm, female genital mutilation, because even with no clit, or labia, they still have a Gspot.

There is hope for them, after all. :)
 
http://www.aphroditewomenshealth.com/news/20100005002213_health_news.shtml


G-spot remains elusive

Researchers from Kings College London say the G-spot may simply be a figment of women's imagination, after an, er, in-depth probe failed to find any evidence of its existence.


The study, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, is the most thorough yet, involving 900 pairs of identical twins. The researchers asked the twins whether they had a G-spot, the logic being that if both twins shared the same genes, then they should both have a G-spot.


But the researchers found there was no such correlation and the identical twins were no more likely to share a G-spot than non-identical twins who share only half of their genes.


"Women may argue that having a G-spot is due to diet or exercise, but in fact it is virtually impossible to find real traits. This is by far the biggest study ever carried out and shows fairly conclusively that the idea of a G-spot is subjective," said study author Tim Spector.


But the topic is likely to remain controversial; thanks to an earlier Italian study where the researchers claimed they could find the G-spot using ultrasound scans. But co-researcher on the new study, Andrea Burri, said the new findings should reassure women that they aren't inadequate if they can't find their G-spot. "It is rather irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never been proven," she concluded.
 
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I do think this technique would work with those poor women who have had fgm, female genital mutilation, because even with no clit, or labia, they still have a Gspot.
There is hope for them, after all.

Along the same lines I have already received emails from several women who have suffered the same fate as a result of a rare form of cancer. After their clits and most of their labia were removed to save their lives their libido returned. They were beyond frantic and very very depressed thinking that without a clit they would probably never orgasm again. They found or were directed to this thread and emailed me sometime later to announce they had their EUREEEKA moment and were happily orgasming again. Their self-esteem was restored and their relationship had resumed - according to a couple of them - even better than before because of the Technique!!

I'm guessing that the MEN whose wives have been "altered" (FGM) would NOT want their women orgasming especially not 30 times a night.

There are some people in the West who believe that female genital mutilation is a "CULTURAL THING" and we have no business condemning it or trying to force some of these mostly Islamic cultures to STOP IT. IMHO these people are ignorant morons. Take a look at the breakdown and the categories from this link. DOn't forget these procedures are NOT done in some clinic. These classifications are from the U.N.

http://www.fgmnetwork.org/eradication/state/who.html


Type I Excision of the prepuce with or without excision of part or all of the clitoris
Type II Excision of the clitoris together with partial or total excision of the labia minora
Type III Excision of part or all of the external genitalia and stitiching/narrowing of the vaginal opening (infibulation)
Type IV Unclassified:**
- Pricking, piercing or incision of the clitoris and/or labia**
- Stretching of the clitoris and/or labia**
- Cauterization by burning of the clitoris and surrounding tissue**
- Introcision**
- Scraping (angurya cuts) or cutting (gishri cuts) of the vagina or surrounding tissue**
- Introduction of corrosive substances or herbs into the vagina**
- Any other pprocedure that falls under the definition of female genital mutilation given above.

Gil-T2 hey, long time no visit. How are ya doing. I hope well.

It is beyond me how ANY so called researcher (led my a woman BTW) could offer ANY conclusions at all basing their conclusions on ASKING a bunch of twins. If they don't know about the Technique or its variations and/or specifically the speed and pressure needed to properly stimulate the GSpot then how would asking them determine anything more than the sum of their ignorance. HOW is this discovering the existence of anything?? What possible added validation is claimed when you ask sisters/twins??

Maybe one of these days, exposed to an overwhelming abundance of evidence from sites like this and a few others and the THOUSANDS of testimonials, these morons will change their "research" parameters and no doubt be astounded by their findings. I'm dyin to hear that "THEY" have finally DISCOVERED this. Whatever ... it should be good for another laugh!
 
question?

Thanks Mr. G for all the input. I am reading all the posts and am on page 15 so far.
Quick questiion. You may have answered this before in the pages I have not read yet, so bear with me.

My wife and I have been married almost 38 years and she is in the menopausal stage of life. Is there any special considerations or needs to keep in mind during this time of life? Or, are the techniques just the same.

We have explored the inside with fingers and dildos and she seems to enjoy. I am excited to do more research and "put her over the top" with the Gspot stimulation. She typically does not orgasm very often and I will work on changing that for her.

Thanks for your help. I am looking forward this Valentine's Day with great anticipation.
 
Hi

If you two have been married for 38 yrs I'm assuming you are either very late 50's or 60's. Feedback from couples as late as their mid 80's indicates that this work just as well through the ages as some in their primes. This is a good thing.

