Trust

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[Richard49]

I use to give my trust away like a street whore

 

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[tulip2lipservice]

Thanks for making me think

Talk about truth! You can't expect everyone else to behave the way you do. You have to accept that everyone has there own "mode of operation". Every second, of every minute, of every day, someone is experiencing life in their own unqiue way. They might be in the same room with you, the same bed, looking at the same image, but experiencing it in a completely different manner than you. How can you/I expect them to behave the way that you would? But with all those billions of people in the world, you have to believe that someone is out there that is very much like you. You want to really trust someone? Find that person.

and Richard thanks for making me laugh.

I think sometimes we need to take a step back and accept the person for who they are without driving ourselves crazy about what is their next move.

It is a lesson I still need to learn from time to time. Nobody will ever be an image to me. Could they come close in so many things, yes. Am I looking for somebody like me, no. However I need to be open in the way their mannerisms are in the way they handle things. I need to be able to trust in myself to know if it is the right relationship for me and what am I going to accept. Will it make me happy and vice versa.

Even in this conversation we are in agreement that we want somebody we can trust 100%. I know I can relate to what has been written. At the same time we are still seeking answers and I feel that sometimes we just have to have blind faith and trust in a person. It has to start some place. Sure there are disappointments and hurt. Those lessons hold within our inner core to make us more skeptical of somebody new. There are so many levels of trust as there are in relationships.

Again thank you for making me think.

Peace,
Tulip

 

[Prince Romeo]

It has to start some place.

Where it goes, is what seperates the really big liars from the honest folk. If you are feeling frustrated by someone, if they make you feel like there is something wrong with you, if you never seem to get a real answer from them, then run. Run away fast. The only thing worse, is someone that makes it through the radar for a while, just enough to get close to you to really cause some hurt. I guess trust in my book is not an unconditional emotion. You have to both be putting something in, to really fill the pot.