True story that hasn't happened yet

[SheaLima]

I think it would be exciting to get into a sexual situation and see what happens for the purpose of writing a story. Whatever happens is what the person writes. I fantasize about it, but am to shy to actually do it.

 

[MatthewVett]

I think it would be exciting to get into a sexual situation and see what happens for the purpose of writing a story. Whatever happens is what the person writes. I fantasize about it, but am to shy to actually do it.

I think that'd be pretty hot. I wrote a story with that as a kind of implied conceit, but sadly, it didn't happen in reality: https://www.literotica.com/s/helens-adventures

It would be a turn-on to know that my partner was going to write about everything I did to her, though. A little bit exhibitionist, I guess.

 

[SheaLima]

A big part of me says it's wrong and another part of me wants to experience it. I am a single female in college and will graduate soon. I have it planned in my head to be married soon after. So much of me screams to do it before I'm married! I feel like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde at times. It 's summer break and the fall semester starts in a couple of weeks. I already know how I would set it all up... and then I chicken out.

 

[QuidProQuo77]

What is the barrier?

A big part of me says it's wrong and another part of me wants to experience it. I am a single female in college and will graduate soon. I have it planned in my head to be married soon after. So much of me screams to do it before I'm married! I feel like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde at times. It 's summer break and the fall semester starts in a couple of weeks. I already know how I would set it all up... and then I chicken out.

It sounds like you have things well thought out. What exactly is keeping you from it? Speaking from experience, I can tell you I missed out on several opportunities in college prior to marriage that I regret now - looking back, it was inexperience, lack of self-confidence and religious guilt that kept me from them. (I'm no longer burdened by any of those, and can't believe how stupid I was.)

You said you plan to be married in your head - are you even engaged yet? If not, you have a lot of options. There are no shortage of writers here who will be glad to help you document your adventure.

 

[MyRubiLips]

I think it would be exciting to get into a sexual situation and see what happens for the purpose of writing a story. Whatever happens is what the person writes. I fantasize about it, but am to shy to actually do it.

So, this is your story idea? You want sex so you can write about it but are nervous to start?

 

[HonorableRogue]

A big part of me says it's wrong and another part of me wants to experience it. I am a single female in college and will graduate soon. I have it planned in my head to be married soon after.

Marry the right guy and you can do this over and over.

Cheers

 

[SheaLima]

It sounds like you have things well thought out. What exactly is keeping you from it? Speaking from experience, I can tell you I missed out on several opportunities in college prior to marriage that I regret now - looking back, it was inexperience, lack of self-confidence and religious guilt that kept me from them. (I'm no longer burdened by any of those, and can't believe how stupid I was.)

You said you plan to be married in your head - are you even engaged yet? If not, you have a lot of options. There are no shortage of writers here who will be glad to help you document your adventure.

I actually am not that experienced. Literotica is fun because it's an outlet for my sexuality. I am shy by nature and wished I was more brave, but I'm not.
I'm not engaged and have just been focusing on school and my workouts for stress relief. My life is pretty boring actually. I'm here as a student from Brazil and I don't want to mesh things up. So, I don't do much but study, school, and the gym.

 

[SheaLima]

So, this is your story idea? You want sex so you can write about it but are nervous to start?

I thought of taking a Craigslist add out and putting up a picture. I would ask for a workout buddy and meet up. I would never say no and see what happens.

Or, I would flirt with an aggressive guy on Craigslist and then meet up for a drink. I would follow his lead and go somewhere. This is when I would make-out with him and let it go to a point where I told him no. Then see what happens.
Then I think that nothing would happen and I would have a boring story to write. Lol!

 

[SheaLima]

Marry the right guy and you can do this over and over.

Cheers

I don't want that lifestyle, but it sounds like fun

 

[SheaLima]

You might consider exploring the fetish/kink community. I find that is a venue which allows varied levels of involvement from spectating to active involvement. Munches, kinky play parties and other kink related events and groups can produce a wealth of fodder for a creative writer and yet, as long as you are careful you can keep your virginity and your safety intact.

