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kkceohcs said:
I dont' know that he is to be honest. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that I have slightly pulled away...he's been working with a friend helping him redo his house so is never home, so I don't bother to call him anymore...I let him mkae the moves. So it's more likely just now becoem a challenge.
Interesting Quandary there! Freya!
I can see how difficult your situation is. Not at all like mine.
It would sure take a lot of discussion between you two about what each of you wanted and what the exit conditions would be.
Much like running along a tight rope! I don't envy you at all.
But I sure would like to take that guy's place as your sexual friend. You are a very warm and wonderful person. I wish you the best in solving this and other personal matters.
Frank
I can see how difficult your situation is. Not at all like mine.
It would sure take a lot of discussion between you two about what each of you wanted and what the exit conditions would be.
Much like running along a tight rope! I don't envy you at all.
But I sure would like to take that guy's place as your sexual friend. You are a very warm and wonderful person. I wish you the best in solving this and other personal matters.
Frank
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Mondays Suck!!!!!
I'm just so totally exhausted...physically & emotionally drained. I'm tired of being unemployed, tired of town officials playing games with me over this freakin' house, tired of waiting up for a teenager who all of a sudden decides that rules are made to be broken, tired of being awakened way too early because her teenaged supervisors decide to hold an impromptu meeting at 7 am, tired of waiting and wondering, tired of questioning my decisions, my self- worth and my self image. Damn it, I'm just tired....
Oops, sorry for that outburst.
I've missed so much here....unbelievable how fast this thread moves....especially when I've been away for over 24 hours. I'll try to play catch up later, but I just had to yell, scream and vent for a minute. Forgive me?
*sheepishly waves to everyone
I'm just so totally exhausted...physically & emotionally drained. I'm tired of being unemployed, tired of town officials playing games with me over this freakin' house, tired of waiting up for a teenager who all of a sudden decides that rules are made to be broken, tired of being awakened way too early because her teenaged supervisors decide to hold an impromptu meeting at 7 am, tired of waiting and wondering, tired of questioning my decisions, my self- worth and my self image. Damn it, I'm just tired....
Oops, sorry for that outburst.
I've missed so much here....unbelievable how fast this thread moves....especially when I've been away for over 24 hours. I'll try to play catch up later, but I just had to yell, scream and vent for a minute. Forgive me?
*sheepishly waves to everyone
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Re: Interesting Quandary there! Freya!
Thanks Frank...yes it's a fun one all right! This all came about because I thought to ask him if he was sleeping with any other girls....not really as a way of keeping tabs on him, but more for the safety factor. We havent' been together as much lately as we used to, so it crossed my mind that maybe he had other fwbs as well. Turns out that he hasnt slept with anyone besides me since we met.....and feels the same way about our sex as I do. I told him he's ruined me for other guys sexually....we have such an honest, open relationship that way...neither are afraid to try new things, we can discuss things very easily and there's a great amount of trust AND passion between us...I just didn't realize he felt the same as I. So I think that's part of the trouble...the fact that the sex is so amazing, it tends to make you wonder what else would be that way ya know?
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Thanks Frank...yes it's a fun one all right! This all came about because I thought to ask him if he was sleeping with any other girls....not really as a way of keeping tabs on him, but more for the safety factor. We havent' been together as much lately as we used to, so it crossed my mind that maybe he had other fwbs as well. Turns out that he hasnt slept with anyone besides me since we met.....and feels the same way about our sex as I do. I told him he's ruined me for other guys sexually....we have such an honest, open relationship that way...neither are afraid to try new things, we can discuss things very easily and there's a great amount of trust AND passion between us...I just didn't realize he felt the same as I. So I think that's part of the trouble...the fact that the sex is so amazing, it tends to make you wonder what else would be that way ya know?
On the one hand, I feel a bit sorry for you, and on the other, I am crying crocodile tears! LOL
Fantastic sex is way hard to beat!!!!!
But all the other stuff is very difficult to put into place.
Why must life be so hard on us? As I read all these posts, I begin to see why most of us have such hard times dealing with it all.
Not to pry, but I would be very interested to see how you actually deal with this. It seems to be a very interesting psychological situation that could be very helpful to others in a tough relational time. I am genuinely interested.
As a person now into my 28th year of a marriage gone very badly, I always seek good examples and advice on relationship building. During my years of marriage, my self-esteem has suffered greatly and only now has it begun to heal some. I take courage from the successful resolutions people find and post here. Please continue to aid those of us seeking to make a better life for ourselves and those we love.
Fantastic sex is way hard to beat!!!!!
But all the other stuff is very difficult to put into place.