If you've only read the first 15 pages ( I wish I could delete all the banter and a few of the idiots who have dropped in here over the years and kyboshed the whole idea or just some of the more positive posters - what a WASTE of space!!) then you need to be aware of two things. Depending usually on mental/emotional (occasionally physical issues too) issues this does not work instantly every time with every woman. The majority of my "subjects" have, thankfully reacted very positively within the first 3 to 5 minutes. A few have not - very humbling and disappointing for me but I have found out since that all of them (not that many) found success with new lovers so the Technique does work - just not with me. I can live with that - just happy it worked for them eventually.

Second thing is as we age the juices aren't quite so readily available so make sure you have lotsa LUBE. Keep everything well juiced even if she isn't. Of course if it all feels good you may not have to worry about that anyway but well lubed and feeling good is USUALLY synonymous when it comes to SEX.

Start of well lubed and turn her on in all the great ways you have for 38+++ years. Follow the Technique only when she is 200% horny and turned on. Start off slowly until she begins to react. As it feel better and better (or a strange intensity buildup is how many describe it) you can begin to go faster and apply a little more pressure. You'll know when to go to hyper-drive because after 38 years you know her.

One other thing if and hopefully when this works DO NOT scare her. Don't go overboard with it. Save marathons for long weekends. Save the pushing her limits to a mutually agreed on semi-B&D&S&M session where you can use orgasms as spanks - actually both is fun. Just make sure she doesn't have a bad ticker first, OK? Have fun and just be sensible. I hope it works for ya'll and if it does don't forget to come on back and let us know how it's going. The RESEARCH only gets better with time / technique / roll-playing / positions / times / marathons / spankings / oral / food / toys / get as kinky as you want - this'll just give YOU the opportunity to make HER cum as many times as she can handle any time you guys want and don't forget. It IS ADDICTIVE!!
 
This thread is so long I can't search it all. I have a few questions that I couldnt tell from the first post :

When you put your thumb in, is the thumbnail facing up or down?

What is the thumb heel?

Is the "fat part" of your thumb the tip of your thumb or somewhere else?

I finger my girl all the time, and she loves it a lot. She really takes a while to cum and said sometimes it is tough for her. She has orgasmed from riding me and we also use a vibrator, but she mainly cums from having her clit played with.
 
You know

sometimes it's a good idea to just sit for a spell and THINK. What would make sense here?

When you put your thumb in, is the thumbnail facing up or down?

What is the thumb heel?

Is the "fat part" of your thumb the tip of your thumb or somewhere else?

I finger my girl all the time, and she loves it a lot. She really takes a while to cum and said sometimes it is tough for her. She has orgasmed from riding me and we also use a vibrator, but she mainly cums from having her clit played with.

Ok, if you're using the Technique I recommend and she is face down and you are positioned between her legs or off to one side for your thumb to be pointing UP you need to break your elbow and turn your arm clockwise to the right.

The "heel" of the thumb as it pertains to my description is where it thickens and becomes the rest of your hand ... as opposed to the other end of your thumb past the thumbnail which is ... air. If your thumb goes IN as far as it will go (without fisting her) in other words as I suggested using your THUMB then that depth is usually perfect.

Most thumbs are kinda fleshy on the opposite side from the nail. That part.

Let's try this again. Stand beside the bed with your arm stretched out like you were about to saw some wood. Your hand clutches the imaginary saw. Now remove the imaginary saw from your hand and point your thumb ( which will be on top unless you've broken it - I WAS kidding about breaking it) slightly down. Now picture her lying in front of you, face down and legs apart. If you slowly push your thumb into her vagina until the hand part of your hand stops it from going any further you should be positioned properly.

The biggest difference between cuming this way and via clitoral orgasms is the frequency. MOST women become too sensitive to have their clit touched, licked or even looked at after ONE orgasm. G-Gasms are different. As long as she is cumming form GSpot stimulation you can keep stimulating that spot and she will continue to orgasm.
 
g spot

how do these people thing the g spot doesnt exist. You can feel the thing. I just wanted to brag that i recently started having sex with a man whom gives me g spot orgasums every single time.
 
sometimes it's a good idea to just sit for a spell and THINK. What would make sense here?



Ok, if you're using the Technique I recommend and she is face down and you are positioned between her legs or off to one side for your thumb to be pointing UP you need to break your elbow and turn your arm clockwise to the right.

The "heel" of the thumb as it pertains to my description is where it thickens and becomes the rest of your hand ... as opposed to the other end of your thumb past the thumbnail which is ... air. If your thumb goes IN as far as it will go (without fisting her) in other words as I suggested using your THUMB then that depth is usually perfect.

Most thumbs are kinda fleshy on the opposite side from the nail. That part.

Let's try this again. Stand beside the bed with your arm stretched out like you were about to saw some wood. Your hand clutches the imaginary saw. Now remove the imaginary saw from your hand and point your thumb ( which will be on top unless you've broken it - I WAS kidding about breaking it) slightly down. Now picture her lying in front of you, face down and legs apart. If you slowly push your thumb into her vagina until the hand part of your hand stops it from going any further you should be positioned properly.