A part of me wants so badly to set up a situation before I see a counselor. I am unsure what to do here. All I know is that I feel like I am about to lose control and maybe do something I want but also regret...

 

[SheaLima]

Seeing a counselor won't necessarily dissuade you from exploring the situations you seem to crave. Hopefully it will help you sort out what it is you really want or what you are really lacking in your life and keep you from going where you don't really want to go. Remember a counselor is just that, someone who listens and helps you clarify things in your own mind. At the end of the day you still need to make your own decisions and make your life into what you want it to be.

I feel my religion keeps me grounded. If it were up to me, I honestly would have gotten into porn when in Brazil. It's very easy to do in the neighborhoods I grew up in. The money was excellent too. Religion and my faith have gotten me so far out of poverty and on an exciting path for my career. However, I was around a lot of sex and deviancy growing up in Brazil. Something I have always wanted to do, but have always had goals otherwise. Maybe this is admitting too much.
Anyway, thank you for your input.

 

[LadyVer]

I thought of taking a Craigslist add out and putting up a picture. I would ask for a workout buddy and meet up. I would never say no and see what happens.

Or, I would flirt with an aggressive guy on Craigslist and then meet up for a drink. I would follow his lead and go somewhere. This is when I would make-out with him and let it go to a point where I told him no. Then see what happens.
Then I think that nothing would happen and I would have a boring story to write. Lol!

I may be naive, but aren't there better venues for meeting men, other than Craigs's list?

 

[SheaLima]

I may be naive, but aren't there better venues for meeting men, other than Craigs's list?

I agree with you. It was the danger of the site that had me excited while thinking of ideas. If it were to ever happen I would think in depth about which site or app to use.

 

[FantasyXY]

All shyness, religious beliefs, and trips to the gym aside...

This is a pretty awesome story idea. I'm not saying that someone ha s to go do this stuff to actually write a story. In fact, accounts of real life encounters often come off pretty unimaginative when written.

Where I think this idea has loads of merit is in writing about a budding young author who writes out her fantasies, then goes out and lives them in real life. She starts out simple and doesn't really think twice about the first two or three time her real sex life pretty much mirrors the fantasies she is writing. But when her fantasies start getting more involved and kinky, and the fantasy she writes always happens.

Well it just seems like a theme for a pretty decent story... or a chance to write the hot stuff women wank about anyway.

 

[FantasyXY]

Another option would be to have the budding young author going out and doing "research" for her story and finds that her kink level gets higher and higher with each "research" project.

A little harder to make an interesting plot with that one, but could still make a good story.

 

[SheaLima]

Another option would be to have the budding young author going out and doing "research" for her story and finds that her kink level gets higher and higher with each "research" project.

A little harder to make an interesting plot with that one, but could still make a good story.

Thank you for replying. There is always the possibility of nothing happening, which no one would like to write about or read. It might actually make for a boring story either way. Maybe that's why people write so much fantasy. However, I am still very much interested in the idea.

 

[SheaLima]

I think its a marvelous idea. Even if nothing, or virtually nothing happens I could see a very erotic story coming out of the experience. There doesn't always have to be wild fucking for a story to be erotic. Sometimes getting there is half the fun. Fantasy is easy to write because the writer can manipulate the situation to whatever they want. Real life is much different, but in the end I find real life experiences much more fascinating and erotic than fantasy. I almost always get far more turned on reading about what actually happened to someone.

The idea came from reading a true story. I enjoyed the honesty about it, which didn't present any fireworks. The emotions were raw and real. I couldn't stop reading it and wanted there to be more.

 

[sr71plt]

Although undoubtedly not the cup of tea for many here, this is what I did to be able to write stories in a GM fetish that I was finding underserved by stories--sounding. I wrote and posted to Lit. an essay on how I researched to be able to write those stories: https://www.literotica.com/s/experiencing-gm-partnered-sounding