Why must life be so hard on us? As I read all these posts, I begin to see why most of us have such hard times dealing with it all.
Not to pry, but I would be very interested to see how you actually deal with this. It seems to be a very interesting psychological situation that could be very helpful to others in a tough relational time. I am genuinely interested.
As a person now into my 28th year of a marriage gone very badly, I always seek good examples and advice on relationship building. During my years of marriage, my self-esteem has suffered greatly and only now has it begun to heal some. I take courage from the successful resolutions people find and post here. Please continue to aid those of us seeking to make a better life for ourselves and those we love.
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Freya2 said:
Morning sweetheart...yell, vent and scream away...we have cotton for our ears if it gets too loud!!!
((((((((((((((((((((((Fiesty))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I feel your pain with the teenage thing BTW.
Oh thanks hun....god that hug feels good. And I'm slowly working my way back through posts....but {{{hugs}}} for you too. Just cause I love ya!
And didn't I just brag to you about how great my teen was....geesh, remind me NOT to do that again!
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(((((FREYA)))))
Sounds, like he has a toy... there when he wants and not when he doesnt....?????
Sorry, that wasnt very nice to say...but it sounds like he has his fwb. Could you be wanting more from him?
Maybe he is there when he wants it and not when you do?
And your the one getting used?
Im sorry love, this pains me to ask or suggest these things..but remember I do CARE..!
btw, hows naded and the parents?
Sounds, like he has a toy... there when he wants and not when he doesnt....?????
Sorry, that wasnt very nice to say...but it sounds like he has his fwb. Could you be wanting more from him?
Maybe he is there when he wants it and not when you do?
And your the one getting used?
Im sorry love, this pains me to ask or suggest these things..but remember I do CARE..!
btw, hows naded and the parents?
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zetacon4 said:
Silly thing is, this is my easiest relationship conundrum to solve at thsi time. This is just a wait and see thing...whereas the rest require some problem solving. But I will let ya know how it turns out anyways.
I'm so sorry to hear about your marriage....it's amazing how much something like that can destroy self esteem and pride. Just know that you are an amazing man....and you should never feel badly about yourself. I know I don't know you that well, but I have heard and seen nothing but good things about and from you....take heart in the fact that people genuinely like you...there must be a damn good reason for it.
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Freya darling girl....you don't lose true friends. And I'll tell you something...if they have chosen not to be friends it is a huge loss on their part.
And thanks for the remark about my teen...somedays are better than others I guess.
And thanks for the remark about my teen...somedays are better than others I guess.
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Jewelz said:(((((((((((((((((((((((MY FIESTY))))))))))))))))))))))
Im so sorry you are having a rough go at it!! Im here for you!! It will all be smooth sailing soon!! (i know i know, blow smoke out my ass but we can hope)
I love you!
Honey Girl!!! Do you know how much I've missed you?!!
I'm going to hold on to the smooth sailing promise....
I love you too!
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Fiesty - hope your day will improve
Jewelz - hello and good morning
Frank - pleased to meet you
Sorry I'm not contributing much - just lurking. An off day for me
Jewelz - hello and good morning
Frank - pleased to meet you
Sorry I'm not contributing much - just lurking. An off day for me
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Yes. said in so few words. *thumbs up*1fiestyredhead said:
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1fiestyredhead said:Freya darling girl....you don't lose true friends. And I'll tell you something...if they have chosen not to be friends it is a huge loss on their part.
And thanks for the remark about my teen...somedays are better than others I guess.
Thank hun...that means a lot.
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1fiestyredhead said:Freya darling girl....you don't lose true friends. And I'll tell you something...if they have chosen not to be friends it is a huge loss on their part.
And thanks for the remark about my teen...somedays are better than others I guess.
Good Afternoon and a big hug
Teens would drive me to drink...if I didnt already...
Just be thankful they are home in 1 piece...
Fantastic Day all, R/L gotta go!
1fiestyredhead said:Freya darling girl....you don't lose true friends. And I'll tell you something...if they have chosen not to be friends it is a huge loss on their part.
And thanks for the remark about my teen...somedays are better than others I guess.
Let me send a comforting hug and kiss, as I know all too well about teenagers and all the other crap you just shouted about.
52 years has drug me thru some real learning curves. But I love your warm sweet spirit and hope you are able to manage this stuff with grace and dignity!
Frank
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Honey Girl!!! Do you know how much I've missed you?!!
I'm going to hold on to the smooth sailing promise....
Hopefully half as much as Ive missed you!!!!
And you are dead on when you said "you dont lose true friends"
Hold on girlie...cuz Im the captain LOL
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