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Chris_Xavier said:
Tell us about your first sexual experience... or your first D/s experience... or both!!
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Well, they were both with the same person.

I met the guy online (i'm so tempted to link you to his MySpace...) - he was 3 years older than me and claimed to be EXTREMELY sexually experienced, as well as experienced as a Dominant. He lived in NYC and I lived in Eugene, OR. So, it was a bit of an LDR. But after chatting for 6 months or so, he flew out here for a week. That was really, really fun, but no sex. I remember being scared shitless waiting for him at the airport, my mother probably more excited than I was. This is the ONLY time I've had someone far enough away that a first meeting involved an airplane, although I've done many internet meetings since then... I'm just really snobby about only meeting people in the area, because I want to DATE. If you can't take me to dinner regularly, what's the point?

So anyways nothing happened the first week.

That spring, though, my mother and I flew to New York to stay with his family. They were refinishing their second home there, and my mom, the boy, and I stayed in the house, since it was nearly complete. My mom was asleep in the room next door, we were watching Beauty and the Beast (the disney version... I won't tell you how old I was but I'll tell you it was 1995) We were doing some heavy petting and teasing and I was on top of him and I believe the exact words out of my mouth were 'Let's just see if it fits...'

It did.

I don't think we actually got rope and started doing bondage until the next time we got together. We spent a couple of summers together and every school vacation. He admitted to me only a couple years ago that he'd been a virgin as well...
 
Chris_Xavier said:
Excuse me.. you said your Mom knew you were getting schtoopted? And you took her with you?? Dayum
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first off, there's something slightly off about my mom. secondly, she didn't actually know for sure what we were doing... we probably tried to be quiet. and if you do the math on my age, you'll see why i took her with me ;)
 
Chris_Xavier said:
You.. unless you want me to ask another..
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I like answering more than asking. I'd love a whole thread of "ask Chicklet *anything*" but then, I'm a narcissist. And such a thread would probably not live long.
 
Chicklet said:
I like answering more than asking. I'd love a whole thread of "ask Chicklet *anything*" but then, I'm a narcissist. And such a thread would probably not live long.
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Why don't you have a Dom of your own?
 
Chris_Xavier said:

Why don't you have a Dom of your own?
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Because I'm not just looking for a Dom. I'm looking for a boyfriend. And the things I require in a boyfriend are apparently nearly impossible to find. I'd even settle for a vanilla boyfriend at this point ;)

let me copy/paste my old collarme profile:

-- Not looking for hook-ups. Not looking for flings. Not looking for casual play. Not looking for sex. Looking for friends.--

**Three words that describe me:

-Twisted.
-Shy.
-Scorpio.

I think I have a twisted sense of humor, of view, and enjoy the twisted aspects of life. That's part of what I think lead me into this 'lifestyle.' I'm shy at first, but bolder at different times of the month. I take things slow and then I pounce. I'm a scorpio, and a typical one at that. Quite the hellcat when you add in my hair color, no?

**Three things I'm hoping for from Collarme.com:

-Life long friends.
-Learning new things about BDSM.
-A partner to enjoy part of my life with.

BDSM means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Some people like the leather community, and are active in their area. Some people are hard-core, some people use the term "extreme." Some people like Daddy/daughter, Teacher/student, Master/slave. Some people just want to tie their lover up now and again. It means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. And the key for me is matching up what it means to me with what it means to another, and that person can become a good partner.

To me, submission is about the gift of myself to another. I submit because I want to please my lover. I would never use the term 'natural submissive' to describe myself, because for me, sometimes submitting is a struggle. It's a thought in my head to struggle between what I want and what my lover wants, and to accept that what he wants is what I'm going to do. My first instinct is selfish. But what I want to do is selfless.

**Three things I hope for in a relationship:

-Honesty.
-Respect.
-Happiness.

I feel that first and foremost in every relationship, honesty and respect are most important. There's no point in lying to anyone at any stage in any relationship. The lies will come out later, and lack of respect leads to abuse, which leads to unhappiness. And if we can't be happy, then what's worth living for?

**Three things I don't want:

-A lover more than 8 years older than me.
-A one-night stand.
-Switches.

I know that with age comes experience, and with experience comes knowledge. And that having a relationshp with someone knowledgable can only benefit me. I know that older men have a lot to offer. They're just as young at heart as anyone my own age, and just as good looking. Usually they're more mature, and ready to commit to a serious relationship. Unfortunately I just don't see myself with someone much older than myself... you might call it a hard limit. Am I closed minded? Probably. I just want to be honest about what I'm looking for.

While I'm not thinking that if I have sex with someone it means he's THE ONE, I also am not looking for simple play or just sex. I spent a year and a half wishing and hoping and waiting for the man I was sleeping with to decide he wanted to be my boyfriend, and it hurt. So I'm going to be upfront and honest with you, and with myself. I want someone who's not afraid to be with me for more than sex.

Switches are fun, I know it. But I've had bad experiences with them in the past. I have absolutely no desire at all to switch, and if I dated someone I knew was a switch, it'd always be on my mind that they would like it if I topped them. It's not going to happen, so I usually find myself turned off by that light blue name.

Here're some more lists for the hell of it...

**Three kinky things I like the most:

-Bondage.
-Gags.
-Hair grabbing.

**Three hard limits!:

-Bloodplay.
-Needles.
-Scat.

**Three things I want to try!:

-Violet Wands/electro play.
-Puppy or Pony play.
-Golden Showers (don't tell my mom)

**Three things I want to learn more about:

-You
-How to kill your roommate's cats fleas
-Photography

**Three Secret Confessions

-Sometimes, I sweep the dirt under the bed
-I like to chase pigeons
-I read cheesy romance novels
 
three is a good number

just seemed a good way to organize ;)

the small print there might be "i'm single because i'm neurotic"
 
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