The biggest difference between cuming this way and via clitoral orgasms is the frequency. MOST women become too sensitive to have their clit touched, licked or even looked at after ONE orgasm. G-Gasms are different. As long as she is cumming form GSpot stimulation you can keep stimulating that spot and she will continue to orgasm.



I do appreciate the post and your clarification. I could say you should think more too before you make a post with terminology that makes little sense, but the greater good of your thread completely outweighs anything else. It is very good advice and a creative way to stimulate the Gspot. Can't wait to try it out once her little "visitor" leaves for the month.
 
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Quickie

Mr. G... an old :) friend stopped by today and i showed him your 'try this thread', when he was leaving he gave me a big hug, ...well, he couldnt help but put his hand in my pants, next thing we were on the couch and,

...in minutes, i had an amazing G gasm, and even squirted all over his arm and on the couch, warm clear liquid, only about an ounce but he said it was more, it was sooo strong, and tingling, i didnt try to squirt but it happened and now i know that i can

then i had to go to work, oh God, i couldnt move very fast, my brain was on hold,

anyhow, it did happen very quickly, i ended up having to cup my clit, as it was getting tender, he usually gives me great clitoral o's with his hand, no oral, but this time i wanted a Gspot O,

this was the third time i squirted and had that kind of G gasm, it was so deep and warm and i was wasted for hours, i still feel the pulsing, the tightening, the tingling, the weak legs, ... i have a big smile on my face ya.... i am turning into a sex machine, and i love it

.... thanks Mr. G :heart: ...can't imagine multiples.... my body is already addicted ....

i find your terminology very explicit, detailed, clear and obvious.
 
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feedback so soon

So a few days ago I gave a nice couple the url of this 'try this' thread, and tonight her husband pointed at me almost to say, "Thanks!" He would ordinarily not be soo happy. I just smiled back. ;)

So is it possible that women prefer the Thumb now more than regular intercourse?

Do women prefer Gspot Orgasms now and don't even want Clitoral O's?
 
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So a few days ago I gave a nice couple the url of this 'try this' thread, and tonight her husband pointed at me almost to say, "Thanks!" He would ordinarily not be soo happy. I just smiled back. ;)

So is it possible that women prefer the Thumb now more than regular intercourse?

Do women prefer Gspot Orgasms now and don't even want Clitoral O's?

I can only speak for myself, but I would never want to do without a good fucking! LOL! I love the G-spot orgasms, but when I'm done and all wet and slippery my lover better have something better for me than just his thumb! I would think that most of us want it all.........work on our G-spots, give us clitoral orgasms and then fuck us until we drop! Just my two cents! :D
 
I saw the Dr Oz show the other day and what he said actually made sense to me. He does believe the g-spot exists. As he says, we (male & female) have similar organs. Even down to our sex organs. Clitoris = penis, testicles = ovaries, so what's the prostate in a female? Line up a profile of the bodies and you've got the g-spot.
 
Wonderfully Made

It is so wonderful the way woman are made, being able to experience different orgasms (clitoral, intercourse, gspot...) and multiples at that.

But thank God for the wonderful men who desire to give (make) women have so much pleasure.

:) :rose:
 
So is it possible that women prefer the Thumb now more than regular intercourse?

Do women prefer Gspot Orgasms now and don't even want Clitoral O's?
That would be like asking whether all men prefer being milked over having "regular" intercourse (or hand jobs or blow jobs) once they've experienced prostate massage. :rolleyes:
 
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That would be like asking whether all men prefer being milked over "regular intercourse" (or hand jobs or blow jobs) once they've experienced prostate massage. :rolleyes:

Actually I think it's a valid question.

I started having squirting g-spot Os a fewmonths ago, from manual stimulation, and I must confess that they are so superior to clitoral Os that I find myself craving g-spot Os when I "only" have clitoral ones.

I'm very lucky though - recently I have started having g-spot Os very easily from plain old missionary-position penetrative sex - so everyone's happy :D
 
Actually I think it's a valid question.
Straw man. My comment addresses the false choice(s) presented by Valley-O.

I started having squirting g-spot Os a fewmonths ago, from manual stimulation, and I must confess that they are so superior to clitoral Os that I find myself craving g-spot Os when I "only" have clitoral ones.
I understand you completely because my experience is very close to yours. It's just that our experiences aren't shared by all other women because preferences are individual therefore subjective. Is it possible that, like any other craving, desire for this new-ish type of O will wax and wane given mood, environment and other factors? Just curious ...

I'm very lucky though - recently I have started having g-spot Os very easily from plain old missionary-position penetrative sex
As someone who has been similar lucky for three decades now, I admit that I'm pretty partial to this position because of the incomparable intimacy of f2f sex. OTOH, sometimes I'm soooo overdue for an explosive, full-on clit-gasm that nothing else will do.
 
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