Trust Issues

[mistressmaxine]

Do yourself a favour and dump him forthwith. He is dangerous and not to be trusted. Having recently been in a position where I did meet someone, none of those details were asked for or would have been given. We did talk to each other using webcam first, so we'd recognise each other, and I would recommend that, no nasty surprises possible!!
Seriously, it's over the top and invasive.

 

[mistressmaxine]

Hi all,

I was wondering what to do.
The online relationship that I am in has been wonderful up to this point.
But now, things are progressing forward to a future together. One where he will come to meet me.

We have sent photos to each other, even to the point of sending nearly-nude ones. One problem that popped up first, was that he was having trouble with whether it was indeed myself in the pictures. Because I got a little on the shy side, and showed a partial face.

Now the next set of problems: After much discussion about the trust issues, he even doubts my name, my age, my location. He wants an IP address for location verification and a copy of my driver's license or passport. There was one other form, and I cannot remember what it was.

Now my question for you is: Where do I draw the line? Saying it is too invasive, too un-trusting? I am at my wit's end here. I can see being nervous that he is coming to meet me, but I have done nothing to raise his suspicions.

Any and all advice accepted and wanted!!

Get rid of him forthwith. I recently met someone and none of that stuff was asked for or would have been given. We did use webcam for easy recognition. Anything else is OTT and you need to dump him quickly.

 

[mistressmaxine]

Posted twice by mistake...sorry all!!