Truth or Dare

[yourdestonie]

Wanna go again?

 

[coyotepondering]

Wanna go again?

Absolutely, I'm always good for at least two rounds.

 

[yourdestonie]

Up for another round? There are probably some lurkers we could convince to join in.

Unless they're afraid I'll be them up.

I was hoping they would come out of the wood work but I think your right their afraid

 

[coyotepondering]

Oops, I forgot to say... a truth.

 

[yourdestonie]

Absolutely, I'm always good for at least two rounds.

Taking notes

you want a truth or a dare this time I'll go truth again

 

[yourdestonie]

Oops, I forgot to say... a truth.

hummm


Clasfy yourself with the special perve that are yours Tell me in one sentance what makes you tic sexually.

 

[coyotepondering]

Taking notes

you want a truth or a dare this time I'll go truth again

Truth.... tell us one fantasy that you hope to live out in the next year.

 

[coyotepondering]

hummm


Clasfy yourself with the special perve that are yours Tell me in one sentance what makes you tic sexually.

What makes me tic is a sexually energetic woman whose enthusiasm I can mirror and whose joy I can pander to.

 

[yourdestonie]

Truth.... tell us one fantasy that you hope to live out in the next year.

Meeting the one man I can't live without.

I know thats not realy what you were looking for but it is a fantasy so far in my life.

 

[coyotepondering]

That's the one sentence version. The full version might take a chapter or two.

 

[yourdestonie]

What makes me tic is a sexually energetic woman whose enthusiasm I can mirror and whose joy I can pander to.

good answer

 

[coyotepondering]

Meeting the one man I can't live without.

I know thats not realy what you were looking for but it is a fantasy so far in my life.

We all have that fantasy. Well, not man in my case but you know what I mean.

 

[yourdestonie]

That's the one sentence version. The full version might take a chapter or two.

LOL I know the feeling I've sat several times and tried to write a personal for lit and I can't get it all in there without writing a book

 

[yourdestonie]

We all have that fantasy. Well, not man in my case but you know what I mean.

You know sometimes I wonder about that. Most of the men on here are looking for a good Fuck and then go off with the girl next door.

Presant company excluded of course.

 

[coyotepondering]

You know sometimes I wonder about that. Most of the men on here are looking for a good Fuck and then go off with the girl next door.

Presant company excluded of course.

I think psychologists call it the madonna/whore complex (or something like that). No, I'm a little self absorbed to not be honest with myself

Love and sex are related but distinct. I don't really enjoy sex if I'm not friends with the woman but I don't always love them in that deep, deep way that I'd like to find one day. And to date with one notable exception I've remained friends with my past lovers.

And I wouldn't want to marry the girl next door. I wouldn't be able to be honest with her.

 

[yourdestonie]

I think psychologists call it the madonna/whore complex (or something like that). No, I'm a little self absorbed to not be honest with myself

Love and sex are related but distinct. I don't really enjoy sex if I'm not friends with the woman but I don't always love them in that deep, deep way that I'd like to find one day. And to date with one notable exception I've remained friends with my past lovers.

And I wouldn't want to marry the girl next door. I wouldn't be able to be honest with her.

Thats it with me too I can't relly get into sex with someone I don't at least like as a friend,

I can seperate love and sex but its hard I'll say to seperate Trust and love. I've found to give the level of trust one gives in a D/s relationship takes a special kind of relationship and especiall if you do it without the emotions involved.

I don't think I'll go that route again. Maybe Sex with a friend but not D/s . its too hard on both parties involved.

 

[appleapps]

Good evening toni and coyote

 

[coyotepondering]

Thats it with me too I can't relly get into sex with someone I don't at least like as a friend,

I can seperate love and sex but its hard I'll say to seperate Trust and love. I've found to give the level of trust one gives in a D/s relationship takes a special kind of relationship and especiall if you do it without the emotions involved.

I don't think I'll go that route again. Maybe Sex with a friend but not D/s . its too hard on both parties involved.

I guess every situation varies but I would certainly understand being very leery. I don't think I would want a sub who I couldn't trust to trust me for fear that I would overstep some boundary.

*shudders*

 

[coyotepondering]

Good evening toni and coyote

Evening Apples!

*tail wags*

 

[appleapps]

I guess every situation varies but I would certainly understand being very leery. I don't think I would want a sub who I couldn't trust to trust me for fear that I would overstep some boundary.

*shudders*

any loving relationship, D/s or whatever, has to be based on trust, without trust there is no love

 

[coyotepondering]

any loving relationship, D/s or whatever, has to be based on trust, without trust there is no love

Absolutely.

 

[yourdestonie]

Good evening toni and coyote

evening Apps how are you today?

 

[yourdestonie]

I guess every situation varies but I would certainly understand being very leery. I don't think I would want a sub who I couldn't trust to trust me for fear that I would overstep some boundary.

*shudders*

Well Its just hard to give trust and not give the emotions too. Thats all. I've tried and succeeded but it was definatly a chalenge and one I really don't want to go through again.

When I give that trust again I hope to be able to give the emotions that should go with it.

 

[yourdestonie]

any loving relationship, D/s or whatever, has to be based on trust, without trust there is no love

exactly but its hard to give the trust too without the love.

 

[coyotepondering]

Well Its just hard to give trust and not give the emotions too. Thats all. I've tried and succeeded but it was definatly a chalenge and one I really don't want to go through again.

When I give that trust again I hope to be able to give the emotions that should go with it.

Of course, they are complimentary. You can't trust someone you don't have emotions for.

lol, I don't think it would be rational to. Its how we're wired as animals. from a pack survival standpoint it only makes sense.

You ladies up for a round?